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FRED PAUL DAVIS “Coach Davis”, a longtime wrestling coach, passed away Friday, July 24th, 2020. He was 86.

Fred was a three-time All-American at Oklahoma A&M from 1954-56. In addition, he captured the Individual NCAA Wrestling Championship in 1955, second place in 1956, and fourth place in 1954.

After he closed out his successful collegiate career, he started teaching which was a real passion and love of Fred’s and at a young age he helped open McLain High School in Tulsa and started the wrestling program.

In 1964, Fred left his home state of Oklahoma to assume the head coaching position at Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. He spent 20 years at the helm of the Cougar wrestling program where he coached 18 All-Americans and 59 Western Athletic Conference champions. BYU claimed the conference championship in 15 of his 20 seasons, and it finished runner-up four times.

BYU had its best finish in program history in 1973 when Fred guided the Cougars to fourth place at the NCAA Championships. He was honored as the NCAA Coach of the Year for his efforts. That same year he served as president of the National Wrestling Coaches Association.

BYU finished sixth in 1978, its only other top-10 finish in school history. Fred resigned from the helm of the BYU program in 1984 so that he could return to Tulsa and spend time with his aging mother.

He returned to teaching and took over the wrestling program at Bishop Kelley High School in 1984. Fred coached five state champions during his tenure at Bishop Kelley and led the Red Comets to a state runner-up finish in 1986. Fred retired from coaching and teaching in 1999. 

Fred was preceded in death by his parents; sisters, Eva, Greta and Libby; and stepdaughter, Desiree.  Fred is survived by his wife of 36 years, Deon.  Children, Tannaca Wright, DaNette Aziere and Fred P. Davis III. Stepchildren, Sandy, Bobbi, Jenny and Mandy.  Sister, Sue Berg, Grandchildren, Fred, Cole, ReAnnon, Kelly, Corby, Casey, Shane, Zack, Dovey, Daphne, Daniel, Dunkin, Emily, Lindsay, Isaac and Samuel.  

Fred will be remembered for his kind and patient ways, his contagious laugh, funny expressions and stories, his tenacity, for being the person who looked out for others first, fairness, love for westerns, big heart, strong voice, work ethic, love for his family and friends, class, incredible tan, sweet tooth, long bike rides and drives, gratitude for big and small things, perfect lawn, ability to see potential in people who didn't see it in themselves - and for positively impacting so many lives.  

July 31, 2020
July 31, 2020
I wrestled at Bishop Kelley in 1986 and 1987 for Coach Davis. He was in my corner when I won my only state championship. Through his guidance, I was introduced to and recruited by Alan Albright, Fred’s coaching successor at Brigham Young University, where I obtained my undergraduate degree. Coach Davis made a strong impression on me during a critical phase in my life. He was a terrific individual with incredible integrity, who helped me to mature. In a lifetime of experiences, it is rare to be able to connect a single event or individual directly to your choices and your destiny, but that is true of my time with Coach Davis. Without his contributing influence, I may not have continued wrestling or even gone to college, but he helped me do both at BYU, which created the opportunity for me to go to law school.

I have four short stories that relate to Coach Fred:

1. Milkshakes. We (Coach Davis, Keith Nix and I) had an almost daily bet in the Fall of 1986 over how far/how long Keith Nix and I could walk around the wrestling room on our hands. The loser owed the winner a milkshake during the lunch hour, which Coach Davis monitored. Keith had tremendous balance and strength. After a while, the game got out of hand when Keith upped the ante to include the winner (Keith and I) getting to use Coach Davis’ car on weekends.
2. Fairness. When I arrived at BYU in the fall of 1988, the culture Fred had created in the wrestling program was apparent. Most of the athletes knew him or knew of him. He had recruited some. They were high character people, and their attitude towards competitive fairness reminded me of him. Our connection to Coach Davis eased my transition.
3. BYU. In the days before Instagram or YouTube, recruiting was largely word of mouth, especially in minor sports. BYU would not have recruited me without Coach Davis' support and input. Not only did he help connect me to the school, but he convinced Coach Albright that my skill set was worth a valuable scholarship, which was a necessity for me. During my freshman year at BYU, when success was often hard to find, he continued to encourage me to develop and grow, which helped me improve.
4. Powerhouse. During our lunchtime conversations over milkshakes, we asked him about his middle name – we only knew of the initial “P.” He would not tell us, so we guessed and guessed, especially when we learned that he was from Waldo, Arkansas. In response, I recall that he always smiled and replied that the “P” in Fred Paul was for “Powerhouse.” He was right.

My prayers and blessings to all of Coach Davis' family.

July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Fred was such an amazing man and a great administrator! At Bishop Kelley, he was patient but firm with the students and they respected him and had great fondness for him. He always had a smile on his face for everyone he met! He was such a help to me in my classroom and so easy to talk to and I always enjoyed our visits! Fred also helped me learn how to drive a school bus! So many memories! Peace and consolation to the family!
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
I remember Fred so well - how could anyone forget Fred Davis..? Such a nice person who I always liked seeing and being around - and looked forward to seeing again. I am especially grateful for how nice and supportive he was to my father, the former wrestling coach at Will Rogers High School, who was a bit of a mentor to Fred. Dad thought the world of Fred and enjoyed being with him for all those years they knew each other. Fred's a great loss to all those who knew him - and I am just glad I got to be in that lucky group..!  July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Fred was Dean of Students at Bishop Kelley when I began working there in 1996. Fred helped me become a better teacher by showing me the best ways to relate to students. He was a friendly but firm and fair Dean and the students really respected him for that. I saw Fred interact with students on a daily basis and he was the utmost professional. What a great guy.
July 27, 2020
July 27, 2020
For 36 years, I had the privilege of calling Fred my stepfather. From the day I met him, I adored him. He was so kind, attentive and fun! Although we lived far apart, I have so many great memories with him during my visits, from riding through the mountains in his convertible with my sisters (and him letting us sit up high in the back), family bike rides, playing croquet in the backyard, road trips, climbing the 'Y' on the mountain in Provo and countless story telling and conversations while sipping on his best homemade iced tea. He referred to me as Jenny-Lee, Ida-belle and he was forever Fredaluffagus. 

