I say Adieu and Good Night Uncle Fred Coker, sleep on in the bosom of the Almighty God till we all meet again up yonder at resurrection morning, I am very sure you have heard the Good-morning welcoming greetings from the heavenly hosts and the angels beckoning you to the very presence of God, your Maker who has chosen to called you home to Himself, to take your place closer to Him.✝️
We love you but God love you more and He will strengthen and comfort your precious sweet wife and excellently beautiful wonderful children: Seyi, Morenike and Fope and your amazing grandchildren to whom they will forever miss you, with the memories of your love and funny faces you have shared with them.
I also ask the same strength and comfort for your siblings, the entire family of the Cokers’ and all the Adesola’s family, in Jesus Mighty Name.
I pray that your demised will only draw us more closer to God, and learn to number our days: Psalm 90:12. The Earth is the marketplace and Heaven is our eternal home. Rest on in perfect peace, uncle Fred. God’s Beloved that you truly are!✝️

Shalom ☮️
Reverend Lucy❤️

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Fredo (as l fondly call you) had been close friends with me and my twin brother since our youthful days at Alagomeji, Yaba.
In fact, when l spoke with him on the last Saturday before his passing, little did l know that would be our last conversation. His voice was so clear and vibrant that l did not suspect the end was near.
As the saying goes "Friendship transends death. Memories made will never be forgotten, creating a lasting impression on those they left behind".
I cannot forget the exciting moments and outings (too numerous to mention) that we had together over the years. Fredo would be truly missed.
My prayers are with his loving and dedicated wife, Jummy, their children (Seyi, Morenike & Fope), grandchildren as well as his siblings.
May God continue to be your carer and shield you all from any harm.

Fredo! Sad to hear of your demise. Our association from our Alagomeji days still very fresh in our memories. May your soul find profound solace in the bosom of the Lord. May HE also comfort Jumoke and the kids. Amen!

Uncle Fred,
I was very sad to hear of your passing. Thank God for the life you lived and blessings that came through you. I pray that the wonderful attributes you instilled in Seyi, Morenike and Fope will live on and that Aunty Jumoke would remember the great times with you and be comforted.

Rest in perfect peace.

Uncle Fred

Gone too soon. Gone gloriously to meet with the Lord God.

We were shocked and are saddened by the news of your passing to eternal glory.

You were a devoted, loving and caring husband to our dear cousin, sister Jumoke, a wonderful father to Seyi (Junior), Morenike and Fope and a doting grandfather.

Our solace is knowing that you are in a better place and at peace.

May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen

Sister Jumoke, may the Good Lord console and comfort you, the children and the entire family. May God give you the strength to bear this great loss. Amen

Children of HB Ogunbayo (Toyin, Yinka, Moyo, Tope & Akin)

Sir Fred Coker as I used to call you. A great inspiration to me growing up in Alagomeji. Very respectful, immaculate and caring. I mourn your loss and surely we shall meet again.

FC,
I want to hold, very dearly, the pleasant and exciting moments shared together and wish you peace as you continue your journey to the glorious eternity.
May the love of God continue to abide with Jumoke and the Children.

Freddie!! OMG, I never saw this coming. You gained his wings and flew away to be with your Maker. You fought a great fight, but God has a great plan. Words seem inadequate to express the sorrow felt by your loss. Fred, may your dignified soul rest peacefully with your creator.

The news of your passing on came as a shock to us. Oh death, where thy sting? But thanks be to God who has given you victory. Your sense of fun, humour and smile will be missed by many. A brother, a friend, a gentleman, Freddo, we remember you fondly, and you’ll never be forgotten. Rest in the peace of the Lord, in that mansion in the sky where neither moth nor rust can destroy.
Soji & Bose Oguntonade

There were special moments in our lives that will last forever! Such moments to hold on to for a very long time. Those moments of discussions on leadership, business, family, The Oak Tree School, C.M.S Grammar School will always be that moment. You loved life and enjoyed it when you had the time. You always had a story to tell me and book authors on emotional inteligence to share. May your soul continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord. Up School!

