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This memorial website was created by Rodger, Pauline, and Hillary in memory of our dear mother, Dr. Iris Ionie Henry, affectionately called "Sunshine." Born on February 27, 1937, she went to her rest on March 9, 2019 at the age of 82. We will remember her forever.

Dear family and friends:

Please feel free to leave a note of remembrance as we celebrate her life.

Funeral Service

  • Date: Sunday, April 7, 2019
  • Viewing: 9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m.
  • Time: 10:00 a.m. sharp
  • Place: Northern Caribbean University - The Gymnatorium
  • Mandeville, Manchester, Jamaica W.I.
  • Interment - St. Elizabeth
  • Link for funeral service https://youtu.be/6BTH9c-OBP8

 

April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Annick & Barry Brennen:
What a dear lady! She was kind, giving, friendly, open, forgiving, etc.  We loved her.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Dilworth Daley:
Your mother will be missed. She was a kind and gentle lady. Praying for you all.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Martin Hanna & family:
Hillary, we are praying for you and your family as you grieve for your beloved mother. Tears are a language that God understands.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Audley Allen:
I am so sorry to hear of the sad news of the passing of Mrs. Henry. Aunt Iris taught me in my second year in College. She was a great teacher and a blessed soul. We will meet her again in the earth made new.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Orville Anderson:
God’s richest blessings be upon you and your family. We have all been enriched by coming in contact with her. My deepest condolences.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Hilbert Giscombe & family:
Please accept our deepest condolences. May God bear you up as you deal with this loss. The everlasting arms of God is always there to support you.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Violet & Pedrito Maynard-Reid:
So sorry for the loss of your dear mom. Praying for the family as you grieve her loss.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Virgil and Enette Sams:
We mourn with you because of the death of your dear mom, a courageous Christian and friend to many. Like you, her beloved family, we also take comfort in the confident hope of her resurrection to eternal life through faith in our Lord Jesus Christ.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Courtney Pennicooke:
Deepest condolences to you and the family Hillary. She was always one of my favorite faculty members. A truly wonderful human being has left us.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Mark Grey:
My sincerest condolences to you and your family Hillary. She was a true stalwart and as a boy growing up my first example of a STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN raising a loving and intelligent family on her own.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Pat and Ronnie Henry:
Sincere condolences to the family. She was a wonderful neighbour and colleague, but best of all, she was our friend. May God bring comfort to your hearts as together we wait for the golden morning.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Eric Clarke & family:
Please receive our sympathies.
Mrs. Henry was not only my teacher, like so many other students, but she was a mother and a professional in her departmental responsibilities.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
From Arlene Powell:
Sincere condolences to my two sisters and brother re my adopted mother. Memories of SPANISH TOWN. RIP Aunt Iris.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
A tribute To The Memory Of Dr Iris Henry
From: Dr Jackie Hope HoShingClarke
Chair: Teacher Education Department
Northern Caribbean University
Mandeville, Manchester
Jamaica
My journey with Dr Iris Henry was a very interesting one with varying levels. This expedition began with a student-teacher relationship; Dr Henry was my teacher. During this time, I was an English Major in the mid-1980s and I took a number of English-related classes with Dr Henry as I pursued my first degree at West Indies College (WIC), now Northern Caribbean University (NCU).
Dr Henry’s classes went far beyond the written curriculum to the teaching of life lessons. My classes with her were very small, sometimes I was the only student enrolled. During those years, I was a young mother with two very young children and I lived far away from WIC. This created challenges for my academic activities but I found Dr Henry to be an extremely caring, considerate, compassionate and understanding teacher. She was more concerned about my well-being and that of my family’s, than for me meeting class-related deadlines.
