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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Hector Montgomery Betham, 99, born on January 30, 1909 and passed away on November 19, 2008. We will remember him forever.
February 1
February 1
I remember you dancing to the records on the stereo in the living room. You twirled around the floor light on your feet. I was just a little girl and you took turns dancing with all the children in the room. We stood on your shoes and you fox trot through one song after another. We didn't know what we were doing, but you made it a hilariously fun evening.
I remember the photos of you standing babies on your hand.
I remember Santa visiting at the Torrance house on Christmas eve. I asked where Pops was and you said he was on the roof feeding carrots to the reindeer. Someone had to hold the reins so they didn't go flying off. And I believed you.
You made so many fun times.
I thank God for you, Pops. 
January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
Thank you, Pops, for the whistling. For the Piano playing. For the "jiggas". For the Canasta and Scrabble. Thank you, Pops, for the warm smiles and hugs. You still are an example of what love looks like. Thank you.
January 30, 2022
January 30, 2022
Dad would have been 113 yrs. old today. Am so happy for the wonderful memories we had together. He was the BEST father a girl could have. I still love and miss him a lot. Am anxiously awaiting the Great Getting Up Morning when Jesus comes.
January 30, 2022
January 30, 2022
Just sitting on your bed in your room this morning and thinking of you. We would have celebrated your birthday today. Thanking God for you. 
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
Thinking of you today Pops. What fun you had hooking your rugs in front of the fire. You were the best Dad. Forever loved and missed. 
January 30, 2021
January 30, 2021
I miss Pops. Pops was a whistler. I can still hear his happy tunes he would leave trailing behind him as he moved from duty to project. His cheerfulness and warmth are missed. He had a particular stride that was happy and carefree. He was huggable and approachable. He laughed easily. He had great big faith. He was all love. Love for God, family and others. I miss Pops.
January 30, 2021
January 30, 2021
Although he has been gone for 13 years his memory is still as fresh in my mind. He was such a loving, patient and caring Father I will always remember Him with loving thoughts. So many times he made such happy memories for me. He made me think I was his favorite child but then I found out that my siblings all felt the same way. He was a wonderful example of what a loving father is like--a little taste of our Heavenly Father.
January 30, 2021
January 30, 2021
Thinking of you Dad, and remembering the fun times we had, with you on the piano or guitar and all the laughter and smiles. RIP. 
January 30, 2021
January 30, 2021
Thinking of you today Dad. You were such a positive influence in my life. Look forward to meeting you again.
June 17, 2018
June 17, 2018
Thinking of you today, Father’s Day, 2018. Been 10 years since you left us, but memories of you and how good a father you were, have not faded. RIP.
January 30, 2018
January 30, 2018
Remembering your special musical talents, piano, guitar, ukulele, banjo and wonderful singing voice. Missing the fun times with family and friends where music was always part of the festivities.
November 19, 2017
November 19, 2017
Your presence is still felt in our home and in my heart. Rest in peace.
January 30, 2017
January 30, 2017
Remembering your humor, your musical talents, your deep love of God and family and still missing you.
February 3, 2016
February 3, 2016
Thinking of dear Pops. We miss him so much. Here in New ZEaland, when we see some of his old stomping grounds, we miss him all the more. I wish I could tell him of our adventures here--he would be surprised to know that we made it down here. Here's to his memory--a wonderful man and a great friend.
January 30, 2016
January 30, 2016
Dad is still ever etched in my mind. I see his twinkling blue eyes and loving smile. He made me feel like I was his favorite of us kids then later found out that each one thought the same thing. That's how great a father he was. I miss him and can't wait to see him again when the Lord comes. He would be 107 today.
November 19, 2015
November 19, 2015
Seven years but your smile still burns brightly in our memories. See you sitting br the fire hooking your rugs. Miss you still. RIP dear Dad.
January 30, 2015
January 30, 2015
Well, Dad, you would have been 106 today. Wish we could enjoy a hand of canasta. We had such good times playing and I still laugh when I remember you commenting that the planes overhead were "up there wasting gas." Remembering you with much love and thanks for the wonderful father you were.
November 19, 2014
November 19, 2014
Your memory still warms my mind. How fortunate I was to have you for my Dad. Looking forward to reuniting with you and Mom in heaven.
