A Good Man-Gboyega Atoyebi.
I first met Gboyega or “Gboyegi” as I fondly called him in 1988 when we were in University of Lagos. He had a great smile, appeared quiet but friendly and we soon became good friends. We went through many good and challenging times together along with a few others as we navigated the years at Unilag. We would study hard together under all kinds of conditions, we would eat together in the Faculty of Law buttery and several other “bukkas” and laugh together. Just before graduation Gboyega and I were part of a group of four involved in a serious motor accident when we had left campus to buy snacks one faithful afternoon. The car we were travelling in hit a curb and somersaulted a few times but we all escaped unharmed. God had spared all our lives that day and we lived the days, weeks, months, and years that followed acknowledging God’s great mercy and grace. By the grace of God we finished University and pushed on to the next phase of our lives where we moved on to the task of studying and completing our professional Accounting exams. We went on to settle into our different work and family lives. We would keep in touch over the years, every now and again sometimes catching up at chance meetings during various events.
He encouraged me at times when the going was tough and urged me on, making light of difficult situations along the way, reminding me that there was so much to be thankful for. He had a great sense of humour and would crack jokes all the time, with a great poker face. He would also laugh at your jokes in a way, which only made you want to keep laughing. He was a great writer, who enjoyed writing and reading good pieces. I recall in 2016 when he saw an article that my Father had written in one of the newspapers, he sent me a message saying he had thoroughly enjoyed it and that he should be encouraged to write more often. In April 2018 he also shared a link with me for one of his own articles that had been published in the Business Day newspaper. It was brilliantly written and I let him know how proud I was of him.
Gboyega was the quintessential gentleman. Kind, good, thoughtful, helpful, decent, friendly, charming and witty are some of the words I can use to describe him. Three years ago, during the long summer vacation, my Son needed a place to work to gain some experience for the 4-6 week period and when I asked Gboyegi he offered him a place at the Microfinance Bank where he worked, but he went further to offer to speak to his Wife, Eno to see if she had any availability at her office just to make things easier for him in terms of logistics. Imagine that! Such was the man that was Gboyega. Needless to say he was one in a trillion, a legacy that he lives with us. Most importantly, he was a Christian in every true sense of the word. He knew and loved The Lord. What more can I therefore ask for? So yes, I will admit that I am shocked and saddened by this news of his passing and was rather weak for a while before speaking to myself to “look to Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith”. I believe he has arrived in heaven with his great signature smile.
I will always remember you Gboyegi, a great guy, a great friend and a good man.
Gina Oleghe.