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NEW: A memorial service for Helga Sylvia Ulfers (born Sievers) was held on Wednesday November 17, 2021 at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, Herndon, Virginia.
To see the recorded version of the service please contact me (Bob - bobeulfers @ gmail . com) and I will send you a link.

We the three sons of Helga Sylvia Ulfers (and Horst Emil Ulfers) created this webpage in memory of our beloved mother, born in 1931, and passed into eternal life on February 1, 2021. Please feel free to add your own memory of Helga in the tribute section and/or add photos of her life (you are also more than welcome to add any of the same for our father Horst who passed into eternity in 1997).

Bernie, Bob and Detlef Ulfers

Deutsch: Wir, die drei Söhne von Helga Sylvia Ulfers (und Horst Emil Ulfers), haben diese Webseite in Erinnerung an unsere Mutter erstellt, die 1931 geboren wurde und am 1. Februar 2021 verstorben ist. Bitte fügen Sie Ihre eigene Erinnerung an Helga in den Tributbereich ein und / oder Fotos ihres Lebens hinzufügen (Sie können auch gerne dasselbe für unseren Vater Horst hinzufügen, der 1997 verstorben ist). Bernie, Bob und Detlef Ulfers
February 2, 2022
February 2, 2022
Dear Helga,
You are greatly missed but I rejoice that you did not need to suffer long with Stage 4 Cancer and that you have heard our Lord greet you " Welcome, My good and faithful servant" and you are home with Horst and other Loved ones who knew the Lord....
November 18, 2021
November 18, 2021
On behalf of Gisela Koleszar

I met Helga probably around 2010 as part of our Deutche Frauengruppe. I will remember her as a soft-spoken, kind person.

Helga was always well and conservatively dresses, and frugal to the nth degree. Anyone who knew her quickly found out that she was proud of her husband, proud of her sons, and proud of her brothers in Chile.

She had constant inquisitiveness for things of God. After we moved to our retirement community in Pennsylvania, she would call me about once or twice a month for several years. Each time she called, it was to say hello and asked how I was doing but we always transitioned to primarily talked about the truths of God, Jesus and the Bible.

I am delighted to call her my friend and look forward to seeing her again in Heaven.