Reflecting on her practice, I have to admit, that because she modeled, practiced and demonstrated essential positive teacher behaviours, I became a recipient of her influence. I owe a significant percentage of who I am today and what I do in my current practice as an education administrator, to the excellent examples she has established for me.
On the second part of our journey, we blossomed into friendship. I was now upgraded from student status and became her friend. We were now positioned for far more deeper and intimate conversations. She spoke lovingly of her husband and frequently mourned his passing and together we shed tears. Dr Henry was very proud of her children’s accomplishments and conversed about them as a satisfied parent.
The next phase on this exciting voyage, evolved when we became classmates. We both pursued the PhD degree and found ourselves grappling rigorously and intensely in study group activities, as we battled graduate studies. We learnt a lot from each other and spent quality time travelling with other group members to the NCU Kingston Campus. I had intense fun travelling and studying with then PhD candidates like: Dr Carol Fider, Dr Sandra Gayle and Dr Iris Henry. Though these ladies were all my seniors, I was very comfortable with them and learnt a lot from them.
Our journey finally led me to become her long awaited neighbour. In the Summer of 2013, I built a house and moved next to her. I had now become her closest neighbor. She was overjoyed at my arrival that she cried. Unfortunately, about a year later, Dr Henry’s health worsened to the extent, that she no longer could remember me. This was a very devastating blow for me and I was unable to relate to this change. I was negatively affected that I retreated into isolation for a while. It broke my heart to see her in that state.
My revival and return from that gloomy condition, found me in ministry to her, in my capacity as church elder. This final segment of our journey was rich and Spirit filled. I was now energized to lead church visitation worship activities in her home and I was also privileged to serve to her, the Lord’s Supper. In spite of her memory loss, she still retained aspects of the Word of God because she often joined us in repeating Bible promises and in the singing of hymns. This was heartwarming for those of us who were present.
To say that I miss Dr Henry is an understatement. However, I am comforted by the promise of our Lord’s soon return. I expect to meet her again, in that land, where there’s no parting and where we will never grow old.
My sincere condolences to her children: Roger, Pauline, and Hillary and also, to other relatives and friends.
God bless you all as we await the soon return of Jesus.
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
It's so sad to hear of Mrs Henry's death. I have fond memories of her back in Spanish Town and later she became my English professor at WIC. She was to me a special person. She will be remembered for a long time. To the children, remember the precious times with your mom. She was such a nice person.
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
Dr. Iris Henry (Aunt I, as I affectionately called her) was one of the great hearts that beat in Jamaica for 82 years. She was great for several reasons: She was genuine, humble, joyful, loving, and kind. She was an embodiment of all the Christian virtues that make for an all-rounded mature servant of Jesus Christ. In summary, she was the epitome of excellence with an unimpeachable character.
I am thankful to have been one of her students in English and Literature classes at West Indies College, now Northern Caribbean University.
On behalf of my wife Carolyn (nee Dennis) and my twin brother Samuel, I express deepest sympathy and condolences to her children, especially Hillary. May God grant you staying power during this time of grief and irreparable loss.
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
My teacher and mentor and supporter. Iris Henry always expected the best from me and encouraged me. She was always positive, always smiling, always humble, always generous. Roger, Pauline and Hillary, I pray that you will be comforted in your grief and we all look forward to the resurrection. What a joyful day that will be.
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
Dr. Iris Henry was my teacher at West Indies College, now Northen Caribbean University, when I attended during 1980-1983. She was a lovely, warm and pleasant individual who treated her students with respect and was very patient as she taught her classes. I am a better person for having sat at her feet. She was indeed "Sunshine" as she was affectionately called. Approximately six years ago, my sister, Jackie, became her neighbor and I had the pleasure of seeing and greeting Dr, Henry whenever I visited my sister in Mandeville. My deepest condolences to her children, Roger, Pauline and Hillary and all the other members of her family. May you find solace as you continue to look forward to That Blessed Hope and the Glorious Appearing of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus.
Kind regards Ingie C. HoShing
