Please join us on Saturday, December 16th at 10am at eTown Hall (1535 Spruce St, Boulder, CO 80302) to remember and celebrate Eric's life.
We would like to request that if you have any photos of Eric that we could include in a slideshow of his life, please if you could send digital copies to rememberingericammann@gmail.com
Eric Emilio Ammann, 57, passed away in his home on September 13th 2017 in Louisville, Colorado. Eric was born June 30th 1960 in Long Island, New York. Soon after, he moved with his family to California and then to Boulder where he graduated from Fairview High School and remained for most of his adult life, spending some time in Nederland and the suburbs of Denver to raise a family. After high school, he studied in Switzerland and gained the status of master craftsman as a watchmaker, which was his profession for the majority of his life.
Eric, along with his brother Bruno Ammann, was a co-business owner and operator of a family watch shop established in 1972 called the Swiss Chalet on Pearl Street. Eric began working there in 1979 and moved to a managerial role from 1988 until 2003. He held a private practice repairing watches for a number of years after. He later became a bus driver for the Boulder Valley School District and part-time personal fitness trainer. To give him an ordinary obituary would be doing him injustice, as his vibrant personality was impossible to capture with words and he never was a rule follower. If you knew him well, you will understand and you are likely nodding your head with a smile on your face while reading this.
As a young man in Boulder, he joined the adventurous, outdoor movement of the city, partaking in rock climbing and mountain biking while forming lasting relationships. There were three things he truly loved: people, coffee, and riding his motorcycle. He was unapologetically playful and flirtatious in conversation. At the tip of his fingers, he had jokes and compliments for women of all ages and engaged even the stiffest men in comfortable, seamless conversation. He was a master of small talk and if you hung around him long enough to become a friend, you would find his true talent was unlocking your laughter and taking a genuine interest in your life.
His favorite drink was an Americano with room for cream, and not just room, he usually wanted to draw the line on the cup himself. Oh, and it had to be a dark roast, none of that blond stuff; he was very particular about his coffee. His form of therapeutic release was taking his BMW motorcycle up windy Rocky Mountain roads for hours on end. In one instance, he was going 125 MPH and when he was pulled over, of course, he managed to talk himself out of a ticket. The cop asked, “Sir, do you know why I pulled you over?” He replied, “Well, I hope it’s because you like my bike!”
In Boulder, Eric met his wife Zoshia Ammann. The two moved to Nederland and had their only son, Savarone Ammann. After living in Nederland and the suburbs of Denver for a short time, Eric returned to Boulder where he spent over 35 years as a longtime resident. Eric was the youngest of four brothers, Donald, Bruno, and Rick Ammann from parents Walter and Giovanna Ammann. In recent years as a bus driver, Eric became an instant favorite with the children he drove to and from school. In fact, he got in trouble on several occasions for disregarding minor regulations at the cost of letting his childlike spirit emerge to build relationships with the children, acting more as one of them than their superior. He never let the carefree qualities of a child escape him the way so many adults do.
Eric will be greatly missed by his son Savarone Ammann, a college senior living in Washington, DC who entirely idolized him, his girlfriend Jane Fastenau who adored him, his ex-wife Zoshia Ammann with whom he maintained a close and healthy relationship, his three older brothers, and many of his son’s friends who saw him as a confidant, mentor, and friend.
He was most distinguished by his insatiable personality, undeniable wit, unfiltered tongue, and unique sense of humor (that always danced on the line between hilarious and incredibly inappropriate). His ability to understand and empathize with others to an impressive degree touched each person he met. The best ways to honor Eric would be to listen to the Dark Side of the Moon by Pink Floyd or Eat a Peach by the Allman Brothers, drink a hot cup of coffee, or spark up a meaningful conversation with an unlikely stranger — passion for people was his brightest gift after all.
