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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Howard Shepherd 81 years old, born to the late Alphonson “Al” Shepherd and Florence Harper Shepherd on September 16, 1938 in Atlanta, Texas.  The middle child of three children, he was also the eldest of a set of twin boys.




December 8, 2023
December 8, 2023
Hi Daddy-
I’m missing you, especially during the holidays when I hear the Temptations version of Silent Night. No one can ever replace that special connection we had and that void is always present in my soul. I still remember holding your hand in the hospital that night, realizing I’d never get to touch it again. But I’ll always have those great memories of being your copilot on our road trips, with that giant bag of popcorn. I love you.

Always,
Leslie
September 16, 2023
September 16, 2023
Hi daddy. I miss you so much - I don’t have anyone I want to call and talk about the clouds with because it was our thing. I miss how you would call me out of the blue, when I needed you most. We had a special connection and I’ll never have that with anyone else. Thank you for giving me the best childhood ever and allowing me to be your copilot on our road trips.
Happy birthday daddy - I love you! ❤️
September 16, 2021
September 16, 2021
Hi Dad, Happy Birthday to You and on this special day I want to thank you for making it so easy to call you Dad. Thank you for being there for me. Thank you for the conversations we’ve had through the years. I’m so fortunate to have you during and after my Father passed and I am truly, truly blessed to be able to call you….Dad. Once again, Happy Birthday!!
September 16, 2021
September 16, 2021
Hey Daddy it's your daughter Lyssa. I miss calling you in the morning on my way to work. Whenever I would ask, "What are you up to?"
You would say, "Oh about 6 feet."
"Ha-ha," I would say rolling my eyes, thinking I fell for it again. I'm shaking my head now remembering those corny jokes. My heart is so full of love and gratitude knowing that God allowed us to be a family. We are so blessed to have had you in our lives. Big hugs and sloppy angel wing kisses to my Dad. Leslie said it best, so I'll just end with forever in my heart.
September 16, 2021
September 16, 2021
To my hero, my friend, and the first man I ever loved - my daddy. Happy birthday!

I think of you often and smile knowing that you gave the best of yourself to your family and never asked for anything in return, but love. We are all better people because of you and I’m so grateful to have such wonderful childhood memories, which I wouldn’t trade for all the money in the world!
September 17, 2020
September 17, 2020
I made through with a lightness in my heart. Wasn’t sure how I would be able to go through the day yesterday, but I was somehow filled with the peace of knowing Daddy, Uncle Hardy and Aunt Yvonne we’re finally together again. I know you stayed around longer than you wanted to (for us) and I value each moment we spent together. Thank you for all the life’s lessons and corny jokes you were so well-known for. I miss you everyday, but know you are where you’re supposed to be now.

Happy birthday and love you, Daddy!
September 16, 2020
September 16, 2020
I honor the gentleman who brought Ms. A. Moore into my world, career and brought me knowledge and happiness. I honor you sir for the love you gave, so much love is shared through your daughter. All the tributes are evidence of your faith filled soul of duty, citizenry and love. God Bless you, your loved ones, and those who share the celebration of you. Thank You.
September 16, 2020
September 16, 2020
I have finally gained the strength to do this , grandaddy happy birthday ❤️ thanks for being that amazing grandfather and always sharing memories, I love you & Carson loves you more. Rest Peaceful In Heaven
September 16, 2020
September 16, 2020
In his temporal body, dad took 81 trips around the sun. Now, in his eternal state, as ancestor, he is with us always, traveling whenever and wherever he wants. I’m overjoyed we got to have your physical vessel as long as we did, daddy. So very grateful to have had such a loving, intelligent, earthly father who taught us about our Heavenly Father. Our hearts are heavy because we selfishly wanted you here on earth, forever.

But like it says in 2Cor 4:18 “ . . . for things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.”

