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This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved, Gennifer Canfield ("BB") Cross, 69, born on May 7, 1943 and passed away on June 12, 2012. We will remember her forever.

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Proverbs 31:25-31

"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom,
 and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household
 and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed. Many women do noble things,
 but you surpass them all. Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
 but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done,
 and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."

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Memorial donations may be made in Gennifer Cross's name to:
   Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
   1275 York Avenue, New York, NY 10065
   
http://www.mskcc.org/giving

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Words cannot begin to express our gratitude to everyone who touched us during our time of grief. We thank you so much for honoring us with your presence; for your kind words; your prayers; your beautiful flowers; your cards; your emails; text messages; your telephone calls; your gifts and for your memorial donations to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center.

Thank you for your thoughful kindness at a time when it was greatly appreciated.

Arigato, Asante, Danke, Gracias, Grazie, Merci, Xie Xie!

God bless you!

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See "Her Life" and "Stories" tabs for Obituary, Eulogy, Funeral Program, Events, Testimonals, Condolence Messages, etc.  

January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
Mother, Happy New Year. Sorry I've not been faithful in seeing you. I know you already know I've been busy; I now have a husband. His name Arthur Stuckey. Visiting you together. This happening you know way before many here on earth. No excuse for not corresponding but I just wanted you to know. I'm doing well; through this all One has been faithful; God. Rest in Peace. I love you.
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
Hello Mother just meditating. Wondering about this family. RIP. Love
September 25, 2013
September 25, 2013
Hello Mother - Just thinking deeply about you right now. Actually you never really CROSS my mind - you are there all the time. RIP.
August 7, 2013
August 7, 2013
Hello Mother. I was just praying and you came to mind; so I'm honoring you by saying, "hello and miss you."
August 7, 2013
August 7, 2013
Mother, I miss you and love you. With all those years of uncertainty; REST.
July 12, 2013
July 12, 2013
Hey Mother; yep, it has been some time since we spoke. It has been a period of time I wish I could forget. Forgetting; its not that easy. As Tony stated, "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal." Rest in peace Mother........I know that's what You'd want for us......Peace. Love
July 12, 2013
July 12, 2013
I'm viewing Mom's picture and I'm touched. Touched to see a Woman who was so persecuted, manipulated, trampled upon by many so filled with joy. Her inner man was strong. Just about every picture she is smiling. Praise the Lord. She has left an example for us to follow. But the bottom line is, "those who know better do better." Peace, Love
July 12, 2013
July 12, 2013
Definitely Gone too Soon. Just a painful period her not being here. But
All things workout for the good to those who love God. Family we will be able to overcome this lost by faith in Jesus. Currently the adversary have a strong foothold. Evict him by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Love you all
June 14, 2013
June 14, 2013
I now understand the term "it feels like yesterday." Heaven knows it feels like it was only yesterday you passed. Mom you are missed and it will be for a long time. Love
June 12, 2013
June 12, 2013
Dearest Mother. Wow! I can't believe it's one year since you left us. I vividly recall that dreadful day and time; (12 June 2012 @ 07:36 pm) which will be indelibly engraved in my mind. They say that time heal all wounds...we shall see! I am missing you more than ever. Love always. RIP.
May 12, 2013
May 12, 2013
It seems like yesterday since Mother's Day 2012 when I last saw you. Thank you so much for being our Mom. For putting us first and for all the pains you absorbed but never showed. Thanks for being the sun in our winters, the rainbow after the rain, the moon in our darkness and our guiding star to light our way. Happy Mothers Day Mom! Missing you madly and loving you always.
May 9, 2013
May 9, 2013
Happy Birthday my dear Mom. Lord knows you're missed more than words can say. A mothers work is never done! So I ask that you continue to do your motherly duties.... I will continue to do my sonly duties...To honor your name and keep your memories alive. Watch over us continually mom. Love always DW Campbell
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
"Dearest Mother - Today I cried a tear 'cause I am missing you so much. I wish you were here so we could celebrate your three scores and ten. Oh we'll, I guess it was never meant to be. You may be gone yet never forgotten. Although we are apart, your spirit continually lives within me, forever in my heart. You gave me life, you gave me love. Please watch over me from above."
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
Wow, you are so missed. You will always be remembered for You have been such a strong force in our lives. What an amazing woman you were. Happy Birthday. Mama you know we love you. Rest in Peace. Love
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
I thank God for the time we shared before your passing. It was good for me. Just how you demonstrated strength even though you were in pain. I enjoyed hearing you laughed as you talked about each of us. Woman you were a great example to us on how to love like Christ did. Happy Birthday Jennifer
May 7, 2013
May 7, 2013
Happy Birthday Mom I can't believe so much time has passed by, nevertheless you will always be remembered in my heart. However I do wish you were here so we could celebrate you and tell you thanks for being there for us no matter what. I must say it has been a blessing to have you in my life as a mother. God Bless you soul as you RIP
Love Yama
April 12, 2013
April 12, 2013
Gennifer, wow it is almost a year. Many have stated, "it has been 10 years or more since the passing of...... and it seems like yesterday." I can relate. It does feel like yesterday and I sincerely believe it will always seem like yesterday. Love you
March 19, 2013
March 19, 2013
Hello Mom! Stopping by to say hello and to let you know you will forever be missed and loved. We are all doing our best and are all dealing with your passing differently. Continue to watch over and guide us. 
          Love Always!
          Dwight W. Campbell
March 18, 2013
March 18, 2013
Well, well Mother; it has been a while since I wrote to you. Forgive me; I'm just trying to process all this. You are not here yet I can still feel you. Just this sense of you watching over. You are truly missed. Love you
January 28, 2013
January 28, 2013
Mother, hello lady. It has been sometime since we spoke. I've been missing you much. You are stll the glue tree. Love
January 28, 2013
January 28, 2013
Mom, Tony is so creative. He has your site looking good. I'm gonna tell him "thanks" for you. Love you. You are so deserving of the best. RIP
December 25, 2012
December 25, 2012
This is our first Christmas without you mom. We miss you more than ever. RIP!
December 21, 2012
December 21, 2012
Hello Mom, I awoke early this morning from a restful night of sleep with "Thoughts of You". As I gather my thoughts and listen to the background music, it was clear what I need to say to you my dear mother. Don't worry about a thing, everything will be alright!

