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Evan Mallgren was born in Denver on July 28, 1981 and passed away on July 16, 2017. Evan is survived by his mother and father, Colleen and Tony Mallgren, and his brother, Wes Mallgren (Emily Schultz). He is deeply, deeply missed by his family and friends.

We created this memorial as a place to share memories and also to keep you updated on plans for a celebration of his life.  We will update this page as we have more information. Until then, let us share some of our memories of our son and brother.

Evan was a very sensitive soul and wore his heart on his sleeve.  His kind eyes and gentleness were there for all to see and animals took to him like he was their kin.  He had a biting sense of humor and a fast wit about him and was guided by strong values.  He deplored hypocrisy.

Evan was actively involved in an online community of gamers with whom he connected and played on an almost daily basis. He was drawn to the camaraderie, teamwork, and action of the games.

He was very proud of his work with autonomous outdoor communities, regional burning man style festivals, where he volunteered. He was devoted to the community and cheered the environmentalism which was one of his core values. He was at home among freethinkers and progressive values, people who wanted to have fun while exploring art and music, while also exploring what it means to be a member of society.

Our earlier memories of outdoor activities with Evan include jumping off the rocks into the Firehole River in Yellowstone, four-wheeling with the Dodge Ram design engineers up Kane Creek in Moab and snow-mobiling on a clear February day above timberline near Leadville.

As an older brother, Evan allowed Wes to follow him around while they explored the green space behind their house. In all seasons they could be found exploring the flora and trying, but failing, to track the fauna. They would ride their bikes endlessly looking for a new trail to ride.

As they grew older, they shared a favorite movie. "The Big Lebowski," (a dark comedy who's R rating was much-to-their-parents'-chagrin ignored) provided endless quotes and laughter which shaped, along with Monty Python, their similar sense of humor. On many a Christmas Eve, Evan and Wes could be found watching this movie together and laughing. 

Evan had a finely tuned palate from his work as a barista at Starbucks.  He enjoyed trying new and exotic tastes in coffee, beer, vegetables and fruits, and grew his own chili peppers.  We always had to be careful in trying his latest peppers and testing our limits on the Scoville scale.  He loved to share his spice infused pickled cucumbers and green beans, and then watching his family's and friends' reactions to that first bite.

He was always inventing and repurposing things. Exploring international food markets and restaurants and trying new and exotic foods was a passion of his and he wanted to share it with others and make the latest food he'd found for you.  

Evan was a great asset at work as a legal assistant and was always there to help with whatever you might need.  His extensive knowledge of media was always beneficial.

Evan loved all creatures. He was gentle towards them and he loved them freely. Friends and family are encouraged to donate to the Colorado Humane Society in lieu of sending food or flowers.  

http://coloradohumane.org/donate

In loving memory of our son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. 

Evan Mallgren, 1981-2017. We pray that you have found peace. 

UPDATE:
Friends, it has taken us some time, but we have found a time and place to Celebrate Evan's Life in a way we hope he would have enjoyed. Please join us if you're able.


Saturday, September 9th, 1:30pm
St. Patrick's Brewing Company in Littleton, CO 

Message me directly if you have any questions - I'd be happy to answer them.

July 17, 2022
July 17, 2022
Thinking of you dear Colleen, Tony and all your family. We know there is a hole in your lives without Evan.
We send our love to you. Please know you are in our prayers.
Valerie & Skip
July 16, 2018
July 16, 2018
Dearest Family and Friends;
It has been a year since Evan's death. Our hearts were broken but they are mending and will have holes in them forever. His presence has been missed daily and leaves us saddened and out of balance.
We have tried to focus on great memories and joyous times that he brought to our lives. His sensitivity towards others was a trait that is in short supply these days and is a model for us in our lives.
We are forever thankful for your prayers, thoughts and care this past year.
There have been times when the road has been very rocky and your support has helped us carry on.
Our faith in the Lord sustains us and reminds us that we are not on this journey alone. 
"The Lord is my shepherd, I lack for nothing....Even though I walk through the darkest valley...He is with me" Psalm 23
With much love, Colleen and Tony
July 6, 2018
July 6, 2018
Colleen I am devastated about Evan.....I just found out yesterday. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I remember how fondly you spoke of Evan and I know the special closeness you shared and how much he was loved! I remember the first time I saw Evan.....I was walking Bentley on the Greenwood Village trail behind your house, Evan was on the patio and I waved and he waved back....whenever I did have a chance to speak to him, he reminded me of "Gentle Ben" or a big Teddy bear! My heart is broken............
September 14, 2017
September 14, 2017
Thanks to ALL for your generosity. 
Evan's Homemade Pickle's Donation generated $324!!!!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
The Colorado Humane Society will greatly appreciated it.
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
I felt a connection to Evan even though we never really knew him. Colleen and I occasionally talked about our kids and joked that we each had a stay-at-home son I felt I understood some small part of him in some small way. We're so sorry he's gone too soon and for the loss of Evan to his friends and family
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
It's September 9 and you all are heading for Bailey, a place in Park County where I've done some work so I know how beautiful a place it is. I wish I could be there with you. - Love, Deb
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
Family and mountains are on our minds this morning, from amidst our branch in the Cascades. As folks head for Bailey today to celebrate Evan's life, we send our love and blessings. Wishing we were there.
September 7, 2017
September 7, 2017
This is a beautiful tribute and includes many things about Evan that I did not know.  I will always remember Evan as a helpful, kind and gentle giant of a person. He always went out of his way to help with anything he was asked to do, and when he knew a better way to get something done, he would always let me know in a kind way. 

