A Tribute to My Brother in-law, Okugo
“When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound and time shall be no more
And the morning breaks eternal bright and fair
When the saved diverse shall gather over on the other shore
And the roll is called up yonder, Okugo will be there”
As the past stands aloof and the future threatens with what could have been, it becomes painfully difficult to write in the past about my brother in-law, Hubert Okugo Nwokolo.
Okugo, was more of a younger brother than an in-law. I remember vividly my very first encounter with Okugo. It was a day before their wedding at GRA Enugu, at Uncle C. C. Ekpunobi’s house. I shouted at him to come and greet me. He quickly knelt down in front of me and my immediate remark was that he looks very much like the Ezekwesili’s. Since that first encounter our love for each other has grown in leaps and bounds.
Okugo was a gentleman to the core; a consummate practicing Christian. His home was always open to all; a place for students on Industrial Training Attachment, Youth Corpers on assignment; fresh graduates seeking employment, etc. My children, nieces, nephews, and cousins benefited from his largesse and wise counsel. He was always available to listen to problems and challenges and he provided solutions in terms of effort, time, and resources and without hesitation. His generosity spared nobody and his faith in God never wavered even to the very end.
Importantly, was the daily 5:30 am morning prayers and bible study with everybody in the house (no exceptions) participating. For the five years, I lived in Houston, Okugo always went out of his way, often driving over 15 miles, to deliver the food my sister, Uche-Nwannem, cooked for me. Even now that I’m residing in Florida, Okugo always found the time to mail my food to me.
Okugo was dear, precious, personable, and exuded a disarming and electrifying personality. He was an embodiment of peace, kindness, love, honesty, straightforwardness, and transparency. Okugo was pure gold; there was gold in his intellectual brilliance; gold in his tolerance and generosity; and gold in his unfailing loyalty and self-sacrifice. I can only imagine the pain my younger sister - Uche-Nwannem, his loving wife, and children – Ugo, Chichi, Chima, and Uzo feel because of Okugo’s departure to a place we mortals could not follow. I personally have been deprived the companionship and wise counsel of a great and loving brother in-law, a delightful and disciplined inspirer who radiated happiness, joy and hope to all. Okugo touched our lives in such a special way and we will always honour his life here on Earth. Okugo lived a completely selfless and an exemplary life.
As we all mourn Okugo’s passing to Eternal Glory and say our final goodbyes to a Brother-per-excellence who challenged us all to live out our noblest values in Christ, we also give thanks for his beloved memory and humility which inspires us. We are comforted by the knowledge that to be absent from the body is to be present with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. The dust always returns to earth, whereas the spirit returns to God Who gave it. When the saved diverse shall gather over on the other shore and the roll is called up yonder, Okugo will be there.
Goodbye Okugo! Peace!! Perfect Peace!!!
Lady Jessie Adaeze Azie
Sister-in-Law
Tampa, Florida
A Tribute to My Brother in-law, Okugo
“When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound and time shall be no more
And the morning breaks eternal bright and fair
When the saved diverse shall gather over on the other shore
And the roll is called up yonder, Okugo will be there”
As the past stands aloof and the future threatens with what could have been, it becomes painfully difficult to write in the past about my brother in-law, Hubert Okugo Nwokolo.
Okugo, was more of a younger brother than an in-law. I remember vividly my very first encounter with Okugo. It was a day before their wedding at GRA Enugu, at Uncle C. C. Ekpunobi’s house. I shouted at him to come and greet me. He quickly knelt down in front of me and my immediate remark was that he looks very much like the Ezekwesili’s. Since that first encounter our love for each other has grown in leaps and bounds.
Okugo was a gentleman to the core; a consummate practicing Christian. His home was always open to all; a place for students on Industrial Training Attachment, Youth Corpers on assignment; fresh graduates seeking employment, etc. My children, nieces, nephews, and cousins benefited from his largesse and wise counsel. He was always available to listen to problems and challenges and he provided solutions in terms of effort, time, and resources and without hesitation. His generosity spared nobody and his faith in God never wavered even to the very end.
Importantly, was the daily 5:30 am morning prayers and bible study with everybody in the house (no exceptions) participating. For the five years, I lived in Houston, Okugo always went out of his way, often driving over 15 miles, to deliver the food my sister, Uche-Nwannem, cooked for me. Even now that I’m residing in Florida, Okugo always found the time to mail my food to me.
Okugo was dear, precious, personable, and exuded a disarming and electrifying personality. He was an embodiment of peace, kindness, love, honesty, straightforwardness, and transparency. Okugo was pure gold; there was gold in his intellectual brilliance; gold in his tolerance and generosity; and gold in his unfailing loyalty and self-sacrifice. I can only imagine the pain my younger sister - Uche-Nwannem, his loving wife, and children – Ugo, Chichi, Chima, and Uzo feel because of Okugo’s departure to a place we mortals could not follow. I personally have been deprived the companionship and wise counsel of a great and loving brother in-law, a delightful and disciplined inspirer who radiated happiness, joy and hope to all. Okugo touched our lives in such a special way and we will always honour his life here on Earth. Okugo lived a completely selfless and an exemplary life.
As we all mourn Okugo’s passing to Eternal Glory and say our final goodbyes to a Brother-per-excellence who challenged us all to live out our noblest values in Christ, we also give thanks for his beloved memory and humility which inspires us. We are comforted by the knowledge that to be absent from the body is to be present with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. The dust always returns to earth, whereas the spirit returns to God Who gave it. When the saved diverse shall gather over on the other shore and the roll is called up yonder, Okugo will be there.
Goodbye Okugo! Peace!! Perfect Peace!!!
Lady Jessie Adaeze Azie
Sister in-Law
Tampa, Florida