--By Savarone Ammann
Please also consider donating to one or several of the organizations below. As a family we value these issues and your contribution goes a long way:
Brain and Behavior Research Foundation
https://donate.bbrfoundation.org/civicrm/contribute/transact?reset=1&id=1
International Bipolar Foundation
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance
https://secure2.convio.net/dabsa/site/Donation2?1222.donation=form1&df_id=1222
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
https://afsp.org/take-action/give-a-gift/
If you would like to write directly to the Ammann family, please send a private email to rememberingericammann@gmail.com
Tributes
Leave a tributeTHE WILD RIDE
The time I had with Eric was exhilarating, enchanted, infatuating and surreal. He showed me how to wake up to a small, ordinary day and make it bigger, explode it with passion and animation, wriggle my toes in status quo like it was mud, put butter on absolutely everything that was edible, find humor in the most mundane, and begin every single moment like we were Lewis and Clark, on the very first day of their explore, with motorcycle helmets on!
THE LOVE RIDE
ERIC had a heart that when fully stretched to it's maximum, which is the way he liked it, housed a universe of colossal joy, goodwill and empathy. More than anybody I've ever met, he truly wanted everyone in his life to seek and find their greatest contentment. His generosity was boundless, he would help anyone, at anytime, in anyway. No paybacks, that’s not the ride he was on. And the thing is, at memorial services like these, people stand up and say, “He was the kindest person I’ve ever known”, but this time it’s REALLY, REALLY, REALLY true!
THE FUN RIDE
Eric’s sense of humor was unparalleled. He had comebacks and quips that were lightning fast and perfectly on target. He was uniquely unfettered and sometimes it was just as much fun watching the reaction of someone he was joking with as listening to what he was saying. So many times, I saw this look from those who were experiencing Eric’s wit for the first time, “Did he really just say that?” “Can you say that?”
I was once out of town for a week and he would text me every day, “I miss you Jane” and that would be the caption of the photo he sent with him wearing various articles of my clothing, skirts, underwear, tights, bras…….
And the school bus radio! Wow, many of you can attest to his radio comedy!
My Dad, whose nick name was “Swede” had a stroke leaving him paralyzed on his right side. He was leaving the nursing home for the first time, my siblings and I were all there, Eric too, and we were trying to get him out of the car, into the wheel chair……..it was stressful for us, humiliating for my dad. At just the right moment, Eric said to my dad, “Swede, did you have a stroke or something”! Perfect ice-breaker, perfect start to a wonderful Thanksgiving.
THE GAMBLING RIDE
Eric was a gambler, but a smart one. He knew the odds, and he played them. And when he was ALL IN, baby he was ALL IN! Eric was bi-polar, he was aware the odds were against him, but he played his hand with valor and grace and genius. He played his life brilliantly with the cards he was given, sometimes the Ace remained elusive, sometimes a Royal Flush. He accepted it all and played on.
THE REAL ERIC RIDE
This is the Eric I knew and the Eric I miss every day.
I miss how he poured coffee. When he would make a fresh pot of coffee, he would pour it into a cup like it was liquid gold, a rare exotic, life changing fluid that may never be encountered again.
I miss the way he lifted his chin and smiled when something engaged him.
I loved all his variations on chicken salad.
I miss the way his face softened and glowed when he talked about how proud he was of Savi, or what Savi was doing or experiencing. “I love that kid”, he would say so often.
I miss the way he talked to me in his Barry White voice.
I miss his giggle.
I miss the way he sang a Bob Dylan song.
I miss the way he flossed.
I miss walking hand in hand with ERIC and feeling like I was absolutely the luckiest person on the planet.
THE JANE AND ERIC RIDE
Eric flirted with reality like it was his script to write. I never edited. I let him ride his ride. He let me ride mine. But together, well sometimes maybe an editor should have stepped in! One time he asked me if I could help him stop saying FUCK so much. I told him, “Eric, you are the most eloquent, prolific swearer I have ever known, I won’t do it.” To which he replied, “Oh Fuck it, you’re right.” “Fuckity, Fuck, Fuck, Fuck”!
When we went on bicycle rides neither of us would give in and say, “We’ve gone out far enough, maybe should head back.” We would just keep riding! On the way back it would be all kinds of groaning and swearing and laughing through the exhaustion.
