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February 6
February 6
Miss my dear cousin, we are in AZ and we’re together lots here. Myra
February 4
February 4

  Thanks for being in my life for many years, and in the lives of my boys Dylan and Aidan; last time you were visiting Waterloo you taught my boys the memory game using cards, which we played recently to remember you and I was surprised how far your influence feels in time as my kids grow up and mature.

  Thanks from Lana, Dylan and Aidan
February 4
Thinking of you today. I had the yoga pants you gave me on today, for class. always an amazing friend. lots of love and crystals
February 4
February 4
Happy birthday Mom

Today, I feel a deep sense of gratitude that you were born and before you, Ina and before her Muriel and Ethel and all of our ancestors before them. I acknowledge and feel a great respect for the wise and powerful women that came before me. Understanding the importance of love, family, traditions, perseverance, stories of our past and how we choose to share these. The wisdom and advice that has been passed through each generation is felt and heard by me and I am sharing it with our children.

Thank you for teaching me that we are all connected and as Einstein said, “energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be changed from one form to another. “

You are here. You are there. You are everywhere.

I love you.

With Love & Light,

Sarah
❤️☀️
December 7, 2023
December 7, 2023
Hi Mom,

My heart feels a little heavier and I am missing you a little more right now.

This week, we made your famous muffins, looked at photos, drank some yummy coffee and we can feel your spirit in our home.

Thank you for loving us all so much.

With Love & Light & Laughter,
❤️ Sarah
December 6, 2023
December 6, 2023
With your picture close, I see you every day and am reminded of your loving and beautiful spirit. I miss your hugs and wise words, my friend.  
February 5, 2023
February 5, 2023
Happy Birthday in heaven, Glenda,
Of all your many wonderful qualities, lately I've been missing your uniquely quirky Canadian sense of humour. You made me laugh so many times and so hard, that sometimes just thinking of those moments puts a big smile on my face that lasts all day - - - 
Miss you every day,,, your friend Diana
February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
Happy birthday Glenda. 
Having been spoiled by Glenda on many of my birthdays, today I'm going to take a few moments to remember Glenda's generosity and love, and pay it forward.   Many others that were close to her were also spoiled as well.  I hope GG's enjoying a strong cup of coffee on a nice patio with lots of flowers. We miss you, we love you. 
December 6, 2022
December 6, 2022
Today marks a sad milestone for our Family. The love that Glenda shared with us each day is missed greatly.  Her support of her daughter was unwavering.  Her joy in spending time with her grandchildren was a treat to watch, and was infectious.  While Glenda is not here with us in the traditional sense, she is all around us.  Her generosity has filled all those who were close to her with reminders of her support and love.  Let's all grab a crystal, enjoy a cup of excellent coffee and laugh, love and live well today in her memory.  We miss you GG. 
December 6, 2022
December 6, 2022
Thank you for teaching me how to make shortbread cookies! I make them every Xmas season....this week is a good time to make a couple of batches. These cookies freeze very well and they have a creamy aftertaste.
February 6, 2022
February 6, 2022

Thank you for being my friend and my mentor. I love using essential oils in my house. I light the candle to celebrate your birthday. Your spirit is with us and you live in our hearts.
February 4, 2022
February 4, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Glenda, my dear friend, I hope you are given the celebration you deserve - I would love to hear your laughter today! (maybe you can whisper to the clouds, or the birds, or the wind - and I might again hear your laugh)
December 16, 2021
December 16, 2021
I had my own notion of grief.
I thought it was the sad time
that followed the death of someone you love.
And that you had to push through it
to get to the other side.
But I'm learning that there is no other side.
There is no pushing through.
But rather,
there is absorption,
adjustment,
acceptance.
And grief is not something you complete,
but, rather, you endure.
Grief is not a task to finish
and move on,
but an element of yourself -
an alteration of your being.
A new way of seeing.
A new definition of self.

Author unknown
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
Dearest Glenda, not a week goes by without thinking of you, wanting to talk to you, hear your voice. I want to remember your birthday and lovely generous gregarious life -
I love you, Glenda, I know heaven is embracing your wonderful spirit
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021

  Thank you for your warm, affectionate, and magical presence in my life. Always remember you and, yes, you were right about a lot of things. Your wisdom lives on.
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
A year has flown swiftly by; since our beloved "Glenda" went to her rest in JESUS. 

Psalm 149:6
For the LORD takes pleasure in his people; he adorns the humble with salvation.

1 Corinthians 2:9
What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him. 
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
Cocoon

With my heart and eyes wide open, I was with you. We talked, ate delicious food and played crib. I painted your nails and made sure you knew you were loved.

And then…
With no goodbyes…
You passed from here to there.

Leaving me.
In grief.
Missing you & our daily check ins.

So I wrapped myself into a cozy cocoon…
To contemplate.
To heal.
To cry.