       Love and miss you madly!
December 21, 2012
December 21, 2012
Hello Mother. So I am at the House. What a beautiful time of the year; Christmas. We all will be here in honor of you. You are truly missed. For you are; we will do everything we can to maintain your Legacy and to celebrate your life. Love you and missing you
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Hey Mother, tomorrow will be Thanksgiving. Wow! Firstly to God for Jesus Christ. Then the relationship us Seven have created for you tarried so hard to keep us united. You held us together. We've recognized us surviving your passing requires us staying together. You are the glue; still. We/I thank you. Rest Mother, Rest.
November 13, 2012
November 13, 2012
Gennifer, remarkable you were. I miss you. Love
November 13, 2012
November 13, 2012
I love you Mother. RIP; let God take care of you. The Best for our best.
November 9, 2012
November 9, 2012
Although it was just a silhouette
I knew it was you
There was no mistaking that smile
That warm peaceful glow
I felt your presence
I heard your voice
"Everything's gonna be alright"
Thanks for visiting!
I love you Mom.
October 24, 2012
October 24, 2012
The loss of a Matriarch often triggers discord and distance amongst family left behind. Unifying after such loss is an honor to her legacy and an accomplishment. Lets keep mooo-ving forward Brothers and Sister. GCC-Legacy.
October 24, 2012
October 24, 2012
Mother, love you. Still cannot believe you have passed.
October 15, 2012
October 15, 2012
Gennifer, hey Lady. I know you are doing well. Thanks for the dream, even though I woke up too early. You made me smile; you made my day. I was a little depressed then you showed up. Thanks I Love you Mother. RIP.
October 15, 2012
October 15, 2012
In fact I told Yama about the dream and how you looked like me. Her response was "isn't that the opposite-you look like her." We laughed. For we could just hear you saying, "girl you lost your mind. You look like me. I made you." Mom, you were the bestest. Yes, I typed it: bestest.
October 10, 2012
October 10, 2012
When remembering you MoMs I realize that you were appropriately named; Gennifer with a G. It could have been General Cross. You were a leader to everyone who knew you.