When we got on his motorcycle, he’d open it up wide and I would scream in speed drenched Euphoria. We’d fly up the mountain to Nederland for an Americano at The Train Cars and then fly back down, now fueled with both adrenaline AND caffeine!
Let’s get some chocolate, SURE. That hitchhiker needs a ride, YES HE DOES. One more episode? WHY NOT. Is it too early? NO. Is it too late? NEVER. Should we try that? ABSOLUTELY!
ERIC’S LAST RIDE
Hunter S. Thompson shared this experience about riding a motorcycle, “Faster, Faster, Faster, until the thrill of speed overcomes the fear of death.” That was Eric’s Ride.
In August of this year, Eric told me he was thinking about selling his motorcycle. This is what is so devastating to me. We should all be meeting here today, Eric should be standing in the front, and we should be asking, “Hey Eric, what’s going on?” “Why would you ever want to sell your motorcycle?” We could drink coffee and talk about it. That’s what we should be doing today.
WHAT’S YOUR RIDE?
Today I wanted to celebrate Eric, but I also wanted to ask you, Eric’s people, an important question.
Toward the end of Eric’s life he began to question his worth. This magnificent man, who had lived the life of a gallant, sovereign soul, began to examine himself under a lense of cultural standards and expectations that had seemed to never matter to him before. He lamented that he hadn’t done enough, been enough, made enough. He tried to cram himself into the ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL-BECAUSE-WE’RE- ALL- THE- SAME-SUIT, and it didn’t fit. He tugged at it. He wrestled the discomfort. He tried so very hard.
I want you to get on your motorcycle right now. Get on your motorcycle! Clutch is on the left, Brake is on the right. Close your eyes, do it, please play along with me.
I want you to think about your worth, YOUR RIDE……… Put your motorcycle into first gear, one click down.
Before you let out the clutch, let me ask you this. Is this the ride you want to be on? Are you happy with your direction? Is there another path you want to take? Now is the time, today is your day. And if your journey seems too overwhelming, too arduous, please, please, please, ask for help.
Because really, we’re all on the ERIC RIDE now. We have to be, or there is no purpose or direction to any of this. If we see someone in need, we must help. If there is joy to be had, we must seize it. We must forgo judgement, and embrace differences, equality and acceptance. We must save room in our motorcycle saddlebags for a good joke, a dark roast coffee, a safe journey and infinite love.
LET’S RIDE!
And I didn’t even know him so well. Not like my son, who became Sav’s brother and hence Zoshia’s and Eric’s son too. We got in some time together - hanging with the kids, getting beat up at the gym by him, a surf trip to Costa Rica. Time for the real Eric to show up. And it wasn’t normal. And I’m not using normal in a value driven way, like normal was inherently good or bad. Eric Ammann was a deeply, thoroughly unusual person.
He was a kid in a grown up’s body. Now most of us, unless we’re really unfortunate, can still pull out our inner child with some regularity. With the right surroundings and the proper timing and adequate support we’re capable of getting young, maybe even innocent and kind of free for snippets of time. We have some fun. Then we remember the things on our to do list, all the stuff they’re counting on us for at work, at home, at wherever - and we revert to the (semi) responsible adult grown up that many of us manage to represent ourselves as with some degree of facility. I believe Eric had a different relationship to this way of being. He had to do the hard work of accessing his inner grown up, because the child: the playful, fun-loving, irascible, trickster kid, that was at the heart and the soul and the reality of Eric. And I also don’t mean this as inherently good or bad. Certainly not bad. OK, I mean it as good.
He sure was a kid with his kid, and with my kid, and this I mean as very good. He loved to play. And play and play. And it was meant so honestly and playfully and lovingly, just like it would when a bunch of kids get dropped in the sandbox together. His famous poker nights. Super Bowls, JV soccer, and everything in between. He was game for all of it. And all the kids were invited, sometimes even me.
