ForeverMissed
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Roberta Millard
Beautiful One
Gone yet not forgotten, 
Although we are apart, 
Your spirit lives within me, 
Forever in my heart.
If tears could build a stairway
And memories a lane,
I would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again. 
I love you.  


CELEBRATION of LIFE (Virtual) MEMORIAL SERVICE
Saturday, February 6, 2021

11:00 AM PST

Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3510503751?pwd=a2hyL29FM...

Meeting log in: 351 050 3751

Passcode: 610220

Service will be recorded and available here & Facebook

Pastor Kelly, Faith Community Church, Officiating

PROGRAM
Opening Prayer 

Reading of Eulogy: Adam Rodriguez

Family Reflections: Lauren Gallidoro, Raquel Figueroa, Carol Gorman, Tracey Millard-Foster on behalf of Ray Millard

Scripture

Closing Prayer

Tribute Video

                    ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The family of the late Florence Roberta Millard would like to express our most sincere and heartfelt gratitude for the many acts of kindness shown to us during this time of bereavement. We appreciate all your love and support.

CONTACT INFORMATION 
Ray Millard 
rrstrongbow@yahoo.com or 909-706-5411

 

December 15, 2022
December 15, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Beautiful Berta! We miss & love you!
December 15, 2022
December 15, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven!
Missing you always, until we meet again.
Love you forever
January 10, 2022
January 10, 2022
Too my beloved sister Roberta, it is hard to believe it has been a year since you have taken your place with God. December 9th will always be a hard to day for those who have loved you as we reflect on the many memories you have given us. The void of your simile has affected us all as we move forward in life, we relish to see it again someday. I speak on behalf of the family, we deeply miss you Roberta, but we know you are at peace with the Lord. My ask to you is if you can hear my prayers and visit your loved ones in our dreams once in while in order to catch up on things! 
I know this is a monumental request, but you were great at doing monumental things!
As I reflect on my life, I realize you were the one person that supported and understood me every step of the way from adolescents to adulthood. We are forever grateful for your love and guidance as that will always be memorialized in our hearts.
Thank you big Sister for being a great person and sharing your love with all of us, your beautiful heart and soul was always be appreciated and truly missed!

We Love You!
January 9, 2022
January 9, 2022

I think about you everyday
There's so much that I want to say
So much that has happened in my life.

Tears fall for you constantly.
My heart hurts every day.
I think about your beautiful smile
That I hope to see it again, someday.

I cant explain how much you have taught me
Crafts,self love,patience, a recipe or three
Out of every situation good, bad, and even sad. You were there to pick me up and I'm glad

So many hearts were broken
The day God called you home.
Your voice is always playing on gpas phone
Don't worry we got him he's never alone

I know there had to be a reason
That you had to leave.
To keep us in your watchful eyes
I hope that I see the world as you did 'cause I know
A life with love is a life that's been lived

You got to see the person I have become
Spread your wings and I know
That when God took you back he said Hallelujah
You're home

Gramma Berta,

We miss you alot... Love you from Lizzie and rocky

January 9, 2022
January 9, 2022
I miss your voice
I miss your smile
I miss your classy sassy style
I miss your laughter that came from your soul
I miss our girl time more than you know
I miss our talks about God and life
I miss my brother with you as his wife
I miss you my sister
I miss you my friend
You are in my heart always
Until we meet again

January 9, 2022
Cheryl L. Sampson
December 15, 2021
December 15, 2021
Happy birthday Mamasan! Until we meet again. Always in our heart. ❤️ 
December 15, 2021
December 15, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Berta…your joyous laugh & your beautiful smile is forever ingrained in my soul, & so deeply missed. I cherish all the memories of you. We wish you were here with us but I know you’re surrounded by love in heaven & receiving our vibrations of love today, and everyday.
May 13, 2021
May 13, 2021
Wow! I just found out a few days ago! I remember Berta since waaayyy back when I was a kid in Rosemead. Hadn't seen her in years but still...My heart and prayers go out to Lauren, Raquel, Adrian, Angelo, Art, and Adam + Family.  
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
To my beloved sister,
The people in your life miss you dearly on Mother’s Day. Usually we celebrate this day together with our families, but this year is different as you are with the Lord now. Our souls are sadden as we can’t share this day with you, but we have the memories of previous Mother’s Day celebrations which will always live on in our hearts. On this Mother’s Day, I just want to say you were a beloved sister, loving mother, cherished godmother, and devoted daughter. Your family wishes you a Happy Mother’s Day Roberta, may God cherish your beautiful sprint and allow you to relive your Mother’s Day memories with us.

