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In loving memory of Col Harry C. Spies USMC (Ret)
April 25, 1952 - December 16, 2013

Harry was interred on January 3, 2014 at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.  He is located in Section 12B, Row 1, Niche 6 (http://4sq.com/JSlqe1).  The niche can be challenging to find; try inputting these coordinates 32.689603, -117.243634 into your GPS and it's basically like geocaching, except you don't get to take Harry home.  

Thank you to everyone for their love and support over the past two years.  We think of him each and every day and miss getting to tell him stories, ask for advice, and share jokes.

Please still consider a donation to one of the following in Harry's memory:

Flying Leatherneck Historical Foundation
http://flyingleathernecks.org/donate-now/

National Museum of the Marine Corps
http://www.marineheritage.org/MakeDonation.asp?stype=F11114

The Carcinoid Cancer Foundation
https://donatenow.networkforgood.org/1440060

Thank you for sharing Harry with us over the years and we hope to continue to share his memory with you into the future.  Feel free to post pictures and stories from any time, including the memorial and celebration.

With love, Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali








January 2
January 2
It doesn't seem possible that you left us ten years ago Harry. Not a day goes by that you are not part of our thoughts. God bless Jeanie and the family with best wishes for a wonderful New Year and all the promise that the future brings. Semper Fidelis, Shadow
December 16, 2023
December 16, 2023
Ten years - a full decade! Forever missed…
Semper Fidelis,
Trouser
April 26, 2023
April 26, 2023
I still haven't met one better than you! Thanks, for all the support and weighty words of wisdom. Semper Fi Lefty
April 26, 2023
April 26, 2023
God bless Jeanie, Ali, Kate, Brian, their families and your grandchildren as we remember you Harry. We are all missing you and thinking of you, and not just on your birthday. Thank you for your gifts to all of us. Love and hugs to your family, Shadow
April 25, 2023
April 25, 2023
After a certain age, no one really wants to hear “Happy Birthday” anymore. 
Too bad, I’m saying it to you again this year.
Happy birthday Harry!
December 19, 2022
December 19, 2022
Thinking of you, Jeanie, Kate, Ali, Brian, the grandchildren, and the entire family almost every day Harry. The world needs you as never before. You helped us all to know better, be better, and do better every day. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2022
December 16, 2022
Missing you again this year as we come to another somber anniversary entering the Christmas season. I wish you were here to discuss what has been done to the Marine Corps. You wouldn’t believe it!
Semper Fidelis, Trouser
December 16, 2022
December 16, 2022
Harry, 
The Power Ten team is working hard to continue your legacy of excellence you left us. As always, we continue to work and care for Jeanie. While it has not been without challenges, we can only hope we make you proud of what you created. Thinking of you…not only on this day but everyday.  S/F Rambo
September 5, 2022
September 5, 2022
Jeanie,
I was thinking of your family and today I decided it was time to surface, find Harry, and fix the world. I was looking for him when I found this. I'm so sorry, Jeanie.
M K
May 30, 2022
May 30, 2022
Thinking about you today my friend and the last time we spent in your living room in Dec of 2013 and our promise to do something together soon...Semper Fidelis, Spot
April 27, 2022
April 27, 2022
Thinking of you, Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali on your birthday, Harry. I'm grateful for our short time with each other and all I learned from you. Thank you. God bless Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali. Shadow
April 25, 2022
April 25, 2022
Happy Birthday, Sir! I still carry great memories of you and our time at MACG-38. I often tell many about our "smokers", field meets, and let's not forget that epic MACG-38 Tailgate and Padres games. I hope Ray Johnson and I ( Lefty) left you little to be desired in the S-4 arena.  Because you left us nothing to be desired in the Leadership arena...you were the BEST CO, I EVER HAD "HAND DOWNS"! You allowed us to soar with eagles if there were any, and strengthen our leadership wings to no end!  Give my regards Rifle, tell him how we treated "Dark Cloud" after he screwed him over! Only YOU could get away with that one, under "RIFLES" command!

Thanks for All!!

