My uncle was a kind, strong, honest, selfless and hardworking man who loved everyone as if they were family. He lived life without fear or apology, loved everyone unconditionally and never lost hope in redemption...whether in this life or the next. Throughout his life he constantly faced challenges and setbacks, yet he always remained hopeful and persevered to become one of the most respected and successful members of his community. I say it in that order--respected then successful--because for a man to truly be counted a success, he has to first be one whom others deem worthy of giving respect. My uncle exemplified qualities such as selflessness, empathy and devotion to the betterment of others. Entire communities sprung up and people thrived because of his devotion to them. For these qualities that he exemplified, therefore, he was found worthy of respect and, thus, regarded as a success. After all, "What does it profit a man to gain the world and lose his soul?" For as much as he achieved and acquired, my uncle never lost his soul (loving and wanting the best for others), nor did he ever forget what it truly means to be human (loving thy neighbor as thyself). He was, therefore, a true success.
I will always remember you, Uncle Hopeton. I can still hear you giving me counsel, beginning with, "Hey, mi niece...." I can still hear you saying, "Hey, mi niece, you make sure you take you education so you no have to come work hard like mi, you know." I can still feel the pride you exuded for my achievements and triumphs, yet the love and encouragement you gave in my setbacks and failures. I can still hear you saying, "This a my niece...." You always made me feel loved, recognized, intelligent and capable of achieving and doing anything in life. In life, I saw those qualities in you deserving of respect. In your death, I can only hope to not only emulate them, but absorb and live them.
I will forever be Your Niece. See you in the New Jerusalem.