Your loving brother, Adam.
February 6, 2021
February 6, 2021
Dear Berta,
When I first met you, you were a Rodriguez girl with a bright smile and a kind soul. You welcomed me to the family with those attributes, which I needed and appreciated. Although we haven't been in contact for a few years now, I always remember you as that same girl. Heaven has gained a new angel with a much brighter smile and kindness overload in her soul. Rejoice in eternal peace, Berta.
-Leslie
February 6, 2021
February 6, 2021
Dear Roberta,
Cami and I will miss your gatherings and super bowl parties! I know you'll be in our hearts and your spirit will always be present tomorrow (Super Bowl Sunday) and forever! You are such an inspirational woman, one that we will aspire to be like. We met through my niece Wendy Millard and you welcomed us into yours and Mr Millard's family, immediately! May you rest in peace and enjoy the beauty of our Lord!! May the lord comfort your beautiful family during this difficult time.
Forever in our Hearts,
Camila an Maria - AKA "Tia Micky"
February 3, 2021
February 3, 2021
Berta always had a Bright light around her. Super-kind, Friendly and patient. She taught me a lot working with her, at Dads Market Verns. My Dad, Arnold, always praised her and was proud how she led her life. She loved her children & Family, and loved being married to Ray. I ask God to hold you up Ray, during this time of Grief. God Bless ~ Yvette Rodriguez
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
Doesn't seem real. I will cherish the memories, the laughs and the conversations we had. I thank God He placed you in my life. You had a beautiful heart and soul. You always made me smile. I will miss you. Heaven has gained a spunky & spirited angel ❤. Fly high Flo Mama....Fly high! 
You will be in our hearts forever.

Love you my friend
Cool Kat and Joe
January 22, 2021
January 22, 2021
My sweet tribute and loving memory of Roberta,
A loving friend and mother with 2 beautiful daughters just like her.
A God fearing woman, strong in spirit and confident in herself and loved everyone and a wise and humble person and always looked at life half-full and never empty. She lived this to the end, these pictures speak for themselves! As I remember her back in the days at Santa Anita Church/Christian school she was a young divorced mom with 2 little daughters Lauren and Raquel at the time. She would say with strong faith in God believing for her self and her daughters they will heal and will grown to be confident and loving women!
Praise God it so today, God honor her faith, as we see she lived a blessed life and Lauren and Raquel have grown to be so. Still processing that your gone so soon. You are now with the Lord. Still processing your sudden loss, but will never forget you sweet Roberta! Raquel & Lauren everyone loves you like they loved your mom. My prayers that your hearts be comforted.
II Corinthians 5:6-8 We live by faith, not by sight ... absent from the body and be present with the Lord. Amen.  
January 18, 2021
January 18, 2021
Roberta,
Oh our dear friend Berta, you left us too soon. I will miss listening to your stories about your road trips and your newest granddaughter, and entire family while waiting for your husband in the lobby of your dental appointments. Hearing you talk about all of them brought me such joy because I can see the sparkle in your eyes and the love you had for each and everyone of them. You loved so hard. Always so healthy and outgoing, so kind and so respectful. Your passing was definitely hard for me to hear about. You definitely left a lot behind and you are going to be missed dearly. Heaven has gained a thousand of angels with just your soul. May you now rest in paradise Berta. We love you .
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
Forever in my heart Roberta. Even those I haven't see you almost 20+yrs, but You Always been in my heart, Your sweet smiles and your kindness and willing to help. Thank you. Now you with the Lord. Love you and forever remember you (Sean Lee)
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
Road trips to the Wine Country, State and National Parks in California, Arizona & Utah, and Las Vegas will never be the same without you. We’ll miss your visits to the Coachella Valley and to Armando’s for Margaritas! The world was a better place with you in it. We’ll miss you forever.
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
Roberta to me was a inspiration of such a lovely lady, such a survivor and so graceful! Oh and of course beautiful and sexy lady with her fun hats, Roberta your spirit is everywhere, Live life today, choose, Love, happiness and turn all your worries to God. Praise him! Live his way Always!! We love you Sister
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
Danny and I will forever keep you in our heart ♥️ You were such a wonderful loving women. Your smile so contagious that could light up a room. I pray you Rest In Peace, you will forever be missed
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
I am missing you so much my friend. My heart is so sad here on earth. Bert, we had so many great times in 20 years, praying for our children, dancing & worshipping at ABE, cooking (& eating LOL). But I know we will be together in the Kingdom, singing & dancing for our LORD YESHUA. You are where, we who know, live to die for. In the Presence of our Creator. No more pain, no more tears.......
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
My Dearest Friend;
We have shared so many memories together, we laughed, we cried, and sometimes we drank to much.. Give "Baby Cakes" (Robert) a big hug. I am sure you will keep each other laughing. You will be missed but NEVER forgotten. Until we are all together again... Love, Barbara