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
Happy memories of time spent with Mrs Henry, Iris, from when visiting Stephen and Karen, and then Dimitri. Stephen's mother, Beryl, appreciated Iris's welcome and friendship. Also Aunty Joan and sons Nicholas and Daniel, recall enjoyable time visiting Iris in her home. 
Uncle Michael and Aunty Mary join in expressing sympathy to Roger, Pauline
and Hillary and all the family.
Knowing now Iris is asleep until that promised day of resurrection to newness of life may this give you hope. Let all these loving tributes of your Mum be an encouragement to the ripple effect of the call to serve, with cheerfulness, in our daily lives as you gather to give thanks for her life.
April 5, 2019
April 5, 2019
My memory of the Henry family goes back to 1965 when both families moved to Hyde Park Drive - Parson Ave. next to Central Jamaica Conf. office in Spanish Town. We became extensions of each other's family and truly lifelong friends. To my extended siblings - Roger, Pauline and Hillary and your families - our sincere condolences at the passing of your beloved Mom and our Ms. Iris. I recall the many visits across the street, and the ocean - in California, Florida, and elsewhere with fond memories. Looking forward to that glorious day, when our families will be together again, living across from each other on the Street of Gold, never to part again. Until then, let us be faithful. God bless. Bev Hyatt Allen
April 4, 2019
April 4, 2019
How do I begin. I needed a few days to process my Aunt Sunshine's passing. However, there are so many memories from my childhood on through my adult life.
The most indelible impression I can convey is love. Aunt Iris was a believer in the potential of the individual. Whenever I was around her, she made me feel very special. When I was very young I just felt special because she was my favorite Aunt that always made me smile with a word, a joke, or just a big warm hug. As I grew older and into adulthood, I realized that her tendency towards building others up was not reserved for me only. However, I still felt special because I believe she reserved a special brand of love for her family. She was truly an inspiring person that always had a positive word to help you along the way.
Her legacy of inspiring and building others will abide in the countless testimonies of multiple generations of students whose personal and academic lives she impacted. Everywhere across these United States that I have traveled, and mentioned that Iris Henry was my Aunt, conjured up fond recollections of stories filled with joy and happiness. Many couples have related to me how they "courted" at Mrs. Henry's house in Mandeville Jamaica while they were students attending West Indies College, and how they were so glad that she provided a safe and loving haven for their social lives that made strong memories. Their comments always made me feel so proud when they would say things like, "Wow...you must come from good stock because your Aunt, Mrs. Henry is one special lady". I can honestly say that mentioning her name was the ultimate "ice breaker" in Caribbean Adventist circles and beyond. It's so amazing to have family that can pave roads for you with the very mention of their name.
Her memory for me will always be filled with love and good times, her amazing offspring that I have the privilege of calling my cousins, and the indelible legacy, influence, and impact that she has had on Adventist Education and ministry throughout the Inter-American Division of Seventh-Day Adventists and the Adventist faith at large. I am truly blessed to call her my beloved Aunt Iris. However, most will continue to call her "Sunshine", because that is certainly what she was...a wonderful ray of Sunshine that brightened so many lives. Rest in peace Auntie. We love you always...
April 3, 2019
April 3, 2019
From Cheryl Wright:
"Children live what they learn/ children learn what they live......"
It was such a pleasure to have known Lady Sunshine, Mrs. Iris Henry. What a privilege to have met such a shining star for Jesus!! Sweet, jovial, kind, caring, humble, and dignified! The day I met her, she made me feel a part of her family. She was so welcoming and genuine!!Those are, but few of the qualities, embodied in that dynamo of feminine charm.
Her offspring testify to the outstanding hometraining of a warm, loving, caring, praying, Christian, dutiful SDA mother/shepherdess.
Beautiful, well- trained children don't just happen, especially in families where Dad was so busy, outside the home, doing "God's work!"
Remarkably, each one of her children, is sweet, caring, & exhibit similar qualities as his/ her Mom and Dad!! The power of influence and Christian witnessing modeled AT HOME is evident! God rewards effort and intention!
Sleep on Lady Sunshine! Take your rest sweet Shepherdess! You did splendidly well!
April 3, 2019
April 3, 2019
From Samuel Moodie:
Mrs. Iris Henry was a personal acquaintance at WIC, through my sister, who studied Primary Education. Her infectious smile complimented that of her husband, Pastor Basil Henry, who predeceased her. She and I developed a heart connection, through a shared experience, which will live with me till eternity.
It's the good we do, which will be the legacy we leave on this side and that which will be stored in eternity.
May her legacy be prolonged through her children Roger, Pauline and Hillary. My deepest condolences to you.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Anthonette Gibson:
My condolences to Hillary and her family. Mrs. Henry was the sweetest teacher I had in college. Just the best! I always knew that she loved and cared about me as a student and then some.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Ivan Walters:
To Rodger, Pauline and Hillary - My deepest sympathy on your loss. My prayers for you as well as the rest of the family.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Teca Cousins:
Rodger, Pauline, and Hillary, the news has shaken me. But in God we trust. Your mother loved me and I loved her. I thank the Lord that he sent her, a bright and shining star, to light up my life.
My family and I are keeping you in prayers❤️
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Richard and Joanne DeLisser:
It is with deep sense of sadness and loss that we received the news of the passing of Sister Iris 'Sunshine' Henry. The radiance of her smile and the determination of her demeanour often fighting against the challenges that life had cast her way. She pushed on and pushed through, losing her husband, daughter and son - in - law but never losing her faith in Christ. As we celebrate women this month may the name of one the finest educators in the Jamaica Union Conference long be remembered...Sleep on beloved sleep and take thy rest!
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Stevel Beckford:
I am very sad and sorry to learn of the passing of my good friend, past coworker, and a wonderful person for many . Hillary, Pauline and Roger please take comfort that she is gone to sleep but you will see her on the resurrection morning.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Sylvan & Rosita Lashley:
Hillary, Pauline and Roger, kindly accept our sincere condolences. She was always such a happy and cheerful person who brought love and joy to everyone. Our prayers are with you. RIP Sunshine!
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Karlene Edwards:
My deepest condolences to Rodger, Pauline and Hillary. Your mother earned her nickname “Sunshine” by being so gracious, kind and cheerful. What a blessing she has been to others throughout her life time.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Robert Dowdie:
She was indeed a sweet soul, Raised some sweet offspring too. Hillary Ascalon, Rodger Henry and Pauline Fletcher, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family, I hope you will find peace comfort and strength as you go through this difficult time
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Nadia Stewart:
Hillary, I am so sorry to hear this. Please accept condolences from my family to yours. May you be comforted by the Holy Spirit.
Your Mom was the consummate teacher, her Freshman Composition class was the first class I had on my first day at West Indies College. She helped shaped the person I am today. She will be missed.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Ralford Jones:
My sincere condolences to Roger, Pauline and Hillary for your great loss. I’m praying for you and your families. May God grant you comfort and peace. As you know, your awesome mother will rise at the sound of the trumpet and she will come forth more beautiful and radiant. What a day of rejoicing that will be. Peace and love ✌
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
From Clasford Woolery:
My sincere condolences to you and your family Hillary. Your mom was like a second mother to me at West Indies College 85-90. She was a Stalwart. Be strong my friend. Heaven is welcoming another priceless Angel. Rest In Peace Mother Henry.
April 1, 2019
April 1, 2019
"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances......"
These words of William Shakespeare in one of his comedic monologues, have been etched in my memory ever since they were 'drilled' into me over forty years ago by a literature professor. The year was 1975. The place....our beloved West Indies College (NCU), and that professor was Iris Henry.
Today, those words ring true, but with a bitter sweet flavor. Sweet, because just six weeks ago, my beautiful grand daughter made her entrance onto the world stage, yet bitter, because one very special "player" bowed and exited.
