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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved wife, mother, sister, grandmother, mother-in-law, aunt, sister-in-law, friend, and ghost hunter  Gracie Ann (Grace) Guerra 62 years old , born on July 15, 1956 , Married April 5, 1975 and passed away after 43 years 4 months 8 days and 3 hours and 57 minutes of marriage on August 13, 2018. She will be remembered forever by me "Walking through life with you My Love has been a very gracious and adventurous joy". I will keep you in my Heart and Love You Forever. I don't believe I will ever love anyone the way I loved you because of the things that  made you special to me.

January 2
January 2
Today was Aaron's birthday and I couldn't go down to take him out and feel bad about it, but I'll make it up to him when I go down. I still remember the day he was born I can remember when they were all born including the grandkids. We all miss you on these days and your favorite holidays. I think about you all the time and more on these days. Hope to see you soon
December 19, 2023
December 19, 2023
Christmas is coming up and I remember how it was your second favorite holiday because for you it was all about making the kids happy with what they wanted Santa to bring them and that included all the nieces and nephews by looking at their Santa list and getting a few things off the list which made you happy to see them smiling when they got something they wanted. I sure miss you because nothing is the same anymore and we all miss you a lot. My Tia Jessie passed away but I'm sure you know that by now
October 14, 2023
October 14, 2023
Hello Babe the other day was my birthday and I only saw you for an instant in my dreams. I was looking at old pictures and listening to the music on my phone that you liked which reminds me of you a lot and remember how if it wasn't for you I would have been dead long ago. If it wasn't for you we wouldn't have had what we had or done what we did and all the fun we had because you were the one I was doing it for. I remembered how you wanted to just buy a little RV and go traveling to different places to see and do things but that didn't come about. Sometimes I think of just going off and doing what we wanted but it wouldn't be the same by myself because the kids have their own life and they can't take time out for me because they might miss opportunities for themselves. Anyway I still wait for you in my dreams and for you to come and get me. 
August 13, 2023
August 13, 2023
Today you've been gone and out of our lives for 5 years and it has been hard on all of us. The holidays aren't the same because you had all the ideas for the kids on everything we did and what to get them on their birthdays and holidays. I miss you more than you know or anybody knows, I put on a happy face but my heart isn't in it like it use to be when you were here. I still dedicate myself to the kids as much as possible but I think it's time for you to come and get me. I haven't really told anyone what I really feel like. Thanks for letting me know when you're around by the music and calling my name and touching my shoulder to let me know to calm down or just to let me know you're watching us. I miss and Love You always because you are my Immortal Beloved
July 16, 2023
July 16, 2023
Happy Birthday mom , some days are good and some days kind of get to me. Yesterday was hard because we use to celebrate you , now just not the same . I find myself crying at work a lot for some reason , not sure why but i do . Its weird how a lot of things remind me of you , and how I feel like you are trying to tell us something. Well after years of waiting I finally got a few tattoos, one is a green ribbon , and butterflies . Hoping to get a few more in due time . Miss you terribly .
July 15, 2023
July 15, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday my Immortal Beloved I'm sure you and MaryJane are raising Cane up there like you always did. I miss you terribly and I've been telling Kody stories of when we were going out together and some of our last-minute adventures to different places. I think you've been reminding us not to forget you or warning us of something with all the strange things happening to everyone. I think about you all the time especially if I hear a song you use to sing in the car that you liked and look at old pictures. Still waiting for you and maybe that'll be soon. Love and Miss You
May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
Happy Heavenly Mother's Day to you and the rest of the family up there I miss you terribly and think about you all the time, especially on days like today and your favorite holidays. I can honestly say they'll never be anyone like you again, you straightened me out and put up with my stupidity, and stayed with me through thick and thin and there are times when I'm heading to the Valley to pick up Kody and hear all the songs that you liked and songs that remind me of you. Still waiting for you to come and get me. Love you and miss you
December 30, 2022
December 30, 2022
Haven’t been able to write a whole lot, haven’t really been myself lately. Another birthday has come and gone along with Thanksgiving and Christmas and in just a few days it will be another year. Our little family just isn’t the same anymore without you. It’s kind of sad, but, also a little bit of a relief I guess. Dad gave me the jewelry box and I will cherish it and will give it to Kalieann when the time comes. Kids are doing well they have their days as to the rest of us. sure do love and miss you. Happy new year mom we love you.
December 29, 2022
December 29, 2022
Another Christmas has come and gone without you and it's not the same. I tried to get into the spirit but it didn't work. I gave Bina the jewelry box I gave you when we were going out I just redid it so it was shiny and looked new again. Now the New Year is coming and here I sit again by myself just waiting for you to come and get me. I check this website about every day and I can remember when the pictures were taken and what we were doing. Miss you My Love
November 24, 2022
November 24, 2022
Happy Thanksgiving Babe I miss you pretty bad on the holidays it's not the same as it use to be with you planning everything to do and to get for the kids. Trying my best to get along but at times it doesn't seem to go the way I want it to go. I think about you every day I Love You and Miss You
August 13, 2022
August 13, 2022
You've been gone 4 years now and I still think about you and miss you but I know you're happy because you picked up Mac last week and I miss the little pest and now I have nobody to talk to commenting on dumb movies. Went to Medieval Times with the kids it's been a long time since we've been together and it was nice. Still waiting for you to come and get me.
July 15, 2022
July 15, 2022
Happy Birthday my Immortal Beloved I miss you terribly and wish you were here with me to do things like we use to. I'm still waiting for you to come and get me because I'm tired of being without you. I saw a movie yesterday where the wife came and got her husband on his death bed and they showed them walking out of the hospital hand in hand. Say hi to everyone there I hope everything is okay with you and in no more pain and feeling like your old self. Come and visit me in my dreams so we can talk. Hope to see you soon. Mary gave me some old pictures that I'll put on here from the good old days/
June 3, 2022
June 3, 2022
As Sabrina said Kody graduated from High School he wore your medallions that you always wore on all the time and on ghost hunts. He missed you very much as we all do but it was hard on him because you were at Sissy's wedding and at her graduation and that's what he wanted but wearing your medallions made him feel you were there by him and cheering him on loudly like you always did. You would have been proud of him and I know you would have let everyone in the place know who he was It wasn't the same without you as all things are. I love you and miss you with all my heart and think of you every day.
June 2, 2022
June 2, 2022
Just wanted to say that a week ago you would have been so proud Kody graduated from high school , he graduated with credits in college and will be finishing his welding . We sure miss you and things like that are just not the same anymore
April 5, 2022
April 5, 2022
