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Grant Walker Seaver, beloved son of Debbi and Jim Seaver and adored younger brother of Luke, died unexpectedly at his home in Park City on September 11, 2016.

Grant was born on November 17, 2002, and was in the eighth grade at Treasure Mountain Junior High School. Grant was a kind, creative, accepting boy whose beautiful smile brought joy to everyone he met. Grant had a zeal for skiing and this past spring had finally executed a backflip! He loved dirt biking, trampolining, canyoneering, karate, drumming, travel, speaking Spanish, wearing a suit, cuddles and, most of all, his family and friends. Luke and this “happy cool dude” shared a passion for music, especially the Beatles and the Eagles.

Grant will be deeply missed by his parents and Luke, his grandmothers Betsey Skudder and Mary Louise Seaver, his many aunts, uncles and cousins, and special buddy Keith Brown.

The family would like to thank the amazing Park City community for their love and support during this sad time.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to

Team Park City United

Grant Seaver Fund

PO Box 2220

Park City, UT 84060

https://www.razoo.com/us/story/Team-Park-City-United
November 17, 2023
November 17, 2023
How fitting that the ski area is opening on Grant's 21st birthday. We will think of Grant in a joyful way with the celebrations. We miss you so much Grant!

With love,

Coach Hatch
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Always thinking of Grant. Love when u post pictures. That boys smile is infectious!! Forever missed. Ginormous hugs. 
November 17, 2021
November 17, 2021
Thinking of you today on your special day, Grant. We have not forgotten about you - we know you appear now and then to say hi in different ways.... we'll eat some cake for you today!
September 12, 2021
September 12, 2021
Thinking of You, dear Debbi and sending love and comfort to you. Can only imagine, how much you miss Your sweet Grant today, every day. He will never be forgotten! 
September 11, 2021
September 11, 2021
Hi Grant, Pennel is now on your side of the dimensions. Look him up will you please, show him around and remind his spirit of the joys of being free again. He'll make you laugh, a lot, I promise. Did you send your mom the message of the mother moose with her two calves? It was beautiful and brilliant.
September 11, 2021
September 11, 2021
Raising up a prayer for you on this 5th anniversary, Grant. Watch over us from Heaven!
September 11, 2021
September 11, 2021
Always thinking of you, your family and Grant. Sending you love, light and prayers always. I will never forget. Ginormous Hugs.
November 18, 2020
November 18, 2020
Dear Cousins, Every fall when I get an email from this site, I'm so surprised that another year has gone by. I know Grant is still very much a part of every one of your days. Grant must be so thrilled when he sees Luke loving college, laughing with friends, traveling, and achieving so much. It must make him so happy to see you, Debi and Keith, biking up those hills with Jade, skiing those mountains together, visiting with family and loving life and each other so much. You all do Grant proud!
November 18, 2020
November 18, 2020
grant - as ever, ou were sorely missed all year. but if there was ever a year to miss out on it was this one: a real tire fire of a yea - the annus horibilis as the british say. got to see your mom last year in los angeles and had a lovely bite to eat out at street cafe' with her, my two sons - the younger of whom is now your age - and my wife, michelle. almost got to see your brother in vegas, but it was at the start of this great reset - mean pandemic - and the plans got changed. hopefully. I'll see him soon and your mom again as well. i keep threatening to go to park city with my little crew and barnstorming your mom's place - you never know! you are evergreen in memory and in our hearts, young man. all love - pennel
November 17, 2020
November 17, 2020
Happy happy 1/2 of 36 Grant! . Wow! 18- that’s next year for Colten and Tiana.  I am reminded of you often as every time I go in and out of Tianas room she has that green heart sticker with your name on it. I often touch it and say hi to you and wish you love and peace. We will never forget you. Ginormous hugs to you and your family. Debbi, I’m Always here if you need a hug, a breath of fresh air, a laugh, anything. Much love, Tania and family. 
November 17, 2020
November 17, 2020
Remembering Grant on his 18th birthday. With the winter season approaching I have lots of fond memories of Grant on the snow skiing with the team. Hoping there are great powder fields and massive jumps to work your tricks on where you are now. We are ever blessed with our memories of Grants presence with us. Grant we miss you!
November 17, 2020
November 17, 2020
Sending lots of love to you all on this day. 
November 17, 2020
November 17, 2020
Grant, you're missed every day - that adorable smile and youthful energy. Your mother is being taken care of, just wanted you to know. Those close to her know she misses you all the time. But we're taking good care of her - Keith and her many friends. I hear it's your birthday today! Many in this community will be thinking of you as if you were here - I might have to get crazy and dance to reggae to celebrate?. Rest peacefully, Grant. We miss you!
September 11, 2020
September 11, 2020
Ginormous hugs to you today Debbi. It is a glorious, crisp, sunny day today here in Park City. Beautiful day to go on a hike to remember Grant. Take it all in- the coming of fall, colors, smells, the warm sun on your face.  Much love, Tania
September 11, 2019
September 11, 2019
Dearest Debbi and Luke, Jim and Keith, thinking of you and sending you ALL LOVE. Was looking at the many pictures Debbi and friends have posted, made me miss Grant. What a great short life he had!
May the peace be in your hearts.
November 18, 2018
November 18, 2018
Thinking of you and sending love and comfort to you and your family.
XXOO Meredith
September 11, 2018
September 11, 2018
there is a beautiful record called "the prayer cycle" by jonathan elias. james taylor sings on the song i provided a link to below. if you can't get to it, these are the words - which i always find moving. i post them today in loving memory of grant.