And so Helga Auf-Wieder-Sehen (Until we meet again).
September 21, 2021
September 21, 2021
Thanks for the invitation, unfortunately we are not well enough to attend the memorial services. Helga and Horst are vivid in our memories, seems like only yesterday when we last saw them. Memorial service for Helga was very moving and would make her proud of her three boys.
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
Today is Helga's 90th birthday and she would have received a call from me.
Your mother and I were part of a German Kaffeeklatsch group for years and we had some wonderful times together. What a remarkable life she lived!
She spoke three languages fluently, was a gifted sculptress and an accomplished knitter. Helga was a very kind and amazing person and I feel very privileged to have known her. She always spoke highly of her family and
I'm so sorry for your loss.
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
Helga was a woneerfl daring friend and i know she is missed by he family that she adoree.
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
It's your birthday. Mine is just a few days before yours. You would always call me on my birthday and we would always call you on yours. It's painful to know that this tradition will never happen again. I miss you. :(
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Words, alone, cannot express the grief I feel, over the passing of Helga. She will forever remain in my heart as a woman that cared for me as much as my own mother. She was always positive and upbeat about things. I grew up in Reston with her son, Robert, and later in college with her son, Detlef. My childhood memories are filled with wonderful experiences of living with the Ulfers family. I will never forget them. My only regret is that I didn't get to know her in her later years, when she was living in Blacksburg. Goodbye and God bless Helga, and may she rest in peace in her eternal life.
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
Helga consistently helped others anytime she was aware of their need even when it was outside her comfort zone. She was always patient, gentle and caring. She loved the Lord and served others without any hesitation and I am certain that Jesus welcomed her with Open arms and greeted her with
"Well done Good and Faithful Servant"....I also remember many years ago when my husband was ill with Cancer that Helga and Horst came to our home and brought us something good to enjoy. Truly a Blessing motivated by the Love of Jesus. PTL!
February 14, 2021
February 14, 2021
Helga and Horst were among the first couples we met in 1971. My wife, Jean, and I had just moved into Reston and we met at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, then just a mission that met in various members' homes. Helga was a loving friend for many years, She and my wife became much closer after Horst died. Helga was always so sweet and caring of "yeene" as she called her. Helga was one of the first to call me in 2019 after jean died. We have stayed in touch all these years and I will treasure the phone calls we have shared . What a lovely lady, I will miss her.
February 13, 2021
February 13, 2021
Helga has been a dear friend and sister-in-Christ of mine and my husband, Jim, since 1991. What a wonderful lady!! ...full of loving kindness, compassion for others and of a humble spirit. We admired her MANY talents, her love of the arts, her gracious hospitality and her joyful smiles (makes me smile when I think of her). She had such a zeal for life, cared deeply for her family and friends, and was always lending her hand to those in need. She will indeed be missed by all who love her until reunited with her for Eternity in Heaven.
February 13, 2021
February 13, 2021
Helga with Horst were like my local aunt and uncle, as my relatives lived far away in Germany, my family and the Ulfers were close since earlier residence in New Jersey, and Robert (Bob) and I were best friends as grade-schoolers in Reston. My mother also was South American-born and my father German, part of a tight immigrant community.
Helga must have hosted me on hundreds of occasions as I played and grew up. Horst led my Webelos troop and coached me in soccer. One very fond memory: Helga and Horst took me on my first camping trips--a hobby that my parents were not familiar with--and that gift to me inspired many such trips of my own in my later life with my wife and kids. Especially whenever I go camping now, I will fondly remember Helga, and Horst too. May they rest in peace together.
February 13, 2021
February 13, 2021
I will always remember Helga and Horst as a couple who accepted me as part of their family when I roomed with their oldest sons Bob and Bernie for one year in an apartment called Drapers Meadow West. Bob and Bernie were VA Tech students, and I a Radford University student. Anyhow Helga and Horst accepted me as pary of their family from day one that we met, as my own parents accepted Bob and Bernie as their family as well. When Bob and Yezmin got married, they opened their house for me to stay with them while I was there for the wedding. Probably would have done the same for Bernie and Meg's wedding if I had been able to get there for it. I had had hernia surgery and was inable yoake both weddings, and rode the bus from Roanoke to Restin. I think I had gone up there another time droving prior to both weddings, each time she and Horst were very welcoming as of I were their own family. Really we are because of our King, Lord and Savior Jesus Christ which makes all true believers in Christ Jesus family, brothers and sisters in Him. When Bob was injured in a caving accident, my parents opened up our home in Roanoke for them to stay while Bob was at Roanoke Memorial Hospital. My memory is that they did stay at my parents house during at least some or all of that time, until Bob came back to Blacksburg. Anyhow she was and is a wonderful blessed woman of God, and she is missed, yet I look forward to seeing her again, along with Horst one day, whenever our King, Lord and Savior Jesus Christ takes me home to heaven and however He has it for me to get there amd whenever that day will be at His determination and plan. I am so honored to have known both Horst and Helga, and look forward to seeing them al0ng with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for all eternity as well as my immediate family and other friends and "family." God bless and comfort Bob, Yezmin, Bernie, Meg, Detlef, and the whole family, and grandchildren.
February 12, 2021
February 12, 2021
The Ulfers were very close family friendly and I have many fond memories growing up together in Reston. Helga and Horst were like another set of parents and I remember staying with them while my parents took a trip somewhere. I shared a picture of them dancing at my wedding. Horst was kind enough to videotape our wedding for us on that day. I will forever remember your parents.
February 12, 2021
February 12, 2021
Lillian and I spent many happy years being Ulfer's neighbors in Reston. Being of German heritage we shared many things in common; my granddaughter was born on April 15, Horst and I worked together at the Defense Communications Agency. It was always a pleasure for us when Helga invited us for dinner; she was a fabulous cook and host. They were our first friends in Reston and will forever dwell in our hearts and mind. 
February 12, 2021
February 12, 2021
I know that my life, and my son's life, were made a little better through knowing Helga. She's been Skye's Oma since he was 4 years old and she was very special to both of us. I was always impressed by her grace and although she claimed not to be very smart, she was an incredible card player, spoke 3 languages, was an incredibly talented artist, had some music skills, could play the guitar and had a lot of wisdom and insight into many of life's issues that others miss, no matter how old they become. She was feisty and stubborn, but also loving and kind. We miss her.
February 11, 2021
February 11, 2021
My mom will certainly be missed. The last several years she would often reply 'Well ... life goes on.'