Today the 5th of April 2022 would have been our 47th Anniversary, you've been gone 3 years 8 months and I still think about you every day and look at the pictures of you I took in all the years we were married. I still remember the day they took you to the hospital like it was yesterday and watching you pass away. I have music on my phone that reminds me of our time together and the songs you liked to sing to the kids when they were growing up which they probably don't remember and the song that I had the radio DJ play the night I proposed to you. It was If I was a Carpenter by Bobby Darin. I sit here in the dark thinking with tears in my eyes, Good Night for now my Love I get on this website every day to watch the pictures go by with the music
October 15, 2021
October 15, 2021
I Just had another Birthday without you and nothing is the same anymore. I was remembering the birthday party you did for me, my only birthday party with games and all the crazy things you thought of doing for me which meant a lot to me. Those were great days and great memories. Every now and then I hear your voice calling my name or I feel you touch my shoulder or knee. I still think about you and I'll never forget you.
August 13, 2021
August 13, 2021
3 years ago I lost you and miss you more than you imagine and I feel more alone now than ever before. I have great memories of you and sometimes I remember the fun and funny things we did together. But lately, things have gone completely wrong and I wish it would all come to an end so we could be together again. Sometimes I feel you around me but most of the time I feel completely alone and am sick of of this world and everyone in it. What you wanted for me will never happen and I wait for you to come and get me so hurry up.
July 19, 2021
July 19, 2021
Well, today is the 19th 4 days after your Birthday and on that day I went to the doctor for the results of my physical and it wasn't what I wanted to hear I miss you and think about you a lot and I'm truly sick of this world and not being with you. We never got to do the things we wanted to do and planned on. Still waiting for you to come and get me and do me a favor and don't take forever. I Love you and Miss you more than you know.
July 15, 2021
July 15, 2021
Today is your Bday again and it seems like we should be celebrating like we use to . But life just isn’t the same , I sure do miss you , our talks and the times we would just go and do things . Kids are doing fine Kody ready to graduate and leave this place but wishes you were there on his big day . We love and miss you so much . Happy Birthday mom .
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Today is Mother's Day and we went to Sabrina's for a BBQ which was good as always and Aaron drove home I sat in the back seat and listened to my music which reminded me of you and how much I miss you and the songs that remind me of you. Such as Storybook Love, Lights, When you're in Love with a Beautiful Women, and I'll never find another You to name a few. None of the holidays seem the same without you being there. Happy Heavenly Mother's Day to you and say hi to my mom and your mom and all the relatives that have gone ahead of us. I Love you and Miss you dearly.
April 6, 2021
April 6, 2021
Today April 5, 2021 we would have had 46 years of marriage but our journey ended 2 years 7 months and 3 weeks ago after 43 years 4 months 8 days, and 3 hrs. 57 minutes of marriage. I miss her every day we had good times and bad times but we stuck together through it all. I miss her and think about her every day. I'll never forget her and the great times we had.
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
It's the 3rd Christmas without her and it isn't the same anymore I use to love it when she got excited to go shopping on Black Friday until people got crazy and I wasn't tolerant of people so she went with our daughter Sabrina and daughter-in-law Shalei and tackled the crowds and her telling me about all the craziness that was going on. She best liked reading the Santa letters and getting the most for all the nieces and nephews and our kids and the look on her face when the kids were opening their presents was worth all the tea in China.
October 16, 2020
October 16, 2020
Passed another birthday without you. I spent it with the kids, Sabrina and Thomas made a BBQ which was pretty good but things aren't the same without you. What I miss the most is taking care of you and making sure you were happy and had everything I could get for you that you needed or wanted. I think that's the most of what I miss is taking care of someone and not having someone is hard. I think I failed because Aaron sits around and watches me which is what I didn't want that to happen as it happened to my Tias. Maybe I'll find someone close to you but I'll never find anyone like you, you were my salvation and put me on the straight and narrow. But if I found someone it would be someone to care for and Aaron could live the life he deserves not babysitting me. If not maybe I'll just end it all.
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
Mom it has been two years and still feels unreal . I miss our talks and things we use to do . I know the kids miss you so much and sometimes we have good and bad days . Always watch over all of us and visit often if you can . Love you .
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
I lost you 2 years ago today and I remember it like it just happened the 3 days of watching you at the hospital. I'm glad you're no longer suffering but I still miss you terribly. Some day we'll be together and we can go on more adventures like we use to. Love you forever and always
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
Happy Birthday to my Immortal Beloved I wish you were here as we planned to grow old together and being without you is the worst thing I have been going through. I miss you terribly and look at pictures to remember the good and bad times. I remember some of the adventures we went on at the spur of the moment which I miss. I will Love you Forever and never Forget you.
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Happy Mothers day mom I love and miss you everyday . I hope you and Nana , Tia , and Grandma are all celebrating , and watching over us . I know the kids find it hard on this day we love and miss you momma !
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Happy Mothers Day to my Beloved Wife who we miss very much especially me, thank you for the children we had and the great life we had together. I will never forget what you did for me. You've been gone 2 Mothers Day and the days just aren't the same anymore.
April 8, 2020
April 8, 2020
Just passed another Anniversary without you and it's just not the same anymore. I think about you every day and still, miss you terribly. I hope I don't live too many more years without you the loneliness is terrible but the kids keep me going. So until we meet again I will love you forever.
October 14, 2019
October 14, 2019
I passed another birthday without you and it was hard to do. I miss you terribly and some days just don't seem worth getting up but I do it for the kids and grandkids. It's just not the same as it use to be. Hopefully soon we'll be together again. I wait for you.
August 13, 2019
August 13, 2019
Today the 13th of August I will remember as the worst day of my life I lost you after a valiant fight through your sickness but I know you were tired of all the needle sticks and you being in the hospital and watching us and how it was affecting us to see you that way and although I'm glad your not suffering no more I still miss you by my side doing the things we use to in the last year I've lost friends and close relatives but losing you I can never get over and wish I was with you. I wait for the day that we'll be together again Love you till the end of time my Immortal Beloved hope to see you soon.
August 12, 2019
August 12, 2019
I miss you mom , more and more everyday . I can’t believe that tomorrow will be the first anniversary of your passing . I wake up it still feels like a dream . Love and miss you till we meet again . Till then give everyone a hug from us . 
May 11, 2019
May 11, 2019
To my Immortal Beloved I will never forget you and will always carry you in my heart. Thank you for sticking by me through all the bad times and good times we had a great life together and it broke my heart to see you suffer so much I was suppose to go before you but that didn't work but I'm glad you are no longer suffering Rest In Peace my Love until we meet again hopefully soon I miss you more than you know.

