Tributes
Leave a tributeCan't believe its been two years already and now Dad is with you walking streets of gold. we all miss you and enjoy looking at all the pictures you saved and organized. We have been reading the emails and letters you saved that we wrote to you. We each have a memory of your home to enjoy in our homes. You are in our hearts and I miss your laugh your smile and just being my Mom.
Johnny
I have wondered if I had time to grieve, I was so busy planning the service and serving others. So many times I have a thought to tell Mom a story or something she would like and I have to remind myself she left this earth. I think I have had 2 conversations with Dad now where we both didn't cry throughout the year. Sometimes her loss is less real to me because I live so far away. But I hold her in my heart daily, you see I am the one who looks most like her, she passed down her clothes so looking in the mirror I see Mom. Our hair, body style even our physical struggles. I wouldn't change a thing.
My mom was wonderful she taught me to be a servant to love serving others and to enjoy the process. I can't do it like her still but I try. She taught me to sew, to clean and love my family. She showed me how to care for a family, cooking, loving being there. She was a role model and always there to listen if you wanted to laugh or cry she was there.
She taught me to love Jesus she supported our mission work, she worried over me, said prayers and encouraged me.
There are somethings in life only a Mom can fill. I have been blessed and I honor her this day.
I still have the quilt she made for me, special request at age 13, it was sun, moon and stars. It's my movie watching blanket, the perfect size for sunggling up on the couch. I cried a lot of teenage tears into the blanket. It always has been and always will be very special, complete with the heart shaped patch.
From the beginning there was Mom and Ginny. The Lockies and the Baudrands. So many indelible memories. I'm in the VW bus driving to Crestline. In Connie's backyard playhouse. Fighting off a Junebug in the cabin basement. Swimming in Lake Gregory. Waking to Ginny's calming presence during a family crisis. Singing to my girls the lullaby that Cherie sang to me. Laughing as Ginny heated lasagne so my wedding guests wouldn't be eating "frozen dinners." Sharing a glass of wine and having a laughter-filled conversation. Tinkerbell and Sockie. Roughhousing when Jim babysat. Too many moments and memories to recall. Our families are forever linked. Ginny was a second mom to us. There's an empty space in my heart this morning. Love you, Ginny.
Dear Don,
So, so sorry to learn of Virginia's passing. In my wildest imagination I cannot conceive of what life would mean to me without Colette. Colette and I just celebrated our 63rd Anniversary, so I know your marriage was years longer.
At The UCLA Hall of Fame, I stated, "Colette is the best example of what God would aspire for us all." And I've always felt pretty much the same about Virginia. A lovely gal who devoted herself to family and husband. A kind and gentle soul.
There was a point at which I think I had a bit of a crush on Virginia.
We certainly had some great times together. Several months ago Ken, Colette, and I took a nostalgic trip back to El Monte. Ken and I walked around the entire block and were amazed how great everything looked. Our house, 431 Mildred, happened to be up for sale. We met the new owners, who were just moving in, a lovely Chinese couple. As I said, we were pleasantly surprised at how prosperous and well-groomed the area looked.
The last time I spoke with you - you had called to explain not feeling well enough to attend the UCLA HOF. I loved you for wanting to attend - that meant a lot to me.
Don, I wish I had some words of comfort, but afraid I would come up very short.
Know that you both mean so much to us. I/we treasure the time we had together and I feel a sadness even though we are thousands of miles apart.
Take good care of yourself, Don. Your family will nee you now.
Hope to see you before too long -
Your always admirer,
Don and Colette Johnson
Dear Don,
Ginny's passing is Sad, but her life with you brings tremendous solace from all those wonderful years you had together,. At the base of those happy years, was your TALENT, Don!
So grateful we got to visit you and Ginny in Poulsbo. To think that you and Jimmy built that fantastic home with your own hands is testament to the talent you demonstrated in so very many ways over the years. As one example, your musical talents amazed us. I'm grateful Beth and I were able to sit in your home and be entertained with your playing is but one of the many varied memories I cherish.
Your talents provided Ginny with a glorious life.