this song is called "grace."

father won't you carry me
for the ocean is wide
father won't you carry me
for my boat is so small
father on a moonless night
help me cross the stormy seas
out here in the darkness
help me find my way back home
father won't you carry me
for the ocean is wide
father won't you carry me
for my boat is so small
father in this season of dying
let me sleep in your arms
and come watch over me
someone watching over me
over me
father won't you carry me
father won't you carry me
father won't you carry me

home

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qdv7MO9uNbI
September 11, 2018
September 11, 2018
Thinking of all of the Jaynes and sweet Grant today. I know how much you miss your beautiful boy every day, but can only imagine how much more today. Sending all my love to all of you, Cousin Lara
September 11, 2018
September 11, 2018
Ginormous hugs to you today and any other day when you need one. I’m Always here. We think of Grant a lot. Tiana has the Green heart Grant sticker on her wall. When I tuck her in at night I often kiss my finger and touch the sticker and talk to Grant. He will Never be forgotten. Much love, Tania and family
November 19, 2017
November 19, 2017
Dear Debs, It was so lovely to spend the day with you a few weeks ago. We spoke of Grant of course, your last visit to Las Vegas with the boys, all the best and beautiful qualities about both of them, and you shed many healing tears. You are an exceptional mother and person because you have allowed others to honor his memory to help others. Your courage and giving heart are astounding. I love you cuz!
November 17, 2017
November 17, 2017
Just thinking about you today..it's snowing. It snowed last year on this day too. I hop you are surrounded by love.
September 12, 2017
September 12, 2017
Grant ~ I only met you once, but that once was enough to feel the absence of you, one year later. I've been in contact with your lovely and wonderful mom more often since you left us, so maybe that can be looked upon as a silver lining - however slight. It put a hole in our hearts to lose you, but you're never really altogether gone since we remember you and keep you alive in those memories. All love to you, your brother, your mom, your dad, and the many family members and friends whose lives you touched. Will think of you when i see the first snow this year, my young friend.
September 12, 2017
September 12, 2017
Sending you tons of love and light today Debs. xoxo Dana
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
Words at many times can not express the deep feelings of sadness when a loved one has passed. A special very young boy who is deeply missed and this is where my words and feelings choke up.
What I can say to lighten the pain is:
Butterflies are messengers from Heaven letting us know that loved ones are near. I truly believe in my heart that Grant is with you and his spirited personality ❤️
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
Thinking about you "G" and your family today- Steve & Tristen
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
I saw a beautiful butterfly yesterday and thought of you, Grant. I hope you're in peace now, you're missed by many today and always....
November 17, 2016
November 17, 2016
Thinking of Grant today and sending LOVE & blessings to the family!
November 17, 2016
November 17, 2016
Thinking of you today and everyday ....
November 17, 2016
November 17, 2016
Thinking of smiley sweet Grant on his birthday. Hoping his soul has found the peace in the Heavens.
October 10, 2016
October 10, 2016
Debbi and Grant visited us in Guatemala. Grant was a happy child open to new experiences, always smiling, always grateful, always polite. He wanted to learn Spanish. He was so happy when my daughter gave him a bill from an African nation for his collection, and he participated in making a flower carpet for a procession of the fallen Jesus Christ on Holy Week. He was such a good athlete! Debbi showed us several videos of all the tricks that he could do on the ski slopes, and my kids (who have not grown up around snow) were awed by his prowess.

