By Dan Ivers | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com
To Min Lu, Filip Simon was the picture of consistency in an otherwise unpredictable world.
Each morning, Lu would drop her daughter off at Ridgewood Avenue School in Glen Ridge, where Simon, who was killed in a motorcycle accident in Holmdel early Tuesday morning, oversaw childcare programs both before and after the school day.
Often, the demands of Lu's job in New York City did not fit with the program's 7:30 a.m. start time, or 6 p.m. lockup. Other times, she had to scramble for someone to look after her daughter when snow cancelled school.
But in any case, Simon was there, bright-eyed and smiling.
"He believed that his work has a purpose and a meaning, and that is to support those kids," Lu said. "If you need to drop your kid earlier, or if you're stuck in traffic and you can't pick up your kid until after six, he would be there."
Other friends and colleagues described Simon as dedicated and warm towards the children he interacted with — much the same way he treated his own young sons, Luke and Simon.
Ridgewood Avenue School Principal Michael Donovan said he hired Simon as the district's director of childcare 10 years ago, and watched him quickly form close bonds with nearly everyone he spoke with, inside the school and out.
"Always a smile on his face, always a kind word," he said. "Several people yesterday said that when they spoke with Filip, he made them feel as if he was the only person that was around."
The son of immigrants, Lu said he had a special fondness for the many single parents or new arrivals to the country who would entrust their children to him each school day.
"I was asking him, 'Why are you so good to us? Why are you so good to our kids?'," she said. "He said 'That's the path to the American dream. I am in this to support those kids.'"
A Pennsylvania native, Simon was also fond of the outdoors. A memorial page set up on the website ForeverMissed.com shows him hiking and canoeing. In a comment left on the page, former classmate Brian Konowal called him "one of the greatest adventurers I have ever known."
Police said Simon was a resident of Nazareth, Pa., though Donovan said he had been living in Keyport.
The principal said the mood around the elementary school had been somber over the loss of Simon, who was well-known even to students outside of the childcare program due to his nearly constant presence.
"Filip is a show up early, stay late kind of guy," Donovan said. "A give you the shirt off his back kind of guy."
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