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Her Life
April 17, 2021
BIRTH AND EARLY CHILDHOOD
I was born in the year 1936 to late Mr. David Esonwune Echendu and Mrs. Janet Uzoahia Echendu of Mbara Ezihe Mbano Imo State. I never knew her mother because she died while i was a baby. I was nurtured by my father, who fed me with sweet palm wine in place of breast milk. When i grew older, he introduced other food necessary for the development of a child. My father taught me our Lord's prayer, 'Azu Ndu,' a famous Christian and language literature of those days, and how to read the Bible.

CHILDHOOD CHALLENGES AND EDUCATION
At the age of five i was afflicted with polio myelitis, which affected one of my legs. My father conveyed me to a hospital in Emekuku which was managed by an European Doctor. The journey was on the bicycle. The hospital workers tried their best. There were times they came to Anara and my father would take me there for treatment.
At the age of sis, I was enrolled in a Central School Anara. I also started Church activities at Christ Church Ezihe (Now the Cathedral Church of Christ), where i picked interest in singing in the church. I was also appointed the presenter in the school from the junior class to the senior level. Despite my physical challenge, i performed in concerts and took top positions in recitations. I also read Bible lessons in church on Children's harvest Sundays. I was made the Secretary of the Girl's Guild Church, Ezihe. I had my standard 6 Leaving Certificate in the year 1949.
I must specially appreciate Mrs. Mabel Osuji (who i call 'nne m ukwu'), the wife of late Archdeacon Osuji, and other who assisted me daily in carrying my school bag on my way to and from school while the polio attack became severe. I will forever remain grateful. May God reward her abundantly.
CALL TO TEACHING
Because I could not get admission into the secondary school due to challenges, I enrolled into Domestic Science Abayi Umuocham Aba where i studied and got Domestic Certificate in 1950. In 1951, I was deployed to Mmirima Primary School to each illiterate women Our Lord's Prayer, the Bible and 'Azu Ndu.' Based on the excellent results of my students I was highly commended. This formally marked the beunnung of my teaching profession.

In 1952, I was transferred to Umunkwo Central School, Mbano, where i replaced a woman teaching on a maternity leave. In 1953 I was redeployed to Amaraku Central School where I was registered as a Probation Teacher (P.T). I was there for four years as an Assistance Teacher (A.T).
I later enrolled in Ezeoke Women Training Centre for further studies and training. In 1960 Ezeoke Women Training Centre was changed to a Girl's Secondary School. So, we were transferred to Akabo Women Training Centre to conclude our studies.
In 1961, I was a Higher Elentary teaching at Eziama Central School, After serving for a few month, i was transferred to Central School, Okohia, which much later became my marital home. In 1963, I was posted to St.Peter's Umukaku Central School, where I met Sir Innocent Ebere Obi, and we later got married.
In the same year (1963), my father died, SirInnocent Obi had more interest in me. In 1964 I returned to Central School Okohia. Still as a single lady, I was later transferred to to Central School Eziama in 1966 on request of my inlaw, late Sir L.U Onuoha. This was to assist in taking care of my sick elder sister, late Mrs, Bernice Onuoha, and her Children.
In 1969, my husband and i moved to Central School Okohia where we taught in a hiding place because of the civil war. I and my husband were living with some of my late sister's children, including Kingsley who was nine months. My husband helped me to nurse that baby, who eventually grew up to know me as his mother. After the war, we were later transferred to Umunachi, Osuama.
In 1975, we were transferred home, that was shortly after the death in1974 of my father-inlaw, late Mr. Godfrey Onwuzuruike Obi. I was posted to Central School Umunchi. By this time we had completed our new home at Umuokparadibia. I was going for teaching from our new house.
April 20, 2021
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
In 1976, my sister's sickness became very serious and she died, leaving a new-born baby. I lost hope and was dismayed. However, God took control, Shortly After, Sir Obi Started coming to ask for my hand in marriage through my people at Ezihe. After some initial resistance, my uncle, late Rev. Timothy A. Echendu accepted. This period was turbulent with the threat of the Biafran war. In 1968 the civil war finally broke out. In the course of the civil war which lasted for about three years, Sir Obi wedded me at St. Michael's Church, Okohia.
After the war was over, our union produced four children, two boys and two girls. We named our first child Peace Chisara Ngozichukwu. The second was christened Goodluck Chinonyerem Ahamefule. The third child was named Ezinwa Magnus Chinemerem while the last was named Oluchi Beauty Chigekwu. By the special grace of God, they are all graduates, married and with children.
POSITIONS OF RESPONSIBILITIES HELD
I taught for 10 years in Central School Umunchi. It was in this year that I was voted the Secretary of St. Michael's Church Women's Meeting, in the then Anara Parish. I also enrolled in the Christian Mother and Guild and got actively involved in their meeting. This period, I also laid the foundation of Umunwofor Women meeting. This period, I was fully involved in all church activities, meetings, choir, as a presenter in ST. Michael's Church, reading Bible lessons weekly and mothering Sundays. As a secretary of St. Michael's Women Home and Abroad meeting, I helped register this meeting, opened a Bank Account where our savings were deposited.
I am very grateful to God for his mercies, grace and favour concerning me and my family. I appreciate God especially for making me turn 80 years. I say, may His name be glorified, I appreciate my husband, all my children and the entire family for their support and kindness. In fact, if I have an option of marrying again, I would still choose to marry into Obi's family.
April 20, 2021
I will not end this writing without singing my favorite hymn. "Jesus for me:"

1

Jesus, my Savior, is all things to me;
Oh, what a wonderful Savior is He,
Guiding, protecting, o’er life’s rolling sea,
Mighty Deliv’rer—Jesus for me. Jesus for me,
  Jesus for me,
All the time everywhere,
    Jesus for me.

2
Jesus in sickness, and Jesus in health,
Jesus in poverty, comfort or wealth;
Sunshine or tempest, whatever it be,
He is my safety—Jesus for me.

3
He is my Refuge, my Rock, and my Tower,
He is my Fortress, my Strength and my Pow’r;
Life everlasting, my Daysman is He,
Blessed Redeemer—Jesus for me.

4
He is my Prophet, my Priest and my King,
He is my Bread of Life, Fountain and Spring;
Bright Sun of Righteousness, Daystar is He,
Horn of Salvation—Jesus for me.

5
Jesus in sorrow, in joy, or in pain,
Jesus my Treasure in loss or in gain;
Constant Companion where’er I may be,
Living or dying—Jesus for me.