ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jake Elledge, 36 years old, born on January 12, 1974, and passed away on May 4, 2010. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Misty Elledge on May 4, 2022
Another year has passed without you in our lives. I was talking with our kids about today about you being gone for 12 years. Carson wanted to know about our houses so I tried explaining the layout from what I remembered to him. He then got all excited and wondered what it would have been like to live in those houses. I will never let our kids forget about you or the life that we shared and all the good things. We love you and miss you each and every day ❤️ ❤❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2022
Today we would have been celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary. I wonder how our life would be if you were still alive. I wonder how much different our kids would be if we were living there in Illinois instead of here in Washington. You are and will always be loved, missed and thought about. ♥️
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Handsome/Daddy! I always make sure our kids know today is your birthday along with each and every year. Never want them to forget you. As they get older they wish they could have the opportunity to meet you and it just breaks my heart they aren't able to. You would be so proud of them both. We will love you always and forever!
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2022
Another Birthday without you here and I've cried a lot today. You would be so proud of Carson and Roslyn, they are beautiful, amazing kids and growing up so fast. It never get any easier, I miss you more everyday. Happy Birthday in Heaven, I love you and miss you and Johny so much❤ FLY HIGH MY ANGEL
Posted by Misty Elledge on June 20, 2021
Happy Heavenly Father's Day Jake/Daddy! We Love You XOXOXO!
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 4, 2021
I can't believe you've been gone 11 years and every time I write on this page, I cry because I still can't believe you're gone. I wish you could have been here to see your beautiful children...you would have been so proud of them. We had your favorite for supper tonight...Romas Pizza. Our hearts will forever be broken, we love you and miss you so much! FLY HIGH MY ANGEL!
Posted by Misty Elledge on May 4, 2021
Who would have thought that 11 years ago you would be gone from the Earth in which we live in and be forever in heaven. You have no idea how much you truly are missed each an everyday. You will never, ever be forgotten and forever missed. Myself, Roslyn and Carson will forever miss you with all of our hearts. We love you Jake and Daddy ❤❤❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on May 1, 2021
Who would have thought that on April 29th, 2021 we would be celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary? I can't believe how fast time has flown by since you have been gone. Our kids are growing up so fast and they are some awesome kids at that. You would be so proud. You are always missed and thought of often. Love you always and forever ❤❤❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 24, 2021
I saw and article just now that made me think of you! Exactly 40 years ago today Motley Crue played their very first concert. Happy Birthday Motley Crue as they said. Every time I hear a song from them I immediately think about you. If I'm in the car with our kids I make sure to let them know that this was your favorite band. We love you always and forever ❤❤❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 13, 2021
Happy Belated Birthday in Heaven. Roslyn and Carson think about you often. They also mention how they wish they could have known you and that they love you. I gave them pictures of us when we were young to keep for memories. I love you and miss you still.
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2021
Today would have been your 47th Birthday and I'm missing you so much. It still doesn't seem real. You would be so proud of Carson and Roslyn...they're smart, beautiful children and have a big heart just like you had. They sent a card and letters to you and we put them out at your Gravesite. Happy Birthday in Heaven Jake, we love you and miss you. Take care of Johny!
Posted by Misty Elledge on May 5, 2020
I can't believe that you have been gone for 10 years and that our loves will also be 10 this year. They are such strong and amazing kids, you would be so very proud of them and their accomplishments. We think about you always and will never forget you. We love you XXXOOO.
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 4, 2020
I can't believe it's been 10 years since you went to Heaven. Our hearts hurt so bad. Cardon and Toslyn are amazing children and you would be so proud of them. We miss you and love you so much!
FLY HIGH SWEET ANGEL!!
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2020
Happy 46th Birthday Handsome Man up in heaven! Our kids are getting so big, I can't believe they will be entering into the double digits this year as the big 10. You would be so proud of them and they both wished you a happy birthday today which made my heart happy. Love and miss you always and forever XXXOOO!
