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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Gerald Havison, 72, born on October 5, 1939 and passed away on September 2, 2012. We will remember him forever.

He was a proud squad leader with the Seabees, MCB9 and served two terms with an Honorable Discharge. Jerry often spoke of his fellow Seabee Brothers with a smile on his face, joy in his heart and the proudness only a Seabee shall know.

September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Jennifer Dos Santos Briganti: VERY sorry to hear this, Jackie. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't imagine either of those losses and all I can say is to take one day at a time; that's all you can do. And keep them alive in your memories!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Charnetha Brown Grayson: Allow God to be God and restore you as you rest in His Comfort. This to shall pass and you will see a brighter day. However, I will keep you in my prayers as you grieve through your loss. Psalms 23.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Marcy Dressler: I'm so sorry for your loss . I know what a rough time this can be. God bless Jackie....I will keep you in my prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Tracy Wilmot Siranides: Jackie, My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I am all to familiar with your pain,I too lost my Dad 1 year ago this June. And also many of my four legged BFF's! In your heart and memories your Father will live always. I know it seems like the most impossible journey right now. But it does get easier. I promise! Be Blessed and be patient with yourself. xoxo
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Lynda Reich: I am so sorry for your loss. You will have easier days ahead, just be strong within yourself.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Brooks Trubee: I am very sorry for your loss. Be well and stay strong.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dearr Elyna, and Jackie, all our love, thought's and prayers to you both on you're loss of cousin Jerry I remember all my trips to Coney Island and the wonderful time we all had, he will always be in my heart.cousin Jeannette and Chuck Sophy and family.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Wykked Valkarie: OMG Jackie, I'm so sorry. : ( You and UR family will be in my prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Rosalie Sandella Caruso: I am so very sorry for your loss love and prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Maxine Oringer Sherbo: Oh, Jacqueline, I am terribly, terribly sorry.... I understand what a loss you have suffered and all I can send are my heartfelt condolences, prayers of comfort for you and your family, and a virtual hug of love. I'm sorry that I cannot be there in person or to bring some kind words in person. Please know that you are with me in my heart and in my thoughts.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Dear Reenie and Gary our love and prayers to you on the loss of youre brother Jerry we will be thinking of you both. love you Jeannette and Chuck and family.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Marjorie Sussman: Jackie, my heart breaks with you. Healing happens in very small increments. Remember you are not a lone no matter how much it feels like it now, and for months to come.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Astrid Molina: Jackie my forever friend I am si sorry to hear about your lost my prayers are with you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
John Reffue: Jackie I am so sorry. Please know there is an army of us out here who love you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Michele Lofrano: Jackie, I am so sorry. Take it all one moment at a time. The memories, and talking about them, will help. I am thinking of you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Francesca Caruso: I'm so sorry :( my prayers are with you in this time of sadness :( stay strong I know it is tough in this time of sadness.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Colleen O'Donovan: Jackie, I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling right now and for your loss. Sometimes awful pain is inflicted on good people that don't deserve it. But God won't give you more than you can handle Jackie, you are a strong woman and you will find the strength to get through it. Take time to grieve for your terrible lloss, and time will help you heal a bit. God bless.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Julie Maltese: Jackie..I am so sorry about your dad...you are in my thoughts and prayers...you should definitely think about getting another dog to lift your spirits.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Alicia Rodgers Alston: So sorry for your losses. Prayers of peace and comfort.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Alma Ferreira: Jackie, I'm sorry to hear about ur dad. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless!!!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Patty Larkin Supino: Jackie, I am so sorry! I too held my dad's hand as he past away. I truly believe that all dads are together watching over their little girls. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May he rest in peace.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Asif Mustafa: My deepest sympathies for such a huge loss. We will all face such a devastation, but it is God's will. This life is but a journey for the path to heaven. May he rest in peace. I pray that you will have the strength to overcome this grief quickly. All we can do for our parents now is to pray for them. Be well my sweet friend...
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Di Butkus: Jackie, I am sending you a huge hug!I am so sorry for your loss.I know how supportive you are of your parents. Take some peace in knowing that you were there with your dad,holding him. I'm sure he took such comfort in that.I know your little love CJ ran up to and jumped into your dad's arms. Love you, I am here! and I pray for you to have strength to handle this heartbreak. ♥
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Audrey Handler Dworak: My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and your best friend.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Fiona Sarno: sending you much love and light. all will become calmer and you will find a place of balance, give yourself time and love and be wtih people you adore. xxxxxxxxxxx
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Luci Vidreiro Caruso: Jackie, I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom and you will be in my prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Jodi Gansler Meissner: I am so sorry for both of your losses. I can certainly sympathize for both. Just a thought, if you do have time, why don't you volunteer at an animal shelter to walk to dogs. You have such a good heart, they can always use the love and it give your days another purpose. : )
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Margaret Karsh: I am so sorry 4 yr loss Jackie. I held my brothers hand 22 years ago when he passed away from Hockins cancer at the age of 26 and held my dads hand 10 years ago when he past. It does get better but u have 2 take it one day at time. I know they r no longer in pain and I know they r looking down at me and protecting me.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Audrey Haley-Mohalek: So sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 5 years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Lorraine Maiello: Sorry for your losses, we will keep you and mom in our prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Anne Woodyard: Oh dear friend we are so sorry to hear this. Sending much love and our prayers.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Lois Trochimczuk-Delbert: So sorry for your loss. Time will ease your pain, but your memories will continue a lifetime. May God bless you. You are in my prayers....... xo
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Keith Carroll: So sorry for your losses and my prayers are with you and your family.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Antoinette Tillman: So sorry for your loss Jackie. My prayers are with you!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Melissa Breen-Di Leo: I am truly sorry for your losses.I 2had lost my father/best friend.I felt lost 4quite sometime.Ur dad will watch over you,he will make sure your life is filled w/love in time n that void will go away.It may feel overwhelming now but a new chapter will openTook me awhile 2understand but my dad filled that void after he was gone.A new puppy or 2will make u feel better.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Ann Marie Leyva: I wish I had the answers for you. I'm so sorry for you. You are in my prayers. xo
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Olga Safronova: So Sorry Jackie, big hug to you and prayers to you and your mom.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Glenn Coffman: We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Anthony Caruso: Dear Sweet Jackie, I am so very sorry for you loss. Turn to God for help and he will give you the strength you need to get through this. I will pray for you. Love, Lillian
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Juliette Pupo Kelley: Oh Jackie I know how it's like ... I feel the pain for you know it's not easy but it will get better .... I'm still hurting from losing my mom and it as been 2 years ... My prayers go out to you and your mom love you ... Hang in there. ♥
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Julianne Bell: I am so sorry. Wrap yourself In memories. They help heal. Some day you won't hurt so much from your loss. Love you very much. ♥
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Anna Bonanno- Lucia: So sorry for your loss, I wish I could give u a hug! One Day at a time I always write this passage when some one passes on - May all the Memories of your Love One put a Smile on your Face - think about it!!!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
Ramona Raynor-Karjalainen: I'm so sorry for your loss Jackie.
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Squad Lead Gerry Havison with Bravo Co.

