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Let the memory of Hepworth Xigagane Hlongwane be with us forever
36 years old
Born on August 2, 1976
Passed away on April 19, 2013
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Hepworth Xigagane Hlongwane aka Tendai Mothisi, 36 years old, born on August 2, 1976, and passed away on April 19, 2013. We will remember him forever.
Happy heavenly birthday papa may u grow and watch over us as your children as years pass ❤️I never got the chance to know u but through your children and people u lived with I know u ❤️we love you papa
Happy heavenly birthday Daddy!! I love you and miss you. I know I never got to meet you but the things I hear about you are lovely. You will always be in my heart. Love by Tenashe Maraka.
I'm currently not okay I need your guidance it feels like ever since I've lost you my life Is a mess... When I lost you I lost everything All I ask is your guidance, protection and strength, just so I don't feel like I'm worthless anymore I pray for peace daddy I pray for happiness
Hello papa I know you watching us ️a week doesn't pass without me thinking of you and my siblings may you please give us the strength and power to overcome the things we facing in life ️give us the strength and the wisdom so we can meet and love each other just like you wound have wished and loved. I love you my siblings can we please get time to meet that's my everyday prayer before it's too late
LOVE YOU TOO MUCH GUYS SEGOPOTSO❤️ NTWANANO❤️ TINASH❤️
Today I woke up missing you Today I woke up wanting to bond with my father I woke up wanting to daddy’s little girl.....
I just thank the lord for the chances I get to make you proud fly high my angel please be there to guide me and support me mentally I need your help I need you here with me but since that can’t happen please stay with me
Not a day goes past I think about you everyday I think of all the memories that keep fading away due to the lack remembrance the other day I went to visit your grave for the first time in 8 years that was the most emotional experience ever... I will love you for now and forever more ❤️
"Til death do us part". That's indeed the case. Gone too soon. I just thank God I had time with you and you left me with a gift that I will cherish all my life. 8 years later and some days I still can't believe I can breathe and live without you.
Spent yesterday in the mountains we loved. It was nothing short of magic. Just as everything that is you. It's a full moon tonight. Happy 44th anniversary ya letšatši la gago la matswalo Like a comet blazing cross the evening sky...gone too soon.
Selaelo
From Tenashe I love my dad. Every day I wonder what he would look like. My Mom and I always miss him. And I love my dad (I know I already said that but I want to say it again). And I always will love my dad
My dear friend may your humble soul rest in Eternal peace, I learnt about your passing when I was wheelchair bound. I could not even attend your own funeral, I live with the memories we both created in Peninsula Technikon(CPUT) and outside. I remember when you came to pick me up in PLK military base @ work to visit your Son in Giyani, & when I visited you in Lebowakgomo I was warmly welcomed I have always been happy around you as a friend and brother. May the good Lord protect your loved one's and shower them with blessings. RIP my dear Friend.
Still loving you. Still missing you...#forevermissed #foreverloved...as it always will be. Today I'm grateful. Yesterday I was grateful and I know I will always be grateful for the gift that your life has been to my life. Thank God for your life my love! Can you see the growth? I know you are proud of us. We are proud of you love. Love you always. Later!
My brother, another year and another reminder of the pain one felt when you left this world. Too sudden and unplanned, we shared many memories, albeit for the shortest of time we spent, I will forever cherish. Just the other day, I anticipated you calling on Friday midday to say you are back where do we meet. Painfully that was not to be as you phone rings no more, you name appears nowhere on my contact list but in my heart. Farewell, you lessons are never forgotten, you influence still reins supreme.
19 April 2013 I saw zero hope zero anything. To say devastated is an understanstatment...words do grief no justice. It was intense!! They say the stronger the love the deeper the grief. It's been hectic but I'm so soo happy and content that today I was finally able to celebraye your life and do so in a manner that I think you would've appreciated. Tenashe asked a lot of questions about your pictures and where you are.... and I did my best lol! What would u have said....I wonder motho. Anyway just dropping by to say we love you...we miss you....and remember you always. May your spirit of soul continue to RIP. MWAH
August the 2nd marks the anniversary of your birth. It's been 3 years since you departed and not a day goes by without a thought/s of you & I get now that it's in our hearts,our memories,our dreams you will forever live...differently but a very real part of us. Yesterday was too hard that's for sure. You would have turned 40 and the biggest #mindphuck is still not knowing what to do really on days like these. A candle still seemed appropriate; & sure enough Tenashe made the birthday link and started singing
My brother even today, I am struggling to make peace with your absence in my life. You have been a great brother, I always remember you with emotion. The journey we have travelled together makes it difficult and impossible for this day, your birthday, to pass without the emotion visits me. When this day comes I feel your presence though we can't catch up, I do that by myself and have faith in me that you do the same. Majuta
So many questions.Not enough answers. As far as logic can go the heart is still not satisfied...prompting the mind to seek more reason. What I know in this moment is that all questions are answered completely by love. I smile because I know you know that. And it's at this moment of reckoning, I know you are smiling back and I have no questions...only love.
Ke go gopotše Xigagane... Just got home from a drive le Tinashe bumping Lemar reminiscing about days when we did those drives bumping Lemar...not the same. I miss you motho-waka. Kudu kudu ka matla a go se lekane le selo... A ke tsebe gore ke dire eng.
I miss you my brother, we had great time together. The love we shared, I will forever be greatful for God given opportunity to share those moments together.
Left me with a beautiful daughter...a living memory of you but your absence is absolute grief. No warning no goodbye, but memories of you will never die. Days pass but thoughts of you always stay, wondering if you see me...if you see us. Do you?
T & I went to visit koko ko Mams this past Sunday. A beautiful day spent with Ntsako,Tiyani,Glen giving us a "show" of note in prep for Easter #chucklesfordays. Ke dula ke go gopotše ka nako tšohle
Friday 7 Feb '14, 10 months later..your replacement ko SARS appointed. I remember @ ur memorial they spoke about the inspiring leader you were and how brilliantly you executed your work (*shine). You were outstanding in more than 1 area of your life. I wish I could replace you and just fill the hole in my heart, the hole in my life. Tendai you are simply irreplaceable.
Thinking of you my love. I miss you dearly, wondering what it would've been like to have you walk with me on this parenthood journey. you were the best dad to Nano, I know for a fact you would've been awesome with our bundle..i wonder if you see us, if you feel us, if you miss us like we miss you. oh God
Happy heavenly birthday papa may u grow and watch over us as your children as years pass ❤️I never got the chance to know u but through your children and people u lived with I know u ❤️we love you papa
Happy heavenly birthday Daddy!! I love you and miss you. I know I never got to meet you but the things I hear about you are lovely. You will always be in my heart. Love by Tenashe Maraka.