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May the Lord be with you. We mourn the passing of our Father, Husband, Grandfather, Brother, Uncle and dear friend who passed on to glory on 30th October 2020. He was loving, selfless, a ray of sunshine and brought so much laughter and charisma when he walked into a room.

HENRY CHUKWUDI ODIAH.
We will remember him forever.

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February 19
February 19
Happy Heavenly Birthday Uncle Henry. we think about you and Suz often. Your kindness and warmth is missed today and always. Continue to rest in peace Sir.
October 31, 2023
October 31, 2023
My darling Henry, I can't believe it's been three years you left us, we think of you every day I miss you so much but I know you are in a better place. Love always.  Pat Hayble.
February 21, 2023
February 21, 2023
May his soul continue to rest in peace May light Perpetual continue to shine upon his soul May God Almighty continue to hold console and comfort the family he left behind
February 19, 2023
February 19, 2023
Missing you every seconds, hours and every day . Continue to rest in peace.
February 19, 2023
February 19, 2023
Happy birthday my darling Henry, Not a day gone bye that we're not thinking of you, Missing you so much and forever in our heart daily. Love you always.                                                    Patricia Hayble.
October 30, 2022
October 30, 2022
My darling Henry, I can't believe it's been two years you left us but it seem just like yesterday. We stop by your resting place today to see you, you are always in our heart daily, Rest on my dear.Love always.                          Patricia Hayble.
May 8, 2022
May 8, 2022
Dear Father,
I miss you and I love you always. Stop by in my dreams when you can, it’s a been while.

Nnamdi
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
My darling Henry I Still can't believe that you are not with us physically. Not a day gone bye that we're not thinking of you, I miss our chat,your smile,food etc.You are always in our heart daily. Happy birthday my darling.              Love you always.   pay Hayble.
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad. Going through another year, not hearing your voice. It does not get an easier. All the ups and downs. We are trying! Dad, I am trying! I wanted to wish you, A Happy Birthday. Miss you.
November 1, 2021
November 1, 2021
My dear brother, May your gentle soul rest in peace Amen Rest in the blossom of the Lord
February 21, 2021
February 21, 2021
Uncle Henry, I am yet to believe you are gone. You were such a caring, wonderful and loving man to everyone who crossed your path. Any time we are all together, it is full of pleasantries, humour and hospitality.
You will forever be in our hearts. Rest in perfect peace.
December 18, 2020
December 18, 2020



Stories

From Dr. John Larry Ozoh: Early Memories of Henry Boy Odiah
Shared by Dr. Larry Ozoh on December 18, 2020
Henry Boy Odiah was born almost 1 year before my birth. I was born at Ibusa and Henry was my very FIRST BEST FRIEND and until his passing, remained my true best friend of all time. As children, we were inseparable. After almost 40 years, through the intervention of Chudi and Maureen Obiofuma, I flew to London from Atlanta, USA to reunite with my friend and brother, Boy Odiah. This is after decades of looking for him. On that day, I also reunited with his beautiful mother, who was living in London as well.
In January this year, I called Boy and told him that I was coming to London and that I would be celebrating my 60th birthday with him. Unfortunately that was not to be as COVID hit and changed the world forever and coming to London remained unattainable for most of this year.
Oh my God. I feel lost, with my friend and brother gone. And too soon, I might add. Henry and I thought about each other even in the years that we could not see each other. For instance, after the Nigerian-Biafran war, he traced me to Onitsha, nine years after we left Ibusa. It was in 1976 and we were about 16 years of age, and he visited me in my school in Onitsha. That was one of the happiest days of my life. I will definitely miss Boy Odiah and he will be forever missed.