January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021
Flo Mama,
I miss you so much. You are like a second mother to me. I am so blessed to have been apart of your family for the time that we had together. We had so many amazing memories that I will cherish forever. I remember when we went to Turks and Caicos for Lauren’s 40th birthday. We danced, we laughed, we celebrated life. You lit up the room every time you were in it. You are one of the most generous, kind, and loving human beings I have ever met. I am so incredibly grateful for all of the love you have given me and my entire family all of these years. Your spirit will always live on in our hearts. I know you are in a better place now but you will surely be missed. We will meet again in heaven Flo Mama. I love you. ❤️
January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021
Dearest Berta ~ Full of so much life, love, and fun, we are going to miss you and your laugh tremendously.  We shall carry you in our hearts forever! Until we meet again in Heaven, my friend...Love, Sue and Lonnie
January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021
My Beautiful Friend! You were a Great Friend to me- Thank you! Bosss Lady is what you called me but you were really The BOSS LADY! You had such Great energy my Hustler Mama!! I’ll miss Everything about you! Thank you for so many Great memories and being there for me always! Ill miss you so much! Thanks for always keeping me laughing and Sane! - You were there for so many milestones from the Birth of my First daughter to the Birth of My First Grandson!! Forever in my Heart my Angel! You’ll be missed immensely my Dancing QUEEN!❤️ Rest in Paradise!!

Love, Cindy
January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021
My dear Flo,
The short time we spent together with our daughters will forever be in my memory and heart. Your contagious smile and outgoing personality lit up the room. Your loving and caring ways were felt by everyone. You are truly missed. Rest In Peace, my friend.
Love,
Denise

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December 15, 2022
December 15, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Beautiful Berta! We miss & love you!
December 15, 2022
December 15, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven!
Missing you always, until we meet again.
Love you forever
Her Life
February 1, 2021
It was on a Wednesday, December 15, 1954 in Los Angeles, California, when Flora Luna and Robert Trejo welcomed their first-born child, Florence Roberta Trejo, into the world. Known affectionately as “Flo” and “Berta” by family and friends, she was the oldest of six siblings, with five brothers and one sister. She grew up in East Los Angeles and San Gabriel Valley where she helped care for her brothers. She graduated from Mark Keppel High School in Alhambra, California and was crowned prom Queen “Class of 1973”.

She was a proud mother of two daughters, Lauren and Raquel. They spent the majority of their lives residing in Southern California and spent a few years in the Pacific Northwest in Beaverton, Oregon. In 1998, she settled in Diamond Bar after meeting her second husband, Ray Millard, and together they built many memories there such as pool parties & sharing dinner with family and friends. In 2018, they moved to Visalia in Central California to enjoy retirement, where she enjoyed being surrounded by agriculture and spending time cooking in her dream kitchen, hanging out with friends and family, and attending to her garden.

Roberta was a woman of many skills and performed multiple roles, from office management, bookkeeping for clients, self and family-owned businesses, preparing appetizing meals and cuisines, to making handmade items such as tutus for ecommerce. She devoted most of her career in Furniture Sales and Marketing Sales as an Office Manager and pursued her entrepreneur spirit and passion by catering events.

She had a loving and giving spirit and felt enormous joy when hosting parties and events. She especially loved preparing and hosting Thanksgiving dinners to give gratitude and ensure all were blessed with a meal. She was a woman of great faith and enjoyed bible study and attending church. She was a member of Visalia First, and formerly, the Faith Community Church in West Covina. Her interests were reading, gardening, sewing, dancing, music, playing online and board games, attending sporting events, concerts, traveling across the country, and devoting time as a caregiver to family, infants, and children.