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January 2
January 2
Today was Aaron's birthday and I couldn't go down to take him out and feel bad about it, but I'll make it up to him when I go down. I still remember the day he was born I can remember when they were all born including the grandkids. We all miss you on these days and your favorite holidays. I think about you all the time and more on these days. Hope to see you soon
December 19, 2023
December 19, 2023
Christmas is coming up and I remember how it was your second favorite holiday because for you it was all about making the kids happy with what they wanted Santa to bring them and that included all the nieces and nephews by looking at their Santa list and getting a few things off the list which made you happy to see them smiling when they got something they wanted. I sure miss you because nothing is the same anymore and we all miss you a lot. My Tia Jessie passed away but I'm sure you know that by now
October 14, 2023
October 14, 2023
Hello Babe the other day was my birthday and I only saw you for an instant in my dreams. I was looking at old pictures and listening to the music on my phone that you liked which reminds me of you a lot and remember how if it wasn't for you I would have been dead long ago. If it wasn't for you we wouldn't have had what we had or done what we did and all the fun we had because you were the one I was doing it for. I remembered how you wanted to just buy a little RV and go traveling to different places to see and do things but that didn't come about. Sometimes I think of just going off and doing what we wanted but it wouldn't be the same by myself because the kids have their own life and they can't take time out for me because they might miss opportunities for themselves. Anyway I still wait for you in my dreams and for you to come and get me. 
Her Life

