Dad - I miss you!
J. Kent Achterberg
  • 75 years old
  • Date of birth: Jan 18, 1939
  • Place of birth:
    South Bend, Indiana, United States
  • Date of passing: Jun 14, 2014
  • Place of passing:
    Osceola, Indiana, United States
Let the memory of J. Kent Achterberg live within our hearts forever. You were the giver of advice, our protector, and the rock of security. We will forever miss you!

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, J. Kent Achterberg, 75, born on January 18, 1939 and passed away on June 14, 2014. We will remember him forever.

J. Kent Achterberg, cherished husband, adored father and beloved grandfather, peacefully left for heaven on Saturday, June 14, 2014, after a courageous fight with a recent illness. He is survived by his wife, Victoria; his children: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John, Jeremy and Katharine (Nicholas Getzinger); and his grandchildren, Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter and Keegan. He is also survived by a daughter, Dana and son, Daniel. Waiting for him in heaven are his faithful yellow lab, Duke, his father, John H. Achterberg, his mother, Anna Mae Achterberg (Perkins), his grandparents, Amandus & Caroline Achterberg, George & Eva Perkins and Ruby & Louis Allen, and his special Uncle Alvin and Aunt Helen.

J. Kent was born on January 18, 1939 to Anna Mae and John Achterberg. He grew up in South Bend, Indiana and as a child often eagerly traveled to the family farm of Amandus and Caroline Achterberg in Benton Harbor, Michigan. He was very proud of his German heritage. He also enjoyed many days at Leeper Park or eating ice cream in downtown South Bend with his precious "Nanny". He attended Madison Elementary School in South Bend and graduated from South Bend Central High School in 1957.

Upon graduating from high school a semester early he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps. He was stationed at Camp Pendleton in San Diego, California from August, 1957 until his discharge in August, 1959. He was honorably discharged as a Corporal (E-4). Once a Marine, Always a Marine.

After leaving the Marine Corps, Kent returned to South Bend. Throughout his adult life, he worked as a sales professional: from selling frozen foods on a route between South Bend and Chicago, to selling cash register equipment for National Cash Register, to becoming a car salesman at various dealerships in the area, to later becoming the first Fleet Manager at Jordan Volvo before retiring in 2003. In 1973 he met Victoria Jasiewicz and they were united in holy matrimony on January 18, 1975 in the Chapel at the First United Methodist Church in downtown South Bend. They were blessed with just over 39 years of marriage and shared a home they proudly had built in Osceola, Indiana.

They created six children together, all of whom he loved unconditionally, to continue his heritage: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John and twins, Jeremy and Katharine. He was a proud Grandpa "Papa" to seven grandchildren, all of whom he treasured dearly: Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter, and Keegan.

Kent loved history, reading, watching horror movies and his daily episodes of Judge Judy. He also enjoyed a good poker game or a trip to the casino. He was a collector of John Wayne "The Duke" memorabilia. He loved and was proud to attend school functions and sporting events for his children and grandchildren. But what he loved most was spending time with his family, particularly the Sunday afternoon gatherings with his children and grandchildren. 

Kent was laid to rest at Southlawn Cemetery in South Bend. A private family service was held on Saturday, June 21, 2014 with military honors.  Welsheimer Family Funeral Home and Crematory assisted the family with arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made in Kent's honor to the Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256,

Kent, Dad & Grandpa - We are so proud and grateful to have had YOU as a Husband, a Dad and a Grandpa. No one will ever love us the way that you did. You are forever in our hearts. See you later. 

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Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 18th January 2015

"Happy Birthday in heaven Dad!  Missing you so much!  I know you are celebrating with the angels.  I love you!"

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 14th November 2014

"Missing you so much Dad.  Every day I just wish we could talk, just for a minute."

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 23rd September 2014

"I miss you Dad.  I just miss you!  Needing your guidance and your strength."

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 12th August 2014

"I love you Dad.  Missing you like crazy.  Times are tough but thank you for the sign in New Buffalo.  Always with you!"

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 18th July 2014

"I miss you Dad!  What I wouldn't give just to be able to call you ... Love you!"

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 5th July 2014

"Dad - We all missed you a lot today.  Really need you to send some strength.  Love you."

This tribute was added by Stephanie Achterberg on 1st July 2014

"I miss you so much Dad!  These days have been harder than I ever could of imagined.  I love you Dad."

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