Love, Ken and Bette Johnson
When Ginny was just a young girl she found the love of her life
And married Don at just 19 and was a true and faithful wife
Her smile was warm and friendly and her heart was pure and clean
She filled our lives with goodness─ We’re gonna miss you Virginia Lee
Such a great Mom and a thoughtful friend, she loved to craft and sew
People were so glad to see her everywhere she’d go
She laughed and teased and loved to read Sue Grafton from A-Z
She made our world a happy place─ We’re gonna miss you Virginia Lee
You might stop in for coffee
Or stay a week or two
Cuddle under one of her quilts
And just watch the evening news
You knew you had her listening ear
Someone who really cared
Ginny opened her home and her heart, and everything she shared
Don gave her a nickname and called her Virginia Pudge
She gave him four beautiful children and a lifetime of devoted love
She gave us her best and now at rest, we just can wait to see
How you’ve furnished your home in heaven─ set a place at the table for me.
Song written by Chuck Coggins for Ginny's Celebration of Life service. Sept 13, 2014
Here is some good fatherly advice” Son before you marry the girl, make sure check out her mother! Then you'll know what she's going to look like in 20 years?”
Some of you didn’t get that memo!
When Connie introduced me to the family and I met Ginny for the first time, “I’m thinking this isn’t your mother, it must be your sister!”
So young, pretty and vibrant! Beautiful face with a natural glow, well dressed, light hearted and genuine with a pleasing giggle in her voice.
Her husband hugged her in the hallway, kissed her in the kitchen, his eyes sparkled every time she passed by... I’m thinking “This is a special woman.”
HER HOME WAS A HAPPY PLACE
Ginny was not just a beautiful woman and home-maker she was a “home-master”. Her house was clean and organized.
Her kitchen smelled like blueberry pancakes in the morning, fresh baked chocolate chip cookies in the afternoon and chicken tortilla casserole at six.
She was not just a crafty person or one who could sew the hem in a pair of pants but Ginny was a creative genius.
She could make anything. She was frugal but never generic, never extravagant or frilly or wasteful. She just got things done right and good and pleasing.
She created table runners for every season and wall hangings to match. Blankets for the babies. Quilts and clothes and tapestries.
Her concept of color and style was rich, pleasing and always beautiful. She decorated her walls and her world with everything good.
Like a fine artist surveying her pallet and canvas, she meticulously went to work using all the colors and hues of everyday life pulling them all together into a masterpiece of joy and delight for everyone.
She just had an inner sense of how to invest her time and talents into things that had real value and meaning for her family and friends.
HER FAMILY WAS HER FOCUS
Oh how she loved her family! Of course that started with the man of her dreams, Don. Ginny didn’t just love Don, she was infatuated with him.
Don was her hero and the center of her attention at all times. She mixed every thought, every hope, dream, plan, every idea all ran through and with Don, they were one.
When Ginny would tell a story (she had many) (but not as many as Don) If she had a question about anything she would just (Donald it) (not Google it) because she knew without a shadow of a doubt Don knew the answer!
I contacted Google and asked them where they got all their facts from and they responded without hesitation (from Don!)
HER FRIENDS EXPERIENCED TRUE HOSPITALITY
Her home was always filled with friends. I can never forget when I first met the family all the kids’ friends wanted to hang out at the Baudrand’s home. Teenagers felt respected and accepted, known and welcomed. Ginny was so fun and friendly, warm and kindhearted to everyone.
She had the gift of hospitality and opened her home to us all. Every week was an ongoing parade of family, guests and visitors.
The coffee was always on and the guest room linens were always clean and ready. We all planned our special visits to their house. There was no need for exciting events because they made everyday life fun.
Just going to the grocery store, Cosco, a walk to the bay, a car ride anywhere was a great adventure. But the best of all was just sitting in the family room joking and singing or reading a book.
Ginny was at ease in her world and she made us all understand the value of family time and we really did value it.
HER FAITH WAS QUIET BUT SURE
I remember Connie telling me that one time Ginny went to the minister and asked for help because she was worrying about her Kids.
The minister told her, “Ginny you can either worry yourself into a nervous breakdown or trust God.”
I think we all know which decision she made. Her quiet love for God, His church, God’s ways and God’s people were clearing demonstrated in the way she lived.
Her pure heart and gentle ways were the evidence of the fruit of God’s Spirit in her life. Love, joy, peace, gentleness, goodness, faith, She was a fruit bearing tree loaded with God’s Love.