She really knew how to have a great time, especially with children. She was magnetic and so cleverly fun. She doted on every child that entered into her life and showered them with so much love. She was a delighted grandmother of eight. 

Roberta is survived by her husband Raymond Millard and their grandchildren, Kayleen Millard, Raquel Millard, Ava Foster, Isabel Millard, Hendrix Foster, Vida Millard, and Alessia Gallidoro. Surviving ex-spouse, Raymond Rodriguez, and daughters, Lauren Gallidoro and Raquel Figueroa, and stepchildren, Matthews Millard and Tracey Millard-Foster including sons-in-law, Vince Gallidoro, Manny Figueroa, Brandon Foster, and daughter-in-law, Wendy Millard.

Surviving parent and siblings: Mother, Flora Luna, brothers - Art Alvarez, Angelo Alvarez, Adrian Alvarez, Adam Rodriguez, David Trejo, and sister Bobby Lynn Duran.

Our beautiful “Roberta” showed kindness to everyone she met and was loved by many in return. We have been blessed to have had such an amazing woman in our lives. Her uplifting soul and magnetic personality is missed deeply. All the precious memories and her loving spirit will forever be in our hearts.
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Loving Step-Mom

February 8, 2021
Berta’s charm, beauty, and love for life shined through from the moment I met her. She has been a treasure to my family ever since. I remember how smitten my Dad was over her, “those eyes and that smile is everything” he says. They were inseparable from the beginning and there’s no doubt that she and Dad were destined to be together. Both of them sharing an immense love for their children and family that was mutually admired.
Berta had more than a beautiful smile and the best cooking skills…she had a cheerful spirit and her love for God was evident. A woman of incredible faith and strength. I always admired how she received all of life’s ups and downs, with so much grace. Her generosity for everyone was unwavering and abundant and her loving care warmed our hearts. All her selfless ways never went unnoticed and will forever be grateful for the time and love she gave to my grandmother when she needed it the most and at her elder age.
Together Dad and Berta, had 8 grand-children, and she had enormous love for them, actually for all children, the nieces, nephews, godchildren, even the children she babysat for. They were her pride and joy. Each week she and Dad would facetime with my kids, read stories, and play games over the screen. She was so fun-loving and she created this character "Napkin Lady" where she would place a napkin over her face, poke holes through the yes and hold it up by her mouth and change her voice, almost like Julia Childs, and the kids would break out in giggles and laughter. She truly was the best with the kids. 
It has been a blessing to have Berta as a step-mom. She was so easy-going and never caused any drama. I received nothing but love from her...always. If Dad ever fussed at her, I always had her back and stepped him. All fun, but she was too precious and amazing to give a hard time. I am thankful for having her in my life, for loving my father, for loving the family, and for loving me. I miss her voice and laughter and I will miss great moments with her, our conversations, playing games with her, like Scrabble, and just sharing space with her. She was one of a kind.

A woman of grace

February 6, 2021
Berta came to me as my sister-in-law. I have so many memories of all the fun times we have shared over the many years.  We traveled to Hawaii, Palm Springs, Las Vegas, we went skiing, sometimes just sat home watching movies, and we shared many tables at family weddings and parties.  We'd dance the night away, bring on the Gap band and we would stay on the dance floor until a song we didn't like came on. We enjoyed life and greatly enjoyed each other's company. We had the best talks. We've had last minute dinners, margaritas at the local Mexican restaurant.  BBQ's with Daddy Rays ribs and jungle juice.  I could drop by and visit anytime. At my wedding, she was like a mother figure, fluffing my wedding dressing, pinning the train at the reception, making sure everything was as it should be. She had big teased hair with glitter in it on that special day, it was the 80's. I affectionately nicknamed Berta, Mamasan. We dropped in on them last June in Visalia.  We sat around the kitchen and talked and talked, catching up. We again had one last visit shortly after that, watching that wedding video and laughing out loud at ourselves back then in the 80's. Mamasan and Daddy Ray kept the old and new families together by hosting the big Thanksgiving dinner at their home, those were great times, we've done Super Bowl, breweries, wineries and so much more.  Berta and Ray put family first, old, new and extended. I cherish the memories we shared. It will always bring a smile to my face, a laugh for my soul and a tingle to my heart.  Thank you Mamasan for bringing so much laughter and joy to my life. I've got it all here in my heart. 

Thinking of you - Missing you mamasan. 

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