Love ❤️ you Daddy-O.
April 28, 2020
April 28, 2020
In wonderful memory of a man who cared and payed attention to me. At 53 years old, I still don't feel comfortable saying Howard. For me, saying Mr. Shepherd is the fondest term of endearment that connects my heart and my memories to him. When he would ask me how I'm doing, he really wanted to know. He would look at me in my eyes and wait for an answer. That is a big deal, everyone nowadays are so busy living life that we don't see one another. When Mr. Shepherd looked at me, he cared. This is an attribute that he left to his children. I see Mr. Shepherd when they speak to me. I will always LOVE the Shepherd family. May God continue to bless you all.
Scotty
April 4, 2020
April 4, 2020
I write in grateful memory of a good friend and dedicated Carson citizen. He left an indelible mark and will be missed by all who knew and loved him. 
With deepest sympathy,
Former Carson Mayor,
Gil Smith
March 26, 2020
March 26, 2020
Though [the Lord] brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. - Lamentations 3:32 (NIV)
March 19, 2020
March 19, 2020
My Cousin, you are missed. I will always appreciate when you looked after me when I visited California. And appreciated you when you came to visit after my Grandmothers passing. Love to all of the California family!
March 9, 2020
March 9, 2020
Dear Daddy-

I miss you so much. I miss the way you would call me "out of the blue" - somehow always knowing when I was down and needed cheering up. Today I had some good news and I wanted to share it with you because you were always my biggest cheerleader. I miss calling you and discussing the weather and our shared love of cloud formations in the sky. I've been listening to the voicemail messages you left me over the last year, just so I can remember the sound of your voice.

I feel so blessed to have had such a wonderful father and I hope to be able to have the type of legacy when I leave this world like you did. Thank you for being so strict and so loving, all at the same time. It shaped who I am today, and if I can be even one-third of the person you were I will have accomplished a great deal.

I didn't understand it growing up, but because of all the lessons you constantly fed us, I can always go through my memory bank and pull out one of your many sayings to get me through any situation.