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2020
Today would have been your 46th Birthday and it still seems so unreal that you're not here with us. The day you were born was one of the 3 happiest days of my life. I miss you and love you so much! Happy Birthday in Heaven, we will be celebrating with Romas Pizza for you today. Take care of Johny!
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 4, 2019
As I sit here crying, I can't believe you've been gone 9 years, It still doesn't seem real and it never will. I'll never get over the sadness of losing you and I'll never understand. I miss you and love you more everyday. Take care of Johny, Fly High My Angel!!
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 4, 2019
Another Birthday has passed without you and I'll never stop crying. My heart will never stop breaking. Losing you and Johny will never seem real. I know you're always smiling down on us but it's not the same. We will forever miss you and always love you.
Happy Birthday in Heaven, take care of Johny!
Posted by Marc Walsh on May 3, 2019
Jake,
I miss you buddy. Letting you know we are doing a golf outing tomorrow in your honor, and Johny.  
Did it last year and had a blast; had shirts made and everything.
I don’t forget.  Never will. 
It’s all your buddies hanging out, having some cocktails, sharing stories and making poor decisions.  It’s very Rock n Roll
It still hits pretty hard for me and Mccoy. 
Always
Marc
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2019
Happy 13th Anniversary Handsome Man!
On my way home from work as I approached a stop light I came upon a white Geo Tracker with blue lettering on it and even though it didn't have a soft top I know right then and there that you were with me. I also heard a specific song on the radio today that always makes me think of you and that brings a smile to my face. Thank you for those signs it made my day extra special. I love and miss you so much and always will XXXOOO!
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2019
Happy Birthday Handsome Man and Angel Daddy to our children. The 3 of us love you and miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by that your not thought about or talked about. XXXOOO!
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 9, 2018
Jake, I'm so sorry I didn't post on your Anniversary but it's still so hard to fathom that you're really gone. I cry everyday, my heart is and always will be broken. I know you're watching over us everyday. You would be so proud of Roslyn and Carson. They are amazing, beautiful children and you will always live on through them! I will never get over losing you, I love you and miss you forever! Mom
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2018
Happy 12th Anniversary Handsome Man! No matter what may happen I will always love you and will celebrate our anniversary. I miss you so very much and wish you were here with the 3 of us. When I'm at work I hear certain songs that remind me of you and it makes me smile. I've also been finding pennies on the floor at work so I know its you. Thank you for all of our amazing memories never to be forgotten but cherished always.
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2018
As I think of you today and the the day you were born, I cant stop my tears. I was so excited the first time I held you in my arms, I loved you so much. Now as we spend your birthdays with you as our Guardian Angel, the sadness never goes away. Roslyn and Carson talk about you and love you so much, you would have been the best Daddy ever to them!
Happy Birthday in Heaven Jake, we love you and miss you so much!❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2018
Happy Birthday Handsome Man and to our kids forever Angel Daddy! We miss you so much and would love more then anything to have you here with us and to experience life with us. Roslyn and Carson are doing so good in school as well as outside activities.You would be so very proud. I always feel like a part of us is missing and it forever will because a part of my heart is and will always be with you. We love you!
Posted by janice walsh on May 4, 2017
I have shed a few tears today thinking of you. I have wonderful memories of you,Marc,Brian and Johny that helps with the heartache. You are truly missed and loved by so many! R.I.P. Jake. ❤️ ❤️❤️
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2017
Happy 11th Anniversary to my forever angel in heaven! I love you and miss you everyday! You will forever be in mine and our children's hearts. You will always be Roslyn and Carsons Angel Daddy! Lots of love from us to you
Posted by Marc Walsh on January 12, 2017
Happy birthday! I miss ya buddy.  Life isn't the same without you. I'm sure your with Johny enjoying your special day. 
Love and miss you both. 
Marc
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2017
Happy Birthday Handsome Man/Daddy! Another year without you in mine and our kids lives. There are so many things I wish I could talk with you about and experience with you. I miss you so much and always will. Carson and Roslyn each made you a birthday card from their heart and did such good jobs. They are both so smart and give me such wonderful reminders of you and us each day. I just know that you will be rocking out to Motley Crue with Johny and family today. We Love You!
