Delivered via skype at his remembrance gathering on 29 December.
Gene Hodges Eulogy
What am I doing giving you Bibles?
Well, we’ll get to that.
Gene led the roast at the conference in my honor 4 years ago. Usually, those events stop short of accusations of beastiality. But, that’s just where Gene started. My family, colleagues, former students and postdocs all loved it. I’m sorely tempted to repay the favor, but that will have to wait for another time.
Gene and I overlapped by mere months at Haverford, but most people thought that we’d been roommates for 4 years. Our tag line in recent years was that we were “brothers from another mother”.
He graduated two years before I did and I was lucky that he and Dorothy moved close to my parents in DC.I was able to see them often. My brother Joe remembers this time well, particularly how kind and sensitive Gene was to both my mother and him, the high school kid brother.
There were times, even years, when we were out of touch, but somehow we were in good contact at times of need. I really appreciate how he was there for my health crisis of the last year.Jola also gained strength from his support. I was really looking forward to trips we had planned next year.
His death was most unexpected.Gene was doing the right things for his health and was in better shape then a decade ago. He was reaching out more to people and cultivating more friendships. The dinner party that he threw in his last hours was one sign of this.I know how excited he was about the preparations and have heard about how pleased he was at how it went. He couldn’t have asked for better final hours.
In the last days, I’ve been reminded of his college “nickname”: “The Incredible Gene Hodges”. He became more incredible with time. In college, we shared the feeling of being mountain boys who were different than the elite kids. But, look at us! We soared from White Trash to Eurotrash in one generation!
Some people’s great accomplishments go unrecognized because they are just so expected. That was the case with Gene. Of course, he was going to be the one among our college peers to be the CEO of a major corporation. How could it be otherwise? He learned sales and marketing from his dad who had a small business and died when he was young. His mom, in her way, taught him strategic planning and helped him get off to an elite college where he excelled and was elected President of the Student Government. It was hard for Gene to get credit for his successes, he was just being Gene.
But, there is one great success that we all notice: his 4 children. We could recognize the greatness in each one, but it’s the way that we see them work together and support each other that’s truly remarkable. We all recognize his role as their father as the greatest success of Gene’s life. Let’s take a moment to recognize Lisa, Annie, Sam and Ellie as the greatest legacies that anyone could leave the world.
At Amanda’s funeral, Gene mentioned his belief in “A Greatness in the Cosmos”. He called them “The Master Programmer”. He expected grief from me as I’m a more radical atheist. I respect his belief although I’m not the best to represent it. I will defer to Thomas Jefferson for that.
So, that brings us to the Bibles, I hope there are enough for all of you. We now turn to the time of the Founders, so cue the theme for “Hamilton”. Jefferson and many of the Founders envisioned a Supreme Being who was a “Watchmaker”. I don’t think that there was anything in the 18th century closer to Gene’s notion of The Master Programmer than a Watchmaker.
Jefferson took the Bible and took out all the miracles and other nonsense.He pared it back to a document about love and ethics that represented the course that he thought “The Master Programmer” or “The Watchmaker” set for us.
Even a radical atheist like me recognizes how critical this concept held by Gene and our Founders was for the establishment of democracy and tolerance in our country. We could all do well to revisit these ideas today. It’s also fitting given Gene’s recent political activism.
I know, you expected ducks from me, especially since this was originally going to be a beach event.But, Amazon couldn’t deliver them until Sunday. And, they represent my theology, not Gene’s.
So, these Jefferson Bibles are the closest representation of Gene’s theology that I can leave you with. Keep them as a rememberance of Gene’s wide ranging intellect and beliefs.Look at them.Keep singing “Hamilton”! Get a bumper sticker that reads “What would The Master Programmer Do?”, or maybe “What would The Master Programmer GO TO”. (Gene, you broke the loop and did the “GO TO 999” way too soon.)
I invite you all to contribute remembrances at Gene’s Memorial website. Tell a story.Post lots of pictures (esp. you Darren, you have the motherlode).
I send my love to you all and look forward to seeing you soon.
Today, the corndogs are on me! Or, as we Eurotrash boys say:“Aujourd’hui, les chiens de maïs sont sur moi!”