What a dear lady! She was kind, giving, friendly, open, forgiving, etc. We loved her.
This memorial website was created by Rodger, Pauline, and Hillary in memory of our dear mother, Dr. Iris Ionie Henry, affectionately called "Sunshine." Born on February 27, 1937, she went to her rest on March 9, 2019 at the age of 82. We will remember her forever.
Dear family and friends:
Please feel free to leave a note of remembrance as we celebrate her life.
Funeral Service
- Date: Sunday, April 7, 2019
- Viewing: 9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.
- Time: 10:00 a.m. sharp
- Place: Northern Caribbean University - The Gymnatorium
- Mandeville, Manchester, Jamaica W.I.
- Interment - St. Elizabeth
- Link for funeral service https://youtu.be/6BTH9c-OBP8
Tributes
Leave a tributeWhat a dear lady! She was kind, giving, friendly, open, forgiving, etc. We loved her.
Your mother will be missed. She was a kind and gentle lady. Praying for you all.
Hillary, we are praying for you and your family as you grieve for your beloved mother. Tears are a language that God understands.
I am so sorry to hear of the sad news of the passing of Mrs. Henry. Aunt Iris taught me in my second year in College. She was a great teacher and a blessed soul. We will meet her again in the earth made new.
God’s richest blessings be upon you and your family. We have all been enriched by coming in contact with her. My deepest condolences.
Please accept our deepest condolences. May God bear you up as you deal with this loss. The everlasting arms of God is always there to support you.
So sorry for the loss of your dear mom. Praying for the family as you grieve her loss.
We mourn with you because of the death of your dear mom, a courageous Christian and friend to many. Like you, her beloved family, we also take comfort in the confident hope of her resurrection to eternal life through faith in our Lord Jesus Christ.
Deepest condolences to you and the family Hillary. She was always one of my favorite faculty members. A truly wonderful human being has left us.
My sincerest condolences to you and your family Hillary. She was a true stalwart and as a boy growing up my first example of a STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN raising a loving and intelligent family on her own.
Sincere condolences to the family. She was a wonderful neighbour and colleague, but best of all, she was our friend. May God bring comfort to your hearts as together we wait for the golden morning.
Please receive our sympathies.
Mrs. Henry was not only my teacher, like so many other students, but she was a mother and a professional in her departmental responsibilities.
Sincere condolences to my two sisters and brother re my adopted mother. Memories of SPANISH TOWN. RIP Aunt Iris.
From: Dr Jackie Hope HoShingClarke
Chair: Teacher Education Department
Northern Caribbean University
Mandeville, Manchester
Jamaica
My journey with Dr Iris Henry was a very interesting one with varying levels. This expedition began with a student-teacher relationship; Dr Henry was my teacher. During this time, I was an English Major in the mid-1980s and I took a number of English-related classes with Dr Henry as I pursued my first degree at West Indies College (WIC), now Northern Caribbean University (NCU).
Dr Henry’s classes went far beyond the written curriculum to the teaching of life lessons. My classes with her were very small, sometimes I was the only student enrolled. During those years, I was a young mother with two very young children and I lived far away from WIC. This created challenges for my academic activities but I found Dr Henry to be an extremely caring, considerate, compassionate and understanding teacher. She was more concerned about my well-being and that of my family’s, than for me meeting class-related deadlines.
Reflecting on her practice, I have to admit, that because she modeled, practiced and demonstrated essential positive teacher behaviours, I became a recipient of her influence. I owe a significant percentage of who I am today and what I do in my current practice as an education administrator, to the excellent examples she has established for me.
On the second part of our journey, we blossomed into friendship. I was now upgraded from student status and became her friend. We were now positioned for far more deeper and intimate conversations. She spoke lovingly of her husband and frequently mourned his passing and together we shed tears. Dr Henry was very proud of her children’s accomplishments and conversed about them as a satisfied parent.
The next phase on this exciting voyage, evolved when we became classmates. We both pursued the PhD degree and found ourselves grappling rigorously and intensely in study group activities, as we battled graduate studies. We learnt a lot from each other and spent quality time travelling with other group members to the NCU Kingston Campus. I had intense fun travelling and studying with then PhD candidates like: Dr Carol Fider, Dr Sandra Gayle and Dr Iris Henry. Though these ladies were all my seniors, I was very comfortable with them and learnt a lot from them.
Our journey finally led me to become her long awaited neighbour. In the Summer of 2013, I built a house and moved next to her. I had now become her closest neighbor. She was overjoyed at my arrival that she cried. Unfortunately, about a year later, Dr Henry’s health worsened to the extent, that she no longer could remember me. This was a very devastating blow for me and I was unable to relate to this change. I was negatively affected that I retreated into isolation for a while. It broke my heart to see her in that state.