I was shocked,very sad and heartbroken when l heard that you passed away. You were a very kind and gentle, God loving friendly man. May God Almighty bless, protect guide your wife, children, grandchildren and the rest of the family that you left behind.
We love you but God Almighty loves you more.
My dear friend continue to sleep in the Lord. Till we meet and part no more

Gentleman Fred, it was a rude and shocking news to hear of your demise. Eternal rest Almighty God will grant your noble soul. It's really hard to know that I won't see you forever again. But the consolation is that I will remember the moments we shared. Sleep on beloved Fred till resurrection morning.
You will be sorely missed.

It was really a very shocking news when I got the message about the demise of Mr. Fred Coker. However, knows all things. He will be greatly missed. Our consolation goes with the beloved wife who will definitely miss him beyond words. May God grant everyone the fortitude to bear the loss. It's also a lesson for the living to be prepared at all times. Adieu.....

Uncle Fred

We were indeed in shock and pain when we learnt of your passing. You were a great uncle to me and a ray of light to all that come in contact with you : always ready to advice about all aspects of life including interviews, family relationships, marriage etc. Francis and myself will miss you deeply. We will also miss your joyful personality which always brought with it hope. God be will you and may your soul rests in perfect peace!

My dearest Sis Jummy - We pray that the God of all comfort who is the Balm of Gilead will heal your heart and comfort you on every side. May He also meet you at the point of your need at this time.

We will keep you and your family in prayers as I cannot believe that we are writing this condolence - it happened too soon but the scripture makes it clear that "It is well with you all" - May His grace and peace keep you. Amen!

Dear Fred my prayers is for your gentle soul to rest in perfect peace in heaven
Im was so so sorry to hear about your passing The 8th of July will never be the same without your firework displays around your darling wife and children You was loved by many and will be miss so much, dear brother always look back and never stop to send helpers to your family good bye

It was a shock to me to read on ROGA '75 Platform of the passing on of Fred Cooker, who happens to be husband to Jumoke and a cousin to Francesca both my classmate at Reagan Memorial. Fred has run the race and finished well. We love him but God loves him most . May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace amen. May the Lord console all his loved ones and grant them peace amen  Yeye Lola Doherty. NEE Raimi.

Dearest Fred,
Lost for words.
Rest in peace.
Memories of our youth will always stay with me especially the parties you had at Nana's.
Till we meet again.
God loves you more.

Uncle Fred, My soul bleeds on your passing.
Tears still run down my eyes as I write these words. I remembered very vividly your constructive and helpful input during Motunrayo’s christening, not mentioning several other happy encounters during such a fulfilled life. May your soul continue to rest in peace in Jesus’ Mighty Amen.

Sometimes in life, you meet some people, thinking you’re friends, then family stories start and then the link as families begin.
I had known coz Fred in the Alagomeji earlier and then through his aunt, Mrs Bose Sakutu, the Saro connection clicked!
We were also together in England in the early 80s and his wife Jumoke had been my childhood friend.
I met Jumoke again a few years ago in Nigeria and it was as if we had never parted! My horror was when I got Jummy’s message on the 9th.
Ore, I can only pray that the Lord comforts and consoles you, the children, grandchildren and other family members along with friends left behind. May the Lord grant Fred a peaceful rest in Him in Jesus Christ mighty name amen 

When a close friend unexpectedly leaves us, a piece of our heart is forever broken, we feel cheated in life, life doesn’t play fair, but then, memories which is an asset never to be taken away, are there to remind us of things that have gone before, you forever live in my heart Fred, sleep on dear friend, we shall meet again at Jesus’ feet.
May God Almighty give you Jummy and the children the fortitude to bear this great loss and may He comfort you and all loved ones left behind too.

Oh Uncle Fred.... I can't help but feel so for your passing. I had hoped, prayed for a miracle, that somehow you would wake up. You were a good Friend to my late Husband, Sola. You always treated me with such respect, always such a Gentle Man. I hear your voice calling my name in that your boisterous fashion. You called me 'Ajumi jama' & it always made me laugh. I saw you last when you came for your Friend & Brother, Sola's Burial in March, 2020. I'm so sad that it was the last time we saw. You told me then how you weren't feeling well.. But I didn't know how serious.. You will be missed always Uncle Fredo(My own name for you). I pray that you find eternal rest in Heaven with the Saints & Angels. I'm consoled that you are now with your Brother, my beloved Husband Sola Olabanji, & I know you both will take care of each other... Rest on in perfect Peace, Uncle Fredo..
My dear Aunty Jumoke, I pray that you find peace in your Heart, knowing that Uncle Fred is resting now, away from all the pain.. It is well Aunty me.. God will continually uphold you & the Children, in Jesus Christ's Amazing Name...
Adieu Uncle Fredo...