December 18, 2020
December 18, 2020
Difficult to believe that you are no more with us Herny. But you will always be in your heart. Wonderful man with good love. Your voice and smile will be with us forever. We missed you. Rest in Peace. Bro Henry.
December 18, 2020
December 18, 2020
Dear Uncle Henry, I was saddened to hear of your sudden death.
May our Lord bless and comfort the family you have left behind.
You will for ever live in our heart and memory.
Rest in perfect peace
My sincere condolences to Aunty Maria and all the children you left behind.
December 18, 2020
December 18, 2020
With a heavy heart I am writing this tribute to a kind, gentle man, a wonderful husband and loving father. From the moment I met Henry, there was never a day when a smile was not on his face. Henry brought joy, happiness, laughter and love into Maria’s life and I am beyond blessed to have known him. Henry, we will never forget the warmth that radiated so effortlessly from you, your laughter, your selflessness, your beaming smile, your ability to light up a room.

My children remember the wonderful “coin” jokes and magic tricks he played with them from when they were young. As adults they still remember the time he spent with them, always making time to dedicate to the children. Henry had time for everyone, young and old. That was the kind of man Henry was.

Dearest Henry, although you are now with our Lord, your memory will remain in our hearts forever, you will forever be missed but your spirit stays with us, through our memories, through your children, through your lovely wife. May you rest in eternal peace.
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
The first and only time I met him; a man clothed in humility, very welcoming and happy, full of laughter and humour. Reaching out to every body on a very personal level; little did I know that he was writing the closing and last chapter of his life on earth. Good men are quickly gone with the wind and I wonder why they leave the scene so early. God knows the best and we take solace from that. Rest in perfect peace and rise quickly when the Lord shall come with a shine on your face. Adieu
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
He was a genuine gentle man who I will forever love and cherished the little time I spend will him. Rest in peace Mr Henry Odiah and may the hosts of Angels welcome you to the blossom of our Lord. May the perpetual light continue to shine on you. Amen. Love you and miss you, good bye.
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
We miss you so much Uncle Henry!! The loveliest man you’d ever meet. Your smile lit up the whole room. Your laugh was infectious. You never failed to ask me if I had eaten, if I was okay or if I needed anything. I feel privileged to have been able to call you my uncle and God-father. Until we meet again, Rest In Perfect Peace.

December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
Henry!!,very difficult to believe that you are gone to meet with the Lord. You were too meek and gentle. God loved you more.
Rest perfectly in Peace in the Lord, Amen
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
Uncle Henry ...We miss you dearly

Still remember your consistently selfless support to Aunty Maria during Susan’s funeral...You were everywhere lending strength to each one of us.

Uncle Henry you were truly exceptional. A kind and happy man. Your hospitality was rare and heartfelt. Thank you for all you were.

Thank you for lighting up our world whilst here.

Heaven most certainly gained an angel.
We pray for you eternal rest sir
Rest well.
December 17, 2020
December 17, 2020
Uncle Henry,
It was a rude shock to hear of your passing. It was nice to have met a nice person like you and unfortunately I will not get another chance to see you again as heaven is now your home. I know the angels have welcomed you to your new home. Rest well in the bosom of your maker.
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
It is extremely difficult to comprehend that I am writing a tribute to Henry! Which Henry? Is it Henry Odiah, the President of Ibusa Gentlemen Association? I ask in anxious anticipation.
Henry has no doubt left massive hole in the life of every individual that came close to him in his life time.
Henry is simply a one off human being. A leader, a motivator, a fine Ibusa man that would smile to make others do so.
Henry! We shall greatly miss you. Our only consolation is that you have taken the inevitable step towards eternal life with God almighty.
May your Gentle Soul rest in peace and tranquility
Jonathan Nwabueze Okeze
OBOLI IBUSA
(Patron Ibusa Gentlmen Association UK)
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
My dear Uncle, Father Henry it would have be lovely if I have meet you before death snatched you away. I remember the last conversation we had on the telephone and how your voice still keep resounding to me. My late mum use to speak about your kindness and your gentleness but fate never allowed me to meet you. I love you Sir as tears can not bring you back. I and my family will miss you. I pray your gentle soul rest in peace. Farewell my Uncle.
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
My dear brother may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen. You will be missed but God loves you more rest in peace Amen.
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
Oga Henry as I would normally call you, rest in peace. If this is what they mean by life is short, your sudden departure says It all. RIP
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
Forever we shall all miss you! From the moment I know you gave my friend the life she deserves, you have never stepped down. The joy and happiness you brought to so many lives remain for ever and the legacy we shall all continue to remember you.