I love you, Daddy.
March 6, 2020
March 6, 2020
Howard's christian walk was an inspiration to me years ago While in the USAF.
When I first met him he was someone you didn"t want to hang with. He would laugh with you then punch your lights out. That was before married Connie and went overseas to Morocco, where he moved into my 4 man hut.
He was so totally different, I could hardly believe it was the same Howard. He bugged me to go with hem to chapel, kept talking about Jesus, but you couldn't help but love him. He sent almost all of his pay home to Connie and
Washed and ironed and starched other guys uniforms to make it to next payday. If it wasn't Jesus it was Connie all the time.  Ten years after I came back to the states the Lord finally got hold of my heart and filled me with the Holy Ghost, The first thing I wanted to do was let Howard know. Three times over the years I tried to contact him. I kept a local LA operator on the phone for over 2 hours..do you know how many Howard shepherds there are in CA alone? In the 70's over 260. Thru something called PeopleLooker I found
a Howard that communicated with lady named Constance, I wrote her and finally got in touch last summer. We got to recall our times and experiences three time before he went home. I thank God for having Howard to encourage me and pray for me and I am confident he knows now that this cracker (he used to call Me)) will see him again. Love you Howard, Bill
January 11, 2020
January 11, 2020
 Mr. Howard Shepherd was a dear friend and a valued member of our Sunday School class. He attended Sunday School faithfully, in spite of his health challenges. He frequently spoke of his travels & experiences in the work force that shaped his faith.
 Mr. Shepherd was the consummate professional – always immaculately dressed, keenly articulate and prepared to contribute during the Sunday School Q&A sessions. A gifted speaker, he occasionally taught our class with enthusiasm and insight. 
 Our dear friend was a loyal/committed member of Phillips Temple and a dedicated believer of Jesus Christ. 
I will sorely miss his physical presence along this journey.   
However, his spirit, smile and compassion continue to dwell within all of us who were blessed to know this giant of a man.
Thank you dear friend for gracing our lives with you presence.
Paul Stewart, Jr.
January 5, 2020
January 5, 2020
Some years ago, I along with my parents were invited to a bar-b-que by Mr. Shepherd. And at that gathering it was the first time he called me "Son" and he graciously wanted wanted me to call him "Dad". I was honored by that and realized at that point I indeed had TWO Dad's. Through the years we've had many conversations covering so many things. I will forever be eternally grateful for him giving me a place in this wonderful family that I've been able to call my own. I truly believe with his passing, I have gained a whole lot more than I ever lost. He will be truly missed and will live in My Heart Forever.
January 2, 2020
January 2, 2020
Uncle Howard is a big man. A big man with a big voice, a big laugh, and an enormous spirit. My favorite memory is of a time that he was talking to myself and Kyle about slave rebellions in the West Indies. Needless to say, this conversation was eye opening and it was Uncle Howard at his best: funny, informative, thoughtful, poignant, with a touch of theatricality. I'm greatful to be part of a family that can produce a Howard Shepherd. A man who will let you know the read deal and who is quick with a clever quip. Howard ,You are missed.
December 29, 2019
December 29, 2019
Mr Shepherd was my neighbor for several years. He was so dedicated to the kids in the neighborhood. I can remember when a young man came down Sherman Dr and ran into several cars in front of our home including one of our cars. Well Mr Shepherd happened to be outside and saw the young man run into the school . He ran and jumped over the fence, tackled him and brought him back to face the music. We were reimbursed for our loss because of Mr Shepherd. I regret never talking to him about Homer, La. since I was born and raised in Homer. RIP Mr Shepherd. You were one of a kind.
December 25, 2019
December 25, 2019
To the Moore, Shepherd and the Extended family. Our deepest Condolences to you all. Let us celebrate the life, legacy and love that Mr. Shepherd shared. We Pray for the family that GOD will continue to overshadow you with HIS SPIRIT of Comfort, Strength, Peace, Endurance and Encouragement. Many Blessings, From: D'Angelo Jordan & the Extended Little Family (donna, demeshia, debra, cheryl, mr. & mrs little.
December 23, 2019
December 23, 2019
This tribute is from Payton Fisher’s daughters Yolanda and Anyika. We are sorry for the lost of Uncle Howard, he and our daddy passed away this same year and reunited in heaven. To be absent from the body is to present with the Lord. You have our prayers and condolences. Love Always ❤️
December 23, 2019
December 23, 2019
My apologies family that the Fisher family was not able to be there with you all for the remembrance of Uncle Howard, you all have our deepest condolences and love ❤️ sending BIG hugs and kisses. You all are in my prayers. Love Anyika and Carolyn.
December 21, 2019
December 21, 2019
My deepest condolences to the Shepherd family. Growing up in Centerview and hanging out with Lyssa I remember Mr. Shepherd as being a fun dad. Lyssa, Leslie, and Larry, I feel very blessed to have known your father and he will always be in my heart.

Love,
Debi (Wilson) McClendon
December 21, 2019
December 21, 2019
Resolution from the City of Carson
The City of Carson, California extends its deepest sympathies on the passing of Howard Shepherd. In loving memory, tribute and reverence, the City of Carson will adjourn the City Council meeting, which begins at 5:00pm on Tuesday, January 14, 2020, in the memory of Howard Shepherd.

Signed,
Albert Robles, Mayor,
Cedric Hicks, Mayor Pro Tem,
Lula Davis-Holmes, City Council,
Jawane Hilton, City Council and
Jim Dear, City Council.
December 21, 2019
December 21, 2019
I didn't have the honor of getting to know Mr. Shepherd but have the honor of loving and knowing his grandson Jamaal who is my nephew, his daughter and son in law Alyssa and Gregory and other family members! I can tell by the legacy he left in them that he was a great, kind man who had a love for family and education! I look forward to meeting him in Paradise as promised in Rev 21:3,4 and I pray that memories continue to bring you all comfort until you are reunited with him again. Praying also for peace, comfort and strength for you all! With love, Robin & Doug Dantzler
December 21, 2019
December 21, 2019
I have fond memories of Uncle Howard...