I was always amazed (but not surprised) at the many, many lives he touched in his community - through his passion of being a wrestling coach, to his students at school and his huge love for his family.

I will never forget his distinct laugh, strong voice and can almost hear him now, say 'gee-manee' or 'well I'll be darned'.

Fred will be missed, but never forgotten.
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
Fred was a great father in law and role model, who instilled a deep sense of family pride in his children. Fred was dignified, He had a very classy persona, with strong outspoken views and beliefs that commanded the respect I felt for him. The powerful ties he had with his family will never be undone. I hope they will lend Aid and comfort in his passing. My love and prayers go out for a family and friends who will miss him greatly. I was blessed to know the man and am grateful to have been A small part of his life.
Farewell my friend.
July 25, 2020
July 25, 2020
Coach Davis was not only my Coach but he was a great friend. We have stayed in touch ever since he and Deon moved to back to Oklahoma. Coach was a great teacher and Coach. I had the privilege of being his assistant Coach. He would pull little pranks on me that as a wrestler you wouldn't see. He had a great sense of humor. He always was there to pull me out of a jam when my car or truck broke down, which was often . Love the man, he will truly be missed.

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July 31, 2020
July 31, 2020
I wrestled at Bishop Kelley in 1986 and 1987 for Coach Davis. He was in my corner when I won my only state championship. Through his guidance, I was introduced to and recruited by Alan Albright, Fred’s coaching successor at Brigham Young University, where I obtained my undergraduate degree. Coach Davis made a strong impression on me during a critical phase in my life. He was a terrific individual with incredible integrity, who helped me to mature. In a lifetime of experiences, it is rare to be able to connect a single event or individual directly to your choices and your destiny, but that is true of my time with Coach Davis. Without his contributing influence, I may not have continued wrestling or even gone to college, but he helped me do both at BYU, which created the opportunity for me to go to law school.

I have four short stories that relate to Coach Fred:

1. Milkshakes. We (Coach Davis, Keith Nix and I) had an almost daily bet in the Fall of 1986 over how far/how long Keith Nix and I could walk around the wrestling room on our hands. The loser owed the winner a milkshake during the lunch hour, which Coach Davis monitored. Keith had tremendous balance and strength. After a while, the game got out of hand when Keith upped the ante to include the winner (Keith and I) getting to use Coach Davis’ car on weekends.
2. Fairness. When I arrived at BYU in the fall of 1988, the culture Fred had created in the wrestling program was apparent. Most of the athletes knew him or knew of him. He had recruited some. They were high character people, and their attitude towards competitive fairness reminded me of him. Our connection to Coach Davis eased my transition.
3. BYU. In the days before Instagram or YouTube, recruiting was largely word of mouth, especially in minor sports. BYU would not have recruited me without Coach Davis' support and input. Not only did he help connect me to the school, but he convinced Coach Albright that my skill set was worth a valuable scholarship, which was a necessity for me. During my freshman year at BYU, when success was often hard to find, he continued to encourage me to develop and grow, which helped me improve.
4. Powerhouse. During our lunchtime conversations over milkshakes, we asked him about his middle name – we only knew of the initial “P.” He would not tell us, so we guessed and guessed, especially when we learned that he was from Waldo, Arkansas. In response, I recall that he always smiled and replied that the “P” in Fred Paul was for “Powerhouse.” He was right.

My prayers and blessings to all of Coach Davis' family.

July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Fred was such an amazing man and a great administrator! At Bishop Kelley, he was patient but firm with the students and they respected him and had great fondness for him. He always had a smile on his face for everyone he met! He was such a help to me in my classroom and so easy to talk to and I always enjoyed our visits! Fred also helped me learn how to drive a school bus! So many memories! Peace and consolation to the family!
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
I remember Fred so well - how could anyone forget Fred Davis..? Such a nice person who I always liked seeing and being around - and looked forward to seeing again. I am especially grateful for how nice and supportive he was to my father, the former wrestling coach at Will Rogers High School, who was a bit of a mentor to Fred. Dad thought the world of Fred and enjoyed being with him for all those years they knew each other. Fred's a great loss to all those who knew him - and I am just glad I got to be in that lucky group..!  July 28, 2020
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July 24, 2023
I was just recalling Freds house in Orem and the time we left Jesse in the house. We come back to find the Christmas tree totally dismantled with all the bulbs crushed.and the time that dog bailed out the second floor window. Or how it would climb the 6' foot chain-link fence.

The Indian

July 25, 2020
The Indian...We always called him that! He actually liked it!
He came to California on a recruiting trip to watch one of my matches. First time I met Fred we became instant friends. I was recruited by every major wrestling school in the country, I chose BYU because of Coach Davis. I was on the team when Fred was named NCAA National Coach of the year.  We as a team were so proud for Coach he deserved it,we took 4th in the NCAA just above Okie State!. I could write volumes about Coach, all the people he helped, all the lessons we learned all the good times we had. I will miss him dearly.He was my coach, my mentor and my dear friend. Until we meet again coach. God be with you

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