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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Helen Kelly, 83, born on April 24, 1931 and passed away on June 13, 2014. We will remember her forever.

Helen Anne Kelly, 83, of Mill Valley, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, June 13th, 2014 while on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land in Israel. A devoted mother and grandmother, she is survived by her four children, Michael, Kathy (Michael) Giannini, Colleen (Myles) Ericson, and Sean (Julie) Kelly, and five grandchildren, Siobhan, Ryan, Kelly, Logan, and Luke, and treasured sister and brother Flossie Harrington and Bob McDonagh.

 

Helen was born in San Francisco, raised in Sacramento, and returned to the City where she received her Nursing Diploma from St. Mary’s College of Nursing. It was here that she met, and was later married for 50 years, to the late Neil Joseph Kelly. Helen and Neil chose Marin to raise their family. Over the course of 30 years, Helen worked as the Head Nurse at Sunny Hills of San Anselmo. 

 

Her legacy was her connection to family and friends.  Through entertaining, travel, phone calls, pictures and letters she stayed connected with scores of loved ones throughout the U.S., Ireland, and Australia.   Because of her faith and “love in action,” she lived her life passionately and in service, and devotion. She was the “hub” of care for all who knew her. 


As an active community member, she gave tirelessly of herself until she died. She was a charter member of the United Irish Cultural Center, Associate of The Holy Faith Sisters and an active member of St. Hilary’s Church & School since 1962. She served on multiple committees including the Senior Lunch Program, Tuesday Morning Women’s Group, Charismatic Prayer Group, Lector and Eucharistic Ministry and the coordinator and educator for Beginning Experience. She was an active Outside Volunteer at San Quentin where she served as co-facilitator of the Bible Study Group Discussion, participated in the Restorative Justice program and the Taize Community. While at San Quentin, she was a Lector in the Eucharistic Ministry, and attended weekly mass with Men in Blue.

 

Please join us to celebrate her wonderful life and the joy she shined on all who knew her at a memorial service on Saturday, August 2th  2014 at 11:00 at St. Hilary Catholic Church, Tiburon. The services will be followed by a reception.

In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to any of Helen’s favored charities.

Epilepsy Foundation
Sisters of Holy Faith
Jesuit Prison Ministry
Catholic Charities

 

 

 

April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
Dear Helen,you are a flower that blooms every single day.How to forget your laugter,your joy in Christmas,your children,all you chidren,your joy a Christmas:you made yourself unforgettable.THank you fot your life i,n this place Thank you for your lesson on how to live.
April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
What a beautiful, wonderful person who adopted a young Army Captain and his family as they rented the cottage next to your home in 1967.
So many memories….all of the terrific.
With love. Mary and George Jones
April 24, 2022
April 24, 2022
Impossible to forget a human being like you,dear Helen you gave us all so much you tautgh us so much,you gave us so much strength and warmth.
Blessed you are Helen,for ever and ever,for as long as I live,you will be in my heart.THANK,DEAR HELEN
For all you were,we,I will never forget you.THANK YOU DEAR HELEN
April 24, 2022
April 24, 2022
You are indeed forever missed. Every Christmas we honor your memory by placing angel ornaments on the beautiful olive tree planted outside our Tarantino Hall, in your memory. It is thriving and so is the memory of how special you were to us at St Hilary’s. Rest In Peace
April 24, 2021
April 24, 2021
Dearest Helen,

For me you haven't died,you are just absent,like flowers in Winter,and your kind,smiling heart come always to me,warm,blossoming every day.
You are Light Helen,and Light never dies,it only transform itself.

You left light for us,you left your smiles and your kindness for us.
You are truly unforgettable.

In the sacred name of God,thand for being unforgettable and giving so much to expect from life and from Eteninity
With much love,being of love
Felipe Mucarquer.
April 24, 2021
April 24, 2021
Memories of Helen on what would have been her ninetieth birthday. We still miss your Christmas letters, your phone calls and most of all your visits to Ireland. You have missed the strange times we are living in now and while we know you would coped well with them we are glad you did not have to live through the worries, the social distancing, the discouragement of hugs, the viewing the world from behind a face mask.
Rest in Peace
April 24, 2021
April 24, 2021
You will be forever remembered by us for your kindness, love and generosity.