Iris Henry was indeed an exceptional woman......an inspiration to me. For almost fifty years, I have observed, both, as a child and as a man...both, at a distance and up close, as she played her varied roles on life's big stage....wife, mother/father, educator, director, life coach, cheerleader..and the list goes on. For each, she learned her 'lines' and played her part well, and, although her trophies may not all be displayed on a wall, yet they are hung on the 'walls' of our hearts and minds. Her legacy is one that her children, family and yes, all of us, can and will be proud of.
And so, as the curtains are drawn, we stand in ovation for a life well lived. The huge vacuum which remains, will not swallow us in grief and loss, but will gently remind us of life's brevity.
To Rodger, Pauline, Hillary and the entire family ( immediate and distant), we grieve with you, but, we also share with you the hope of seeing Iris Henry when THE MORNING comes. Then, she will have a new roll to play....this time, on an even bigger stage, somewhere out of this world.
You will be constant in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.
March 31, 2019
March 31, 2019
Rodger, Pauline & Hillary,
May the memories of your mother’s love remain within your hearts forever. We are so sorry for your loss and may God Bless you all.
Love, Judy, Orville & Maurice Mc Kenzie
March 31, 2019
March 31, 2019
My deepest condolences to Rodger, Pauline, Hillary and their families. I met Mrs Henry in 1965 and in the subsequent years, probably spent as much time in her house as I did in my own. She was my neighbour and my teacher, but most importantly, the mother of my life long friends.
Her strength, courage and perseverance allowed her to overcome the adversities in her life and single-handedly continued to raise a wonderful family, furthered her education, taught, inspired and influenced the lives of many. She will surely be missed, but thankfully, her legacy lives on in her children.
March 29, 2019
March 29, 2019
When our days become dreary with low-hovering
 clouds of despair,
and when our nights become darker than a thousand
 midnights,
 Let us remember that there is a creative force in the
  universe.
 working to pull down the gigantic mountains of evil,
  a power that is able to move a way out of no way and transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrows.
   Remember we shall see our loved ones again.
Roger, Pauline & family members.
March 29, 2019
March 29, 2019
In times like these, I can only recommend the only source of true comfort, and that’s Jesus the Christ. His peace is better than any on the planet. May He bring all that He represents to us all; for, really He, Jesus is the only sure hope for our dear Sis. Iris Henry, who I came to know as “sunshine,” through another sleeping friend, S.N. McKinney. Dr. Henry was a great example of the master plan of God in Christ Jesus, who is the resurrection and the life. He took a young lady from St. Elizabeth, forgave her of all her sins, lived in her and made her into the kind, happy, faithful, friendly and dedicated mother, wife and worker she was in His cause. This same Jesus will wake her up to see Him coming in the clouds of heaven. She and I, will meet again, because I know this same Christ she knew; and was used by Him to bring glory to Him in Jamaica and else where.
March 28, 2019
March 28, 2019
From Paul and Joan Scavella:
One of the best teachers and mentors that I have known. She was a friend to her students. Even after our graduation and while engaged in church work; she extended her love, concern, and care. I cherish the memories so rich and rare. The Scavellas send regards and words of comfort to the children and extended family.
March 27, 2019
March 27, 2019
Dear Pauline, Roger and Hillary, I am so very saddened by the passing of your mom. My deepest condolences to you, your entire family and to the many, many she touched with her presence. She has inspired and taught so many, myself included. She was an AMAZING person. She will be greatly missed but will never be forgotten.
March 26, 2019
March 26, 2019
Dear Hillary: So sad to hear of your mother’s passing. She was a beautiful soul. Such a sincere and loving person. So approachable and kindhearted, always had this sweet gentle smile on her face. When she taught English Literature she displayed much passion for the works of Alfred Lord Tennyson, Percy Shelley, and others. After all these years I still recall portions of those works. Her contribution to education will be long remembered. Our condolences to you and the entire family.
Eustace & Marcia Williams
March 26, 2019
March 26, 2019
It was a delight to sit at the feet of such an effervescent and radiant professor. I cherish the memories and remain thankful for her life and it’s impact on mine. May God comfort you Roger, your siblings, and all as you mourn her loss.
March 26, 2019
March 26, 2019
From Melody Brooks-Hutchinson:
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Ms. Henry was the very best teacher my sister and I had—she touched, molded/shaped so many lives. She will be forever remembered.
March 25, 2019
March 25, 2019
