When I think of my Uncle Glenn, I think of someone who exuded happiness — someone’s who’s laugh is contagious and made everyone else laugh too. The worst “goodbyes,” “I love you’s” and hugs are when you don’t know that, that is the last time that you will see and/or speak to someone. At the same time, I have to remind myself that we all have memories and experiences that will prevail. Yes, some will make us burst out into tears, but those tears should also be of happiness — because we have had the opportunity to experience them. We lived them; we are who we are because we were there.
I know my Uncle Glenn made a lasting impression on everyone he met, and I will do my best to capture some of my memories of him.
Fun Fact: Many may not know this, but he’s someone who loved “water shoes”...though that’s not what he called them. This was something that was always a joke between my brother, dad and me — why did Uncle Glenn look like he was always ready for adventure...water shoes and all? It’s because that’s how he lived his life. He lived and loved to the fullest; regardless of what he was planning to do, he was always prepared: water shoes, backpack, phone googled-destination — he was ready.
Family: I know how much family means to me. And, I know how much it meant to Uncle Glenn. It all started with my grandparents (Granny and Grandad), his parents (Barbara and Jack). They provided a foundation of love and adoration that trickled down to their children. He has three incredibly handsome and intelligent gentlemen and a wife whose smile lasts for a mile. Their relationship is a close-knit bond that’s inseparable. I know this because I have the same with my mom, dad and brother. What’s more, it’s extended through everyone he’s met — his entire family and friend base.
Georgia Tech: As soon as I can remember any memories, I know that they included Georgia Tech and family. And, that was something that Grandad also instilled in us. No matter where any of us lived, Georgia Tech always brought us together: by phone, via text and in person — it was another family bond. A perfect example is in the picture I’ve shared in this post. Uncle Glenn, Aunt Crystal, Zak and Mitch came and visited me during my sophomore year at GT. We got to go to a football game together, have dinner and take pictures around campus and in my dorm. That was just the first time they came to visit. Anyone who knows the Owens family, knows that we have a plethora of GT apparel and always sport the white and gold and exclaim, “To hell with georgia!”
Christmas and Thanksgiving: Whether it was my dad, Uncle Glenn or Uncle Clay, they took turns on who would call who. And then, the family pass around game would begin. If we weren’t celebrating those holidays together, our families did via phone. It was passed around and everyone got to talk to one another...and yes speaker phone was available, so, it was always a party. All major holidays, birthdays...we talked, cards were sent, stories were told and everyone had a smile.
Hearts Games: A family tradition was to play hearts; this was a tradition that Grandad passed down as well. These games, I won’t lie, did get heated at times. We have a bit of a competitive nature in us. No matter what...no matter who won...we always laughed and joked that night and laughed even more the next day. And, to this day, we still laugh about those card games any time we get together.
Seeing what everyone has written has been an amazing tribute to Uncle Glenn’s character. We’ve all laughed and smiled at the memories and also shed tears. While we have tragically lost a friend, father, husband, son, brother, uncle, cousin or neighbor...he is and will always be a part of us all. Our stories and memories will always be a part of us — they embody us and have shaped us one way or another to the people we are today. While we may not be able to say it to him in person or on the phone, I know that Uncle Glenn knows how much he is truly loved. We’re all so fortunate to have known him.
Love you Uncle Glenn; you will be truly missed!