Really not normal - how he got along with Zoshia. Divorces happen, to half of all marriages, and they happen because there’s trouble. Which usually involves some feelings of heartbreak and anger and betrayal and abandonment and loss. And that’s just one person’s experience. It can require Herculean effort to remain civil with an ex, to forcibly substitute restrained good manners for the raging “truth” that so wants to be vented. But Eric and Zhosia sure did it differently. They truly acted like friends, like best friends. I have no idea about when they went through with their divorce, maybe they were best friends right through that too? Not normal, but a beautiful thing.
So now we’re all missing our not normal friend. The way he left us was not normal either, and I’m still too confused and upset and grief stricken to feel like I can begin to make any sense of it. I refrain from judgement. None of us should judge - when you get down to it none of us can know the suffering that another might be going through. A lesson here maybe? LOVE your friends and family. You say you already love them a lot? LOVE THEM MORE! Have one (or two or three) with whom you have a spoken (written?), deeply understood agreement with, that no matter how bad or confused or upset things ever get, you are there for each other, to talk each other off of the ledge. I wish Eric had had that person. I was available that evening. Another lesson, this one from the croc fighter (and Winston Churchill, and the Dalai Lama) - never never give up.
I’m sad, so sad. Eric - you should be here for your son’s college graduation. For other happy days and celebrations that are coming. Maybe even more for the inevitable times of sadness, disappointment, and tragedy that are also inescapable facets of our human beingness. Sav - I’m sorry that you’ll have to reach out across dimensions to get that connection and council that you desire and deserve. But reach - I can tell you from my own experience that the ancestors, all of them, remain there for us. And in the meantime, we the living, are here to embrace you and share with you the joys and sorrows that are this life.
His larger than life laugh always brought happiness in our hearts.
We will miss him dearly and are very grateful we had the chance to know him and spend some really great time with such a wonderful man! Rest in peace our dearest friend. We will miss you more than you would ever know!
Eric and I met early in his relationship w/ Z and became fast friends. We both loved motorcycles, and had a bit of a "bad-boy" side that we relished. As others have shared, he was easy to talk either dating or quantum physics with - always showing interest and humor. We had at least one memorable bike trip - i think we were headed to Sturgis - but never got farther than Fort Collins because my Harley was deconstructing itself on the road. We still had fun and made the best of it - he never indicated disappointment or otherwise.
We got to reconnect in recent years and it felt as if no time had passed. I am grateful we had those moments.
His larger than life persona is especially exemplified in Savarone - and it is for you - Sav - that I am most heartbroken. Your recent words, however, suggest you have and will continue to handle this with a mature quality beyond your years. The other times when you don't feel like handling it so well - those are equally if not more important spiritual moments and hopefully will be shared with the closest of friends and family.
The silver lining is that Eric lives on - in our hearts, our memories, and in you. I am sure you will carry the torch with pride, admiration, and verve - just as Eric taught you to do.
With love - Johnny Ray
I'm sharing this beautiful Hawaiian prayer with you, your loved ones and Eric. These 4 phrases are sharing the beauty of love and forgiveness during difficult moments. Repeat them and feel a peace that surpasses all understanding. I love you girlfriend and I'm holding you close in my heart.
I love you
I'm sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I will miss knowing we share this world under the same big sky.
Rest In Peace, my dear cousin.
Eric was my best man in 1980 when I got married on top of Flagstaff. I moved away and we reconnected our friendship with Eric, Zoshia and Sav. in 2000. My heart is very sad for such a needless lost of such a wonderful human being and friend! My thoughts and wishes go out to Zoshia and Savarone.
Our family witll truely miss you!!
Leave a Tribute
THE WILD RIDE
The time I had with Eric was exhilarating, enchanted, infatuating and surreal. He showed me how to wake up to a small, ordinary day and make it bigger, explode it with passion and animation, wriggle my toes in status quo like it was mud, put butter on absolutely everything that was edible, find humor in the most mundane, and begin every single moment like we were Lewis and Clark, on the very first day of their explore, with motorcycle helmets on!
