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My Versatile Mentor and Loving Father

June 18, 2020

Words can never quantify the person you were to me and my family. As my Mentor, I remember so vividly in 1991 when I joined  Foursquare Gospel Itaiyalode branch, you were the first person who noticed my singing ability and encouraged me to join the  Church Choir. You took so much interest in me especially when you knew I was a fresh student studying Science Laboratory Technology in 1991. You cared for people with so much passion, and this gave me so much confidence to know you. You opened for me a place to bring up discussions about my academic status and the challenge I had then, which led to my inability to finish the course. Though you weren't in support of my not finishing the course (SLT), you did not stop looking out for me. I call you my Father because that was the attribute you showed to me when I  changed my course to Secretarial line. You stood like the Rock of Gibraltar, making sure things went well with me. When I came to tell you about my wedding plans you were elated and accepted my request to be our Chairman. After my wedding, you still remained solid in your care and support towards me and my family. When I came to seek your help for a job, you told me to wait awhile but still followed me nd my husband down to see the Registrar then at the Federal College of Education Osiele. You did not give up on me Daddy Adu, you finally saw to it that I became a Staff of FUNAAB without stress when most of my friends were seeking opportunities to get into the Federal system with so much stress. After leaving as Vice Chancellor you were still always loving caring and so easy to approach. You were so delightful and being in your company was so comforty, humorous and peaceful. I could go on and on Daddy, but words, like I said at the beginning of this tribute can never quantify you. That I will miss you, is a big understatement Sir. Still I want to say a big thank you for caring tirelessly, for loving compassionately, for giving without complaining, for helping without asking for anything in return. We love you and will miss you forever, Oh! Outstanding Soldier of Jesus Christ, Kindhearted Husband of Mummy Adu, Selfless Father nd Grandfather of Folu, Funmi, Bola, Olumide, Tomi and your families. Be comforted my darling Mummy Adu. 70 looks so good on you ma. Be comforted Folu nd Siblings. Be comforted friends, Be comforted the Church of God and everyone. Adieu!!! Professor Emeritus Israel Folorunso Adu. May your sweet soul rest in peace...

Love Always,
Blessing Ewuoso
Foursquare Gospel Church
Abeokuta


Forever in our Hearts...

June 18, 2020
June 14, 2020
Exactly a week ago, I heard the news. It was unbelievable, but when a close friend reconfirmed it, I knew it was true. As I write this, my eyes are still laden with tears. A handful of people have even reached out to sympathise with me, but I have had to grapple with the reality myself. 
As a new member of staff at the University of Agriculture, Abeokuta, Nigeria in 1997, I was posted to the Office of the Deputy Vice-Chancellor. Daddy was the DVC. He was full of energy, very hardworking. Even when we moved to the Office of the Vice-Chancellor and I had the privilege of serving as the Head of the P & P Unit, I wondered how he never got tired, having chaired meetings all day, gone on inspection tours of university projects or on visits to royal fathers in the evenings...and wait for it, being at prayer vigils at the Foursquare Church! 
Daddy simply mentored me by example. Unlike so many, he was the same person in and out of church. He was straightforward and just wanted to serve- no more, no less. 
In the University, when anyone came to the VC to backbite about another, Daddy would ask that person to wait. He would then call the other party and ask him/her to repeat all that was divulged, irrespective of who was involved! That greatly reduced the menace. I picked the administrative trick from him.
Daddy was a confidence builder and booster. He trusted his team. When he gave an assignment, he would just trust that you would carry it out to the letter. Hence, I worked hard not to disappoint him. Till date, that stuck. Gloriously, records show the awards the University earned while he was in office. 
Daddy taught me to respect time for official duties. If we had to be at an event at a particular time, if you arrived five minutes after the agreed take-off time, be sure that you would meet Daddy at the event venue. No story. 
Daddy taught me privacy. He did not mix domestic affairs with official matters at all. Needless to say that he loved his family irrevocably. When any member of the family was strong, we the immediate staff, would secretly make fun of him as we stole glimpses of him dedicatedly dotting over the concerned family member. Little wonder Mummy does not look 70 at all, isn’t it? They were friends. He never hid anything from her. Daddy once gave me some money following an accident that occurred in the line of duty. Because of his personality, he didn’t want tales, so he decided to compensate me personally. The cheque bore both their names and signatures. You would agree that the joint account spoke volumes, hence Daddy’s historic love letter to Mummy on her 70th birthday last January, was just him acting true to self. An exemplary couple indeed! 
Daddy would not lobby for anything. Yet, he did all that was within him to help everyone even without asking. He looked out for the comfort of all who knew him and I especially enjoyed his empathy.
Daddy told us repeatedly while in office that he would not want to live a life that he could not maintain outside office. Hence, he was very conscious of the use of official privileges and ensured his family followed. I learnt from that as well. 
Every member of my own nuclear family knows his name as one boss turned parent who injected my life with so much positivity and boost for almost a quarter of a century now. 
I can go on and on extolling his virtues. How would I ever forget? The laughter and jokes? The spiritual nourishment? Daddy and Mummy’s financial and physical support? 
I know Daddy is home with his Father. Nonetheless, I just keep asking myself why I find it so difficult to get over the shock. May Christ comfort us all.
Goodnight, Daddy. You would forever live in our hearts. You were truly a gift to us and we are missing you so much already, sir.
To every member of the Adu family, I am sincerely grateful for allowing me to share Daddy with you.
Most of all, I thank you Lord!
Emi’ Alawode,
Head, Publications and Protocol, Office of the Vice-Chancellor, UNAAB, Nigeria (2001-2007)
Pioneer Deputy Registrar, McPherson University, Nigeria (2012-2013)
June 17, 2020
Emeritus Professor Israel Folohunso Adu was a father to me. He was part of my success story today. Late  February he came to where I work ( Federal College of Animal Health & Production Technology, Ibadan) and he sent for me and he was delighted to see me, not knowing that he came to bid us farewell. Sir, you will be grately missed sir  because we also share the same birthday date He was an icon and an achiever, I know you have gone to rest sir. Adieu!!! my destiny helper.......

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