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Jaelin Daivon Ashe was a remarkable young man who left us far too soon. Please join us and all of his close friends and loved ones on December 19th 2013 at
Laurel Lakes Park Concert Pavilion at 8pm for a candle light vigil in his honor.

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This memorial website was created in memory of Jaelin, son of our dear friend Vann Ashe.

Vann, unarguably among the "who's who" of many social circles, is known for his charisma, fun loving nature, general love of life, and being the "go to" guy for a great time,  but those of us who know Vann best know that before anything else he's a devoted father.


Please open up your heart to the Ashe family in this very difficult time  as Vann has always opened his heart to us. 

Contributions from you will assist with Jaelin's final expenses as well as establish a  memorial in his memory. Proceeds can be accepted  here . 

Thank you in advance for your kindness-  
                   
             Friends of Vann


I’ll lend you for a little time a child of mine, He said.
For you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three.
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you, but should his stay be brief,
You’ll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief,
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say: Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness: we’ll love him while we may,
And for happiness we’ve known forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him much sooner than we’d planned.

We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.-- Edgar Guest

December 20, 2023
December 20, 2023
I think about Jaelin and your family every year at this time. He was loved by all. Grateful to have known him.
John Yore
April 22, 2021
April 22, 2021
My thoughts are with the Ashe Family now and always. Peace to your family.
John Yore
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
I think about Jaelin often, particularly at this time of year. He was such a special young man and I wonder about all the awesome things he would have done these past 8 years. We were honored to know him. He touched so many in a life which was far too short for those who knew and loved him. Blessed to have known Jaelin!
April 21, 2020
April 21, 2020
Happy 23rd birthday friend!!! Always missing you♥️
December 20, 2017
December 20, 2017
i was just looking at our picture the other day thinking about what life what've been like if i still had a friend like you around, i miss you dearly continue to rest
February 4, 2014
February 4, 2014
I wish I got the chance to meet you, from the way Taela talks about you, you are truly an amazing person. A true blessing and gift from God like your sister. I keep her and your family in my prayers everday. May you rest in peace and be the gaurdian angel for you family.
January 12, 2014
January 12, 2014
heey big brother . I miss you soo much but im being strong for you . I love you , you will always remain in my heart .
April 21, 2013
April 21, 2013
Happy 16th birthday Jaelin! I wish I could say it to you in person :( I miss you so much & think about you all the time, keep watching over me.
January 30, 2013
January 30, 2013
"Vann, Just wanted to say I am so sorry to hear about your son. I don't know both of yall personally but I respected the tight relationship you two had. A relationship that my father and I have. He seemed to be a very smart,funny,and intelligent young man. He was always smiling. I send my condolences to you and your family.
December 29, 2012
December 29, 2012
Mr. Vann,
I do not know you personally but I was good friends with Jaelin. We played football together at Meade and would eat lunch together often. He was a very kind, and talented young individual. I will always miss him and never forget #88. My family prays for you and your family.
William Huff #13
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
"Vann, I didnt know Jaelin.. but Im a parent and I know this has to be hard on you and your family.. From reading about, Jaelin I know he was well groomed, by one of the best dads in the world. I remember how you were at NSU... Always a stand up guy. My prayers & heart goes out to you and your family doing these trying times.
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
Vann, this is a tough one... I believe that God allows bad things to happen to great people so blessing and miracles can be created. You and your family will be blessed through this and Ray and I as know will always be here for whatever you need. See you soon, Your Dear Friends Dave and Ray
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
I still can't believe that you're gone Jaelin. You were such a good, sweet , and loving person. You're gone too soon but maybe God wanted you closer to him. You're now in a better place looking down on us. My condolences and my prayers go out to your family. We're rocking for you Jaelin. I love and miss you. Rest easy baby boy <3
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Vann. Although this is something you will never get over, with God by your side, you will get through it!! You are in my prayers.
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
Vann, Our thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow. Your angel lives on through you. May god give you peace and strength in this moment and every moment forward.
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
I never met your son, Van. But I knew you and I knew that you are an amazing father. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Anything you need, don't be afraid to ask.
December 25, 2012
December 25, 2012
To my cousin Vann Ashe my condolences go out to you and our family. To my cousin Jaelin Ashe:

Goodbyes are not forever.
Goodbyes are not the end.
They simply mean I'll miss you,
Until we meet again!!!!!!
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
Although I didn't know Jaelin very well , he did impact a lot of my friends and family's lives. He played football with my little cousin and he was in ROTC with me . My deepest condolences goes out to the family and close friends of Jaelin. Gone but Never Forgotten .
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
Words can't explain how hurt I am. Jaelin was like a brother to me. When I was mad he was always there to put a smile on my face. He will always have a place in my heart Rest Easy Jaelin YOU WILL BE MISSED!
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
I had the honor of having Jaelin in my English class and I cannot begin to tell you how much he will be missed by myself and class. Please accept my deepest sympathy, and know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
My prayers go out to Jaelin's family. I thank God for allowing me to be a part of his life, and allowing me to find a true friend.The time i spent with him i cherished every single moment and i wish that he could still be here. I love you jaelin and you will surely be missed
December 24, 2012
December 24, 2012
While I may not know you, I offer my sincerest condolences to you at this time. There are no words that will suffice at the moment, but please know that God is more than able to keep you, give you peace and comfort, and wrap you in His arms. "Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted." (Matthew 5:4, KJV)
December 23, 2012
December 23, 2012
Cherise.