THE LOVE RIDE
ERIC had a heart that when fully stretched to it's maximum, which is the way he liked it, housed a universe of colossal joy, goodwill and empathy. More than anybody I've ever met, he truly wanted everyone in his life to seek and find their greatest contentment. His generosity was boundless, he would help anyone, at anytime, in anyway. No paybacks, that’s not the ride he was on. And the thing is, at memorial services like these, people stand up and say, “He was the kindest person I’ve ever known”, but this time it’s REALLY, REALLY, REALLY true!
THE FUN RIDE
Eric’s sense of humor was unparalleled. He had comebacks and quips that were lightning fast and perfectly on target. He was uniquely unfettered and sometimes it was just as much fun watching the reaction of someone he was joking with as listening to what he was saying. So many times, I saw this look from those who were experiencing Eric’s wit for the first time, “Did he really just say that?” “Can you say that?”
I was once out of town for a week and he would text me every day, “I miss you Jane” and that would be the caption of the photo he sent with him wearing various articles of my clothing, skirts, underwear, tights, bras…….
And the school bus radio! Wow, many of you can attest to his radio comedy!
My Dad, whose nick name was “Swede” had a stroke leaving him paralyzed on his right side. He was leaving the nursing home for the first time, my siblings and I were all there, Eric too, and we were trying to get him out of the car, into the wheel chair……..it was stressful for us, humiliating for my dad. At just the right moment, Eric said to my dad, “Swede, did you have a stroke or something”! Perfect ice-breaker, perfect start to a wonderful Thanksgiving.
THE GAMBLING RIDE
Eric was a gambler, but a smart one. He knew the odds, and he played them. And when he was ALL IN, baby he was ALL IN! Eric was bi-polar, he was aware the odds were against him, but he played his hand with valor and grace and genius. He played his life brilliantly with the cards he was given, sometimes the Ace remained elusive, sometimes a Royal Flush. He accepted it all and played on.
THE REAL ERIC RIDE
This is the Eric I knew and the Eric I miss every day.
I miss how he poured coffee. When he would make a fresh pot of coffee, he would pour it into a cup like it was liquid gold, a rare exotic, life changing fluid that may never be encountered again.
I miss the way he lifted his chin and smiled when something engaged him.
I loved all his variations on chicken salad.
I miss the way his face softened and glowed when he talked about how proud he was of Savi, or what Savi was doing or experiencing. “I love that kid”, he would say so often.
I miss the way he talked to me in his Barry White voice.
I miss his giggle.
I miss the way he sang a Bob Dylan song.
I miss the way he flossed.
I miss walking hand in hand with ERIC and feeling like I was absolutely the luckiest person on the planet.
THE JANE AND ERIC RIDE
Eric flirted with reality like it was his script to write. I never edited. I let him ride his ride. He let me ride mine. But together, well sometimes maybe an editor should have stepped in! One time he asked me if I could help him stop saying FUCK so much. I told him, “Eric, you are the most eloquent, prolific swearer I have ever known, I won’t do it.” To which he replied, “Oh Fuck it, you’re right.” “Fuckity, Fuck, Fuck, Fuck”!
When we went on bicycle rides neither of us would give in and say, “We’ve gone out far enough, maybe should head back.” We would just keep riding! On the way back it would be all kinds of groaning and swearing and laughing through the exhaustion.
When we got on his motorcycle, he’d open it up wide and I would scream in speed drenched Euphoria. We’d fly up the mountain to Nederland for an Americano at The Train Cars and then fly back down, now fueled with both adrenaline AND caffeine!
Let’s get some chocolate, SURE. That hitchhiker needs a ride, YES HE DOES. One more episode? WHY NOT. Is it too early? NO. Is it too late? NEVER. Should we try that? ABSOLUTELY!
ERIC’S LAST RIDE
Hunter S. Thompson shared this experience about riding a motorcycle, “Faster, Faster, Faster, until the thrill of speed overcomes the fear of death.” That was Eric’s Ride.