And slowly my cocoon started to fill…
With answers.
With wisdom.
With tears.

The darkness engulfed me.
My tears soaked me.
Memories swirled around me.
Weaving my cocoon tighter and tighter and tighter.

You came to me many times…
In my sleep.
In my garden.
In my home.

I found crystals, dimes, feathers, stamps.
Big yellow butterflies danced around me.

But my cocoon felt like the place I needed to be. Safe. Familiar. Damp with my tears. Alone.

I sorted your belongings.
Being.
Longing.
Learning.

I made your muffins.
I planted your favourite flowers.
I walked.

In the darkness of my cocoon, I saw something. The tiniest little spec. The size of a pin hole. I squinted to see more clearly.

Was it a dime? A crystal? A sparkle?

It was light slowly creeping.

And then I started remembering…
While reading old letters.
While organizing your treasures.
While feeling the soil in my hands.
While smelling the sweetness of cinnamon and honey wafting through our home.

You are here. You are there. You are everywhere. You are the light.

My cocoon of grief is slowly peeling away. It still wraps around me but not as tightly. My tears still flow but there is strength in them.

Metamorphosis has begun.

One day, I know I will spread my wings but for today I will sit in my cocoon and remember you.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
December 6, 2021
December 6, 2021
Today marks a sad day for us as we remember the wonderful woman forever loved by many. 
This morning we had music echoing through our house from the instruments she gave the kids which is a constant reminder of how generous GG was to us and our children. To all in fact.

While today is a hard day, an emotional day, it's also a day to remember the incredible woman that Glenda was to all she loved. 

Love you and miss you Glenda.
November 29, 2021
November 29, 2021
I think if my dear friend Glenda so much. It is all the little things that bring my heart and mind to her; music that plays, a crystal and gem, a flower garden, a scent of a wonderful healing herb or oil.
I truly miss you but feel your spirit and light around me. Sending love and light: an amethyst heart Heather 
May 18, 2021
May 18, 2021
I miss Glenda so much. She was a good friend - and would send me cards for every occasion and small knickknacks. When a loved one passed, she was the first with condolences, cards, and small gifts. When I had some achievement, she was always there with a loving pat on the back and another round of cards. My desk holds her small gifts - painted rocks and tiny dogs and a crystal carved into a heart. I miss our long phone calls which usually ended when a favorite show of hers came on. She loved her grandchildren, music, hats, cooking, plants, her apartment, her friends, and laughter. I miss the sound of her laugh the most.
I called her Glen - she said it was her first nickname and she liked having a nickname. Glenda the good witch. She was an original beautiful spirit and I loved her and will miss her companionship for a very long time.
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
-In Gratitude-

Dearest Glenda, you are so deeply missed.
I think of you often and would like to 'thank you’ … 
Thank you for the genuine kindness and presence you always showed me.
Thank you for your joy and that incredible laugh.
Thank you for your resilience and unwavering positivity. 
Thank you for your bold creativity and deep wisdom. 
Thank you for reminding us all to live to the beat of our own beautiful rhythm. 

With Mothers Day in mind today, I have to thank you for bringing a most incredible gift to this world- your daughter Sarah (my dearest friend) You will be forever missed but please know the LOVE and light you brought to this world shines bright and grows ever stronger. 
Thank you. Xo
April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
When I moved to Edmonton in 1979 Glenda was there to help me make the transition from small town to big city, which was more than my surroundings. It was a way of thinking and perceiving the world and about finding my place in it. I think those years were what solidified our relationship: friend and mentor, tending towards mother/daughter. With that influence in my young adult years, Glenda will always be a part of me. She challenged me to think outside the box before it was popular to do so and often I find myself wondering what Glenda would think.

I’ve always known Glenda. She used to babysit my sister and I. Mom and Ina were great friends. Mom helped tutor Glenda in high school French. Our families would get together at Christmas. I was at Glenda’s wedding. When I was fifteen, Mom and Shannon and I visited Glenda in Edmonton and she helped me shop for a good winter coat. Another time we visited when Sarah was a wee baby and they lived in a very small apartment on Jasper Avenue. A few years later I lived with Glenda and Sarah while I was job hunting.

Glenda encouraged my music. When I was just learning to play the guitar and singing not very well, I played a song by Elton John for her and she listened and smiled and nodded. Maybe she heard the flaws, but saw the musician I would become.