Mary & George Jones
New Market, MD
June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
It does not seem six years since you left us Helen. Our thoughts are with you and Neil and with Michael, Cathy, Sean and Colleen at this anniversary of your passing.
June 13, 2020
June 13, 2020
Dear Helen - I know you are in complete happiness now and I look forward to joining you some day. You are always in my thoughts and I miss you and I am so grateful to have had you as a friend. Sending love and hugs all the way up to you now.
May 2, 2020
May 2, 2020
The year was 1969 when a young Army Captain recently assigned to The Presidio with his wife and two very young children franticly searched for a rental on a very rainy, cool day in January. Call it divine providence but we were guided to the loving arms of Helen where we not only became renters but were but immediately embraced into the Kelly family. That was fifty one years ago but the love Mary and I have for Helen has never diminished. Fortunately we were able to connect on a few occasions over the years.
George & Mary Jones
New Market, MD.
April 25, 2020
April 25, 2020
We miss you Helen, miss your visits to us here in Ireland, miss your superb Christmas letters, miss our telephone conversations. Rest in Peace
Tony and Marion
April 25, 2020
April 25, 2020
I think of you so often and miss you. You were always so kind and understanding and non-judgmental - not many like you in this world.
I am so fortunate to have had you as a friend during difficult times in my life. I can only imagine the joy you are feeling now in Heaven. Miss you always and love you always. Mary O'Riordan
April 24, 2019
April 24, 2019
How lucky I was, through most of the 1980's, that Helen was on the staff of Sunny Hills.  Those were formative years in my career. Thanks, Helen.
May 4, 2018
May 4, 2018
Hi Mom,
Happy Birthday ! Recently visited your tree outside the church. It's looking very healthy. Miss you , think about you just about every day.
We've had some visitors from Ireland recently from both the Kelly and McDonagh side of the family. The Irish "connection" lives on as does your love for all of us. 
Love you,
Michael
June 13, 2017
June 13, 2017
You are missed every day. Sending love - so lucky to have had you as a true friend. I know you are with all of us still and we feel your love and strength.  
Mary O'Riordan
June 13, 2017
June 13, 2017
All my love and prayers to Michael, Kathy, Colleen and Sean & their family:  Big hugs and prayers,
I loved your mother and I know she is looking down with her smile and love and guiding us all with her love.
Gayle
June 13, 2017
June 13, 2017
Michael, Kathy, Colleen and Sean,
You and all your family members are very much in our thoughts on this the third anniversary of your mother Helen's death. We still miss her great Christmas letters, our occasional phone calls and her visits to us here in Ireland very much. Of course she would not want us to grieve unnecessarily so we are consoled by remembering so many good times together. Tony and Marion Shine
April 25, 2017
April 25, 2017
I know you are in complete happiness now and we will all meet again. I miss you and think of you so often - always remembering your solid advice and loving care. I will never forget you and I am always grateful that I knew you and you were in my life.
April 24, 2017
April 24, 2017
My dearest Helen,

You are in my heart a Lighthouse,a crystal wave in the Infinite ocean of life.I may not see you here again,Helen,but your Victorian Christmas,your joy,will be mine,already forever Dear Helen,How can I thank you enough for being in my road to the Infinite ? I could vave met other people.God gave me the gift of meeting you.Much love.
Much love,and gratitude, forever.Felipe Mucarquer
June 13, 2016
June 13, 2016
I always remember you Helen,your joy of living,your magical Christmas,
in particular your angelical joy at Christmas,your intense love for this world,your smile,which never left you.I'm sad to remember that you are not longer with us,Dear Helen,but you are with the Father,Our Father,and I'm glad that you will alaways be.Your memory will see me through to the last day of my life.Felipe
June 13, 2016
June 13, 2016
Michael, Kathy, Sean and Colleen,

Our thoughts are very much with you all today on the second anniversary of your mother's death.
Tony and Marion Shine
June 15, 2015
June 15, 2015
Michael, Kathy, Sean and Colleen, you are very much in our thoughts during these difficult days which mark the first anniversary of your mother's passing. Tony and Marion
June 15, 2015
June 15, 2015
Thinking of Helen and her wonderful"ness"... over the past week and remembering her passing. 
All my love, thoughts, and prayers.
June 14, 2015
June 14, 2015
From Mary and Chad Johnson....Thinking of Michael, Kathy, Colleen and Sean and their families a year after the passing of a wonderful person Helen.
June 14, 2015
June 14, 2015
unending love, feeling your essence today mom for all the loving presence you gave to make a most beautiful life for us as a family and to all those you touched. xxxooo
June 13, 2015
June 13, 2015
Helen was and it is for us,many things.The fragility of a a flying buterfly,the sweetness of honey,colors of the rainbow,the strengh of hope,the joy of her Christmas..
Thank you forever Helen.You are in >Heaven now.The place were you were born.
Thank you forever
April 24, 2015
April 24, 2015
Happy Birthday to Helen. Mary and I truly miss you.
December 31, 2014
December 31, 2014
One more candle lighted for this dear woman. I'll remember her smile and her encouragement. It wasn't just the kids who Helen reached and helped to change at Sunny Hills. Helen lifted all of us.  She was what made those Sunny Hills shine.
October 12, 2014
October 12, 2014
I just learned the sad news of Helen's passing. We were classmates at St. Mary's College of Nursing. She was a great nurse, the spirit of our class, and a dear friend. To her family and children whom she loved deeply I send my love and prayers!

