We learned to introduce Jack White by noting he had four careers, which always led to a good conversation. But when he followed Mary to Nebraska in his last of many relocations, he began a fifth—accompanying spouse. He approached the role with good humor, intelligence, dignity, and iron determination. He was willing. He was open to new people, new activities, a new culture, and even Nebraska politics. He was willing to become a big brother, a project that extended over many years. He was willing to become a good friend, a project that involved about a hundred restaurant lunches and many deep, probing, and open conversations. He was willing to share both the high and the low points in his long life and what he felt he had learned from each. He came to be valued and trusted and, at long last, missed beyond words.