To the entire Coakley Family (or is it large enough now to call it a Clan?),
First of all, I am sorry beyond words to hear about the passing of Geraldine, the matriarch of a fantastic family I grew up with in Northboro. I spent many happy times in the Coakley household. Your whole family had a great influence on me growing up in Northboro, but none more than Geraldine and the tremendous respect that she showed a long haired, beer drinking and more than slightly irreverent friend of Dan’s who showed up at all hours of the day and night! She seemed to bridge that gap between parent and friend while still commanding the respect that she deserved. She made me feel like an immediate part of her family, always greeting me with that smile and that addictive laughter.
She was also not above letting you know when you stepped out of line, which perhaps happened more frequently than it should have… Dan, Brad and I gave her a run for her money in high school and college, but she never gave up on us and always encouraged us to live up to the potential that she saw in us. Looking back on those years, I am sorry that all of our parents suffered so many late nights due to our antics.
Adding Donald to C+P Painting Company (even then Dan wanted to be the CEO!) was a great experience as well, since he went from just being a younger brother to being a good friend. You spend a lot of time talking when you are up on the scaffold, and I don’t think there was any topic left uncovered after several summers as a painting crew. And Dottie just shook her head, smiled, and tried to understand what this motley group of boys was all about and why we behaved the way we did and tried to cover for us when we got in trouble. And when Shirley entered the picture, Mrs. C couldn’t have ben more proud of the addition to her growing family and it brought a lot of happiness to my buddy Dan.
Dan wrote, “My brother, sister and I won the lotto when we were born to Geraldine Coakley. Her guidance, love and passion are with me forever.” I would not disagree with that statement at all, but I would amend it slightly. Geraldine also won the Lotto when she had you three as children. Nobody I know has taken better care of their mother as the three of you have over the years. She was paid back in spades for all the time and effort she put into raising such a fine family. I know she was proud of all of you.
I know that Geraldine’s children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, family and friends have been influenced by spending time with her. Remember the gentle nature and open heart of this woman, her laugh and her love of each of your achievements as if it were her own (for in many ways it was). One only had to walk into her house to feel the kindness and warmth and feel her focus on you with genuine concern.
Thanks for sharing your mom with all of us….. Love
Rosie