I know when my dad was a young man his father passed away and he was raised by his mother and sisters ,he was the baby of the family but he was exspected to be the man of the house.I think thats why he was so onry,from what i understand he got in alot of trouble in his young life.From what i understand my parents were friends  but lovers too,i was told of a story on how my dad was helping my mom find her dickhead of a husband(Don) at the time and they found him in a bar like usual and when they left the bar they went behind the bar and started making out and from there they begain their life as friends and lovers.I know there is more to this story but cant remember everything.
 I know when he was a young man he burned down a barn in his town of Attumwa Iowa so the judge told him either go to boys school or go in the army so my dad choose the army and thats how we ended up here in South Bend he got stationed to Notre Dame and his time was up and he decided not to reinlist cause they wanted to send him back to Vietnam and he didnt want that so here we are.
 I will write more of his life later.