I met Debbi in college and at the time, neither of us would have imagined the joys of becoming mothers. Debbi had a solid bond with Grant: she was kind, thoughtful, encouraging, inviting, respectful and fun mother who obviously liked Grant as the gift that he was.

My entire family is praying for Debbi and her family, confident that Grant is now an angel watching over all of his loved ones.
October 2, 2016
October 2, 2016
Grant loved to have fun and compete with his family. At the Seaver July vacation in Narragansett RI, Grant was so happy when he was tall enough to drive a Go-Kart by himself. Eight of us climbed into karts to race. I passed Grant showing no mercy. Soon I see Grant coming around the corner pedal to the metal flying by me. He turned with a big smirk on his face which meant " in your face Nanerlou". I cherish all the fun times.
September 23, 2016
September 23, 2016
Jeffrey and I feel so immensely grateful that Debbi, Grant and Luke came to visit us again on their annual return trip home from San Diego. En route to Las Vegas, they took a 5 day camping trip high in the Sierra National Forest. It was so obvious how how much fun they had together - not withstanding the 5 hour hike straight uphill with heavy packs, lugging a 40 pd. bear cannister, and sleeping outdoors with no tent, as the boys described (or groaned) to us! Debbi's smiling response to their grumbling was, "I love you guys so much, you're so amazing", and they smiled back. I've never heard a mother tell her children, as often and as sincerely as Debbi does, how much she loves them.

Sweet cousin Grant, you were loved so very much by so many people. We're positive your Grandfather David was there to lead you gently across.
September 23, 2016
September 23, 2016
Debbi, Jim and Luke - I've been sitting here thinking about Grant and remembering a long-ago birthday party at your house. Grant was turning 4 or 5, I'd guess. The theme was (of course) Star Wars, and the game was a character guessing game. Wyatt hadn't seen Star Wars yet and wasn't familiar with any of the characters -- so guessing the name written on the card stuck to his back was proving to be quite a challenge to say the least. Grant was remarkably patient and creative, offering clue after clue after clue after clue... not willing to give up on the game, his friend, or his beloved Star Wars heroes. Sending love to you.
September 21, 2016
September 21, 2016
We only met Grant a few times, but he forever left an impression, with the kids and us. It was a few years ago at our summer gathering at Dave's our boys went out discovering in the backyard, eating bbq and playing video games as if they were friends of old. Our prayers and hearts are forever with you. Know that you an angel watching over you, loving you always.
September 20, 2016
September 20, 2016
Dear Debbi, Jim and Luke: Jacqui and I are SO sad for you and your loss of Grant. What an interesting and complex young man he was; always full of surprises and with so much promise! None of us can know God's plans; we must trust and have faith that we'll all be together someday, somewhere. 
We've ordered a Mass dedicated to Grant for Sunday, October 2nd at your St. Mary's Church, from the two of us and from Dianne, too. I am sure Dianne will convey her sadness and condolences directly to you.
September 20, 2016
September 20, 2016
This past April Debbi ,Luke and Grant were in Pelham for a visit, I was fortunate enough to have had lunch with Debbi and Grant that day.
I was so impressed by Grant, how he interacted with Deb's crazy Pelham friends. Grant was engaging in conversation with ease, he had a bright smile and twinkle in his eyes, he was happy to be here with his mom and her friends. He was more than happy to take a few pictures of us all and laughed along with us while we trying to figure out how to pose. I didn't get to see Grant much, but when I did, he was always smiling and enjoying life.
"You....you alone will have stars as no one else has them...In one of the stars I shall be living....In one of them I shall be laughing and so it will be as if all of them were laughing, when you look at the sky at night.....You...only you will have stars that can laugh. The Little Prince
September 20, 2016
September 20, 2016
Thinking of all of you and sending a warm and loving embrace from back East.
September 19, 2016
September 19, 2016
Grant was not a 'checked out' 8th grader at 7:30 am during first period. He lit up the room. I miss his confidence, intelligence, and senses of humor and mischief. We are forever changed as a result of knowing him and his passing.
September 19, 2016
September 19, 2016
GRandsons are special and Grant was very special......thoughtful,loving and so talented and smart. I shall miss our telephone conversations and how they always ended......I love you,Grandma.We always had such fun at the beach and I. Was so looking forward to his visit in October.The last message that I got from him said," Happy 88th,Grandma,I can't wait to see you.love Grant
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
We do not know Grant nor his family, but feel tremendous sadness for your incredible loss. May the memories of your beautiful son, brother, grandson, and friend bring your hearts some level of comfort now and going forward. Our Park City community grieves with you and for Grant, always.
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
Grant and the boys always felt like they "ran this town". That is the beauty of a small town. 
I remember the time when they were quite young that we thought the boys were skiing at PCMR. I was trying to catch up to them.
After much searching and getting a little nervous, I found out where they were. They decided to ski down the town lift, get a little pizza, and hop in Jim's hot tub. They thought they were total studs. And they were.
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
Debbi and Jim,
As an educator, one is not supposed to have favorites, but I have to say Grant was one of my most favorite students at Parley's. He was smart, really smart and talented in a way that left his teachers bewildered at times. I remember Debbi taking him on summer trips to further his language skills, and of course these trips made a huge difference in many ways for him. I remember asking Grant to converse with Governor Shumway in Spanish when he was in 3rd grade. Grant blew him away. While Grant was only with us for thirteen years, he made a life long impact on so many of us. Thank you for sharing your awesome son with us. He will be missed.
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
Debbie and Jim, my deepest heartfelt sympathy at this sorrowful time. i am so blessed i got to see Grant each year on your trips home to Pelham. This past April on your visit, i was so impressed with Grant - his maturity, warm personality, & brilliant smile. As our friends gathered for lunch at Betsy's house to reminisce about our "glory days", Grant sat with us to listen and hear funny Debbie stories and laugh along with us. I will treasure that memory and others, and remain forever grateful I was able to know your wonderful son. With Love, Meredith
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
Debbi and Jim, I remember the day you called us to let us know Grant was born!  With you both guiding him, Grant hit the road running - from all the adventures, mountains he climbed, and ski jumps he raced down.  We enjoy hearing of all the adventures - and seeing your photos.  I am so sorry for this incredible loss.  I wish there was a way that I could carry your pain for you.  Take comfort in the outpouring of love from your community and family.  This is a true testament to the full life Grant lead and the love and comfort you gave him.  All my love - Julie
September 17, 2016
September 17, 2016
Sending much love and light to the Seaver family. I have warm memories of Debbi and Jim being dedicated, fun, caring, loving, engaged parents to Grant and Luke. Deep sympathy from Eddie and me. We hope you find comfort it the community surrounding you with open hearts and so much love. xoxo
September 17, 2016
September 17, 2016
There are no words that could possibly ease your pain, just lots of love and strength being sent your way. You were the other big sister growing up, always laughing with that naughty twinkle in your eye. You are so loved and Grant will be the brightest star in the sky . Love you Debs
September 17, 2016
September 17, 2016
Jim, Debbi and Luke
Words can't describe how sorry we are for you all. We have not seen Grant since he was younger but it sounds like he grew to be a wonderful young man. The description actually sounds s lot like you Jim ....happy cool dude. While we wish we could be there to support you please know your friends back east are with you in spirit.
Stephen and Susan Bird
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November 17, 2023
November 17, 2023
How fitting that the ski area is opening on Grant's 21st birthday. We will think of Grant in a joyful way with the celebrations. We miss you so much Grant!