I pray for you and your family, no words can't mend the pain and hurt you guys have. Sending you love.
December 23, 2012
December 23, 2012
"I can't describe the sorrow that is in my heart right now.I remember when I first met Jaelin in middle school.We both went to Wilder and he was so funny and so fun to hang with.He was one of my best friends and now that he is gone its like a part if my life is gone.I wish it never happened. Every time when I see his pictures I cry. But now he's in a better place watching over us."
December 23, 2012
December 23, 2012
Vann -
Words can not describe the sorrow that is in my heart but just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal. I am here for you! Love you Dude!

Jason
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, Words do little to ease this pain but know that there are so many of us thinking of you and praying for your peace. Sending my love to you and the Ashe family.
God bless,
Jemila
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. (Ps 147:3)
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, When I heard of your loss I cried.y ou are such a great father, something so horrible happened to Such a great person. The lost of a child is a pain that will never go away but I hope 1 day you are able to find peace.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann and Cherise,
Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family through these trying times. Trica and I are here for you if you need anything. We love you guys!
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Hello Vann, no words can ease your pain and I can't begin to know how u feel. I just want you to know that your in my heart and whatever you need I'm here.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Bro I'm at a loss for words right now. My prayers go out to you and your family. Im here if you need Anything! You are my Dude Vann. #88 Mustangs Forever!
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
I remember the first time I met him I instantly knew he was your son... Your mini me, so pleasant and such a bright young man... Usually I would let my princess hang out with boys but he was your boy and I knew you gave every bit of you to be a awesome father. I can't say enough how sorry I am for you and your family! And I'm definitely sending hugs.. Anything needed I'm here!!!! Always!!!
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann my prayers goes out to you and your family...
sorry for your loss...
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
This is so beautiful.. As a new mother, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. They say that God always calls the good ones home early...Atleast we know that Jaelin has ascended back to heaven amongst the other angels. Vann, from the deepest of my heart, I send my Condolences and I pray that God gives you peace and strength in this heartbreaking time. Much love
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, I am heart broken hearted for you and your family! You are one of the good fathers that actually were active in your sons life and had him heading in the right direction.. Just know he is watching over you and Mikey now. I'm here if you need absolutely anything...! I'll continue to pray for your strength!
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann you and your family have my prayers during this difficult time.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Please know an entire community grieves with you. We were honored to walk in the presence of Jaelin. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
John Yore and Family
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Van I am so sorry about ur loss..You are in my prayers and I pray you fine comfort in your friends and family. We are here for you.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Im at lost for words, me and my family send our prayers to you Van and your family....
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family during the loss of your Son. The Henderson family sends warmth, Love and prayers during these rough times! May God Bless you and your family!

The Henderson Family
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Your family and friends are with you in these trying time. May god bless and support Cherise & You through the coming days.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray you and your family find comfort during this time. God bless.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, No words will mend the hurt, but know that our hearts, and doors are open to you and your family during this time. 
The Baskerville's
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." Celebrating the life of young amazing Jaelin Ashe
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann and Cherise,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless and bring peace to you all. There's a new angel looking down upon us.
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, my heart aches for you. I can't imagine what you are going through. Hold on to all the memories and cherish the times that you and your son shared. I wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Love ya!!
December 22, 2012
December 22, 2012
Vann, we all know you are a devoted and loving father to your children. Please accept my deepest condolences. We are here for you in this trying time.

Psalms 22:24 For he has not despised or abhorred the affliction of the afflicted, and he has not hidden his face from him, but has heard, when he cried to him.
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December 20, 2023
December 20, 2023
I think about Jaelin and your family every year at this time. He was loved by all. Grateful to have known him.
John Yore
April 22, 2021
April 22, 2021
My thoughts are with the Ashe Family now and always. Peace to your family.
John Yore
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My Baby Boy

January 14, 2013
I knew you were extraordinary when you walked a nine months. My lil man. This is sooo hard. I love you past the stars in heaven. I know thats where you are & where you always dreamed of seeing. Enjoy the perfect peace of paradise baby. Wear your wings well. You deserve them. My angel here on earth. My guardian angel from heaven. My love for you is never ending. My Sunny Boy. I cant wait to see you again.

My Big Brother

December 26, 2012
After_while-_Deitrick_Haddon

jaelin you were/are my big'brother, my love, my #1 protector, and many more. This just hit us all so hard. I cry everynight because of how much I miss you. Even though you were bad you had the sweetest heart ever. Fly high bro and save me a spot up there please. I cant even explain my love for you. Maybe if i got to see you one last time or even hear your voice it wouldnt be so hard. I will see you tomorrow and friday for the last time. Im trynna be strong for you love !

At Only 10yrs Old

December 23, 2012
My memory of Jaelin, as I remember in 2005 I received a call from a little boy who said with such an intelligent voice." Can I please speak with Mrs Sylvia? My name is Jaelin and im calling for my daddy!" Vann was unable to do it for himself he call on his son to assist him. At only 10yrs old I was amazed that he could even follow his father and make a 3 way call for his dad. When most adults could not even suceed with the tasks 5 yrs ago. My memory of Jaiden....smart and pleasant young man.Just wanted to share and say to his mother, his father Vann my homie ,and family he is in a safe place, he's an angel and may he RIP! Your friend, Sylvia Pizarro

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