In August of this year, Eric told me he was thinking about selling his motorcycle. This is what is so devastating to me. We should all be meeting here today, Eric should be standing in the front, and we should be asking, “Hey Eric, what’s going on?” “Why would you ever want to sell your motorcycle?” We could drink coffee and talk about it. That’s what we should be doing today.
WHAT’S YOUR RIDE?
Today I wanted to celebrate Eric, but I also wanted to ask you, Eric’s people, an important question.
Toward the end of Eric’s life he began to question his worth. This magnificent man, who had lived the life of a gallant, sovereign soul, began to examine himself under a lense of cultural standards and expectations that had seemed to never matter to him before. He lamented that he hadn’t done enough, been enough, made enough. He tried to cram himself into the ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL-BECAUSE-WE’RE- ALL- THE- SAME-SUIT, and it didn’t fit. He tugged at it. He wrestled the discomfort. He tried so very hard.
I want you to get on your motorcycle right now. Get on your motorcycle! Clutch is on the left, Brake is on the right. Close your eyes, do it, please play along with me.
I want you to think about your worth, YOUR RIDE……… Put your motorcycle into first gear, one click down.
Before you let out the clutch, let me ask you this. Is this the ride you want to be on? Are you happy with your direction? Is there another path you want to take? Now is the time, today is your day. And if your journey seems too overwhelming, too arduous, please, please, please, ask for help.
Because really, we’re all on the ERIC RIDE now. We have to be, or there is no purpose or direction to any of this. If we see someone in need, we must help. If there is joy to be had, we must seize it. We must forgo judgement, and embrace differences, equality and acceptance. We must save room in our motorcycle saddlebags for a good joke, a dark roast coffee, a safe journey and infinite love.
LET’S RIDE!
My Memorial Tribute to Eric
One of Eric’s greatest joys was riding his motorcycle.He described to me the feeling he got while on his bike, he said, “it requires complete concentration, I can’t allow myself distraction, but within that, I find absolute freedom and peace.” I read a quote from a motorcyclist who said, “4 Wheels Transport the Body, Two Wheels Transport the Soul.” Much was the case with Eric.The additional caveat is that he loved to go really, really fast, always safe, but fast! About 2 years ago, I decided to take a ride with Eric, and what a ride it was!I loved Eric very much, I loved every ride we took.Today I’d like you to hold on and join me while I share some of our rides.
THE WILD RIDE
The time I had with Eric was exhilarating, enchanted, infatuating and surreal.He showed me how to wake up to a small, ordinary day and make it bigger, explode it with passion and animation, wriggle my toes in status quo like it was mud, put butter on absolutely everything that was edible, find humor in the most mundane, and begin every single moment like we were Lewis and Clark, on the very first day of their explore, with motorcycle helmets on!
THE LOVE RIDE
ERIC had a heart that when fully stretched to it's maximum, which is the way he liked it, housed a universe of colossal joy, goodwill and empathy. More than anybody I've ever met, he truly wanted everyone in his life to seek and find their greatest contentment. His generosity was boundless, he would help anyone, at anytime, in anyway.No paybacks, that’s not the ride he was on.And the thing is, at memorial services like these, people stand up and say, “He was the kindest person I’ve ever known”, but this time it’s REALLY, REALLY, REALLY true!
THE FUN RIDE
Eric’s sense of humor was unparalleled.He had comebacks and quips that were lightning fast and perfectly on target.He was uniquely unfettered and sometimes it was just as much fun watching the reaction of someone he was joking with as listening to what he was saying.So many times, I saw this look from those who were experiencing Eric’s wit for the first time, “Did he really just say that?” “Can you say that?”
I was once out of town for a week and he would text me every day, “I miss you Jane” and that would be the caption of the photo he sent with him wearing various articles of my clothing, skirts, underwear, tights, bras…….
And the school bus radio! Wow, many of you can attest to his radio comedy!
My Dad, whose nick name was “Swede” had a stroke leaving him paralyzed on his right side. He was leaving the nursing home for the first time, my siblings and I were all there, Eric too, and we were trying to get him out of the car, into the wheel chair……..it was stressful for us, humiliating for my dad.At just the right moment, Eric said to my dad, “Swede, did you have a stroke or something”! Perfect ice-breaker, perfect start to a wonderful Thanksgiving.