A man full of his words and promises you had used these tools to set a life free, now you are free from all burdens of life in this freedom you shall continue to live for ever till we part no more.

Sleep well Henry Odiah!
December 16, 2020
December 16, 2020
Sometimes you just need to look around you to see the love and respect that one has for you. It is clear that you touched the lives of so many people, including mine, Uncle Henry.

From the moment that you welcomed me to your home, you treated me with warmth and class. You were a joyous man for the occasion and it was clear that you lit up any room you walked into. I was lucky to have known you and it saddens me to know that you are no longer with us.

I express my wholehearted condolences to the family and all who knew him. You will be surely missed and you were gone too soon.
December 15, 2020
December 15, 2020
I miss you.

I miss your endless teasing,
Laughing in jest
As we banter over me getting married.

I miss your never-ending Dad jokes,
Your deep rumbling laugh,
Your infectious smile that made everything feel right.

I miss the time we spent together,
Watching nature shows,
Listening to the soothing tones of David Attenborough,
Cementing my fears of Australia with deadly spiders.

You were more than a father to me,
You were my model in life.
You taught me what I should seek in a man,
And for that I am eternally grateful.

I am grateful for the love you bestowed upon me,
The patience you had in nurturing me,
The effort you made to guide and protect me.

As much as I miss you,
I know that you have found peace.
You were at peace on earth,
And will surely be at peace in heaven.

Rest In Perfect Peace.
December 15, 2020
December 15, 2020

Just like a candle in the wind,you just burnt down fast.Even when you were most relevant.
Henty you will want to please everybody even to a fault.
Smile even when it is difficult to achieve.
Easy going but strict when nessary.unknown that the candle was fast burning.
I really missed you than I can express but to live in the hearts of those that love you means you have not died.
Sleep on guy until the ressurection hour.  
Sir law ogbolu
December 14, 2020
December 14, 2020

Though the world is so confusing and full of pain with the harsh sun and the torrential rain 2020 brought, I know that this life isn't truly the end.
Go soar with the angels uncle Henry and praise our Lord with the praising and joy you'll never get bored. Knowing you and Susan are there makes Heaven seem more fun.
Your were Strong to the very end, your gentle voice, your sense of humour, your humility, always ready to help, fiercely loved his family, your strength and love for us
Will remain a part of your legacy.
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
Our beloved uncle Henry you will be missed forever but you remain in our hearts and memories. Thank you for all the love you showed to your family. Susan will be with you on your journey.. our love forever.
December 12, 2020
December 12, 2020
It with a heavy heart that I write this tribute to a departed brother. Henry nwannem (my brother) as I always addressed you.

Your death has been such a rude shock to both Peter and I. When we heard we found it difficult to believe and we still find it shocking to fathom. However, we cannot question God.

You were such a decent gentleman, loving husband, dad, grand dad, family man and a great friend to many. Your smile lit up the room. Your humility was legendary and seeing you by Maria’s side always made us happy because you were both an amazing couple. And you truly completed her.

Our loss is heaven’s gain. May your gentle rest in eternal glory. God be with you till we meet again. It is really true that the good die young.

