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Gary Rich Pearson (Papa-Jack) age 76 of Dayton passed away on Friday February 24,2023 at Miami Valley Hospital surrounded by his Wife and Sons.
Gary is preceded in death by his parents Joseph and Elizabeth Pearson, Daughter Courtney (2000), Son Reis (2017)  Brother in Law Johnny Goldick ( Batman) 2014, Brother in law Mike Smith (2019).
Gary is survived by his Wife and Best friend of 24 years Deborah Pearson (Rose) (Goldick). They met in 1998 and wed April 22, 1999. Sons Dylan Rich Pearson, Stephen Sparkman both at home. Daughter Danielle Sparkman, Son in Law Jared Jones, Grandsons Devan Smith and Jaden Jones all of Columbus. Mother and Father in Law, Anita and Charles Good of Dayton. Sister in laws Christine Hedrick (Randy) Cindy Goldick Smith of Dayton. Brother in laws Jerry Goldick (Judy) of Schertz Texas, Joseph Goldick (Dayton), Jimmy Goldick (Hillsboro). Gary is also survived by Many Nieces, Nephews and  Friends. Special Nieces Missy Fecher (Todd) of Dayton, Jessica Smith of Columbus.  Special long time Friends Brian and Stephanie Massing of Wilmington.  His Furry Friend Stripey.
Gary was born in Detroit Michigan December 22, 1946. He graduated from Clarkston High school in 1965. He was a Navy Veteran with an Honorable discharge in 1973, serving in the Vietnam War. 
Gary moved to Ohio in1983. He spent his career as car sales manager at White Allen, Kettering Motors (where he was working when he met his wife), Paydays of Kettering and Matt Castrucci Kia where he retired in 2010. Gary received Many awards and achievements during his years in the automobile business.
Gary Loved Sports, Especially Football, Michigan Wolverines (Go Blue). He Loved spending Sundays with Son Stephen and Mother in Law Anita watching the Bengals and eating shrimp. He Loved fishing with his Sons Dylan and Stephen. He Loved Talking to daughter Danielle and Son in law Jared Always willing to give them advice. He Loved watching his Grandsons Devan and Jaden growing into amazing young men. He absolutely adored his Family!
Gary Loved his family vacations with his wife Deborah and son Dylan to Oscoda Michigan (God's Country) where they went every summer (Gary since the age of 2). Gary Loved fishing on the Ausable River and enjoying the Sun and Sand of Lake (Ocean) Huron. They have developed a "Special  Michigan" family over the years. They have many  "Oscoda"  traditions which will be carried on by Deborah and Dylan as Gary wanted them to do.
Gary Loved Music and Music trivia, especially Bruce Springstein. He also Loved drinking his Miller Lite, but above all else, he Loved his Family the Most.
Gary has a Heart of gold, and a Unique sense of humor always trying to make people laugh. 
He will be Deeply Missed, Never Forgotten, Forever Loved.  
The Family will have a Private Memorial at a later date: Beer, Bruce (Springstein) and Barbecue as Gary wanted.
Donations may be made on venmo @s-sparkman-2 or cash app $Sparkman02   to help his wife and family with future finances.
To Honor Gary drink a Miller lite, Play Bruce Springstein "Born to Run" and Remember his Beautiful Smile, His Charismatic Voice and what a Unique, Amazing, Great man he was.
"GO BLUE"
" I Love You Jack, I'll Never Let Go!" Rose
May 3, 2023
May 3, 2023
Gary, you’ve been there for a lot of big moments in my life. My graduation, me getting my first job, getting my driver license and more importantly seeing my bucs win 2 super bowls and my Braves win the world series. Weekends won’t be the same without you. Watching football, tracking our favorite high school players through college and seeing them in the pros. Remembering and telling each other odd stats, and of course getting all the Pat mahomes and Shohei Ohtani updates. (he’s having a crazy season btw, easily the best player in baseball). Some of my best memories have you in them. Our fishing trips, our hypothetical discussions, our Top 10 lists, the movie theatre trips, the father’s day Tigers game we watched Max Scherzer pitch, and all of the crazy sports moments that left us in absolute shock… Glenn rice’s shot, FSU’s comeback against Auburn and the punt block(sorry) against Michigan came to mind instantly. I can’t thank you enough for all you’ve done for me and our family. I really wish we could’ve made more memories, but I’ll always cherish the ones we did. Things will never quite feel the same, I’ll really miss you and I’m proud to have been your stepson
April 28, 2023
April 28, 2023
There isn’t really much I can say that I haven’t already expressed. You were the one who created and raised me, Who taught me how to be a man, And what it means to be there for your family. I’m sad and angry that you were taken so soon, and that you’ll never be able to see my live up to my full potential. You won’t be here to see me graduate, You won’t be here to see me kick ass in Muay Thai like I always told you I would, You won’t be able to see me get my own place, And you won’t be able to meet my first child when they’re eventually born. But it’s okay, Because I know no matter what you were proud to call me your son, and you’d be proud of whatever I do. I know we had our fights and our differences, But at the end of the day you’re still my dad and no one can ever take that away from me. Some days without you are really hard, The house feels so empty without you in it and the family feels like it’s missing something. Some days I cry in private, Other days I hide my pain and keep it inside so no one sees it. I couldn’t have asked for a better father or role model, And despite all our differences, I always looked up to you. Nothing and no one can fill the void in my heart and my life that’s been there since you passed away, But I’ll always do my best to make you proud and be the best me I can be. I hope I’ll get to see you again someday, And I hope you’re keeping Reis company up there. No matter what I achieve or accomplish, I’ll always be thinking of you in the back of my mind. I love you pops, And don’t you ever forget it.
