I don’t usually have anything special to say when these events happen and so don’t even write much, this is very different.
Through meeting many years ago amidst the madness of our careers, the raucous hysterics at vendor dinners ( you’d say; we gotta go , free food and wine) , quick meets for a bite and catch up. The deep, honest , terrifying little conversations about life and circumstance, we somehow squeezed in , each time we saw each other. And those same conversations that somehow always managed to include inappropriate quips and banter and ridiculous belly laughs .We would hysterically laugh because it was wrong but we were funny on the downlow. . Your strength, determination and Unwavering persistence always shown through each and every struggle life threw. You always left me feeling like , hell yea, you can get through anything. After all, look at you. You’re perseverance and unwillingness to allow your battle to impede you’re life was astonishing to all that knew you. You were brilliantly wise in your career knowledge and practice ,yet, street smart with a wicked edge.A caring, genuine, empathetic soul that would do anything she could for you, give you a boost, reinforce confidence or straight up call you out on bs when need be. You adored your husband, your eyes lit when talking of your kids and grandkids ( those we swore would kill us trying to keep up) You did it all , every bit, with grace, strength and determination and I adored you and was in awe of your entire presence from our first meet years ago and that just grew as our friendship. People who didn’t know you would ask who you were, and I had to reply “ that is JACKIE ADAMS, how do you not know of her? That woman is a LEGEND. if you’re ever lucky enough to be her friend and really get to know her, consider yourself to have been blessed as there will never be one of her again. I was one of the blessed to have been her friend and will cherish every single moment I spend with her. I prayed this day wouldn’t come though we knew better. I hurt for your family that will have to navigate the incomprehensible loss. I sit here and as sad as this is, somehow I feel peace in my heart in that , you, Jackie Adams, took every minute of your life , the good , the amazing, the barriers and the pain and you, my dear, made it your bitch,! You are Jackie Adams so who would expect any less. I’ll see you again and I’m sure you’ll be coolest lady there