THE GAMBLING RIDE
Eric was a gambler, but a smart one.He knew the odds, and he played them.And when he was ALL IN, baby he was ALL IN! Eric was bi-polar, he was aware the odds were against him, but he played his hand with valor and grace and genius.He played his life brilliantly with the cards he was given, sometimes the Ace remained elusive, sometimes a Royal Flush.He accepted it all and played on.
THE REAL ERIC RIDE
This is the Eric I knew and the Eric I miss every day.
I miss how he poured coffee.When he would make a fresh pot of coffee, he would pour it into a cup like it was liquid gold, a rare exotic, life changing fluid that may never be encountered again.
I miss the way he lifted his chin and smiled when something engaged him.
I loved all his variations on chicken salad.
I miss the way his face softened and glowed when he talked about how proud he was of Savi, or what Savi was doing or experiencing.“I love that kid”, he would say so often.
I miss the way he talked to me in his Barry White voice.
I miss his giggle.
I miss the way he sang a Bob Dylan song.
I miss the way he flossed.
I miss walking hand in hand with ERIC and feeling like I was absolutely the luckiest person on the planet.
THE JANE AND ERIC RIDE
Eric flirted with reality like it was his script to write. I never edited.I let him ride his ride.He let me ride mine.But together, well sometimes maybe an editor should have stepped in! One time he asked me if I could help him stop saying FUCK so much.I told him, “Eric, you are the most eloquent, prolific swearer I have ever known, I won’t do it.” To which he replied, “Oh Fuck it, you’re right.”“Fuckity, Fuck, Fuck, Fuck”!
When we went on bicycle rides neither of us would give in and say, “We’ve gone out far enough, maybe should head back.”We would just keep riding!On the way back it would be all kinds of groaning and swearing and laughing through the exhaustion.
When we got on his motorcycle, he’d open it up wide and I would scream in speed drenched Euphoria.We’d fly up the mountain to Nederland for an Americano at The Train Cars and then fly back down, now fueled with both adrenaline AND caffeine!
Let’s get some chocolate, SURE. That hitchhiker needs a ride, YES HE DOES. One more episode? WHY NOT. Is it too early? NO.Is it too late? NEVER. Should we try that? ABSOLUTELY!
ERIC’S LAST RIDE
Hunter S. Thompson shared this experience about riding a motorcycle, “Faster, Faster, Faster, until the thrill of speed overcomes the fear of death.”That was Eric’s Ride.
In August of this year, Eric told me he was thinking about selling his motorcycle.This is what is so devastating to me.We should all be meeting here today, Eric should be standing in the front, and we should be asking, “Hey Eric, what’s going on?”“Why would you ever want to sell your motorcycle?” We could drink coffee and talk about it. That’s what we should be doing today.
WHAT’S YOUR RIDE?
Today I wanted to celebrate Eric, but I also wanted to ask you, Eric’s people, an important question.
Toward the end of Eric’s life he began to question his worth. This magnificent man, who had lived the life of a gallant, sovereign soul, began to examine himself under a lense of cultural standards and expectations that had seemed to never matter to him before. He lamented that he hadn’t done enough, been enough, made enough.He tried to cram himself into the ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL-BECAUSE-WE’RE- ALL- THE- SAME-SUIT, and it didn’t fit. He tugged at it. He wrestled the discomfort. He tried so very hard.
I want you to get on your motorcycle right now.Get on your motorcycle! Clutch is on the left, Brake is on the right.Close your eyes, do it, please play along with me.
I want you to think about your worth, YOUR RIDE……… Put your motorcycle into first gear, one click down.
Before you let out the clutch, let me ask you this. Is this the ride you want to be on?Are you happy with your direction? Is there another path you want to take? Now is the time, today is your day. And if your journey seems too overwhelming, too arduous, please, please, please, ask for help.