Lefty!! 
April 25, 2022
April 25, 2022
Happy birthday Harry! Even though you aren’t here to celebrate, I enjoy recognizing this day because it reminds me of you and the great times we had together - starting almost 50 years ago at TBS.
Semper Fidelis,
Trouser
December 23, 2021
December 23, 2021
You are in my thoughts and prayers Harry, keep us going straight and watch over things as only you can. We miss you and your unique ways of understanding the world. You are still an inspiration to so many of us. God bless your wonderful family, who misses you more than words can ever say. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2021
December 16, 2021
I was thinking about the time you and I moved your entire household goods from one house to another in Fairfax, Virginia. It was that day we both realized we were much older than we thought we were, but we got the job done - as you always did!
S/F, Trouser
December 16, 2021
December 16, 2021
Harry, One of the most amazing Marines I have ever met. Always a smile, a story and advice. We'd meet for a coffee, a drink or in an airport, which you often frequented. I always walked away from our brief time together a better man thanks to you...and with a smile on my face. Semper Fi Harry and wishing the family a loving Holiday. Steve Fisher
April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
God Bless you Harry. You are sorely missed my friend. SF, Spider
April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
2020 came and went. We don’t miss it a bit, but still miss you, my friend.
All the best to Jeanne and the girls.
Happy birthday!
Semper Fidelis,
Trouser & Zoe
April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
HaPpY BiRtHdAy, Harry! Always fond memories of our time with VMA(AW)-121 especially our UNDEFEATED softball team at MCAS Iwakuni WESTPAC '77-78! Know that you and all "Green Knights" that are now "guarding the streets of heaven" are in my daily prayers! Take care and SEMPER FI!!!
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
We have needed you every day since you flew west Harry, look at all that's happened this year. Nothing you could not sort out in about a day though. Prayers and fond wishes for you and the family are inbound each time I think of you. Keep watching over us all, we need it. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
7 years - seems like a lifetime ago but yet so close. We miss Harry and send best wishes to his family.
April 26, 2020
April 26, 2020
Harry, Happy Birthday and God Bless you my friend. We could certainly use your strategic thinking and clever wit these days - most amazing time. I know you have them well organized up there - Keep Charging. SF, Spider
April 26, 2020
April 26, 2020
Thinking of you on your birthday and other days Harry, we really miss you and especially now, could use your thinking and straight forward style to solve some major problems in the world. I hope the Almighty is asking your thoughts and putting them to use every day. Semper Fi, Shadow
April 25, 2020
April 25, 2020
HaPpY BiRtHdAy, Harry! Good Ol' US of A going through some tough times right now...wish U were still here to help us get through it! Hopefully...the A-6 convention will be able to go on in October as planned! Will "raise a glass" with fellow " Green Knights" to your memory! Semper Fi! Sasquatch
April 25, 2020
April 25, 2020
Happy Birthday Harry! Boy, was the world caught off guard when you came aboard. Little did they know what you had in store for all of us. I know that you will never rest - it was just not your way. Semper Fidelis my friend, JJ
December 19, 2019
December 19, 2019
You are as missed today as ever Harry. From a poem by Mary Elizabeth Frye, I think of you like this:

"Do not stand at my grave and weep

I am not there. I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glints on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there. I did not die."


December 16, 2019
December 16, 2019
So many fond memories of Harry. Grateful to have had you in my life. You are brought to mind on so many occasions, and you are missed.
December 16, 2019
December 16, 2019
Damn Prick, I cannot believe that it has been 6 years, since you accepted those final PCS Orders to 'heaven's scenes, .... (in order to) guard the streets …'

Please know that you are missed so very much, ….

Semper Fidelis my friend,
JJ
April 28, 2019
April 28, 2019
You are still missed greatly Harry, I think of you often and wish you were still on everyone's wing with your clear, logical views and laser like intellect. It's needed more than ever, thank you for all you did while you were here. God bless you and your wonderful family. Semper Fi, Shadow
April 25, 2019
April 25, 2019
Harry: Fondly remember our time as squadron mates with VMA(AW)-121 especially WESTPAC 77-78 deployment. Those were some WICKED AWESOME times particularly when U coached our UNDEFEATED SOFTBALL TEAM! Additionally, it was WICKED AWESOME when we reunited at the first A-6 convention in San Diego! U were one of “Pappy Faulkner’s “ Green Knights” one of the BEST..”Here there and everywhere”! U R missed! Take care and Semper Fi! Jay “Sasquatch” Holden Woodsville NH
April 25, 2019
April 25, 2019
Happy Birthday Harry. Miss you friendship and inspiration but most of all your down to earth logic that put folks in their place.
December 17, 2018
December 17, 2018
Harry, we think and speak about you with deepest respect and admiration about almost every day. We still mourn your passing, especially on days like this, but give thanks that you lived and touched so many lives in the ways you did. Your spirit lives on in your wonderful family and the many Marines you served with. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Harry, I always appreciated your advice and wisdom in and out of the Marine Corps. Yesterday, I had the opportunity to speak at the graduation of the San Pasqual Band of Mission Indians Fire Academy. We have 3 academies each year and graduate 120 First Responders. A number of the cadets are veterans pursing an honorable profession after the military, many Marines. I always mention the value of a mentor and you specifically and the values that you upheld.  Your legacy lives on. 
Semper Fi and Always Remembered,
Mark Schultz
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Harry, we miss you my friend. I know heaven is well organized and protected through your efforts! God Bless & SF, Spider
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Gone 5 years! It seems like yesterday that we were together trying to solve the world’s problems. Harry was always the best at doing that. We miss you Marine!
Semper Fi - Trouser
April 25, 2018
April 25, 2018
HB Marine, I know can't use your callsign but you are missed so much each day. I miss our talks, your dry humor, and your straight forward approach to life. Always telling it like it is. Save me a place at the bar with Mini and Snapper. Semper FI, JJ
April 25, 2018
April 25, 2018
Thinking about you today and missing you Harry. I know you are keeping Snapper in line by now we could all use some of that. Happy Birthday Marine. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 17, 2017
December 17, 2017
The world needs you more than ever Harry. Jeanie, Kate, Brian, and Ali are in my prayers and you are missed even more with the passing of time. So many of your friends talk of you and our times spent together. Keep looking after us all. Blessings to Jeanie, Kate, Brian, and Ali. Semper Fi, Shadow
December 16, 2017
December 16, 2017
Forever in our thoughts and forever missed.
May 1, 2017
May 1, 2017
Thinking about you on your birthday Harry, you are never far from our thoughts and prayers. It still doesn't seem possible that you are on the "advance party" for your friends and family. The pearly gates were never in better hands but we sure could use here (still). Semper Fi, Shadow
April 26, 2017
April 26, 2017
Harry,
Happy BDay. Please give Winnie the Pooh whose Bday is the 26th a hug for me-she'll be the one at the bar with a glass of red wine having a smoke!
Remember your USNA escapades with a smile-second grandson begins his IDay on 29 June and another grandson (USNA 2013) on his way to Naples this summer after "sea tour" in SD.