New Years Party with My Immortal Beloved

January 1, 2020
She enjoyed celebrating New Years with the kids. She would rather spend her time with the kids than going out with friends. Her world was the kids and the nieces and nephews to make them happy by not neglecting them and including them in our little parties. I miss being with her doing these things they were fun

Christmas with my Immortal Beloved

December 13, 2019
This is the second Christmas without her. The holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and special days are not the same anymore. Everyone still misses her on these days and is hard to show happiness but I do it for the kids and grandkids which is all that is left of my world. She did all the shopping and planning for all these days.
November 4, 2019
Her passion and joy was ghost hunting and started a group and went through many team members and eventually ended up with what she felt was the best she had and aways depended on them to come along on ghost hunts to homes, museums, shops and did lectures at different places never charging for what she did or found and kept everything private and only published pictures with the consent of the owners of places we went to. Her favorite place was the Globe Jail and made friends with and made friends with Kip who allowed us to do investigations there and with Tom who allowed us into several buildings in Miami. We got many things there and in the Miami Library she enjoyed it greatly and was planning to go to different places across the United States that she wanted to visit again as she had gone to Gettysburg, Alcatraz, the Winchester house and different places she was saving to bring the whole team to go with her but her sickness took it's toll on her. I miss doing these and other things with her.
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New Years Parties

December 26, 2020
My Beloved loved to have parties with the kids on New Years' instead of going out with friends to dance parties she would rather spend as much time with all the kids including our nieces and nephews at my mother's house having fun and serving grape juice for a toast at Midnight ringing in the New Year and popping firecrackers of poppers that we got for all the kids and throwing streamers and popping balloons that we spent blowing up earlier in the day. I miss those days very much. I just hope the kids remember and appreciate everything she did for them so they wouldn't feel left out on New Years and other holidays that she always had a plan for having fun with the kids.

Christmas time memories

December 23, 2020
My Beloved wife loved Christmas time because she spent time with her mother, sister and niece and also with my family which she enjoyed because she always made sure that all the kids got more than one present under the tree because sometimes my sister could not afford to get them everything they wanted and she made sure everyone got something. She always read their Santa Letters and tried to get as much as we could get for all of them. It didn't matter if I didn't get much I tried to get her something she liked or wanted because she deserved everything I could give her. I still think about her and this will be our 3rd Christmas without her.

Our biggest fan

September 27, 2019
My wife was our biggest fan always cheering us on even if we were loosing and did the same for our kids and our nieces and nephew at every event including graduations. There was even one a game where a bench clearing fight happened and she was ready to jump in but I stopped her and she was cheering me on as we fought the other team. They started it and we finished it. She cheered us on and encouraged us no matter what and even when I became a lineman and went to the Lineman's Rodeo in Kansas she was there to encourage the teams we had a great time and I miss her. Today was a bad day but I was listening to some random radio station and heard a lot of the songs she loved and would sing in the car as we traveled to different adventures it cheered me up but brought tears to my eyes thinking about the good times.

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