Because really, we’re all on the ERIC RIDE now. We have to be, or there is no purpose or direction to any of this. If we see someone in need, we must help.If there is joy to be had, we must seize it.We must forgo judgement, and embrace differences, equality and acceptance. We must save room in our motorcycle saddlebags for a good joke, a dark roast coffee, a safe journey and infinite love.
LET’S RIDE!
The Hill
Eric and i would ride peak to peak to highway 36 then head into Estes Park, not a short ride. If you know 36 going into Estes Park you know that the last couple miles is a 7% grade hill 2 lanes going into Estes. We always prepared ourselve for the hill going down because we agreed to own the road and not ride on the edge of the road (gravel). So when we got to the hill it was heads down and fly. We would hit 40 mph, Cars couldnt pass we owned the road on our bikes. Again heads down and hailing axx. Smiling and knowing we owned it, we had to be focused, back in the day no helmets, So we held the road. Once down, we'd wow the hailing axx and move to our next objective.
We always did the same thing once in Estes, 3 places were our favorites. A soda shop (root beer) on the east end of town, an ice cream parlor on the west side of town and Beau Jo Pizza. I haven't been to Estes in a while but bet they are still there. We would start at the soda shop, then a slice of pizza, then ice cream. It took an hour or so, what we knew is we need the fuel for the ride back (The Hill).
Once rested and fueled we would start back. There is only one way back to Boulder, THE HILL. It was intimiadating we would talk about what was to come for 10 minutes before we hit the hill. All kidding aside, breath and peddle. We both had 18 speed bikes, as we climbed the hill obviously we would down shift. by the time we were half way we were both burning. By the time we got to the top we were both in 1st gear, ( no smiling now it was work and breath).I mean we could walk faster then the speed of the bike. But we both knew once we got off it was a whole new set of muscles that weren't being used, so we pumped it out in 1st gear. We always made it, not one time was it easy. Once on top we were both relieved even though we still had 20 miles of rolling hills to go to get home.
We would get home, exhausted, yearning for the couch. The last step in the ride was carrying the bikes up stairs. We would discuss leaving them outside because we were done. We'd laugh about it. You go first, no you, on and on. Finally we'd take them up. The final climb, up the stairs with the bikes.
It was never about easy with Eric, it was about successfully doing what we set out to do. Enjoy it and feel accomplished. Each time we rode that hill it built us in ways I took with me in life. Like so many things with Eric. The HILL built character. Each time I approach a hill today i think of those days and pump it out. There isn't a hill on this planet I can't climb because of those lessons with Eric.
The climb was always worth it, work but worth the reward.
Thanks Eric for so many rewards in life.
Randy
Goofy Weights
Another story to show a personality that wont be forgotten.
Eric was a push -up and sit-up guy, me push-up barbell guy. We worked out all the time in the apartment. Eric push-up and sit-up. He was proud of his abs. Me push-up and barbell , arms. Bike handled the legs.
One day we just got done with our workout, I'm sitting on the couch resting. Eric grabs a dumbell (10#), says whoever can do the most doesnt buy coffee. I'm pumped, blood flowing already. I say go. Eric pumped out 40 rips with his right arm, stops. The goal, 41 rips so Eric buys coffee.
I start feeling good get to 30. Eric gets up and starts dancing around the room to distract me. It was working. I slowed. I'm at 33 he pulls down his pants and puts his axx in my face in his underwear. I start laughing slowed again, curling weight to beat 40. Eric saw I'm close I'm at 37, then that shxxhead pulls his underwear down and sticks his bare axx in my face (goofy Eric). I lost it laughing my ass off (laughing and weights dont go together, cant breath on each rip) dropped the dumbell at 38. He won.
It cost me $2 at the coffee store across the street. I got a lifetime of laughs for $2. He did that. A gift of laughter. That was Eric.
The moral to the story, know the child in yourself. Eric always brought the boy out in me. That's not easy to do in this world, Eric made it so easy.
Thanks Eric for a lifetime of laughs. I won't forget.
Randy