HER LEGACY LIVES ON IN ALL OF US
It is amazing how someone who was never self-imposing, self-centered, loud or forceful can make such a large and lasting impression on so many.
She never tried to be the center of attention but she couldn’t help but stand out in a crowd. The loving glow of confidence in her role in life was like “Apples of Gold in Settings of Silver.” She shined and didn’t even know it. She was like a perfectly cut diamond on a swath of black velvet in the jewelers display case.
She was a ray of warm sunlight when she would walk into your restaurant, your Doctor’s office, the grocery store anywhere she would go. She was a cool breeze of confidence in tough situations.
Each one of us could claim that we were her favorite person in the world! “Her Best Friend!" Because that is just the way she made all of us feel, important, special to her and valued.
Thank you God for Ginny Baudrand and thank you Ginny for sharing with us your wonderful life. Because you gave so much of yourself to us your legacy surely lives on…
They took us to family church camps and I loved singing songs around campfires and fireside rooms. Taking turns in the kitchen going for hikes and especially the special sunday sermons. They always seemed so meaningful then.
I developed my love for Jesus as a small child. I think the most memorable thing Mom always told me is; "We don't hate people, God loves us and He wants us to love everyone". I didn't know prejudice from my Mom. I knew acceptance.
Hospitality was one of her biggest gifts to the world. Parties, holidays even her own birthday's were celebrated in our home with family all around. Mom opened her home to estranged teenagers,
She was patient and kind. But every one of us knew where the paddle was. She took the paddle with the bouncing ball that was a toy that never seemed to keep the ball attached and painted it like the kitchen. Don't cross her. We knew our limits.
She taught us how to serve, how to iron, me how to sew. she taught us housekeeping and I still never seem to match her ability for a clean house. But I think I now know how to fold a fitted sheet thanks to U Tube. Mom tried to teach me several times, she was a pro and a master folder. Mom was a listener and a talker.
She kept us all informed of all the family and that is greatly missed.
Mom would share with me and I with her about our faith.
I broke her heart once as and put her faith to the test. She went to the minister after several days of crying and he said you can have a nervous breakdown or trust in God. She said she didn't have time for a nervous breakdown and she trusted God and we made it through, gloriously through to the praise of God.
Mom was proud of us and would get weepy telling about the great things each one of her children were doing for others. None of us ever wondered if Mom or Dad loved us, there was no question about it. Of course everyone thought she loved me most! HA HA the baby of the four, the one who got left in the VW Bug cubby in the garage but only until she went to kiss us all goodnight and realized I wasn't in bed!
She read to us at night gave us a love for books and I went on to follow her example of falling asleep reading to my 6 children and saying really odd things. they would wake me and let me go to bed.
I will miss our talks your laugh your hugs, But you live on in me.
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Make Me A Blanket Virginia Lee
Virginia Lee “Make Me a Blanket” Written and performed by John Isaac Charles Coggins grandson
Verse 1
Make me a blanket Virginia Lee
To swaddle this newborn baby please
And stitch his name on the corner seem
So when he's grown he can always see
With love from Virginia Lee
Make me a blanket Virginia Lee
To keep safe and sound while I sleep
To pull over my head if ever I’m afraid
From the things under my bed, it'll always keep my safe
I'll hold it closely Virginia lee
Chorus
With love, from the one who sewed the meaning of
Undying love, now she blankets all her warmth over us
From up above, so when times are tough,
We'll cling to the love
From Virginia
Verse 2
Make me a blanket Virginia Lee
To keep me warm through the years to be
That I may cling to, that I won't freeze
To bring me comfort to bring me peace
With love from Virginia Lee
Make me a blanket Virginia Lee
To snuggle my new found bride to be
And sew your heart on the corner seem
So when times get hard, we can always see
With love from Virginia LeeChorus
With love, from the one who sewed the meaning of,
Undying love, now she blankets all her warmth over us
From up above, so when times are tough,
We'll cling to the love
From Virginia
Bridge
Soak up the tears,
Fill our hearts
Keep us warm
Calm our fears
Keep us safe
Through every storm
And all these things we feel from you
Through every inch of thread,
You poured your heart and soul into everything you did
Verse 3
Make me a blanket Virginia Lee
To pass down with care to the family tree
With each new branch and each new leaf
Your love will live on eternally,
Sweet Virginia lee
Chorus
With love, from the one who sewed the meaning of
Undying love, now she blankets all her warmth over us
From up above, so when times are tough,
We'll cling to the love
From Virginia
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Birthing
Mom was with me or close by with every birth. Cheire was with me when Joel was born in Michigan. Mom came on Monday she stayed until Friday and went home to be with Dad for the weekend. I cried when she left holding my new born baby wondering whats next.
