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This memorial website was created in memory of Felicia Ebot, a dedicated mother amazing sister and daughter and a friend who could be counted on at all times. She was born on December 29, 1963 and passed away on August 3, 2014 so suddenly that her family and friends are still reeling from the shock. We still do not know how to deal with the shock of her loss but we do know we will remember her forever.

Please add your memories of her, your thoughts and prayers for her family and any pictures that you have. We will use this forum to communicate details of her funeral as well. 

Tentative Home Going Program for Felicia Ashu Ebot

Friday August 29th, 2014- Viewing /Quiet Hour

12:00 pm- 8:00 pm
Lima Family Funeral Home
466 North Winchester Blvd.
Santa Clara, CA 95050
408-296-2977

Saturday August 30th, 2014- Viewing /Quiet Hour
12:00 am – 2:00 pm
Lima Family Funeral Home
466 North Winchester Blvd.
Santa Clara, CA 95050
408-296-2977

Saturday August 30th, 2014- Church Service
3:30 pm – 5:30 pm
Westminster Presbyterian Church
1100 Shasta Ave
San Jose, CA 95126
408-294-7447

Saturday August 30th, 2014- Cambay Wake Keeping/Celebration of life
7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Westminster Presbyterian Church Hall

Westminster Presbyterian Church
1100 Shasta Ave
San Jose, CA 95126
408-294-7447

Katie Akem home Address

2966 Moorpark Ave #53
San Jose, CA 95128

For questions contact:

Felix Enow: 408-930-4336
Ojong (OJ) Enow: 408-903-7077
Grace Bright: 408-807-4566
Terence Yuyun: 408-903-6899
Joseph Ekah: 415-395-619
Mojoko Sona: 408-624-6772
Cathy Akem Cell; 408-373-1661/ Home: 408-217-8476
Joe Akem: 408-373-2851

Donations can be made to:   

Bank : Chase Bank
Account Name: Catherine Akem
Acct #: 887707073
routing #: 322271627                             
State: CA ZIP Code:95128
Swift Code for international transfers: CHAus33
                                        
Please do let us know of any deposits been made so we can keep track and properly thank you for your contributions


                                     
 

August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
I miss you so much Auntie Felicia. One of the purest and most beautiful souls this world had to offer, I’ll never forget all the things you taught me in life. Love you ❤️
December 29, 2020
December 29, 2020
I love and miss you auntie, Happy birthday! ❤️
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
This is you, Felicia

Phenomenal Woman
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Maya Angelou
August 30, 2014
August 30, 2014
Felicia,

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
I still cant find the right words to use to explain how saddened i am by your loss.Death is so cruel, i cant help but ask God why but am sure he has a reason why. You were always so caring, loving, soft spoken......Noel, Sis Cathy, Mayuk , Enow my prayers go out to you all may our good Lord comfort you all through this difficult time Sister Felicia is with the Lord i know for sure heaven gained an angel, you will forever be in our hearts ......we loved you but God loved you more RIP till we meet to part no more.
August 21, 2014
August 21, 2014
A Poem especially for Noel, Mami, Cathy, MaAyuk, Enow, & all who loved and still love Sis Felicia so dearly. This is a journey that we all must take, and each must go alone...

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me:

When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today;
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me
As much as I love you;
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.

She said my place was ready
In heaven far above;
And that I'd have to leave behind,
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye;
For all my life, I'd always thought
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do;
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad;
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday
Just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized
That this could never be;
For emptiness and memories
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things
I might miss come tomorrow;
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates
I felt so much at home;
When God looked down and smiled at me
From His great golden throne.

He said, "This is eternity
And all I've promised you;
Today your life on earth is past,
But here it all starts anew."

"I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last;
And since each day's the same day,
There's no longing for the past."

"But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true;
Though at times you did do things,
You knew you shouldn't do."

"But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free;
So won't you take my hand
And share my life with me?"

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here in your heart.

David Romano

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August 10, 2023
August 10, 2023
I miss you so much Auntie Felicia. One of the purest and most beautiful souls this world had to offer, I’ll never forget all the things you taught me in life. Love you ❤️
December 29, 2020
December 29, 2020
I love and miss you auntie, Happy birthday! ❤️
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
This is you, Felicia

Phenomenal Woman
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Maya Angelou
Recent stories

Thank you Felicia

August 29, 2014

I've only known Felicia a short two years.however when we work, we often spend more time with those we work with then with our family at home, and when I would catch my self telling jokes and stories of Felicia to my wife at home I knew I had a good friend. I have a son turning two this year, and Felicia would ask me how he was doing every single time we worked together and her smile would make me feel even prouder of him. She was a friend that I could joke with, and confide in with my troubles of the week, and help me smile too. I will greatly miss her, but am truely greatful for being able to have known and spent time with her. 

A Hard Day at Work . . . then Felicia smiles at you

August 9, 2014

There are times at work where we are so busy meeting the needs of our patients and getting the tasks done that we fail to look around and appreciate the people who support us at work. I will fondly remember Felicia at the busy NA desk, who will flash her signature broad smile  signaling to me that everything  will be okay today. Her solid, calm nature at work not only comforted our patients but comforted staff. I will miss her.

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