So much time has gone since this wonderful bowl of Sunshine entered my life. I was fascinated by her when she taught me at the WIC Preparatory School (perhaps she was "Practice Teaching" on her way to becoming a Trained Teacher?) She was witty, and charming and also very pleasant and I just adored her! Imagine my joy when she re-appeared as one of my Literature teachers in High School at WIC. She encouraged my love of reading and creative writing! Then again, in College she reappeared in my life as a Literature lecturer. Wow! So much love and so much fun! After College, she engaged my attention with some of the Voluntary work she was involved in. She always challenged my thinking, and if there is one regret I have it's not progressing to a terminal degree. She always mentioned it, and maybe I will ... one day. I regret her passing and treasure all the wonderful moments we spent together. May the sunshine of God's love continue to shine in her children and grand-children ... until He comes!
March 25, 2019
March 25, 2019
Aunt "Sunny" our Sunshine. She was an amazing Grandaunt and Great-Grandaunt to both my daughter Alyssa and I. Alyssa remembers our trips together with Aunt Sunny, around Mandeville, for lunch and us visiting the Spa with Aunt Sunny for a girls day out getting our nails done. I remember my grandma's sister (who both share a remarkable resemblance) from my childhood into adulthood, who for me, was a great inspiration. Her strength and tenacity was always admired. She listened, she cared, she advised, and most important, she understood. She never judged or questioned my forthright communication method, and loved me for who I am, UNCONDITIONALLY. Each time I cook a "Turkey Ball" I will think of her, as that was her preferred meal, when she would be visiting with me. Aunt Sunny, will be missed but NEVER forgotten. I am truly happy that I took the opportunity to tell her several times how much she really meant to me. RIP Aunt Sunny, until we meet in GLORY. You will be, very deeply missed, but NEVER FORGOTTEN. My sincere condolences to her children and grandchildren.
March 24, 2019
March 24, 2019
Accept our sincere condolences Roger, Pauline, Hillary and all other family members. Our connection with this family has deep roots that will forever remain with us. Pastor Basil Henry preached at Mandeville Church and lunched with us afterwards one week before he left us. "Sunshine" was not only a friend, but also my literature teacher in College (still had to work hard for my passing grades), and later my neighbour in College view, and as one of my directors at West Indies Union Office.
May all find comfort in knowing that nothing happens to us that surprises our loving Father. He will support and sustain you in this time of great loss. We are here to support you with our prayers and friendship.
It will soon be waking up times, so let us remain faithful, her reward which she will receive from Jesus Himself is sure. Leon & Shirnet Wellington.
March 24, 2019
March 24, 2019
Sunshine exuded rays of Joy and spread happiness wherever she went. An insightful educator who gave of her best and elicited excellence from her students. She is gone but not forgotten. We anticipate the great resurrection and a grand reunion. Roger, Pauline, Hilary, and families, let us all remain faithful, He's coming soon, there's no doubt.
Lots of love cousins
March 23, 2019
March 23, 2019
Pauline, Hillary, and Roger the heart that your mother had for others is a rare gift to the many people who had the privilege to know her and be blessed by her. Please accept my condolences.
March 23, 2019
March 23, 2019
It is with much sadness that I learn of the passing of my beloved college professor, Mrs Iris Henry. I will always treasure the years I spent as her student and later as her assistant in the English Department of West Indies College. She brought English Literature to life. She was passionate about life itself and infused this passion into her students. Her numerous acts of kindness and caring compassion will continue to live in the thousands of lives she nurtured. See you on that resurrection morn, Mrs Henry.
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March 9
March 9
The passing of time has not diminished the love I still feel for you and the precious memories we have of the good times spent together. Although it's been five years since you passed, we still talk about you ever so often.
We look forward to seeing you again in the earth made new.
Sleep on, mom.
March 9
Another year has passed without you but the precious memories live on. You are missed and talked about often. Love and laughter fills the room when we share the things you did and said.
We look forward to that day when as a family we can be reunited again.
February 27
February 27
My Aunt Sunny. Today you would have celebrated your 87th Birthday.
I am sure if you were with us, we would have gone to get a pedicure. Alyssa and I both never forget our special times together with you in our home or us in yours. RIP Auntie. You are missed, but surely not forgotten.
 
