Dear Family and Friends,
it is with heavy hearts and extreme sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Filip on the morning of Tuesday, April 14, 2015.
Filip was a devoted father, loving son, brother, nephew, loyal friend, and a fun-loving uncle to his nieces and nephews. He lost his life tragically in a motorcycle accident early Tuesday morning.
Please take a moment to leave a photo, video, or a memory. His sons will treasure these memories in years to come.
We have planned 3 gatherings to allow all those who cared for and loved Filip to be able to join us in remembering and honoring him.
- A memorial service on Saturday, April 18th in NJ. We wholeheartedly thank all those who joined us to share their grief, memories and laughter in Filip's honor.
- An informal, "in the spirit of Filip" memorial gathering in Nazareth, PA on Saturday, May 30th. We had a beautiful, heartwarming and healing get together with forty-six people who we deeply thank for coming to honor and remember Filip.
- A final gathering was held where Filip was born, in the Czech Republic, on June 12th in Orlik n. Vltavou. June 12th would have been Filip's 40th birthday. We celebrated his life with friends and family and kindly thank all those who joined us.
Please remember Filip in any way that would make him smile. Let's continue to celebrate him.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Luke and Simon's education fund through YouCaring.com
Sincerely,
The Simon Family
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Leave a tributebe difficult. There will always be an emptiness that cannot be filled. There will always be a dull ache that does not leave. Yes we will have good times, we
will laugh, and even forget for a while. But it will come back. Why? Because that is the price we pay for loving. Thank you for the memories, thank you for helping me play canasta, sharing your beautiful sons with us. Pray for us down here, because we who believe know you are fine and that you have more power than you could have ever had while you were among us. Please watch out for us, for we are really the ones who need help. Love you and was
really happy to experience Scranton with and for you. Any place else you want to see you know I will gladly share it with you. Kiss my little brother for me babe and my parents. Thank you and love you.
I think about you every day. Yesterday we had our annual cigar-and-pilsner afternoon overlooking the beautiful Lake Lagunita on campus to remember you. It brings together a few friends to share memories and think about our loved ones. You would have loved it! Thank you for introducing me to Sting - I enjoy his songs more and more as time goes on! I probably listen to 'The Last Ship' soundtrack several times a night while studying for finals. Babi said you went and saw the musical live in 2014. Last year I visited Bristol in the UK, and saw a museum where Isambard Brunel constructed his massive ships. Missing you.
Love,
Nate
Love to all the Simon Family! Thank you for being so wonderful! Filip and I and our friends shared so much in so little time! Many adventures! Learned so much. Wishing you all the best!
Love, Konowal
We miss you. I miss you.
There's nothing much that comes to mind, just to emotion. Wish we could give you a huge hug right now.
By the way, Simone asks; "Should I do a Babe the next time I go to a lake to remember Filip?"
;-)
Hugs,
Phelps
Today we visited the tree that stole you away 4 years ago, as we try to do each year on this day. It's the last place you lived in mind, body and soul and we light some candles and lay our flowers for you. Oddly, this huge dead tree has finally fallen itself, but the space remains a sacred place. Why did this tree not fall sooner?
Gathering there with some of your close friends is always a highlight who share their stories and make us laugh!
We always remember your strongest quality, which was to help anyone and everyone around you without a hesitation! You were a strong, kind man and your legacy lives on in those you have touched. May your soul be in a peaceful place.
We love you forever!
Veru
I enjoyed a cigar yesterday afternoon in your memory, thinking of you as my friend and I sat by the lakeside in nature. It was the best cigar yet: Romeo y Julieta! I think about you often and still cherish so many memories together. Watching 'The Godfather' in the Prilepov barn, driving stickshift in the Czech countryside, the Land O Lakes butter shenanigans. It was beautiful seeing the whole family together on Saturday. Really missing your laugh. Love, Nate
days. He is with me and us all the time. Filipe, Simon and Lukie are doing great, we are all very proud of them. Love you, miss you, kiss you.
Your mamiroomi
Love you, Bob Price, Rob, Mike & Kevin.
Relaxing at home with Veru and Simone thinking of you, as we often do. Thank you for our perfect weather yesterday during our tubing down the Delaware in your honor. You are with us in spirit, as always.