With love,

Coach Hatch
November 17, 2022
November 17, 2022
Always thinking of Grant. Love when u post pictures. That boys smile is infectious!! Forever missed. Ginormous hugs. 
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A very sweet boy...

September 25, 2016

   Dear Grant,
i will forever miss your sweet smile and the warm hugs, when-ever i saw you! You were always so thankful for the chocolates i brought to you from Estonia. I enjoyed making you happy. 
I am sure you are now watching over your dear mom, dad and brother from up above  and sending them strenght and peace in their hearts.
  With loving memory,
Malle
    

Moosilauke

September 18, 2016

I remember hiking Mt Moosilauke in NH with you in 2012.  You practically raced up the mountain, inspiring my kids to hike their first 4000 footer.  Always grinning, up for anything and full of life.  I'll always remember you that way.

Buzz cut

September 17, 2016

The first and only time I met you was 2 years ago when your dad took you boys down to see me for a haircut. You were a typical 11 year old.. A bit shy, a bit giggly. We chatted about your sports activities and how your time in San Diego was going. When I asked you what you wanted you were very sure of yourself.. I'll have a buzz cut!  Aside from our one time meeting Grant, I felt as if I knew you and your brother. Your dad talks about you both always and is so proud of you boys. He would tell me about how great of skier you had become.

So now you've graduated this life way too young. You're job here so short yet a gift to all that knew you.  Your job now is to be a watchful angel to your mom,dad and brother.  They need your strength now. 

Your mountains are the clouds! 

❤️Tara

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