Well - she is right ... life does go on. And I am glad for that gift! I haven't done anything to earn it - my hope is in Christ alone. My last words to mom were 'I know we will see each other again.'
February 11, 2021
February 11, 2021
In any fairy tale with a sweet grandmother I've always imagined my Oma.
February 10, 2021
February 10, 2021
Thank you. Beautiful selection of photos!
She blessed us with her kindness and sympathy. I'm constantly surprised how many friends she made wherever she lived.

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February 2, 2022
February 2, 2022
Dear Helga,
You are greatly missed but I rejoice that you did not need to suffer long with Stage 4 Cancer and that you have heard our Lord greet you " Welcome, My good and faithful servant" and you are home with Horst and other Loved ones who knew the Lord....
November 18, 2021
November 18, 2021
On behalf of Gisela Koleszar

I met Helga probably around 2010 as part of our Deutche Frauengruppe. I will remember her as a soft-spoken, kind person.

Helga was always well and conservatively dresses, and frugal to the nth degree. Anyone who knew her quickly found out that she was proud of her husband, proud of her sons, and proud of her brothers in Chile.

She had constant inquisitiveness for things of God. After we moved to our retirement community in Pennsylvania, she would call me about once or twice a month for several years. Each time she called, it was to say hello and asked how I was doing but we always transitioned to primarily talked about the truths of God, Jesus and the Bible.

I am delighted to call her my friend and look forward to seeing her again in Heaven.

And so Helga Auf-Wieder-Sehen (Until we meet again).
September 21, 2021
September 21, 2021
Thanks for the invitation, unfortunately we are not well enough to attend the memorial services. Helga and Horst are vivid in our memories, seems like only yesterday when we last saw them. Memorial service for Helga was very moving and would make her proud of her three boys.
Her Life

Obituary of Helga Sylvia Ulfers

February 9, 2021
Helga Sylvia Ulfers, age 89, of Blacksburg, Virginia passed into eternity peacefully on February 1, 2021 a few days after seeing all seven of her grandchildren and her three sons. She was born in 1931 in Santiago, Chile to Erwin and Hermine Sievers. She married Horst Emil Ulfers in April 1960 who preceded her in death in 1997.

She was raised in Chile the second of three siblings. She received her Christian baptism on October 15 1932. She grew up as part of the German community in Chile. After moving to the USA with her beloved Horst, she returned regularly to Chile to visit her parents, her two brothers, Ronald and Gerold, and her dear friends and extended family. She had a very special place in her heart for the wonderful Chilean people, landscape and rugged-stunning coastline.

She is known as Helga, Ma, Mom, Oma and Helgita. She lived a healthy and vibrant life to the end, enjoying frequent outdoor walks. She was fluent in three languages (Spanish, German and English). Although most of her years were spent in the USA she always stayed in close contact with her childhood school friends in Chile. She always appreciated beauty whether in art, music, or life itself; It wasn't unusual to hear her say "That is a beautiful thing." As a young woman, she studied (ceramics) abroad in Germany where she first met Horst. She was very creative as evidenced by the artwork hanging in so many of the homes of her extended family and friends – beautiful expressions of who she was. Her faith in Christ expressed itself in her simple love towards family and stranger. She would often volunteer in her community and at her church. People from at least four continents, including Africa, who visited her had very fond memories of her. Her kindness was an expression God’s gift to us all. When grandchildren visited her in Reston, they enjoyed playing games like Canasta and Mexican train dominos with her. She enjoyed guitar and piano until the end of her days. And she will always be known by those who visited her in Reston Virginia for her hospitality. In 2018 she moved to Showalter Center in Blacksburg, Virginia where she made new friends and continued to enjoy her amazing life.

