The Life of Eunice (née Carolino) Fralick, as seen through the eyes of her firstborn ...
December 10th — International Human Rights Day — marks the birthdate of my beloved late mother, Eunice (nee Carolino) Fralick, RN who — in 1965 — immigrated to Canada for opportunity. The eldest of seven siblings raised by Christian parents in a one-room, brick & bamboo "bungalow hut" (no electricity, no running water), mom became the first of the family to boldly and bravely set out leave her homeland Republic of the Philippines and board a ship liner as part of her personal expedition to immigrate out west ...
She settled in Toronto where she served as an urgent care nurse at Women's College Hospital. During her call to service, my mother — all 4-foot 10-inch tall of her small but mighty Ilocano frame — stood fearlessly in her call of duty throughout the AIDS pandemics of the 80s, the SARS pandemic of the 90s, and she sacrificed many Christmas Eves with me and my sister to serve the people of Toronto.
As a daughter, my mother proved her loyalty to her father, having travelled half way around the world and across the oceans in 1984 to show up to his death bedside and provide him with the comfort and dignified burial he deserved. As a result, not only did a nine year old me have the opportunity to meet my grandfather, Rev Abdinango Carolino, alive, I witnessed an entire village pay high respect to the Gospel Preacher / missionary role he served with all the people of the town following his glass-top casket as pallbearers carried it through the town, with my mother, his firstborn daughter, holding my hand on her right and Sarah’s hand on her left as walked behind the casket to witness Rev Abdinango Carolino being sent HOME in a manner that can be compared to the likes of Floyd Mayweather returning home to bury one of his own. Nearly two decades later, my mother duly honored her own mother Rhoda Carolino, having travelled halfway around the world and across oceans to pay her respects and send her own mother home in Style and Grace. That’s Honorable.
During the summer of 1984, at nine years old, I witnessed my mother rush to a neighbouring village home in an attempt to provide lifesaving CPR to a young boy in crisis… when she returned , she delivered me with the news that the boy, age nine, had died of parasites, something a simple and common childhood ailment medical treatment in Canada would have cleared up in a week or so. (Treatment me and my sister required when we returned to Canada in time to resume back to school that September 1984.
My mother fled a country ruled by dictatorship, for opportunity to work in democracy and to experience the freedoms promised in Canada ... she wanted to experience the life of her dreams and she wanted just that for her daughters and for her family relatives.
My mother was a woman of few words, yet her actions spoke volumes. Time and time again, she proved her love through action.
May God reward her for her extraordinary gratitude, cultural hospitality, selflessness and loving compassion. I love you Mom. Thank you.