March 28, 2023
March 28, 2023
MY LOVE GARY (JACK-PAPA). MY HEART IS FOREVER BROKEN. YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND, MY TRUE LOVE, MY HUSBAND. WE HAVE HAD 25 YEARS OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, UNFORGETTABLE MEMORIES, LAUGHS, TEARS, HAPPY AND SAD TIMES, TOGETHER WE MADE IT THROUGH ALL OF IT. I WILL CHERISH EACH AND EVERY MOMENT THAT I HAVE HAD WITH YOU. YOU WILL BE WITH ME EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE. WE ARE TOGETHER FOREVER! I LOVE YOU EVERY DAY WITH ALL OF MY HEART! I WROTE YOU A LETTER THAT I WILL READ TO YOU IN PRIVATE, JUST FOR YOU AND I, JACK AND ROSE. THE LOVE YOU HAVE GIVEN ME HAS GIVEN ME STRENGHTH TO DO THINGS I NEVER THOUGHT I COULD. JULY 18,1998 WHEN YOU WALKED INTO PEPPERS SPORTS BAR I KNEW THERE WAS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU, I DIDNT KNOW WHAT IT WAS, BUT NOW I DO, LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. YOU ALWAYS SAID TO ME "YOU COMPLETE ME", MY LOVE YOU COMPLETE ME TOO. I WILL SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE THINKING ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY AND THINKING OF ALL THE AMAZING FUN TIMES AND THINGS WE DID TOGETHER, REMEMBERING ALL OF OUR PRECIOUS MEMORIES. TO ME OUR LOVE STORY IS THE BEST AND IT ALWAYS WILL BE. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN ( AND WE WILL),
I LOVE YOU JACK, I'LL NEVER LET GO, ROSE (YOUR WIFE FOREVER, DEBORAH)
                                 

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May 3, 2023
May 3, 2023
Gary, you’ve been there for a lot of big moments in my life. My graduation, me getting my first job, getting my driver license and more importantly seeing my bucs win 2 super bowls and my Braves win the world series. Weekends won’t be the same without you. Watching football, tracking our favorite high school players through college and seeing them in the pros. Remembering and telling each other odd stats, and of course getting all the Pat mahomes and Shohei Ohtani updates. (he’s having a crazy season btw, easily the best player in baseball). Some of my best memories have you in them. Our fishing trips, our hypothetical discussions, our Top 10 lists, the movie theatre trips, the father’s day Tigers game we watched Max Scherzer pitch, and all of the crazy sports moments that left us in absolute shock… Glenn rice’s shot, FSU’s comeback against Auburn and the punt block(sorry) against Michigan came to mind instantly. I can’t thank you enough for all you’ve done for me and our family. I really wish we could’ve made more memories, but I’ll always cherish the ones we did. Things will never quite feel the same, I’ll really miss you and I’m proud to have been your stepson
April 28, 2023
April 28, 2023
There isn’t really much I can say that I haven’t already expressed. You were the one who created and raised me, Who taught me how to be a man, And what it means to be there for your family. I’m sad and angry that you were taken so soon, and that you’ll never be able to see my live up to my full potential. You won’t be here to see me graduate, You won’t be here to see me kick ass in Muay Thai like I always told you I would, You won’t be able to see me get my own place, And you won’t be able to meet my first child when they’re eventually born. But it’s okay, Because I know no matter what you were proud to call me your son, and you’d be proud of whatever I do. I know we had our fights and our differences, But at the end of the day you’re still my dad and no one can ever take that away from me. Some days without you are really hard, The house feels so empty without you in it and the family feels like it’s missing something. Some days I cry in private, Other days I hide my pain and keep it inside so no one sees it. I couldn’t have asked for a better father or role model, And despite all our differences, I always looked up to you. Nothing and no one can fill the void in my heart and my life that’s been there since you passed away, But I’ll always do my best to make you proud and be the best me I can be. I hope I’ll get to see you again someday, And I hope you’re keeping Reis company up there. No matter what I achieve or accomplish, I’ll always be thinking of you in the back of my mind. I love you pops, And don’t you ever forget it.
March 28, 2023
March 28, 2023
MY LOVE GARY (JACK-PAPA). MY HEART IS FOREVER BROKEN. YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND, MY TRUE LOVE, MY HUSBAND. WE HAVE HAD 25 YEARS OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, UNFORGETTABLE MEMORIES, LAUGHS, TEARS, HAPPY AND SAD TIMES, TOGETHER WE MADE IT THROUGH ALL OF IT. I WILL CHERISH EACH AND EVERY MOMENT THAT I HAVE HAD WITH YOU. YOU WILL BE WITH ME EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE. WE ARE TOGETHER FOREVER! I LOVE YOU EVERY DAY WITH ALL OF MY HEART! I WROTE YOU A LETTER THAT I WILL READ TO YOU IN PRIVATE, JUST FOR YOU AND I, JACK AND ROSE. THE LOVE YOU HAVE GIVEN ME HAS GIVEN ME STRENGHTH TO DO THINGS I NEVER THOUGHT I COULD. JULY 18,1998 WHEN YOU WALKED INTO PEPPERS SPORTS BAR I KNEW THERE WAS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU, I DIDNT KNOW WHAT IT WAS, BUT NOW I DO, LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. YOU ALWAYS SAID TO ME "YOU COMPLETE ME", MY LOVE YOU COMPLETE ME TOO. I WILL SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE THINKING ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY AND THINKING OF ALL THE AMAZING FUN TIMES AND THINGS WE DID TOGETHER, REMEMBERING ALL OF OUR PRECIOUS MEMORIES. TO ME OUR LOVE STORY IS THE BEST AND IT ALWAYS WILL BE. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN ( AND WE WILL),
I LOVE YOU JACK, I'LL NEVER LET GO, ROSE (YOUR WIFE FOREVER, DEBORAH)
                                 
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