Dr Peter and Elizabeth Ozua.
December 12, 2020
December 12, 2020
My dear brother in law, you left us too soon but God knows why. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace in JESUS Name. AMEN.
December 9, 2020
December 9, 2020
Hey Dad.
I could ramble for years about how much I love you so so much. However, you and I know the love is deeper than anything else. So what I will say is that Heaven is graced by your spirit and presence. Because of you, I am looking forward to the day we meet again. I feel lost Dad, hold my hand and show me the way. To conclude, fly high past the sky my dear Father. You may not be here in phsyical form, but i feel you every minute of everyday. Your voice and laughter lingers in my mind everyday. Your smile and your story telling is forever cemented in my heart. You told me be a man and remain at peace every where you go. I will give it a go, because like you would say, always try. I wish our journey together never ended, in fact i wish i could have came with you. Nevertheless, God’s time is the best. Rest while you can, I will be there soon to disturb you. Also, for those reading this, I love you and we will go far in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen❤️
December 5, 2020
December 5, 2020
My darling Henry, What can I say, words have failed me. Beautiful soul cut down in his prime, wonderful soul gone so soon, sleep well my darling sleep well on till we meet to part no more may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen.           Sister Pat Hayble.
November 21, 2020
November 21, 2020
Baba Namdi as I called you it is sad to hear your passing away to glory to go and rest in the bossom of your Lord you are such a wonderful,quiet, helpful,and real family man thanks for been a good Neighbour to my sister Mary May your gentle soul rest in peace May God Almighty be with the family you left behind console and comfort them 
November 15, 2020
November 15, 2020
Missing you
Shared by Tessy Odiah on November 3, 2020
My darling brother Henry, I am still in shock and denial. I keep waiting to hear your voice down the phone, but obviously not happening.
I loved you from the moment I knew you and will continue to love you forever. Sleep well big bro, and remain blessed forever ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
November 15, 2020
November 15, 2020
Uncle Henry, my Uncle for a lifetime...
- When I toss my little children up in the air, I remember many years earlier, Uncle Henry tossing my little-self high up too.

- When I drive my children to school, I remember my Uncle Henry on our long trips to boarding school.

- By the Grace of God, I will also visit my children at their place of work, much like my Uncle Henry visited, early in my career.

Through various stages of my life, Uncle Henry played the role of my Father, who went to Heaven when I was a little child.

I was very attached to my loving and caring Uncle prior to his relocation to the UK. We remained in touch but not as much as we both would have loved.

I love my mentor, life coach and uncle so much. So I cannot begin to imagine what His wife and children are going through right now... May the Almighty Comforter touch their grieving hearts.

Uncle Henry lives on in my heart,
Uncle Henry lives on in our hearts,
Uncle Henry lives on in Christ Jesus.
November 14, 2020
November 14, 2020
Our very own Henry, a dedicated son and a faithful friend to the end. The entire Okonta and Okoye family are aghast at your passing, but are still comforted for the privilege of knowing HENRY ODIAH! We will never forget your support and visits to your uncle Frank and how you gave us so much encouragement - you are truly and sorely forever missed! May your beautiful soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.

November 14, 2020
November 14, 2020
Dearest uncle, it’s taken me a while to actually get on here and leave a message. Probably because it’s taken all that time to think of the right words to say. We miss you!

I can hands on heart say that of all the uncles I have (and there are many), you are THE ONLY one that I can honestly say I could laugh with, chill with and relate with. You went out of your way to be that uncle and for that I am so grateful. I have fond memories from when I was much younger, right into my adult years of your jokes, your cooking, your fun loving nature and it is unbelievable to think that a giant like you with so much life and vibrance has now left us. It’s unbelievable.