Uncle Howard had a warmth and kindness about him that he often shared with others. He also had an unforgettable smile. Whenever Greg and I saw him on holidays or family events, we had engaging conversations. He was very knowledgeable about many subjects. I enjoyed our chats. He always made me feel like part of the family.

Uncle Howard was a wonderful person and loved by many. I will never forget him.

Please know that I am praying for the family.

With love,

Carrie
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
I did not know Mr. Shepherd but judging by his daughter Alyssa and her husband Gregory (who I know through my brother, Steve who also recently passed away) I'd say he was undoubtedly a gentleman and wonderful human being. My deepest condolences to all the family. 
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
Howard was one of my dad's dearest cousins. They were very tight and it didn’t matter that a continent separated them. They were both born in Atlanta, TX (yes Texas not Georgia) a little more than a year apart and grew up together like brothers. They talked frequently about everything.

I personally became closer to Howard after his mother passed away, which was one of my favorite aunts. Howard was a great man and historian. He was the one I called when I needed information about our family's history and he would give me an additional history lesson.

Even though Howard and I did not have history like he did with my dad, I always enjoyed our conversations. When we recently talked, he educated me about Brice Taylor. With that one name, he gave me a lesson related to football, track, California, USC and black history. Brice Taylor was the Shaquem Griffin of his time, playing football with one right hand. None of which I knew before, but I know now because of Howard.

I have not seen Howard in many years, but I feel fortunate and blessed that Alyssa put me on the phone to talk to him on his most recent birthday. The last time I was in LA was for Aunt Florence's funeral and I am sorry that I will not be there to represent the Webster family again, but we will be there in spirit.

Please accept our deepest condolences and may God bless you all during this time of mourning. Howard Alphonson Shepherd will be missed.
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
I extend my prayers to the Shepherd family for your lost. I feel honored to be considered as one of the family. I will cherish all of the family events especially the holidays that was spend with Father Shepherd and the blessings he bestowed on each of us.
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
To the family of Howard Shephard,
I extend my deepest sympathy. I was saddened by the news of his death. He was a faithful cousin. His sudden passing was a great loss to those who knew him. His love for Jesus, family and fellow man was evident in his life. When he talked, our conversation always ended up talking about the Lord. Although, death has removed him from our midst, his spirit will remain with us. God bless you family, and keep you in this hour of sorrow.

Cousin-In-Law,
Dorothy Webster {David - 2006)
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
To our loving family. So many good memories to recollect and smile. May the memories bring a smile to your soul as tears fall from your eyes. May the Lord comfort you in your time of mourning. We send love from Ohio..

Danese (Cherry) Martin and family
December 20, 2019
December 20, 2019
To my cousins,
I want to express my deepest sympathy at the passing of your father; my Uncle Howard. I will always cherish the memories of our camping trips and summer excursions to the beach and how excited he always was to see his family. My Dad (Hardy) would always share with me Kathy, Kyle how he and Uncle Howard made a pack to there for their kids. Both of them kept that promise in spades.
Here is a poem I would like to share with you:

Love Lives On
Author Unknown (modified)

The uncle we love remains with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one’s gone.
Those we love can never
be more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
he’ll live on in in heart.

Rest in Haven Dear Uncle..
love Robin Thompson
December 19, 2019
December 19, 2019



It is a difficult time for the Shepherd family. However, the Cherry family
would like to offer our sincere sympathy. Your name indicates, you are a gather of love for self and others. Continue to laugh, love; have fond memories.