Her Life

Life Sketch of Iris

April 11, 2019

Iris Ionie “Sunshine” Henry, fourth child of Septimus Clarke and Charlotte Levy, was born on February 27, 1937 in the peaceful and picturesque countryside of Winchester, St. Elizabeth. As if to announce her birth, rays of honey-gold sunlight burst through the window setting the room all aglow. At that very moment, her oldest sister walked in, and upon seeing the sun rays on her declared proudly, “She is a sunshine baby!” From that day forward, Iris was affectionately called “Sunshine”—a name befitting her winsome personality.

Iris grew up in a close-knit household with her mother and five sisters: Hortense (Sister Etta), Enid, Hyacinth (Vivie), Grethel, and Josephine (Joan). Throughout their childhood, they shared a deep affection for each other. This bond grew stronger as they became older and remained throughout their adult years.

From an early age, Iris displayed a thirst for learning. By the time she started attending Barbary Hall Elementary School, at age seven, she was well ahead of her class. By age fourteen, she passed the Third Jamaica Local Examination and subsequently won a full scholarship to Black River High School. In 1953, her senior year, she sat the Cambridge School Certificate Examination along with nine other students. When the results were published, the name Iris Clarke was the sole one that appeared in the Daily Gleaner. Being too young for employment, she was sent to Kingston where she attended the Eastern Academy Commercial School. The knowledge and skills she gained there enabled her to secure her first job at seventeen-years-old working for the Black River Parish Council. 

Around this time a young, dashing pastor by the name of Basil Lee Henry was pastoring in the Black River district. As soon as he met Iris, he knew that he wanted her to be his lifelong partner. Their friendship quickly blossomed into love and after a brief courtship they were married on November 27, 1955 at the Williamsfield Seventh-day Adventist Church. From this lovely union, four children were born: Rodger, Pauline, Hillary, and Karen.

Iris was a model pastor’s wife. She blessed her husband’s ministry immensely by playing the organ, singing for services, teaching the Children’s Sabbath School and, where possible, forming a church choir. They ministered in several districts including Lacovia, St. Elizabeth (where they were instrumental in establishing that church), Claremont, St. Ann and eventually Spanish Town, St. Catherine.

While raising three children, Iris aspired to further her education and felt a calling towards teaching. She matriculated in the Teacher Education Program at West Indies College (now Northern Caribbean University), graduating with a Diploma in Primary Education and earning the Joint Board of Teacher Education Certificate in 1967. During this time her husband served as an officer of the Central Jamaica Conference and Iris taught at Willowdene High School. Displaying a strong interest in the success of her students, the Central Jamaica Conference recognized her as a suitable candidate for principal and appointed her to the position within a few years. Under her leadership, the school flourished—enrollment increased significantly, passes in both the Jamaica School Certificate and General Certificate Examinations improved and morale was high.

As an educator, Iris knew the importance of higher education, so she matriculated at the University of the West Indies and graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Arts and General Studies in 1976. However, two weeks before her final exams, she suffered a heartbreaking loss, when her husband passed away suddenly. Despite this terrible blow, Iris persevered knowing God would take care of her and her children.

In the summer of that year, Iris relocated her family to Mandeville where she joined the faculty of West Indies College. For the first few years, she taught Freshman Composition, Survey of English Literature, and West Indian History. Under her tutelage, students had an awakening, as she breathed new life into these courses. Shakespeare’s plays and the poetic works of many literary greats that they once considered dull and uninteresting suddenly became fascinating and worthy of learning.

Sensing the need to upgrade her qualifications, Iris went back to her alma mater, the University of the West Indies, and graduated with a Master’s degree in English in 1988. Upon her return to the college, she was appointed Head of the English Department. Determined to make a difference and expand the courses offered by the Department, she added Communications as part of the curriculum and gained approval for the Associate degree program in English. She also revived the English as a Second Language Program (ESL) and reestablished the Literary and Debating Clubs. Before long, she was promoted to Chairperson of the Division of Humanities.