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2017
Another birthday without you here and I can't stop crying. I will never get over losing you, it still seems so unreal, you and Johny shold be here with us. . I wish you were here to see your beautiful Roslyn and Carson. They are amazing and you would be so proud of them, you would have been the best Daddy ever. I think about you every minute of everyday, Happy Birthday in Heaven, I miss you and love you with all my heart!
Posted by Misty Elledge on December 10, 2016
I'm missing you so much right now. I'm wishing that you could be here with the 3 of us. I wish the 3 of us could be picking out a real Christmas tree and then having all the kids decorating it like we always used to. Nobody will ever be able to replace you because I know in my heart that you would have been the best/most amazing daddy ever. You were always so wonderful with Kaden and Kylen which tells me you would have been the best with Roslyn and Carson. What I would give to have you back in our lives again. I love you so very much and always will!
Posted by Andrew Russell on September 8, 2016
Just heard a song on the radio and not sure why but you came to mind. This happens often which usually starts with a smile and ends with memories. Instead of being sad, I am happy that we had a chance to make those memories and wished we could have made more. We miss you and Johny both but I know we will be together again in time. Love you!
Posted by Misty Elledge on July 11, 2016
Today for some reason was a hard day. It seemed that almost everything made me think of you which made me cry and wish that you were here with us. I so miss feeling like a complete family and without you here there will always be that missing part. I try so hard to be strong for myself and our kids and then there are times I just can't hide it. I miss you so much it hurts. I love you!
Posted by Misty Elledge on June 19, 2016
Happy Father's Day Jake/Daddy! Another year sad/hard year without you in our lives. You would have been an amazing father and daddy to our kids. They are both doing amazing. I can't believe they will be 1st graders next year. In the fall I plan to register Roslyn for cheer with her good friend Cora and Carson for flag football. Carson has a huge passion for football its crazy! I think Roslyn will follow in her Aunt Jennys footsteps with cheerleading. They both LOVE to read. The kids made you a father's day card for you with love. Miss you so much always and forever!
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2016
Happy 10th Anniversary to my Angel in the sky. Miss you being here with me, Roslyn and Carson. Today will be a hard day for me even more so then other days because I always thought that we would be celebrating together. Until we can be reunited in heaven again you will always be loved and thought of. I love you babe always and forever.
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2016
Happy Birthday Jake/Babe/Daddy! Sure do miss you being here with us as we celebrate and remember you today and always. You will never be forgotten and always loved by the 3 of us. Myself, Roslyn and Carson are sending you birthday kisses from us to you in heaven. May you rock out today and always. We love you!
Posted by Marc Walsh on January 12, 2016
Happy birthday!  I miss you. I miss Johny too.  Your never forgotten.
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2016
I always thought that you would be here with us to celebrate your Birthday but the sadness of knowing that you never will be will never go away. Crying and sadness are now s big part of our lives, we miss you and Johny so much. I know 6ou are both always watching over us but, oh , what we would give to have you back. Fly High My Angel, Happy Birthday, I love you and miss you!
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 8, 2016
Today is such a bittersweet day for me. Yes it is my birthday and for that it makes me smile. Its also the age that you were when you left us and are no longer here on Earth to experience life with me, Roslyn and Carson. I just wish that there would have been something that I could have done to have changed the events of that day years ago. There's never a day that goes by or that will go by that I won't stop thinking about you and loving you. You will always have a piece of my heart with you and you will always be in my heart. I love you!
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 1, 2016
Another year has come to a close and I cant stop crying , we've been through our 5th Christmas without you and our 3rd without Johny and it still seems unreal. You both should still be here with us because the pain and sadness of losing you never goes away and never gets any easier. You would have been so proud of your beautiful children, Roslyn and Carson.,they are so smart and you would have been an amazing Father to them. We keep your Memory alive to them and we always will. Take care of Johny, you are forever in my heart, I love you and you with all my heart.