With love,
Cousin Dan and Sheila
December 19, 2019
December 19, 2019
Mr.Shepard leaves behind many Blessings.He sure raised a fine and upstanding daughter in Alyssa Shepard-Moore.EVERY WORKING DAY she brings the light of education ,instilled in her by her father, to her students. Every working day, she brings the love of justice ,ingrained in her by her Father, to her co workers and fellow Union members. Tell a tree by the fruit it bears.Rest in Loving Arms Mr. Shepard.Thoughts and prayers to your family Alyssa.
December 18, 2019
December 18, 2019
I and my family offer condolences to the family and friends of Howard. We pray that you all will be comforted at this time of your loss. May God richly bless each and everyone of you as you remember the good times.
Peace and Blessings
Aaronya and Family
December 17, 2019
December 17, 2019
Daddy loved us all so much and he shared his love with all of our cousins and friends. Our house is where all our friends gathered. In the summer, he would round up all the kids on our block and head to the beach for a birthday party for me. He is the reason I love museums - another place we all frequented during his summer vacations from work. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives and we will forever keep your memory in our hearts. Love you, Daddy.
December 17, 2019
December 17, 2019
He was the best father and human being. It was in the living room at home and I was in the single digits in age, where he first taught me about prejudice. It was not some speech, it was a conversation about the meaning of the word. He asked if I knew what prejudice meant or I asked him. I don't know what I said. All I remember is that whatever he said, I gave him back, "It's like broccoli." I didn't like broccoli and I had no real reason why. I just didn't like the short trees, but I did like the tall ones, the asparagus. And he was so excited by my analogy. I mean he let out the loudest most animated roar of a laugh, it scared me a little, then he said, "THAT'S RIGHT!" He was my best teacher.

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December 8, 2023
December 8, 2023
Hi Daddy-
I’m missing you, especially during the holidays when I hear the Temptations version of Silent Night. No one can ever replace that special connection we had and that void is always present in my soul. I still remember holding your hand in the hospital that night, realizing I’d never get to touch it again. But I’ll always have those great memories of being your copilot on our road trips, with that giant bag of popcorn. I love you.

Always,
Leslie
September 16, 2023
September 16, 2023
Hi daddy. I miss you so much - I don’t have anyone I want to call and talk about the clouds with because it was our thing. I miss how you would call me out of the blue, when I needed you most. We had a special connection and I’ll never have that with anyone else. Thank you for giving me the best childhood ever and allowing me to be your copilot on our road trips.
Happy birthday daddy - I love you! ❤️
His Life

3 Years Have Passed

September 16, 2022
Happy birthday, Daddy! I haven’t hugged you since 2019 and I miss you dearly. You will always have a special place in my heart and we’ll all get together and mark this special occasion of loving you

CME Connection

December 17, 2019
Prior to moving to Los Angeles in 1943 during the great migration, the family lived in Homer, Louisiana. It was there that Howard accepted Jesus as his savior and joined the Christian Methodist Episcopal Church, where he remained a member until his transition. When the family moved to Los Angeles they joined Phillips Temple CME Church. Howard had many sentimental memories of Sunday School and CYF activities, where Howard would meet Constance “Connie” Joyce Haywood, whose family also moved to Los Angeles from San Antonio, Texas during the great migration. Howard and Connie would eventually marry, and divorce, and of their 32 year union would be born three children, Lyssa, Larry, and Leslie. However, it was an amicable separation, because Florence Shepherd would not have it any other way.

Traveling with the USAF Broadened Howard's World View

December 17, 2019
While in the US Air Force (USAF), Daddy relished traveling and getting to meet people from different countries and backgrounds. He was especially fond of his time in the northwestern African country of Morocco, where he was able to learn about the Qur'an and Black history.  Though he never abandoned Christianity, he expanded his research of the Muslim and Christian faiths, and embraced his African roots with enthusiasm. He has so many different versions of the bible and so many scholarly African American and African history books at home.  I’m sure anyone of you can remember a book about the first Black US Presidents with an "s," because he gave away several copies. He made sure that his family, the kids in Centerview, Phillips Temple and any other young people he encountered were keenly aware of author Lerone Bennette’s “Before the Mayflower” and many other prolific writers on Black history in America. It was because of his time in the USAF that Howard’s world view grew.