He will be missed, and my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
August 16, 2017
August 16, 2017
Friends, it has taken us some time, but we have found a time and place to Celebrate Evan's Life in a way we hope he would have enjoyed. Please join us if you're able.

Saturday, September 9th, 1:30pm
St. Patrick's Brewing Company in Littleton, CO

Message me directly if you have any questions - I'd be happy to answer them.
July 28, 2017
July 28, 2017
A year or so ago, Evan gave Marc and I two bags of binder clips for Christmas. Both bags were filled to the brim with various sizes of clips. We'd use them here and there for various reasons and over time, those two bags became half of a bag. I have no idea where that last half is, but just tonight, I found two binder clips on the counter.
You may be gone, Evan...but we will ALWAYS remember you, especially when we find binder clips. And pickles, of course. <3
July 28, 2017
July 28, 2017
I don't know how or if Birthdays are celebrated in heaven, but I hope your day has been in peace.
I think of you daily, pray for your soul, & hope that you have found your way back to God & home.
Rest in peace - much too soon.
Blessings! Your life meant so much to so many!
July 28, 2017
July 28, 2017
Happy Birthday Cuz.

I remember as a little guy how Evan would give me piggy back rides and I would feel 8 feet tall. Probably because I was! He taught me funny things to say as a kid, like "yuummmmaaay" when I took a bite or drink of anything. Still say it and think of Him. I always looked up to Evan and was so excited to tell Him when I got a job at Starbucks because I knew I'd get to talk to him about all the funny stories and awesome drink concoctions he would teach me. I remember when he visited in Arizona and taught us that we could eat the prickly pear fruits right off the cactus. I felt so cool showing all my friends that I could just pick it and eat it! Crawdad fishing in the creek behind his house was always so much fun as a kid, and we continued to spend time outside playing bocci ball and looking at his potted plants. Evan loved the earth and the fruits of his hands as he cultivated it. He was a patient and warm person who's presence was always gentle and kind. I'll miss you Ev. Happy Birthday with love from all of us.
July 26, 2017
July 26, 2017
One night Evan and I were closing Starbucks together, I don't want to say it was a dark and stormy night, but it actually was. This tall man in a suit comes in about 3 minutes before we locked the doors and ordered a drink, which Evan made. The tall guy looks at Evan and asks him how tall he is and Evan replies. The guy then starts harassing him, and tries to legitimately pick a fight. Evan never lost his cool, he just waited placidly while this guy's steam ran out and then the guy just left. He explained that being so so tall made "macho" guys feel insecure around him. He told me that people tried to pick fights with him a lot, just because he was the biggest guy in the room and he had learned to just let them make a show of it and they would walk away.