My revival and return from that gloomy condition, found me in ministry to her, in my capacity as church elder. This final segment of our journey was rich and Spirit filled. I was now energized to lead church visitation worship activities in her home and I was also privileged to serve to her, the Lord’s Supper. In spite of her memory loss, she still retained aspects of the Word of God because she often joined us in repeating Bible promises and in the singing of hymns. This was heartwarming for those of us who were present.
To say that I miss Dr Henry is an understatement. However, I am comforted by the promise of our Lord’s soon return. I expect to meet her again, in that land, where there’s no parting and where we will never grow old.
My sincere condolences to her children: Roger, Pauline, and Hillary and also, to other relatives and friends.
God bless you all as we await the soon return of Jesus.
I am thankful to have been one of her students in English and Literature classes at West Indies College, now Northern Caribbean University.
On behalf of my wife Carolyn (nee Dennis) and my twin brother Samuel, I express deepest sympathy and condolences to her children, especially Hillary. May God grant you staying power during this time of grief and irreparable loss.
Kind regards Ingie C. HoShing
Uncle Michael and Aunty Mary join in expressing sympathy to Roger, Pauline
and Hillary and all the family.
Knowing now Iris is asleep until that promised day of resurrection to newness of life may this give you hope. Let all these loving tributes of your Mum be an encouragement to the ripple effect of the call to serve, with cheerfulness, in our daily lives as you gather to give thanks for her life.
The most indelible impression I can convey is love. Aunt Iris was a believer in the potential of the individual. Whenever I was around her, she made me feel very special. When I was very young I just felt special because she was my favorite Aunt that always made me smile with a word, a joke, or just a big warm hug. As I grew older and into adulthood, I realized that her tendency towards building others up was not reserved for me only. However, I still felt special because I believe she reserved a special brand of love for her family. She was truly an inspiring person that always had a positive word to help you along the way.
Her legacy of inspiring and building others will abide in the countless testimonies of multiple generations of students whose personal and academic lives she impacted. Everywhere across these United States that I have traveled, and mentioned that Iris Henry was my Aunt, conjured up fond recollections of stories filled with joy and happiness. Many couples have related to me how they "courted" at Mrs. Henry's house in Mandeville Jamaica while they were students attending West Indies College, and how they were so glad that she provided a safe and loving haven for their social lives that made strong memories. Their comments always made me feel so proud when they would say things like, "Wow...you must come from good stock because your Aunt, Mrs. Henry is one special lady". I can honestly say that mentioning her name was the ultimate "ice breaker" in Caribbean Adventist circles and beyond. It's so amazing to have family that can pave roads for you with the very mention of their name.
Her memory for me will always be filled with love and good times, her amazing offspring that I have the privilege of calling my cousins, and the indelible legacy, influence, and impact that she has had on Adventist Education and ministry throughout the Inter-American Division of Seventh-Day Adventists and the Adventist faith at large. I am truly blessed to call her my beloved Aunt Iris. However, most will continue to call her "Sunshine", because that is certainly what she was...a wonderful ray of Sunshine that brightened so many lives. Rest in peace Auntie. We love you always...
"Children live what they learn/ children learn what they live......"
It was such a pleasure to have known Lady Sunshine, Mrs. Iris Henry. What a privilege to have met such a shining star for Jesus!! Sweet, jovial, kind, caring, humble, and dignified! The day I met her, she made me feel a part of her family. She was so welcoming and genuine!!Those are, but few of the qualities, embodied in that dynamo of feminine charm.
Her offspring testify to the outstanding hometraining of a warm, loving, caring, praying, Christian, dutiful SDA mother/shepherdess.
Beautiful, well- trained children don't just happen, especially in families where Dad was so busy, outside the home, doing "God's work!"
Remarkably, each one of her children, is sweet, caring, & exhibit similar qualities as his/ her Mom and Dad!! The power of influence and Christian witnessing modeled AT HOME is evident! God rewards effort and intention!
Sleep on Lady Sunshine! Take your rest sweet Shepherdess! You did splendidly well!
Mrs. Iris Henry was a personal acquaintance at WIC, through my sister, who studied Primary Education. Her infectious smile complimented that of her husband, Pastor Basil Henry, who predeceased her. She and I developed a heart connection, through a shared experience, which will live with me till eternity.
It's the good we do, which will be the legacy we leave on this side and that which will be stored in eternity.
May her legacy be prolonged through her children Roger, Pauline and Hillary. My deepest condolences to you.
My condolences to Hillary and her family. Mrs. Henry was the sweetest teacher I had in college. Just the best! I always knew that she loved and cared about me as a student and then some.
To Rodger, Pauline and Hillary - My deepest sympathy on your loss. My prayers for you as well as the rest of the family.
Rodger, Pauline, and Hillary, the news has shaken me. But in God we trust. Your mother loved me and I loved her. I thank the Lord that he sent her, a bright and shining star, to light up my life.