January 30, 2014
January 30, 2014
Today Dad would have been 105. I'm so glad we had him for 99+ years. His life was a testament of love and devotion. What a wonderful example he was for his family. We appreciate him even more today. So many times I'd like him to be sitting in his favorite chair so we could talk, laugh, play cards. Still missing him.
January 30, 2013
January 30, 2013
Just having had his 104th birthday, Pops would be working on entering his 105th year! We talk of him often. His name is very much present in our home. My children gauge the age of things by comparison to Pops. If I show them an antique building, they ask, "...but is it as old as Pops?" If not, apparently it's just not too old after all. I sure miss my dear Pops & friend.
January 30, 2013
January 30, 2013
Today is your birthday, Dad. Miss your presence in front of the fire hooking your rugs. Remembering you with much love and joy.
December 7, 2012
December 7, 2012
Our fondest memory of Pops is witnessing the joy he brought to his grandchildren when he played Santa Claus on Christmas eve. When he began by jiggling sleigh bells just outside the dark sliding doors the expression of awe on their young faces was priceless. We feel blessed to have known this kind and gentle man.
November 19, 2012
November 19, 2012
I thank God for giving me such a wonderful father. He was the perfect father to me..  Whether seeking advice or just swinging on the porch or listening to him sing or whistle,was always a special time. He had a generous heart and was so kind. I miss him so much.
November 19, 2012
November 19, 2012
I thank God for giving me a wonderful father. He was such an honorable man full of integrity and love. He loved God and you knew it by his life. I remember when a teenager he wrote on a piece of paper how beautiful I was. I still have that piece of paper to this day. He was always there for me. I am proud to be his daughter.
November 19, 2012
November 19, 2012
'I'll give you whatever your little heart desires' is what Pops told me one day when I was a little girl and asked if he could please take my bike down off the hooks in the garage. For some reason, those words always stuck with me. He was a kind and gentle man. Also very funny with a great sense of humor. He was awesome.
November 19, 2012
November 19, 2012
Hey Pop's I can't wait till I see you again. I have so much to tell you. I see you in the mirror every time i shave and see you in my hands when ever I do some work with tools. You are ever with me and I love you ever so much. Your son, Hector Wayne
November 19, 2012
November 19, 2012
I see him still, sitting by the fire or hooking his rugs. We couldn't have had a better father - gentle, firm, honorable. A spiritual leader. Looking forward to the grand reunion when the Lord returns. He always said he wanted "peace and quiet." May he rest in peace.
April 20, 2012
April 20, 2012
Pops was an amazing man. He was strong, gentle, fun and one of the best friends I have ever had or could imagine knowing. I love him and think of him so often. I miss him when I want to tell him news that I know he would enjoy hearing. I love him and will yearn for his hugs until I feel them again.
April 20, 2012
April 20, 2012
So often he is on our minds. I see him singing and playing the guitar or the banjo. Or the piano. After Mom died, he didn't want to play the piano any more as it made him miss her singing beside him. His faith in God was unshakable. His love for family was deep and abiding. He was truly "the best."

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February 1
February 1
I remember you dancing to the records on the stereo in the living room. You twirled around the floor light on your feet. I was just a little girl and you took turns dancing with all the children in the room. We stood on your shoes and you fox trot through one song after another. We didn't know what we were doing, but you made it a hilariously fun evening.
I remember the photos of you standing babies on your hand.
I remember Santa visiting at the Torrance house on Christmas eve. I asked where Pops was and you said he was on the roof feeding carrots to the reindeer. Someone had to hold the reins so they didn't go flying off. And I believed you.
You made so many fun times.
I thank God for you, Pops. 
January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
Thank you, Pops, for the whistling. For the Piano playing. For the "jiggas". For the Canasta and Scrabble. Thank you, Pops, for the warm smiles and hugs. You still are an example of what love looks like. Thank you.
January 30, 2022
January 30, 2022
Dad would have been 113 yrs. old today. Am so happy for the wonderful memories we had together. He was the BEST father a girl could have. I still love and miss him a lot. Am anxiously awaiting the Great Getting Up Morning when Jesus comes.
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January 30, 2020
I remember seeing my first movie “Bambi” that my father took me to see.  I was so terrified when the fire came that I burst into tears and he had to take me out to the lobby and buy me an ice cream to calm down. We didn’t go back in but caught the ferry boat home.  He would take all of us kids to the occasional movie and on the milewalk home would end up carrying the sleeping ones, one on his back and one in his arms.  

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