Love you buddy,
Phelps
~Veru
Had a few rounds of Island Joe's coffee with you this morning, hope you enjoyed the cigar we left you! We went dolphin watching and snorkeling this morning and thought of you with us, witty anecdotes and all ;-). Thinking of you with us as always.
With Love,
Phelps
We just celebrated Birthdays of Luke this weekend and Simon few weeks earlier. They both wanted to celebrate while skying, one of your favorite activity. They are doing great and I am sure, they will be as great skiers as you were. I saw you, few times going down the hill! Jakub is doing great job for your boys, teaching them the right boy stuff. You boys are doing great, do not worry. You are with me evey day.
Your mamiroomi.
There were three expeditions in your honor today - one to Turkey Swamp, one on the Huron River, and one on the Delaware River. We took out the kayaks, rafts, and tubes and remembered you doing what you loved to do - hanging out with family, friends, and loved ones in the great outdoors. We remembered adventures with you such as canoeing down the Lehigh, jet-skiing in the Florida Keys, and jet-skiing with the Wileys (not many knew about that one ;-). We miss you!!!
Jakub
We had a great day out on the river and then for a cookout with Simone, Veru and Jakub in your honor. You were with us in spirit, I'm sure, and were probably responsible for the perfect day- thank you! I very much imagined you with us today, sitting back and enjoying your pipe or playing with Simone.
Miss you,
Phelps
It was great spending time with you again this morning with candlelight and family curled up in warm blankets, Dunkin' coffee, cigars and all. I miss coming home to randomly see you stopping over for a little much needed R and R. Miss you buddy!!!
Phelps
Remembering cute little boy Filipek which became fine young man.
Prayers for his family.
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I asked Simone yesterday what her last memory was of you. You surprising her with pink tic-tacs was the first thing out of her mouth. So this morning, Dunkin’ and pink tic tacs in hand, we took a walk in the woods thinking and talking of our memories of you. Cheers Filip. Thinking of you now and often
Lessons learned
Filip had a special knack for knowing how kids' minds work and understood them well - that's what made him so good at his job being an After School Care Director.
My memory of him teaching me an important lesson about the child psyche is a little hard to explain, but I'll try.
Our family was over my house (before I had kids myself) and I was getting ready to serve coffee when I realized that all the kids (ages 2-5 or so) were sitting at the round table that had the hot coffee maker on it.
I told Filip that it could be dangerous if they touched it and that I'll let them know not to touch it because it's hot. "No!", he said. "Don't do that...then they'll all want to touch it!" Him being a father, I took his word and didn't mention anything...just grabbed the pot and returned it when I was done". Yup, he was right. They completely ignored me and didn't notice the hot pot either.
I'm pretty sure if I said something, someone would have gotten burnt!
As I raise my own daughter now, I often think of him and wonder what he would say or do to give me guidance.
Happy Birthday today, Filipe! We miss you!
Missing you but still feeling your presence
Dear Filip,
I cannot believe that it has been 4 years since we spoke. Your constant smile and happy attitude still fills the hallways of Ridgewood Avenue School. Your spirit and love of life does live on in so many of the children and adults that you interacted with daily. I know that you are watching and I am so hoping that you are in a good place, where there is only happiness and joy......exactly what you shared with everyone you met. I miss you.
Filip's helping hand
One of Filip's innate characteristics was his uninhibited willingness to help others. It was just something that he did. If you needed something, he would be there to help...whether you asked for it or not. It was a special gift.
There are many stories floating around about how he touched our lives in this way.
One of the things he did for me was find my first car - my Subaru! I knew I wanted the 90s Subaru Outback Sport but couldn't find the right fit for the right price. He's always been really good at finding used cars & motorcycles in good shape for a good deal and that's how I landed my green Subaru!
When he told me he found my car, I didn't realize it would be in a different state though! Somehow he knew it would be perfect, so we set out with our dad to NY, just north of the Delaware Water Gap, to check it out. It was a few hours away, but that didn't matter.
After test driving and a little bit of talking the dealer down, I drove away with my new car and have been hooked on Subarus ever since (and so was he). :)