Always, Anne Bennett
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
Helen one of the most amazing and fantastic person I had the pleasure of getting to know during my life. I cant believe we will never see you in Ireland again and not receive those wonderful Christmas letters. Christmas wont be the same. We will never forget you and may you rest in peace. One in a Million
July 29, 2014
July 29, 2014
I adored Helen from the moment I met her. How can you not love an Irish woman with red hair that makes the best Irish soda bread and gives even better hugs. Helen was a wonderful listener who wasn't judgmental and gave the most practical advice. She was so vibrant, full of life and had such a good sense of humor. Helen was usually the first one at an event and the last to leave...only of course after she did most of the clean up work. Helen told me a story about arriving at her father's death bed and her father looked at her and said "Slow down Helen". Well I for one am glad that Helen didn't heed her fathers advice as she lived a rich, full life and never once slowed down. Helen I will miss you tremendously and will toast you every St. Patrick's Day when I attempt to make your bread.
July 23, 2014
July 23, 2014
I first met Mrs. Kelly when I was 8 years old, soon after meeting her son and my best friend Michael. Mrs. Kelly was always there for Michael and me, a second mom if you will. I shared countless meals that Helen prepared and of course her sage dinner table advice. I will miss her dearly.
July 21, 2014
July 21, 2014
Helen is with her Lord whom she served completely and lovingly on earth. She is with her Neil, too, and all is right with Helen. She has left us all feeling loved, capable and stronger for having learned from her.
I feel very grateful to have experienced Helen during a very difficult transition in my life when I joined Beginning Experience. My prayers are positioned on her family, as they grieve the earthly loss of Helen.
July 20, 2014
July 20, 2014
My husband and I feel truly blessed to have had Helen in our lives. She was someone you felt loved by immediately. She also had the gift to inspire you to give of yourself unconditionally immediately. I miss her so much already and hope that she will continue to inspire me from heaven. I am so grateful she came to our wedding in 2010. I have had the gift of an Irish blessing with a wedding photo on our entrance table. Thank you Helen, Janie and Denis
July 19, 2014
July 19, 2014
There is a void in my world now that Helen isn't in it.
July 19, 2014
July 19, 2014
Helen was a loving, supportive spirit I met when I attended the Tuesday morning Bible Study Group at St Hillary's Church for a few years.Though I'm not Catholic, I was totally welcomed by the group, or as I called them, "The Wise Catholic Ladies." Helen shared her pearls of wisdom gleaned from a life well lived. She was tireless in being of service to so so many. I am truly blessed to have known her.
July 19, 2014
July 19, 2014
“Has this world been so kind to you that you should leave with regret? There are better things ahead than any we leave behind.” ~ C.S. Lewis
Helen we sorely miss your presence here but know you are now reaping the rewards of a life well lived.

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April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
Dear Helen,you are a flower that blooms every single day.How to forget your laugter,your joy in Christmas,your children,all you chidren,your joy a Christmas:you made yourself unforgettable.THank you fot your life i,n this place Thank you for your lesson on how to live.
April 24, 2023
April 24, 2023
What a beautiful, wonderful person who adopted a young Army Captain and his family as they rented the cottage next to your home in 1967.
So many memories….all of the terrific.
With love. Mary and George Jones
April 24, 2022
April 24, 2022
Impossible to forget a human being like you,dear Helen you gave us all so much you tautgh us so much,you gave us so much strength and warmth.
Blessed you are Helen,for ever and ever,for as long as I live,you will be in my heart.THANK,DEAR HELEN
For all you were,we,I will never forget you.THANK YOU DEAR HELEN
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June 13, 2015

 

I carry your memorial card in my wallet so I can look at it often and
remember your strength and ability to comfort and all the joy you
brought to me and others.  Your smile is always visible in my memory
of you.  Love,  Mary   

Birthday with mom last year and always

April 24, 2015

Moms picture with us last year for her 83rd bday...
capturing that precious smile of hers and her love of chocolate cake...
Celebrating with you mom always and the bright spirit of love you radiated,
we will keep passing it on.
unending love,
Colleen 
 

Your Mother is always with you....

August 29, 2014

beautiful sharing sent by my friend Matthew, thank you.

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