Gill passed away on 19 March 2016, after a long battle with Alzheimer's Disease and all the associated health issues that come with it. She fought long and hard and bravely, but in the end she had a heart attack, fell and hit her head whilst out shopping. She suffered two lesions on the brain but it was inoperable. She was rushed to hospital but never regained conciousness. The doctors who took care of her said that she went quickly and that she was in no pain.
Gill requested that there be no funeral; her ashes will be scattered in Devon, Hong Kong and in the family garden. We are having a "Celebration of Gill's life on 7th June at the family home in Sotogrande. All family, friends and aquaintances are welcome.
All of us will feel her loss, but we can take some consolation in the knowledge that she no longer suffers and that she is at peace.
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Linda
Natalie and Piers Millner
Our world has lost an angel, and my very own guardian angel.
From the day of my birth you were there for me every single step of the way. Whether in person with a hug, a phone call of encouragement or a letter written with love and without fail a perfectly timed birthday wish. I was never forgotten. You never let me down, not once.
You always asked, you always listened, you always cared and then you brought in your wisdom, almost ancient wisdom to guide.
You saw the positive in everything. The glass was always full.
You had such great strength, physical, emotional, spiritual.
I admired you from day one. I was so proud to show you off to all my friends! "This is my Godmother! Isn't she wonderful?!"
You were my mentor, I wanted to be like you...
So beautiful, strong, so full of grace, humility, and always the laughter.
You could laugh at anything. I loved that.
I remember your big beautiful hands that held mine, your deep eyes that took in everything, your hugs that lasted forever. You heart that loved me unconditionally.
You helped build up my resilience, my self belief. You taught me to push on through in this crazy world with your love, your belief in me. Now that, that is priceless.
My heart is now missing a piece. A big one and it aches. But you would want me to be strong and stand tall and smile, so I will. For you.
Sam, I love you to the moon and back and then again...
This is not the end. We will meet again. Somehow, somewhere I will find you and I will thank you, and remind you how truly precious you have been.
Gill was a very close friend for the rest of her life although she was 6 days older than me something I was not allowed tp forget!. She always kept in contact letting us know what she was up to. We recall a happy visit to us when we were in Toronto when John and Gill came for a few days. Still coming to terms with her illness and the awful accident. Gill has gone but never forgotten.
Hoping that all goes well for John tomorrow 7 June.
Johnny Walker
You were the most AMAZING Godmother anyone could have ever wished for. You were always there for me and made the effort from the day I was born to keep in touch and show a supporting interest in my life. Your ’touch’ is around my house with the beautiful birth plate you gave me which is on my dressing table and numerous other thoughtful presents you gave me over the years which I will now treasure even more. You gave me a ’Tamsin’ necklace which I lived in throughout my teenage years. You were always so glamorous and engaging with such sound advise and guiding support given to me throughout my life. You ALWAYS called me when you were in the UK and ALWAYS tried to see me if it was possible. I recall lunches in Soho when I was working there, dinners at your apartment with you and John in London, your visits to me in Fulham to meet my newborn babies and numerous other occasions. I will miss you so much and feel blessed that you have been a part of my life. I am a God Mother to 3 children and I will never be as good as you have been to me but it is something to aspire to at least! What an amazing life you have had with incredible far-flung travels and always interesting stories to tell me - many from 'Down Under' & Hong Kong. A celebration of an amazing life for sure - how lucky we were to have had you – and I am so sorry your life’s journey has come to an end – but what a life! I salute you and wish you all my love and a God-blessed farewell from my heart.
Your Ever Loving & Admiring God Daughter,
Tammy xxx
An elegant lady,
Happy, kind, caring, thoughtful
And will always be remembered.
Love always Chet
Such an incredible friendship, so many things that we have done and shared over the years. Thank you for helping to raise my “children” so wonderfully. Your influence on the three of us, and on so many people has been substantial and unending.
I hope that your beautiful soul is finally at rest.
In remembrance and with so much love.
Hilly x x x
I will forever be grateful for having you in my life; you were a second Mum to me, sharing my ups and downs, my highs and lows, keeper of my deepest secrets, sharer of my dreams and ambitions, co-conspirator in mischievous endeavours and always a safe place for me, with unconditional love. Thank you for being you. Have fun with all the other angels. Miss you. Love you, Vicki x
Thank you for your laughter, your friendship and your kindness. It was always a joy having you around and you just being near made everyone’s face light up. Thank you for looking after Vicki and being such a big part of why she is who she is, Thank you for caring enough for her to vet me, thank you for all the good advice that still shines in her and thank you for being such a great friend to Hilly. You knew how to be lovely, jovial and wicked with a perfect pinch of gentle teasing. Travel well and I hope you find whole valleys of chocolate. Love, Oliver xx
Always in my thoughts.
Linda
Mike and Wendy x
A shining light in our lives. Hugely missed and forever remembered. A wonderful friend.
Jerry and Lindy Baines
Love Julie
May the sound of your brightest laughter, the warmth of your gentle personality, and the overwhelming generosity of your big heart inspire all future angels yet to walk on this earth…
Your passage has profoundly marked our lives, and each thought of you gives us a sensation of joy, the delight of having known you, and the ambition to keep you present in our minds. You shall be with us in our thoughts – for now and always.
With love – Nadia, Stefan, Indira & Ilian
I was privileged to have you in my life and to call you a friend
Thank you for showing me and my family unconditional love and support
Thank you for your smile and calming presence
Thank you for making every memory of you a fun and special one
Thank you for making me want to be the best I can be
I will always love you Gilly and I miss you terribly.
Paul
Our fondest love, Helen
Love from Marion Wong
A beautiful, caring, cheerful, clever, humorous friend,
A life that touches others so positively goes on forever.
Hilde and Philip Rubie
Love from Mike and Jeanne
All my love Piers
Lots of love and kisses
Nat
Love Chet
Yours ever
Mike Evans
Love Julie and Richard
With love Hilde
With love Karen
With love Jo
Love Jack and Anna
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Linda
Gill - 1 year on
This Sunday (Spanish time) will be the 1st anniversary of Gill's passing. John, Chris, Mike and myself will be marking the occasion. We will be staying at home and I will be cooking a variety of Gill's favourite meals. We are hoping for a sunny day and will be planting some purpleish plants in the area designed for her and maybe scattering a few more ashes. We will not attempt the chinese lanterns again as we nearly caused a forest fire but a dove balloon will be cast into the sky. We would like all of you to join us in a toast to Gill at 3pm spanish time (if it is in the middle of the night) possibly at the time it was a year ago.
Gill's Memorial
Gill didn't have a funeral. She was cremated and we had a celebration of her life.
It was a perfect day and everything went smoothly.