My Egbon Fred. What a rude shock to learn of such extremely sad story. Even though it’s been ages, I still remember how our paths crossed each other in a Hackney Council Neighborhood Office, London in the mid-nineties and we hit it straight away, as if we have known for decades. May your gentle and humble soul RIP Freddo and May God give sister Jummy, your beautiful kids, families and friends the fortitude to bear the loss. A great guy to the core and forever positive. Bless your soul. You always called me Kintorrrrrrrr. SO SAD THAT THE GOOD ONES GO QUICK, OUR GOD KNOWS BEST.

Thank God for your life.I pray your soul rest in perfect peace Amen.

My dear cousin and friend Fred, I am beside myself with grief of loosing you so soon and the fact that I'm only getting to know about your passing today. Why you, why is death so wicked and unfair.
Baba Seyi as I fondly called you, how can I forget your loving and jovial personality. Your love for your family both immediate and extended. My kids will never forget their uncle Baba Seyi.
The entire Coker family of Iporo Ake will never forget their beautiful and loving son. Sun re o Iporo mokan loran, moron lase.........
May God comfort your wife Jummy and your 3 lovely children and grand child.
Adieu Fred, adieu my brother, adieu my friend.

I met Fred and Jummy about thirty years ago. Fred was a very good fellow always so cheerful and welcoming.. Their home in London was my second home each time I visited. We could discuss so many issues, laughing and dancing. There was never a dull moment with you.
Fred may your soul rest in peace.
My sister Jumoke may d Lord comfort u and the children.

Uncle Fred, your joke your sense of humour is hilarious with your bubbling personality you will surely be with miss, may God Almighty protect and be with sister Jumoke and children you left behind, may your gentle soul continue to rest in bossom of God almighty

love always
Enny

Egbon Fred … the news about your passing came as a great surprise!
As we were all praying for a positive outcome! But God Almighty had his plans and He alone knows Best!!
You will be sorely missed by family and friends.
I pray that God will comfort and strengthen Aunty Jumoke, the children and the larger Coker family.
Adieu Bros… rest on in peace.

Wow Fred who won't miss you? You warmed up to people always cracking jokes and never a dull moment with you. Such a loving father to the children and wonderful husband to Jumoke. You always greeted me with warmth and chatted like we had known each other for ever. Even my mum was not excluded from your warmth. May your soul rest in peace. Adieu. May God comfort Jumoke and the children.

Uncle Fred rest in perfect peace. You will be missed.

Uncle Fred,
My Cousin-in-law via Mrs. Franca COLE
Beloved husband to my dear Senior, Jumoke Adesola,

Recollections...
Of your kindness, reliability and open-door, unscripted policy.
No time was too late (as in late-late!) nor too early, to tap into your care.
No weekend was a bother for a game of tennis, a banter or just an evening cycle over: knowing there'll be arms open wide.
No situation, in times of urgent emergency unravelled you.
Thank you... xxx
And who can forget the conversations, the debates, on passionate topics... as we women enjoyed the heat or hid away in the kitchen on a different kind of heat.
But to learn that even your final rites and the detail therein, had been scripted by your good self, is so truly you! You have the final say Big Brov! Always. Lol!
You will be sorely missed by Sis Jummy, the children and Grand children, your entire Family, including the COLE Family and so many more.
Who knows the time of a man?

Till then,
Uncle Fred, Rest from your pains, in His Glory.
S&N Fadipe

Uncle Fred,

All I can think of right now is you dancing and always being filled with soo much joy. We have peace in knowing that you are resting beside the Lord.

Love you

Uncle Fred my in-law you fought the good fight of faith, my sincere condolences to the family resurrection remains our hope, pray God Almighty to comfort the family.

Dear Uncle Fred, i remember your warmth and smile.. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Amen.. May God comfort and strengthen your family. Adieu

Fred Oluseyi Coker

Fred, Jumoke and I were classmates at the Lagos University Staff School at some point between 1966 and 1969. We met again later in life in London in the early nineteen-eighties. My initial memory of Fred is of a jocular fellow who did not take himself or life itself too seriously. But, my deeper reflection brings up a very deep and honest person. Why?