Joy was born in Tulsa Oklahoma two weeks past the due date. Mom flew in and we waited and waited went on walks and waited some more. We only had one car so she walked to the toy store with Joel in a stroller she bought him a red rocking chair with a train on it and a baby with a bottle so he could take care of a baby just like mom. they were a site coming down the street Joel in umbrella stroller with a large box on top and a bag in her hand. Joy finally came in one October afternoon with ease and Joy filled the room. Mom cut the cord later she called Aunt Connie to tell her the news. We had ham and cheese on onion buns with bread and butter pickles cottage cheese with lawreys season salt as our potato chip dip. One of my favorite lunches me and Mom.
Emily was born and Mom and Dad were there that time. Dad left early the next morning for a business trip but Mom stayed on cooking cleaning and rocking babies.
One of the worst phone calls I had to make was in April of 1985 my baby had died in the womb, Mom was there the next day She stayed and cooked cleaned cried with us, helped to make arrangements for a grave side funeral then we got the news Grandpa B died and she had to leave and go serve there. It was a hard year for our family.
Then came Sarah in California, both mothers Chuck's and Mine came a week ahead of time Mom's back went out and I had to take her for treatments on her back so she could walk again. She tried to hold my head and wipe it with a cool washcloth while giving birth and she got my dust rag with pledge on it, it stunk! She thought she was getting to old for this. Mom would always say after that you should never have two mother in laws in the same house for a week at a time.
2 years later when John was born Cherie was with us once again. Mom came after and was happy to be there in sunny California in January. They lived in Chicago now.
Then 8 years later in Tulsa Anne was born now Joy took the lead in helping around the house until Grandma Ginny could come. Always a servant, always a helper always a friend.
Now it is me 9 grandchildren later serving my children with the same love.
Letter to Don and family from Sue Hausmann
Dear Don and family,
When I picked up the voice mail from Connie yesterday telling me that Ginny had passed away last weekend, I was sad. I know she was not doing too well when we were out to see you last time, but it is always so hard to lose your wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. We pray your memories will be of great comfort to you in this time and we believe she is now with the Lord and know we will all be with her one day. I remember the first time I met Ginny. She was taking my Machine Quilting Class at a Quilt Shop in Libertyville, IL soon after you moved to Lincolnshire. I had the anniversary quilt made for my folks on the wall as an example and Ginny immediately spotted the PEO square signed by all my mom's PEO sisters. Ginny quietly mouthed to me "are you a PEO?" and I responded "yes" and our friendship was born! Ginny joined our Chapter LA of PEO and my mom, Shirley, Ginny and I enjoyed fellowship with all the sisters of the chapter. We spent many hours sewing at our house in Prairie View and Ginny came to all my classes at Finn's Fabrics in Barrington. She even came to work there cutting fabric for a while. We certainly had lots of good times quilting and sewing together. We so enjoyed spending time with Don and Ginny in Illinois but when they decided to move to Poulsbo - how exciting. My only sister lived in Poulsbo and owned the Dairy Queen there. From then on our yearly visits to the big sewing show in Puyallup were combined with visits to the Baudrand Hotel and good times visiting, shopping, sewing, and especially eating. The Chinese restaurant was an every year stop for sure. Do you remember when I cooked the big prime beef roast and put your meat thermometer into it in the oven? Next time I opened the oven the meat thermometer had melted all over the roast! We scrapped it off and enjoyed the dinner together. On our next visit I brought you a new meat thermometer that could be put in the oven. We remember the 80th birthday celebration and the Mickey Mouse Gumball machine. What a find. And shipping many, many boxes of batting to your address for our Puyallup classes. But most of all we remember and have so appreciated your friendship and the wonderful times we have spent together. We had hoped to get out to visit in the near future as we travel across the country presenting sewing and quilting programs. Ginny will surely be missed. Please know we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers! Love, Sue and Herb