July 3, 2023
July 3, 2023
Dear Mom, we’re saying goodbye to you, but you will forever be in our hearts. It is with total submission to the will of God that we accept your passing on to glory.
Before your passing, I spoke with you almost everyday and sometimes multiple times a day. You were a speed dial away so I’m still adjusting to my new reality.
A couple of months prior to your death, I quietly ask myself, if I was doing enough as a son and if I could have done more to be there for you? And I hear your gentle voice saying Son, you’ve done well. In hindsight, it gives me some feeling of comfort and joy that I constantly engaged you to the very end.
Mom, you were an independent and strong woman; the glue that kept our family together. A warrior for the Lord and absolutely nothing could come between you and serving the Lord; Not even your husband and kids will stop you from serving! You weren’t on the fence serving Lord…You were All-in! It was God first in your life, then your husband, children, family and friends!
Your independent and fighting spirit was shown even to the very end when you refused to be fed by my sister on your sick bed and also, demanding the phone to speak with me. I thank God for the opportunity to speak with you before moving on.
Even though your body was giving up, your mind was sound and intact! You were fearless and clear in your thinking and communication with me!
We loved you so much but God loves you more! I thank God for using you to shape me and prepare I and my siblings for this moment.
You were not just my Mom; you were my close friend, my confidante and my counsel; you were my biggest cheerleader; you always believed in me…you never said a disapproving or critical word to me. You always encouraged me not only to dream big but to execute with diligence and fairness; You we’re a very fair woman! You taught me to be rooted and grounded in God, how to lead from behind, how to say what I mean and to mean what I say, how to forgive regardless of my pain and the situation, how to be intentional and selfless in serving others…I can go on and on…
During one of our conversations weeks leading to your passing, you told me that the most important days in anyone’s life is not the day they were born or the day they died, it is the time lived and life touched; the impact made; the legacy left behind and that your children are your legacy!
I will forever be grateful to God for using you to shape the trajectory of my life…with your patience, relentless and unconditional love, wisdom and fairness!
I have no doubt that you’re is in heaven rejoicing right now!
I want to use this opportunity to make a declaration that I’m All-in serving God and I’ll carry on the good works! As for me and my family, we’ll continue to serve the Lord;
I love you so much Mom; I’m very proud and honored to be your son! You’ll be dearly missed…Sleep well until we all meet again to part no more.
Your Loving Son,
Oluseyi Farayibi
Before your passing, I spoke with you almost everyday and sometimes multiple times a day. You were a speed dial away so I’m still adjusting to my new reality.
A couple of months prior to your death, I quietly ask myself, if I was doing enough as a son and if I could have done more to be there for you? And I hear your gentle voice saying Son, you’ve done well. In hindsight, it gives me some feeling of comfort and joy that I constantly engaged you to the very end.
Mom, you were an independent and strong woman; the glue that kept our family together. A warrior for the Lord and absolutely nothing could come between you and serving the Lord; Not even your husband and kids will stop you from serving! You weren’t on the fence serving Lord…You were All-in! It was God first in your life, then your husband, children, family and friends!
Your independent and fighting spirit was shown even to the very end when you refused to be fed by my sister on your sick bed and also, demanding the phone to speak with me. I thank God for the opportunity to speak with you before moving on.
Even though your body was giving up, your mind was sound and intact! You were fearless and clear in your thinking and communication with me!
We loved you so much but God loves you more! I thank God for using you to shape me and prepare I and my siblings for this moment.
You were not just my Mom; you were my close friend, my confidante and my counsel; you were my biggest cheerleader; you always believed in me…you never said a disapproving or critical word to me. You always encouraged me not only to dream big but to execute with diligence and fairness; You we’re a very fair woman! You taught me to be rooted and grounded in God, how to lead from behind, how to say what I mean and to mean what I say, how to forgive regardless of my pain and the situation, how to be intentional and selfless in serving others…I can go on and on…
During one of our conversations weeks leading to your passing, you told me that the most important days in anyone’s life is not the day they were born or the day they died, it is the time lived and life touched; the impact made; the legacy left behind and that your children are your legacy!
I will forever be grateful to God for using you to shape the trajectory of my life…with your patience, relentless and unconditional love, wisdom and fairness!
I have no doubt that you’re is in heaven rejoicing right now!
I want to use this opportunity to make a declaration that I’m All-in serving God and I’ll carry on the good works! As for me and my family, we’ll continue to serve the Lord;
I love you so much Mom; I’m very proud and honored to be your son! You’ll be dearly missed…Sleep well until we all meet again to part no more.
Your Loving Son,
Oluseyi Farayibi