Lee met Lucrezia on a blind date. Lou always noted she remembered that she thought, "Oh, man, I got stuck with the kid!" Lee was very skinny and looked very young at the time. Lee pulled up in his little MG to a very rundown looking house in Black Oak, IN, and thought, "Who the heck lives here in this horrible place?," as it was a very poor home of a single mother (Mary Taylor). Lee was so surprised, and stunned when he first saw Lou. Despite the initial impression, they hit it off right away. When Lee was ready to leave for the Navy, he told Lou, "I would never ask anyone to wait for me." She stubbornly replied, "Good. Because I'd never wait." (awkward silence...) "So...will you wait for me?" "YES!"
Lee and Lou were married on a very cold day on January 4, 1958. The water pipes were frozen in the small church. Lou cried because the decorations were supposed to be salmon pink and black, but were orange and black, which she thought looked like Halloween. Her wedding dress was too big, and Lee had to hold it bunched up in the back in all the photos.
Through richer and poorer, sickness and health, they stood side by side until her passing in February 2011. No doubt, they are dancing cheek to cheek to "In the Mood" and other heavenly played Big Band favorites.