After their marriage ceremony in Chile, Horst and Helga settled down in the United States to begin their new life together raising a family of three sons: Bernard, Robert and Detlef. During those first years in New Jersey they made many life-long friends. In 1970 they moved the family from New Jersey to Reston, Virginia where she and Horst continued to enjoy a happy marriage. They were founding and active members of Good Shepherd Lutheran Church and members of The Reston Chorale. In 1989 they moved to the Netherlands for several years before returning to Virginia. After Horst's passing in 1997, she continued to live in Reston with remarkable independence, always ready to welcome family and friends into her condo, where she was very much appreciated as a “great neighbor.” In 2014 her older brother Ronald Sievers preceded her in death.

She is survived by her younger brother Gerold Sievers, her three sons and all her grandchildren: Caleb, Nathanael, Carolyn and Jesse, who were born to Bernard and Meg; and Josiah, Hannah and Bina, who were born to Robert and Yezmin. She also has three great grandchildren: Peter, Anna and Joshua, who were born to Carolyn and Lance as well as many more of her brothers’ children and grandchildren in Chile and Europe.

On what would have been their 61st wedding anniversary, April 17 2021, Helga and her beloved Horst cremated remains were interred in Blacksburg at the West View Cemetery. On November 17 2021 at 11:00am a memorial service is scheduled at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Herndon Virginia to celebrate her life. For those not able to attend a virtual option is available through the following link: https://vimeo.com/event/1356227

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A tribute from Gisela Koleszar

November 18, 2021
On behalf of Gisela Koleszar
I met Helga probably around 2010 as part of our Deutsche Frauengruppe. I will remember her as a soft-spoken, kind person.
Helga was always well and conservatively dresses, and frugal to the nth degree. Anyone who knew her quickly found out that she was proud of her husband, proud of her sons, and proud of her brothers in Chile.
She had constant inquisitiveness for things of God. After we moved to our retirement community in Pennsylvania, she would call me about once or twice a month for several years. Each time she called, it was to say hello and asked how I was doing but we always transitioned to primarily talked about the truths of God, Jesus and the Bible.
I am delighted to call her my friend and look forward to seeing her again in Heaven.
And so Helga Auf-Wieder-Sehen (Until we meet again).

Tante Helga und Onkel Horst

May 3, 2021
Wir erinnern uns gerne an die Treffen und schöne Stunden mit Tante Helga und Onkel Horst bei Eurer Oma und Opa in Oldenburg.
Ich hatte immer die Gelegenheit mit Tante Helga spanisch zu sprechen und uns über Chile auszutauschen.
1992 haben wir ein Wochenende  mit Tante und Onkel in Nederland bei ihnen verbracht. Eure Mutter hatte einen leckeren pastel de choclo ( chilenischer Maisauflauf ) zubereitet und euer Vater einen vino Tinto aus Chile (chilenischer Rotwein ) besorgt.
In Gedanken werden Tante Helga und Onkel Horst immer bei uns bleiben.

My cousin Helga

April 8, 2021
On behalf of my Hellmuth Sievers my mother's beloved cousin :

" Dear nephews Bernie, Bob & Detlef and families. 

It was really very sad news that Helga passed away. 
As you may remember we were very close not only as cousins but also as very good friends.
Each time Emmy and I (and later I), had an opportunity to visit either in Chile or in the USA we used that opportunity to meet. The problem was that the distances were so great that it was, unfortunately, not as frequent as we would have wished. But each time it was a joy.
Also with your father our mutual understanding was prima.
I have been remembering so many good times, the last one was when I visited her (how many years ago I do not remember) and we made the trip to Bernie's house. Detlef was also there. 
Helga is resting now in peace which is probably the best that could happen to her by freeing her from suffering after such severe operation. 
We have to accept God's call  and as consolation to all of us who are mourning her is the assurance that she has joined her beloved Horst in Heaven.
Con mucho sentimiento y acompañándolos en vuestro dolor les abraza muy cariñosamente, 
Uncle Hellmuth "

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