Despite her many setbacks she moved through life with grace and dignity, turning everything into a lesson and an accomplishment. With a passion for life, love and laughter, Glenda accumulated a treasure of experiences that she was always willing to share. She was generous, enlightened, and always optimistic and she will be greatly missed.
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
I have known Glenda pretty much all my life. Her Mom, Ina, and my Mom, Joan, were great friends so I would see Glenda occasionally when our Moms visited each other. I remember her as "the girl with the horse".
At one point, Glenda was my babysitter. Once, when my parents returned home with a gift for me, I apparently wasn't as appreciative as I should have been. I can't even remember what the gift was but I do remember that Glenda told me I was a spoiled brat. Her comment has stayed with me and I think that I became more grateful person thanks to Glenda giving me a little "boot in the behind". 
Glenda inspired me to escape the expected in life, to travel and to experience what the world had to offer. After she and Terry married, they spent months traveling around Europe and when I heard of their adventures I was absolutely hooked and, in later years, set out to see as much of the world as I could, just like her. 
When I graduated high school, Glenda invited me to stay with her and Terry in Edmonton so that I could look for a job and work for a while before I decided what I really wanted to do in life. When I moved on and began a career, we stayed in touch mostly at Christmas and on birthdays. But it was when I visited with her in Mesa that we became especially close. Every morning at 7 a.m., Glenda served coffee and we hugged, visited, discussed current events and solved many of the world's problems. I will miss those mornings. 
Such great memories. Glenda was a truly generous person with a shining spirit. I will think of her whenever I see a butterfly.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
Glenda and I lived in the same building a floor apart for five years. She was here much longer than I. We had been acquainted but didn’t become friends until last July. We had many great “happy hours” together drinking tequila while sitting on her deck or watching music videos. We shared good conversation and lots of laughs. Glenda totally loved my little dog Karma. She gave her Reiki treatments which the dog just loved. I miss Glenda very much. She was the sweetest, kindest and most generous person I ever met.
March 20, 2021
March 20, 2021
I remember when Glenda was born as I was 10 yrs old, I loved to visit and help with Glenda and later Gary. In the summer I would go and stay for a week or 2. I have been close to my cousins all my life.
When I was married and lived in Edmonton, I invited Glenda to come and stay, and we’d show her Edmonton and take her to the Exhibition. She told me it was one of her most exciting childhood memories.
We’ve had many happy memories in Mesa, always had Christmas together.
She loved her family and was such a caring, loving cousin with a hug for everyone. Everyone has a little shiny rock to bring them luck. I truly miss you Glenda. 
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Dear G.G

  Thank you for all the musical support you have given me. Even though I never fully got into anything you tried yet, thank you for trying many times. Even if I did not continue the instruments, the instruments taught me hand-eye coordination and the beauty of music that could be created by my own hands. Next of all, thank you for all the support and help you have given me in creating my rock collection. Without you, it would not be even a fraction of what it is today. 

  Also, thank you for all the gifts for Christmas, birthdays, and the other holidays. Thank you for the little traditions that you have created in our family like sending us pyjamas that we would open and put on Christmas eve.

  I find it hard that I will never see you again. Thank you for all the great memories that you have given our family and the amazing experiences we have had together. I am glad that you got to have Mama to support you to the next chapter of your life.

  I love you so much G.G that I find it hard to put it into words to express to you. I wish that I could say goodbye to you and hug you one last time before you left us in this world and moved on into the next. Thank you for being a loving grandmother, that is more than anyone could ask for.

Love forever and always,
Zayden 
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021

Wow, where to begin.  As Glenda's son in law I was blessed with a lot of attention. In the 25 years that I was fortunate enough to know Glenda we grew exceptionally close. 

During the first decade of our time together, Sarah and I moved around a lot, and travelled internationally.   That never stopped Glenda from sending care packages filled with goodies, love filled treats and letters.  Glenda's communication was amazing with us as I would imagine it was with many others visiting this memorial.  She was a wealth of knowledge about her family lineage and kept up to date with all her immediate and extended family. 

As our family grew, Glenda grew into GG.  Probably one of the best grandmothers one could ask for.  Her love for our children was amazing, her patience commendable, and generosity outstanding.  Our kids know how to bake and jam on various instruments, as well as knowing the importance of a thank you card.

I think one of Glenda's most endearing qualities was her positive approach to life.  During many moments of confusion, she would always take my call and help me see a different, positive side to what was happening. 

The loss of Glenda in our live has left a large void.  Her presence, though a province away, was felt each and every day in our house. It's quite difficult to summarize just how much we miss her.  While we have many reminders in our house and hearts it's been so hard to not receive her texts, quirky email forwards and great phone calls. I plan to continue keeping her spirit strong with happy memories, laughter and good music playing. 

Glenda; thank you for always being my #1 fan. For keeping me grounded and aware that we're all on this journey of life together.

Love always and ever,
With gratitude,
Rainbow. 



March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
"Glenda" has been such a Beautiful Blessing to her family and friends; showing true "Love, Respect and Support"; through humbleness and with Christian Care. 

I am missing Glenda's (specially chosen) regular email forwards, that continued to show her GENUINE COMPASSION for others!

I prayed with Glenda, by phone around the 1st of March and was So Blessed to realize "her strong faith in the Creator God and of His Mighty Saving Power for her, and for all of us"!  
 
With Much Love.......Cousin Wilma

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