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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, J. Kent Achterberg, 75, born on January 18, 1939 and passed away on June 14, 2014. We will remember him forever.

J. Kent Achterberg, cherished husband, adored father and beloved grandfather, peacefully left for heaven on Saturday, June 14, 2014, after a courageous fight with a recent illness. He is survived by his wife, Victoria; his children: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John, Jeremy and Katharine (Nicholas Getzinger); and his grandchildren, Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter and Keegan. He is also survived by a daughter, Dana and son, Daniel. Waiting for him in heaven are his faithful yellow lab, Duke, his father, John H. Achterberg, his mother, Anna Mae Achterberg (Perkins), his grandparents, Amandus & Caroline Achterberg, George & Eva Perkins and Ruby & Louis Allen, and his special Uncle Alvin and Aunt Helen.

J. Kent was born on January 18, 1939 to Anna Mae and John Achterberg. He grew up in South Bend, Indiana and as a child often eagerly traveled to the family farm of Amandus and Caroline Achterberg in Benton Harbor, Michigan. He was very proud of his German heritage. He also enjoyed many days at Leeper Park or eating ice cream in downtown South Bend with his precious "Nanny". He attended Madison Elementary School in South Bend and graduated from South Bend Central High School in 1957.


Upon graduating from high school a semester early he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps. He was stationed at Camp Pendleton in San Diego, California from August, 1957 until his discharge in August, 1959. He was honorably discharged as a Corporal (E-4). Once a Marine, Always a Marine.


After leaving the Marine Corps, Kent returned to South Bend. Throughout his adult life, he worked as a sales professional: from selling frozen foods on a route between South Bend and Chicago, to selling cash register equipment for National Cash Register, to becoming a car salesman at various dealerships in the area, to later becoming the first Fleet Manager at Jordan Volvo before retiring in 2003. In 1973 he met Victoria Jasiewicz and they were united in holy matrimony on January 18, 1975 in the Chapel at the First United Methodist Church in downtown South Bend. They were blessed with just over 39 years of marriage and shared a home they proudly had built in Osceola, Indiana.

They created six children together, all of whom he loved unconditionally, to continue his heritage: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John and twins, Jeremy and Katharine. He was a proud Grandpa "Papa" to seven grandchildren, all of whom he treasured dearly: Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter, and Keegan.

Kent loved history, reading, watching horror movies and his daily episodes of Judge Judy. He also enjoyed a good poker game or a trip to the casino. He was a collector of John Wayne "The Duke" memorabilia. He loved and was proud to attend school functions and sporting events for his children and grandchildren. But what he loved most was spending time with his family, particularly the Sunday afternoon gatherings with his children and grandchildren. 

Kent was laid to rest at Southlawn Cemetery in South Bend. A private family service was held on Saturday, June 21, 2014 with military honors.  Welsheimer Family Funeral Home and Crematory assisted the family with arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made in Kent's honor to the Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256, http://www.woundedwarriorproject.org.


Kent, Dad & Grandpa - We are so proud and grateful to have had YOU as a Husband, a Dad and a Grandpa. No one will ever love us the way that you did. You are forever in our hearts. See you later. 

See more at: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/southbendtribune/obituary.aspx?n=j-kent-achterberg&pid=171394009#sthash.XJyq1p4n.dpuf

January 18, 2015
January 18, 2015
Happy Birthday in heaven Dad! Missing you so much! I know you are celebrating with the angels. I love you!
November 14, 2014
November 14, 2014
Missing you so much Dad. Every day I just wish we could talk, just for a minute.
September 23, 2014
September 23, 2014
I miss you Dad. I just miss you! Needing your guidance and your strength.
August 12, 2014
August 12, 2014
I love you Dad. Missing you like crazy. Times are tough but thank you for the sign in New Buffalo. Always with you!
July 18, 2014
July 18, 2014
I miss you Dad! What I wouldn't give just to be able to call you ... Love you!
July 5, 2014
July 5, 2014
Dad - We all missed you a lot today. Really need you to send some strength. Love you.
July 1, 2014
July 1, 2014
I miss you so much Dad! These days have been harder than I ever could of imagined. I love you Dad.

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January 18, 2015
January 18, 2015
Happy Birthday in heaven Dad! Missing you so much! I know you are celebrating with the angels. I love you!
November 14, 2014
November 14, 2014
Missing you so much Dad. Every day I just wish we could talk, just for a minute.
September 23, 2014
September 23, 2014
I miss you Dad. I just miss you! Needing your guidance and your strength.
Recent stories

The Weekend

August 29, 2014

Holiday weekends kinda suck!  Missing the food decisions, planning which day and the gathering.  Don't think any of us will ever be able to order a bucket of chicken.  This year to is the first home football game too.  I know you will be looking down, either moaning or laughing, like you always did.  I remember the game when you were shouting "break his leg"!  Miss you so much Dad.  Please keep watch over us, we all still need you so much.  I love you Dad!! 

Sundays aren't the same ....

July 20, 2014

Sundays are the hardest.  The day we all would always get together.  There is no more planning Sunday dinners or what time we would all get together.  Wishing I could sit with you today and hear one of your many stories.  You always had the best stories and there are so many I know you never got to share.  I just miss you Dad!  My heart hurts today. 

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