September 7, 2012

Bravo Co. Electricians sit on a couple of tanks supplied by the Marines as they go on patrol near their Marble Mountain base camp after being sniped at one time too many.

Squad Leader Gerry Havison pictured on right holding his M14.

Seabees Never Die - They Only Move On To Another Work Site!

September 7, 2012

Gerry and I served together with USN Mobile Construction Nine from 1965/1966.  

We had good times and we had bad times.

Our worst time was on Oct. 28th, 1965 - our camp was overrun by a suicide squad of North Vietnamese regulars.

One of the many good times that I can remember was when our base was restricted. This  meant that we were not allowed to leave the confines of our camp or nearby worksite because the surrounding area was too dangerous to travel.

Gerry was a genius and had a lot of experience as an electrician.  He devised a plan to get us off base by volunteering us for every electrical job whenever the nearby marines requested an electrical crew. They supplied our security, we supplied the work.

One time we made our way to downtown DaNang and of course, we had a little too much to drink and challenged each other to a drunken race with Cyclodrivers to see which one could peddle us through town the fastest.

Another time Gerry outsmarted our company chief by devising a plan to build a tool shed with a false room big enough to conceal a cot so that all of the electricians could take turns getting a little extra sleep. Our tools were placed around the shed so that the actual size was an optical illusion; we were working 20hours a day and the little bit of extra sleep was our savior.

Gerry and I spent many nights together in the slit trenches on security detail.  The South East Asian winter nights were bitter cold especially when it rained.  As we stared into the darkness behind sandbags we always imagined we saw movement far off in the distance.
   
Every night when the constant rain was at it's worst Gerry would repeat in yiddish:
   

" Regn Regn Regn farvos iz em alts Regn."
   (Rain Rain Rain why is it always Raining?)

SEABEES NEVER DIE - THEY ONLY MOVE ON TO ANOTHER WORK SITE!


RIP Gerry

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