Iris was much more than a professor to her students. Blessed with a natural aptitude to nurture and mentor, she became a ‘mother figure’ to many. She sparked curiosity, ignited passion, and fueled dreams in many of her students. As some struggled, she molded wings of confidence in them to inspire flight. Throughout her teaching career, she turned many ‘I can’t’ into ‘I did.’ The love she had for her students was unparalleled—a quality that made her a great teacher. In appreciation for her unwavering support for the student body, the United Student Movement dedicated the college’s school yearbook, the Palm Leaves, to her in 1988. 

In 1993 Iris was called to serve in a different sector of the Adventist Church organization. She was appointed as the first female Director of Education for the West Indies Union Conference (now Jamaica Union Conference).  She later served as the Director of Women and Children’s Ministries. Understanding how critical both ministries were to the sustenance of the church, she worked diligently to promote them throughout the Union.

After giving 45 years of dedicated service to the Seventh-day Adventist Church, Iris retired in December of 2005. As a faithful worker for God and His church, she greatly influenced many lives throughout her career.

In 2010 Iris suffered another terrible loss when her youngest child, Karen, passed away. Through it all, she kept her faith in God who was able to sustain her through this very difficult time. However, in the midst of sadness God gave her something to rejoice about as she received her Doctorate in Education degree later that year.

Throughout her lifetime, Iris wore many hats—pastor’s wife, church organist, administrator, college professor, entrepreneur, counselor, mentor, to name a few. During her tenure at West Indies College, she served as Interim Vice-President for Academic Affairs, Church Elder, Sabbath School sponsor, Hospitality and Usher Coordinator. She was also involved in community work and was a member of these organizations: Jamaica Women’s Federation, United Nations Association, Jamaica Festival Committee and Housewives Association. For her dedicated contribution to these institutions, she received numerous awards and citations. Iris was never reluctant to serve or take on added responsibilities—no matter how challenging.  
Iris loved life and lived it to the fullest. Apart from her academic achievements, one of the things that gave her great satisfaction was music. On many evenings she would sit at her piano and play while singing her favorite hymns. For many years, she was a member of the Mandeville Chorale (formerly Tuesday Singers). Traveling, her other favorite pastime, was something she enjoyed immensely. Whether for work or pleasure, Iris visited many cities and countries of the world including the United States, France, Spain, London, Mexico, the Bahamas, Bermuda, to name a few. No matter where Iris traveled, she left an indelible mark on those she met. 

Spending time with her children, grandchildren, and friends was one of the things Iris treasured the most. Her home was often the venue for many get-togethers for family, students, and faculty from the college. She radiated love and had enough to go around. Everyone loved her too and enjoyed being in her presence. Road trips with Iris were full of fun and laughter. You could rest assured that there would be a jerk-chicken or fried fish stop somewhere along the trip back home. These experiences have created wonderful memories that will remain forever with all those who knew her. 

In recent years, Iris’ health began to decline after she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. However, it did not take away her pleasant spirit. In January of this year, her medical condition worsened and on Saturday, March 9, 2019 at the age of 82, she passed away at the Hargreaves Memorial Hospital.

The Scripture verse 2 Timothy 4:7 sums up her life beautifully—“I have fought a good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith.” We know that Iris is only resting for a while and we are confident that she will rise again in the first resurrection to meet her Lord and Saviour.

Iris leaves to cherish her wonderful memory her three surviving children: Rodger Henry (Lorraine) of Florida, Pauline Fletcher (Hansel) of California, and Hillary Ascalon (Andre) of New Jersey; grandchildren: Chantel, Conrad, Anecia, Adrian, and Dimitri; surviving siblings: Hyacinth Lynch and Josephine Miller; cousins, nieces, nephews, and a host of other relatives and friends.

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March 26, 2019

May God give peace abd comfort to the family at this time .My deepest condolences 

May her soul rest in peace 




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