I know you are up in heaven, sharing your love and laughter with all the angels- lucky them!! Thank you for giving us so much to remember you by. Thank you for everything uncle. God bless you and keep you until we all meet again.
November 13, 2020
November 13, 2020
My most adorable brother in-law, still too shock to accept this sad reality. You gave my dear sister, Maria so much love and happiness. Laughter and contentment were your second nature. Your humility knew no bounds, even to both young and old. You were a blessing to all that crossed your path as you personified the virtues of humanity and God. Like St Francis of Assisi all your actions were crowned faithfully with the simple prayer - MY GOD AND MY ALL.
We continue to rest our strength unstintingly on our Lord. Heaven's gain
November 9, 2020
November 9, 2020
Where angels fly and cherubs sing,
That is where you will always be.
Where there is the warmth of the sun and
the cool of the ocean breeze,
That is where your presence will always be felt.
You were warm like the dessert sun
You were gentle like the summer breeze
You were great like the iroko tree
You were wise like the voice of the elders
You were love
You were light
You were good
And we will miss you Uncle Henry, for you stood for all those things that make life a more beautiful place. Till we meet to part no more, rest in the bossom of Christ. Heaven must be rejoicing at the return of a special angel, say hello to Suz for me Sir. You will be missed so very dearly. 
November 8, 2020
November 8, 2020
Henry is one of those people who is irreplaceable, his kindness, humour and putting other first . You did your best within the time allocated to you on the surface of the earth. Thank you for always making sure everyone was okay. You will never be forgotten. I will miss Henry for ever . Your neighbor your sister
Doyin and kids
November 7, 2020
November 7, 2020
I still don't have the right words to say...Uncle Henry, you will be so dearly missed!

May the Lord receive you warmly in His glory and I pray for all who need the strength to bear this loss, that it will be granted them abundantly by the Almighty.

Adiós Dear Uncle Your fund memories would never be forgeten.
November 7, 2020
November 7, 2020
Dear brother, with deep heart and sorrow I say goodnight. You left too soon. We will miss you because your presence amongst our gathering was always a breadth of fresh air. May your soul rest in perfect peace in the Lord. Adieu brother.
November 6, 2020
November 6, 2020
Dear uncle HENRY, it is with a heavy heart that I write this tribute…
Your death came as a very big shock to the family, you were a breath of fresh air and a delight to be around…I still cannot believe you are gone.
Wow, where do I start, I’ll start from the beginning.
When I was a child, you were one of the best uncles a child could ever ask for, I remember (my siblings and I) always boasting about you to my cousins from my mother’s side of the family. We used to tell them that you bought us whatever we wanted; we even told them you were a magician because you performed magic - at least that was what we thought, until Azuka, my cousin, told us the secret.
Back then, I always look forward to your visits; I remember always asking you to perform magic -you’ll ask my siblings and I to close our eyes and sing (‘Mana Mana Tutu Tururu’ from ‘The Mappets’) a particular song, then suddenly lots of sweets and chocolate will fall from the ceiling. We (MY SIBLINGS AND I) were ‘EXCESSIVELY PROUD’ of you because you were a fantastic uncle…
Uncle Henry, thank you for giving us (my siblings and I) one of the best childhood memories
ADIEU my loving uncle, adieu and PLEASE don’t forget to say hello to grandma!!!
From your nieces and nephew
Ify, Awele and Som Jr
November 5, 2020
November 5, 2020
Some people leave an indelible Mark on your life when you come into contact with them, you were one of such people Uncle Henry. You exuded kindness, compassion, and love; leaving everyone that came into contact with you better off than before they met you. You were an angel, and have gone back to your creator to rest, rest well sir. Say hello to our darling Susan for us. You are both missed so surely and will forever be in our hearts. Gone too soon ❤️
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February 19
February 19
Happy Heavenly Birthday Uncle Henry. we think about you and Suz often. Your kindness and warmth is missed today and always. Continue to rest in peace Sir.
October 31, 2023
October 31, 2023
My darling Henry, I can't believe it's been three years you left us, we think of you every day I miss you so much but I know you are in a better place. Love always.  Pat Hayble.
February 21, 2023
February 21, 2023
May his soul continue to rest in peace May light Perpetual continue to shine upon his soul May God Almighty continue to hold console and comfort the family he left behind
His Life
December 18, 2020
Henry Chukwudi Ikemefuna Odiah was the 9th of 12 children and 2nd of youngest of 7 males in the family of Late Chief J C K and Nneayi Hannah Nwafuleze Odiah. Born in February 19th 1959 and fondly known as "boyi-ukwu"(big-boy) he was the outgoing type in the family - an extrovert, was great at making friends and well loved and popular amongst his peers. Growing up , Henry attended St. Bridget Catholic primary school Enugu then East Central State and Demonstration primary school Ibuzor in Delta State. He then went on to attend St. Augustine's College Ibuzor where he completed his secondary education. While working with Bennett Industries limited, he attended a lot of courses in modern building and construction technology - Thermal and Acoustic insulation, modern electrical wiring, installations and controls. He rose to become a very senior manager in the organization before he decided to travel to Europe to further his career. Henry had a great sense of humour that will always engage you and make you never stop laughing. He had a unique way of bringing up conversations that would always bring smiles to a sad face. Henry was a Kind man to be around with all the time. He was a generous giver and believed that giving and helping others was a way of life. Family was important to Henry. A wonderful Husband to Maria his wife, a father of five Children - Odiaka , Chukwudi , Emeka , Nnamdi, daughter -Nkonye and step children, he loved them and was very proud of them all. Henry was also a proud Grand Father of three children. He had great love for his grandchildren and would always talk about them with pride. Henry radiated love and had great sense of belonging, leadership and social responsibility. He was the head of the Odiah family in the UK and a traditional Chief in his home town Ibuzor in Delta state with the title of Ono-Owu. He belonged to a number of social Clubs in the UK and was the President of the Ibusa Gentlemen Association (IGA), in the UK. He was Peace loving and would always seek peace with people irrespective of being the one offended. He would always extend the hand of reconciliation to diffuse conflicts wherever he went. We have lost a great man too early. Henry was full of life and had great plans ahead of him. He departed has created a vacuum that will be difficult to fill. We pray that the Almighty Father our GOD will protect and guide the family that he has left behind. May his Gentle Soul rest in Perfect Peace and in the Bosom of our Lord JESUS CHRIST, Amen.
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From Dr. John Larry Ozoh: Early Memories of Henry Boy Odiah