You will be missed, for always, forever!
September 13, 2012
September 13, 2012
Mother, I miss you tremendously. Your passing gets no easier. Each day NOT seeing your face or just knowing you were there; being our earthly rock to lean on just intensifies the pain. Mother you'd be proud of us. Your fight is still being carried on. You made us stronger. Thank you so much. 7 means completion. Love you Gennifer
September 13, 2012
September 13, 2012
I still cannot believe she has passed. What a Woman: Kind, forgiving, loving, understanding, assertive, pleasant, humble just all that and then some. Love you Gennifer. You are truly missed. Sorry for the delay in my writing but I'm trying to not cry as much. Love you.
September 12, 2012
September 12, 2012
3 months today and it still seems like yesterday. Nothing can change the fact that I feel like you should still be here. Nonetheless we're still hanging tough in honor of you and your legacy. We take that seriously. As a family we're more determined than ever to have a bond that is unbreakable. I know you're watching but, I wish I could see you smile at what we continue to accomplish.
September 10, 2012
September 10, 2012
All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my Mother. Missing you Mom. RIP.
August 17, 2012
August 17, 2012
I have not forgotten; though it has been a few months.
I know I havenot typed much, Mother I love you a bunch.
Just watching your footsteps, the way you've prepared
Knowing one day you will not be here
It is truly a blessing to know how much you cared.
RIP Gennifer.
August 6, 2012
August 6, 2012
Mom your the best, I'm really glad that you were such a caring person. We all Love You So Much and Miss You dearly.
May the goodness of the Lord follow you.
July 23, 2012
July 23, 2012
In review of her life: GENNIFER, Mother, friend:You were someone special, who others tell good things about, You impacted lives; to a great extent, loving and caring, You will be remembered, especially for your smiling face and your advice. Thanks. REST. GCC-Legacy
July 23, 2012
July 23, 2012
The Bible tells us a seed has to died before it can grow. Gennifer, your seeds are in fruition. The glue tree you were; has left us hanging on. Keep smiling and shining on us Mother. You're not here but You are still the glue-tree that's keeping us so tight. Looooooove you, Mother.
July 21, 2012
July 21, 2012
Absolutely beautiful! When Auntie and I last spoke it was when she was in Florida. We talked about when we would see each other again. Forever missed indeed. I love and treasure my Cross family.
July 20, 2012
July 20, 2012
GCC your legacy is alive and kicking. Your children are united and standing strong. Continue to be that glue that hold us together..Order our steps for upward progress..watch over us for all unknown...we love and miss you so much!! GCC the new brand!
July 18, 2012
July 18, 2012
Great Tribute. I love that Song: You rise me up. It is so empowering. What a Woman she was. I am strong when I am on your shoulders, Mother. Thank You God for who she was; STRONG. To have upheld 7 (seven) hard headed children (you too Lowell, Alric, Ian, Rocky, Sammy, Yama). LOL, who is missing? GCC-Legacy
July 16, 2012
July 16, 2012
G-E-N-N-I-F-E-R

G is for Graceful, with everything you do,
E is for Elegant; you're so full of charm
N is for Natural, the genuine side of you
N is for Nice, warm and loving
I is for Intelligent, you are so very wise.
F is for Fantastic, what we think of you,
E is for Energetic, cheerful and smiley
R is for Radiant, a bright shining star

G-E-N-N-I-F-E-R a blessing for everyone
July 15, 2012
July 15, 2012
Gennifer, one sweet day. I'll get to see you again. For now know I love you; I miss you and We are doing well.
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Mom was a strong and resilient woman who faced life's challenges with grace and a positive attitude. She taught us the value of hard work, perseverance, and compassion, and instilled in us the importance of family and community.

As we honor her memory on this special day, we are reminded of the legacy she has left behind. Her love and influence will continue to inspire us and shape our lives for years to come. Though she may no longer be with us, her spirit lives on through the memories we hold dear.

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January 25, 2014
Hello Mother, Just stopping by to tell you I love you and your memories will live on forever.

Missing you like crazy

May 7, 2013

Stopping by to say happy birthday to a wonderful mother-in-law, who are in heaven enjoying this day with her heavenly father.Mom I truly miss you, but heaven was missing an angel so God sent for you.I wish you where here, because when I had a problem or something bothering me I could come and talk to you.No one knows the bond we had and everyday I just can't believe you gone so soon.I will never forget the love we had for each other or things we use to do together.Love you mom you are the best ever.R.I.P. 

The Last Time...

May 7, 2013
Superwoman

The last time I saw Mom (in this life) was when I paid her a surprise visit for her birthday and for Mother's Day 2012.

Around that time, I was traveling quite a bit and was somewhat fatigued with very little desire for another 18+ hours flight. However, I felt compelled (rather commanded) to go and see her and made a last minute booking. I shared my plans with Tawana and a few of my siblings and told them not to blabber their mouths and they kept tight lips. I know there were no leaks, because when I saw Mom, she was pleasantly surprised.

It was so great to see her. Mom was looking quite vibrant and seemingly on the road to a full recovery. She was so vivacious and we even broached the possibility of visiting Hong Kong. I had a really good and memorable time with Mom. For Mother's Day we had a sumptuous Jamaican style breakfast. As usual, we had some good laughter and lots of chatter.

During my visit, Mom had a craving for some fresh coconut water, so me and Tawana drove all over Brooklyn until we found a couple fresh coconuts for her on Church Avenue. I watched in rapt delight as Mom heartily drank every drop of the coconut water before enjoying the pulp. That was the last thing that I did for Mom before heading back "home" to Hong Kong. In parting, I got a big tight lingering hug from Mom and she thanked me profusely for visiting and wished me God's speed.

That was the last time I saw and touched Mom (in this life).

I miss my Mom! You were a superwoman, yes you were!

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