In our twenties, at some garden reception in London, Fred pulls up a chair to tell me exactly why he did not like me! You can imagine my shock. To crown it, I learned that there were fellow offenders who may not yet know that Fred did not like them either. I listened carefully, made my peace and that matter was settled. How did I land in the category?

In the sixties, the Lagos University Staff School was started to educate children of the staff of the new higher institution. School Fees were £64 per child per annum. However, you could also attend the school if neither parent was on the staff, for the princely sum of £72 per annum. (It was Fred that had the facts, not I.)

Our rather successful class was led academically by 4 people - Angela OmoDare, Abiodun Eke, Femi Fajemisin and guess who? Morin Babalola. The 1st, 2nd and 3rd positions were exchanged between us willy-nilly in mid-term and term-end reports.

Fred was not so fortunate to be in the first pack, and neither was he running in the wider middle pack. Apparently, a few terms with the lagging pack caused his father to explain to him why at £72 per annum, he could not continue to fund this expensive education while Fred watched the girls winning. He was withdrawn and placed in a Government primary school - the name my mind has deleted.

I was rather amused but taken aback. We had a small audience whom I do not remember but Jumoke was nearby. How had he harbored such animosity? I rallied, and quickly appreciated his candour and eventual unpacking of the baggage. I traded a few stories of my academic stumbles along the way to appease him. The ground was leveled and we became rather great friends! 

Jumoke and I have been sisters from birth at Igbobi College where our fathers worked together. On to Staff School and together again at Reagan Memorial Baptist Girls’ Secondary School. We have had no rifts and have stayed sisters along the lanes of life.

I describe Jumoke and Fred as Childhood Sweethearts and say their story runs parallel to Niyi Adebayo and Angela DaSilva. Schoolmates from elementary school who marry and stay married. You are an inspiration to us, to our children and grandchildren. You prove that it is possible to have a lifelong friend.

Jumoke, you will miss Fred dearly but God will walk beside you and give you grace for each new morning. Your blessings together and the memories you made will heal you and give you joy, Amen.

Travel on Dear Fred, and may we all meet on the Resurrection morning, Amen.

Sùn Re,
Ọ̀rẹ́ mi ọ̀wọ́n,
Mọ́rìn Babalolá Désálù

Igbobi College Citizen 1959
Lagos University Staff School 1969
Reagan Memorial Baptist Girls’ Secondary School 1974

Fred coco
That’s your name forever. I can’t believe you are gone but last time I saw you you insisted on being the great host you always were despite your health challenges . We ended up reminiscing on our youthful days especially with you and Jumoke and the Harvist Road flat
Well this is Rosy cheeks saying goodbye but praising God that I knew you as a gentle soul who loved Jumoke unconditionally. I pray for Gods protection over her and the children and that you rest in perfect peace with God .
Final words : Shekinabo fun won o

Uncle Fred continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord. May God grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss.

Uncle Fred! We miss you so much. I know you are resting well now, and you can rest assured that we'll be here for Morenike, Fope, Seyi and Aunty Jumoke. I hope to 'catch you at the cinema' when we meet again, as you said to Kunmi and I the last time we saw you. Rest in Peace Uncle. You are forever in our hearts.

Coker is my cousin! Fred that was a joke between us! You will be greatly missed, but we thank God you are in heaven: to live is Christ and to die is gain; to depart to be with Christ is far better (Php.1.21-23). God will continue to comfort, strengthen & protect Jumoke, Morenike, Seyi , inlaws & grandchildren & all we your classmates & fellow grammarians in Jesus Name

Adieu Coker with love. Your love for people is high.

From Olasunmbo Kuye Philadelphia Pa USA:
Met Uncle Fred when my senior brother Arch Festus Olukayode Kuye (turned 60 in January 2020) married to Moyosore Ogunbayo Niece of Uncle Fred's wife, Sister Jumoke. Uncle Fred attended the birthday party till around midnight before he went home that day with his wife. My ist encounter relationship with him and last in this lifetime journey. It was a great and remarkable moment. We never stopped laughing that day. Love you ever. Sending love energy to all your loved ones. May the blessings be.