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Honorable Man

January 7, 2020
Many of us looked up to Mr. Shepherd.  He was an honorable man!  He would always keep me company in the garage while I was waiting on his son.  He would often talk about his camping trips, or time spent with his children, sometimes wishing I was one of them. He would also have a corny joke to share while I waited. I will always remember the gleam in his eyes and the twitch of his mustache as he spoke of his family. He was and will always be an HONORABLE MAN to me...RIH

Dad’s Homeroom Teacher was Brice Union Taylor

January 5, 2020
Dad loved to share about the time he spent at Thomas Jefferson High School and how he enjoyed his time on the football team. One of his most interesting stories was about his homeroom teacher Coach Brice Union Taylor, the first all-American from USC who played football and ran track. He was the very first all-American football player ever at USC, class of 1925. However, USC was not enamored by Brice's race, so this accolade was not mentioned in their encyclopedia until the 1950's.

It seemed like if you were African American in Los Angeles in the 50’s more than likely you went to Jeff, as daddy would call it. Brice was a guard, he was harassed, yet fiercely loyal to USC, and he was missing a hand, he was born that way. Brice was so phenomenal that him having only one hand was usually the last thing you ever read about him. 

This coach and homeroom teacher made quite an impression on my father. Not enough for dad to root for USC, however, he was always a UCLA fan and Uncle Hardy was a USC fan.  I, of course, because of my Ambler ES 6th grade teacher Ms. Lane, am a USC fan.  I wish I could have met Brice Union Taylor. Read about him: https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/taylor-brice-union-1902-1974/

Committee to Incorporate Dominguez-Carson

January 5, 2020
Leslie found this lovely piece of history among dad's belongings this weekend. Larry pulled together a hug box of photo albums --some of which we will be dispersing to friends and family this week -- and she found this document in one of dad's gazillion photo albums. 

It is from The Dominguez - Carson Citizens Committee for Incorporation. They awarded dad a certificate of appreciation.  I remember Gil Smith coming to the house and dad being at the ground breaking ceremony for Cal State Univ. Dominguez Hills.  I also remember being in the 4th grade and Mrs. Hemingway explaining why we should look at the history of the territory because the adults were fighting over what to call the new city, Carson (after the businessman, George Carson, who married Victoria Dominguez and brought the railroad to the land) or Dominguez (after the family of Spanish descent who owned most of the land for 150 years which is now known as South Bay - Carson, Compton, Gardena, Long Beach, San Pedro, Rancho Palos Verdes, Torrance, and upon which oil was discovered).  Yet, no one ever mentioned the native Americans who lived here first, before the Spanish land grants moved them towards San Gabriel Mission.

Here's a bit of trivia. You know that small street Susana in Carson near the Smart & Final? That was named after Victoria Dominguez de Carson's sister, Susana Delfina Dominguez Del Amo.

Naming the city was a controversial argument which was put to the voters. I remember hearing that some residents did not want a Mexican sounding name for the city, history has cleaned up or buried that narrative, but that is what I remember I man was I angry.  That moment in history was probably the catalyst for me becoming a social justice advocate.  I remember being so angry when I heard that the real fight was about "how would that sound?" I'm sure I told my mother and father, and I'm sure I was passionate in my explanation.

Today, when you read the history it says the city was named after John Manuel Carson, but that is not what I remember.  All I ever heard about was George Carson and how that sounded better than Juan Jose Dominguez. I did a research paper on the City of Carson as a college English major student a CSU Dominguez Hills in the 80's, it was my first piece of investigative reporting. And, it was hard because all I had was microfiche, and volumes at the CSUDH library, no world wide web at my finger tips.

Dad was on the committee to help get the City of Carson incorporated. How ironic that Dad has a great-grandson named Carson who turns 1-year old on January 9, 2020.

Here's an account of the history by The City of Carson: http://ci.carson.ca.us/AboutCarson/RanchoDominguez.aspx

Read what LA County Library has to say about the history of The City of Carson, not to be confused with Carson City, Nevada. https://lacountylibrary.org/carson-local-history/

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