December 18, 2020
Henry Boy Odiah was born almost 1 year before my birth. I was born at Ibusa and Henry was my very FIRST BEST FRIEND and until his passing, remained my true best friend of all time. As children, we were inseparable. After almost 40 years, through the intervention of Chudi and Maureen Obiofuma, I flew to London from Atlanta, USA to reunite with my friend and brother, Boy Odiah. This is after decades of looking for him. On that day, I also reunited with his beautiful mother, who was living in London as well. 
In January this year, I called Boy and told him that I was coming to London and that I would be celebrating my 60th birthday with him. Unfortunately that was not to be as COVID hit and changed the world forever and coming to London remained unattainable for most of this year. 
Oh my God. I feel lost, with my friend and brother gone. And too soon, I might add. Henry and I thought about each other even in the years that we could not see each other. For instance, after the Nigerian-Biafran war, he traced me to Onitsha, nine years after we left Ibusa. It was in 1976 and we were about 16 years of age, and he visited me in my school in Onitsha. That was one of the happiest days of my life. I will definitely miss Boy Odiah and he will be forever missed. 

Missing you, my brother Henry

November 3, 2020
My darling brother Henry, was the best brother that anyone could ask for. He was always there whenever he was needed. My brother would do anything to make other people happy....anyone, no matter how young or old was important to him. He  had charisma and a great presence and stood out in any gathering.
I will absolutely miss my big brother for his great sense of humour, gentleness, patience and humility . Oooh, my brother how I would miss you. Thank God that you knew the Lord Almighty and demonstrated this in the way you treated everyone that crossed your path in life. Sleep well and enjoy your new Life in Heaven in the presence of our Saviour Jesus Christ. Continue to rest in perfect peace, Amen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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