I can't picture Evan fighting. He reminded me of Ferdinand the bull from the old story, who just wanted to sit quietly and smell the flowers.
I hope he has all the peace now.
July 26, 2017
July 26, 2017
Wow. I was just telling an Evan story to the people at my work yesterday and then I saw this today. I had a lot of really great memories with Evan from working with him at Starbucks, but my favorite (and the one I was telling yesterday) was this: Evan and I were closing the shop together one night, and about 10 minutes before close a guy came in who was clearly a little bit high. (This was way back in pre-legalization days) So the guy steps up to the register and asks me for a large white mocha, and Evan starts making it. He pays, I give him his change, he steps back and looks up at the menu. Then, he steps forward and tries to order a large white mocha... again. Evan and I look at each other, and then look at the guy, who then says "Wait, did I already do this part?" At which point, Evan goes into hysterics and is bent over laughing so hard his whole body is shaking. Then, in a split second, Evan gets this serious look on his face and says to the guy "Don't drive." The guy says "Don't worry, I rode my skateboard here". And Evan and I both started laughing. Evan had such a gentle spirit. I will always cherish the memories I have with him.
July 26, 2017
July 26, 2017
This beautiful tribute to Evan brings me to tears as I realize more fully now just what the world is missing. I am so sorry I didn't get to meet and know Evan over the past years. He was-and is- a truly extraordinary person. A gentle soul, indeed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Colleen, Tony, Wes, Emily and all the family. We love you and will hold you close.
July 26, 2017
July 26, 2017
One of my favorite Evan stories ... we had a customer at Starbucks that came in almost every day and asked for a big coffee. Didn't matter how we greeted him, what we did or said ... the customer was just expressionless. But this one day, the customer had actually been asked by a co-worker to get a drink for them ... when I asked him if there was anything else he was searching the menu board and said "yes, i need a big .......... shit". I turned to Evan and said Evan, give the man a big shit. Evan just about lost it and the customer? Cracked a smile .... high five big E!! You'll be missed
July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
I only had the pleasure of meeting Evan once, when he Colleen & I were going to a Rockies game. I knew very well of his pepper growing & his love of adding them to his pickles!
This is a lovely tribute & has helped me know what a lovely, caring human being he was. Thank you for including such wonderful pictures!
I believe in the life ever after & have to believe that he'd accomplished all he needed to do here on Earth & has moved on to bigger, better & more important work from Heaven.
You have wonderful memories - treasure those & keep Evan in your hearts until you meet again.
Sending you each love, light, compassion & deepest sympathy.
Hugs - big hugs!!
July 24, 2017
July 24, 2017
2-3 years ago we visited the house and Evan got to show us his downstairs pepper plant farm. It inspired me to try to grow my own peppers at home, but found it difficult to grow them from seeds. This last year Evan helped walk me through best practices and optimal pepper planting methods with his own advice and website forums that I could read. I would send Evan pictures of my plants and he would help advise me on what to do next. In April, we were talking about some seeds he had to a super hot pepper plant he had. He sent me the seeds with a "happy birthday" note. Every day I've gone out to water my plants nightly, I have always thought of how proud Evan would be for how big they've gotten. I still have a lot of those seeds left that he gave me to try to grow that "super hot" plant. I will always think of Evan when I take care of my pepper plants. I always enjoyed the time he happily spent with us when we visited over dinner, having great conversations over stories we had on our travels and hearing about his involvement with the local groups and the hobbies that he had. Sarah and I always loved a good Evan bear hug.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Any time that Mackey and I would come to visit, Evan always made sure to be there to spend time with us. The last time we visited, he introduced us to a new game (Ticket to Ride), which we played with him, ACB, and Uncle Tony. We had so much fun bantering back and forth as we learned the game. We immediately bought the game when we returned home. Mac and I remember Even with fondness and are so thankful for the value he placed on family and time spent with us. He and Mackey shared a passion for growing hot peppers, with Evan providing Mackey with some much needed advice on how to produce actual peppers, instead of shriveled-up leaves. With Evan's help, Mackey was able to grow and enjoy his peppers. :) We will miss Evan's presence most definitely but are thankful to have known him and for the memories that we have.
July 22, 2017
July 22, 2017
A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul full of Genuine Wonder and Love for all things.  We honor Evan with our Love in Kind to make ourselves, our communities, and the world a better place. Lawrence
July 21, 2017
July 21, 2017
So many memories. So many interesting occasions. Will never forget the laughter and loudness from the basement, and the sheepish looks and muteness when I reached the bottom step to see what was going on . Ha! From quiet conversation of unique perspective to yelling "Wiper! Dude's a wiper,man," at the paintball acreage. He did have a penchant for justice at times and a bit of a wild side. Effort will need to be made to find those bizarre and esoteric places he would have found for us.
July 21, 2017
July 21, 2017
A beautiful tribute to one of the nicest persons I have ever met. I have the best memories of you when you were the cutest little guy at Grandma Helen and Grandpa Keith's.
I will miss you forever Evan.
Love, Aunt Lisa
July 20, 2017
July 20, 2017
So sorry that Evan's light has gone out, far too early. Love to you all, and rest and peace to Evan.
July 20, 2017
July 20, 2017
Your tribute to Evan is beautiful and makes me feel as though I had known him. I can only imagine how hard this is for all of you. Time will heal the loss but you will never forget these amazing memories, cherish them and cherish each other in all that you do. Hugs and prayers to you all as you hit the milestones of firsts without Evan. He will always be watching over you. Love, Misty
July 20, 2017
July 20, 2017
In thinking on Evan's gentleness, his zestful quest for exotic tastes, his investigations outdoors and online, I think as well of the loving family he was born into, who laughed with his escapades and supported his explorations in every way they could. My love and sympathy to you.

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Thinking of you dear Colleen, Tony and all your family. We know there is a hole in your lives without Evan.
We send our love to you. Please know you are in our prayers.
Valerie & Skip
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July 17, 2021
Colleen, Tony, Wes & Emily,
I want you all to know we’re thinking of you.  
We know the ache of a cherished loved one gone too soon. 
Our prayers are with you all. 
Much love to you,

Valerie McCarthey - Smith & Skip Smith

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