Best regards as always to Minnie and MGen LeBlanc 
S/F shindog
April 25, 2017
April 25, 2017
Still seeing everything through a better lens because of the lessons Harry taught me.  The light shines bright......Curt
December 21, 2016
December 21, 2016
Hard to believe that 3 years have passed, you have been missed by all in the family. Rest well knowing your family think of you often.
December 17, 2016
December 17, 2016
Prick, Mini, Beans, Snatcher ... Four great call signs of four Great Marines and Americans. They touched my life and I am a better person for it. They laugh from that Eternal HH Bar and watch us make the same mistakes that they told us not to do....memories will keep us together forever.....thank you and Semper Fidelis, my friends.
December 17, 2016
December 17, 2016
You are missed as much ever Harry, you are in our hearts and thoughts each day. God's blessings to your wonderful family and all the Marines you touched in such a great ways over the years. Keep an eye on all of us please. Semper Fi, Shadow
April 26, 2016
April 26, 2016
The world needs you more than ever Harry. And your friends and family miss you each day. I think of you often and wonder "what would Harry think about....?" Your influence and effect on those who knew and loved you is a wonderful thing that lives on and on. I'll see you again someday, I hope.
April 25, 2016
April 25, 2016
Gone but, never forgotten...I have yet to meet anyone wiser than you!
Until we meet again...leave the light on for me!
March 15, 2016
March 15, 2016
Harry,

Kind of an arbitrary day to post a tribute, but I found myself thinking of you and how much I miss your mentorship.

 Continue watching over all your friends and family.

Semper Fi,
Snapper
December 17, 2015
December 17, 2015
Harry, you are missed every day. Jeanie, Brian, Kate, and Ali, prayers of comfort and peace to you. Your family is thinking of you.
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January 2
January 2
It doesn't seem possible that you left us ten years ago Harry. Not a day goes by that you are not part of our thoughts. God bless Jeanie and the family with best wishes for a wonderful New Year and all the promise that the future brings. Semper Fidelis, Shadow
December 16, 2023
December 16, 2023
Ten years - a full decade! Forever missed…
Semper Fidelis,
Trouser
April 26, 2023
April 26, 2023
I still haven't met one better than you! Thanks, for all the support and weighty words of wisdom. Semper Fi Lefty
Recent stories

VX-5 Story - Meeting Harry

September 5, 2022
I arrived at VX-5 in the beginning of 1985. Shortly after, I was in the process of getting things squared away and noticed Harry had custody of one my best sources for quick answers. After receiving several unsolicited warnings about Harry, I set off to find him. He was at his desk, head down, poring through some documents when I announced my presence. This is a true rendition of our first conversation.
SS: Hi sir, I'm LT Shuman the new intel guy.
HS: (inaudible)
SS: I'm looking forward to supporting all the projects. 
HS: (murmurs something)
SS: I noticed you have a pub I need. If you need something from it, you can just call me. So, I need the pub back.
HS: No. (he looks me for first time)
However, I prevailed under the proviso that he could have the pub back if he didn't like the support. I kept the pub.
I only found out about our loss today. I feel gutted to be honest. Harry has been gone for a good time now, but in my life only for a day.