My family and I are keeping you in prayers❤️
It is with deep sense of sadness and loss that we received the news of the passing of Sister Iris 'Sunshine' Henry. The radiance of her smile and the determination of her demeanour often fighting against the challenges that life had cast her way. She pushed on and pushed through, losing her husband, daughter and son - in - law but never losing her faith in Christ. As we celebrate women this month may the name of one the finest educators in the Jamaica Union Conference long be remembered...Sleep on beloved sleep and take thy rest!
I am very sad and sorry to learn of the passing of my good friend, past coworker, and a wonderful person for many . Hillary, Pauline and Roger please take comfort that she is gone to sleep but you will see her on the resurrection morning.
Hillary, Pauline and Roger, kindly accept our sincere condolences. She was always such a happy and cheerful person who brought love and joy to everyone. Our prayers are with you. RIP Sunshine!
My deepest condolences to Rodger, Pauline and Hillary. Your mother earned her nickname “Sunshine” by being so gracious, kind and cheerful. What a blessing she has been to others throughout her life time.
She was indeed a sweet soul, Raised some sweet offspring too. Hillary Ascalon, Rodger Henry and Pauline Fletcher, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family, I hope you will find peace comfort and strength as you go through this difficult time
Hillary, I am so sorry to hear this. Please accept condolences from my family to yours. May you be comforted by the Holy Spirit.
Your Mom was the consummate teacher, her Freshman Composition class was the first class I had on my first day at West Indies College. She helped shaped the person I am today. She will be missed.
My sincere condolences to Roger, Pauline and Hillary for your great loss. I’m praying for you and your families. May God grant you comfort and peace. As you know, your awesome mother will rise at the sound of the trumpet and she will come forth more beautiful and radiant. What a day of rejoicing that will be. Peace and love ✌
My sincere condolences to you and your family Hillary. Your mom was like a second mother to me at West Indies College 85-90. She was a Stalwart. Be strong my friend. Heaven is welcoming another priceless Angel. Rest In Peace Mother Henry.
These words of William Shakespeare in one of his comedic monologues, have been etched in my memory ever since they were 'drilled' into me over forty years ago by a literature professor. The year was 1975. The place....our beloved West Indies College (NCU), and that professor was Iris Henry.
Today, those words ring true, but with a bitter sweet flavor. Sweet, because just six weeks ago, my beautiful grand daughter made her entrance onto the world stage, yet bitter, because one very special "player" bowed and exited.
Iris Henry was indeed an exceptional woman......an inspiration to me. For almost fifty years, I have observed, both, as a child and as a man...both, at a distance and up close, as she played her varied roles on life's big stage....wife, mother/father, educator, director, life coach, cheerleader..and the list goes on. For each, she learned her 'lines' and played her part well, and, although her trophies may not all be displayed on a wall, yet they are hung on the 'walls' of our hearts and minds. Her legacy is one that her children, family and yes, all of us, can and will be proud of.
And so, as the curtains are drawn, we stand in ovation for a life well lived. The huge vacuum which remains, will not swallow us in grief and loss, but will gently remind us of life's brevity.
To Rodger, Pauline, Hillary and the entire family ( immediate and distant), we grieve with you, but, we also share with you the hope of seeing Iris Henry when THE MORNING comes. Then, she will have a new roll to play....this time, on an even bigger stage, somewhere out of this world.
You will be constant in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.
May the memories of your mother’s love remain within your hearts forever. We are so sorry for your loss and may God Bless you all.
Love, Judy, Orville & Maurice Mc Kenzie
Her strength, courage and perseverance allowed her to overcome the adversities in her life and single-handedly continued to raise a wonderful family, furthered her education, taught, inspired and influenced the lives of many. She will surely be missed, but thankfully, her legacy lives on in her children.
clouds of despair,
and when our nights become darker than a thousand
midnights,
Let us remember that there is a creative force in the
universe.
working to pull down the gigantic mountains of evil,
a power that is able to move a way out of no way and transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrows.
Remember we shall see our loved ones again.
Roger, Pauline & family members.
One of the best teachers and mentors that I have known. She was a friend to her students. Even after our graduation and while engaged in church work; she extended her love, concern, and care. I cherish the memories so rich and rare. The Scavellas send regards and words of comfort to the children and extended family.
Eustace & Marcia Williams
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Ms. Henry was the very best teacher my sister and I had—she touched, molded/shaped so many lives. She will be forever remembered.
May all find comfort in knowing that nothing happens to us that surprises our loving Father. He will support and sustain you in this time of great loss. We are here to support you with our prayers and friendship.
It will soon be waking up times, so let us remain faithful, her reward which she will receive from Jesus Himself is sure. Leon & Shirnet Wellington.
Lots of love cousins
Leave a Tribute
We look forward to seeing you again in the earth made new.
Sleep on, mom.
We look forward to that day when as a family we can be reunited again.
I am sure if you were with us, we would have gone to get a pedicure. Alyssa and I both never forget our special times together with you in our home or us in yours. RIP Auntie. You are missed, but surely not forgotten.
May God give peace abd comfort to the family at this time .My deepest condolences
May her soul rest in peace