With Harry at 3D MAW, '98 to '00

December 23, 2013

I did not have the good fortune to serve with Harry every day untill 1998 when he was the CO of MACG-38 and I was the AWC of the Wing.  I knew of him by reputation from his time and great work at VX-5 and the TSG. From afar, I respectedd and admired him, as did so many of us at MAWTS-1, VX-4, VX-5, VFA-125, and the then emerging Strike University, later to become Naval Strike and Air Warfare Center in Fallon.  We were doing things that still cannot be spoken of outside of a SCIF and Harry, Mini, Drifty, and a small ultra talented group were leading the way and facilitating it all.  There is a photo on this site of the three of them and Snapper, all of whom I know well.  There is more G2 in that one photo than in most large cities and they did more than we'll ever know for the country. There are many reasons that Harry was part of all that, he was just amazing at getting the right things done in the days we were fighting the Cold War.  

I was privleged to work directly with him when he and I were assigned to 3D MAW, me as the AWC and he as the MACG-38 CO.  In those days the Marine Aviation Command and Control System (MACCS) community was very unappreciated and little understood by many Marine aviators, even senior ones, and the vital role of the MACCS agencies and the system as a whole was generally undervalued and sub optimized in the Marine Corps and Joint world.  

One of the memories I have of Harry is how he went after the aviators to turn that around, to energize the community, lift the morale and feelings of belonging and contributing among not only his Marines and Sailors at MACG-38 but in the entire MACCS community.  And he did it as only he could, with his laser-like intellect that understood at an elemental level the most complex and intractable challenges, with his uncanny radar for understanding people, and patience and practiced wisdom steadily applied until really big things happened for the better.  

The Wing was very involved in Operation Southern Watch in Iraq at the time, we planned and executed named operations and Harry and his folks were front and center in it all, changing the way we thought and acted as Marine aviators, as a MACCS, MAGTF warfighters and Joint warfighters.  It created ways of thinking and operating that were transmitted to the future, making our accomplishments in Operation Iraqi Freedom possible and no doubt saved many, many young lives.

And there is more, Harry helped change his world for the better. 

Harry always did the right things, in the right ways, for the right reasons, professionally and personally.  He had an internal GPS for those things that was infallible, like a laser.  It's difficult to write or think about Harry without feeling incredibly sad that he is no longer with us, it is such a loss.  

Here's what I think Harry would tell us about life:

Do the right thing.  Do the right thing.  We don't always know exactly what that is, but we can figure it out.  Figure it out and then do it.

Follow the Golden Rule.

Always do your best.

Never give up.

That's how Harry lived his life.  I'll try harder to do the same.  God bless him and keep him. Shadow

Fly Fishing with Harry

December 21, 2013

Like many of you I have lots of good Harry stories.  One of my favorites is when Harry taught me to fly fish.  As many of you know, Harry loved the outdoors and fly fishing.  He loved its ruggedness, solitude and challenge.  When I traveled with him he often had his Fly Rod with the carry-on luggage even though our trip was fully booked with meetings and we were in suits.  I would joke with him and ask if he was hoping that when our plane “crashed,” it would be near some yet to be discovered world class trout stream.  He would just smile and say, “you never know,” and continue to board.  That was Harry; he never felt opportunity was far away even in the worst of situations. 

Later, I asked Harry if he would teach me to fly fish.  For the uninitiated, that was like asking if he would allow me to take the vows of the fly fishing priesthood.  Or maybe as an adult ask a Major Leaguer to teach you how to play catch.  After some persistence, he finally agreed and off we went to Bishop, CA.   We decided to go in the RV I owned at the time, and we spent hours on the road solving the world’s problems.  All of us who had that one on one time with Harry recognized that you were with someone special.  Not perfect, but someone rare among our friends.  It is those moments and the wisdom of those conversations that I will always remember.

We started to fish surrounded by quickly melting snowflakes most of the day, and caught enough for our supper.  We cooked them over an open fire and then as the temperature dropped with the approach of nightfall, others crawled into their tents. We retreated to the warmth of the RV.   Harry normally would have been one of those dedicated anglers who went to a tent because that was I think, one of the rules of the “priesthood.”   As I prepared some other food, and Harry was enjoying a glass while debriefing the days events, I could tell he was also enjoying the significant contrast to his normal fishing trip accommodations.  I joked with him again and said, I don’t think I have any white wine glasses for the fish.   Harry leaned back in the chair and smiled a smile I will never forget.  He said, you know Paul, I may never go camping again and just laughed.  Harry was fun.    

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