                                                   Mom
Posted by Misty Elledge on December 31, 2015
Another year is coming to a close without you in our lives. So many things have happened since you have been gone. I wish that I could sit down and talk with you about all of them. Roslyn and Carson love school which makes me so proud. Carson is picking up on music like you wouldn't believe. You would be so proud of them. Motley Crue is performing for the last time tonight which makes me think about all of our concerts that we have been to and all of the good times that we have shared with each other. I miss you and love you so very much. I so wish that we could be together ringing in the New Year.
Posted by Misty Elledge on October 25, 2015
Some days are just so hard without you in our lives. I look around all the time and see so many couples and families happy and then I look at myself and I just cry. Why can't we be happy like our family and friends. I almost don't want to be on Facebook anymore because I'm so tired of seeing all of the happiness and wishing that was me/us. Without you it just doesn't seem possible and it makes me cry. I miss you so much!
Posted by Misty Elledge on June 12, 2015
Today our babies or I should say kids now since time is flying by so fast are 5 years old today. I always wonder what our live's would be like had you still been here with us. I know you are watching from heaven and are so very proud of them and how much they have accomplished. I know you will be sending lots of birthday wishes their way today.We love you and miss you so very much! Love you Jake/babe.
Posted by SHANNON INMAN on May 4, 2015
Dear Jake, I am sending hugs today to let you know we all think about you and johny all of the time. We know that one day we will all get to hang out again and talk about music and life lol Please know that you have soooo many people that think of you daily!! Hugs to you dear Jake! p.s...how's my cali dog???? God Bless you Jake!
Posted by Misty Elledge on May 4, 2015
I can't believe that you have been in heaven for 5 years. Thank you for sending me signs from you on our Anniversary because it made that day better for me instead of so sad. Always missing you and wishing that you could be here with me and to watch Roslyn and Carson grow. You would have been an amazing father/daddy to them both. Every time they have a field trip or a school function I always wish that you could be there with me to help them celebrate it. So much that I am thankful for that you have given me or that we have shared. So sad that we can't continue on with may more beautiful memories. Love you and missing you always!
Posted by janice walsh on May 4, 2015
Our dear sweet Jake how much you are missed!! 5 years have gone by and the pain and heartache is still with us. Wish I could give you a big hug and tell you how much we love you. I know you are in a better place and you are at peace. God Bless you Jake you are always in our hearts. Janice
Posted by Mary Elledge on May 4, 2015
I'm having a sadder than normal day today, I can't believe you left us 5 years ago. I think about you and all the fun family memories we all had and then I cry. My heart is always heavy with sadness, I just wish we had you and Johny here with us and I'll never understand why you were both taken from us. I always wonder how our lives would have been if you were both still here with us. Our lives will never be the same, I miss you and love you with all my heart!
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2015
Happy 9th Anniversary Baby! No matter what ups and downs may come my way there isn't a day that I don't think about you. Today was one of the happiest days of my life and I'm so glad that it was shared with you. I always wonder where we would be today had you still been alive. Even though you are gone you will never be forgotten! I love you baby and always will! My heart will always have that special place in it for you!
Posted by Andrew Russell on January 12, 2015
I wanted to wish you a very happy birthday! I know you are in heaven looking down on us and you know we all miss you so until we meet again, rock on! Love you and miss you.
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2015
As you celebrate another Birthday in Heaven, I can't stop the tears from falling. I wish you were here to see your beautiful children, Roslyn and Carson. You would be so proud of them and been the best Daddy ever and we will always keep your memory alive to them! We miss you and Johny so much and your beautiful memories will be forever in our hearts! Happy Birthday, we love you and miss you!
Posted by Mary Elledge on January 12, 2015
Had a nice birthday party for you today with all the family we all sure miss you a lot l think of you and Johny all the time watch over your babies till we meet again I love you. dad
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Posted by Misty Elledge on May 4, 2022
Another year has passed without you in our lives. I was talking with our kids about today about you being gone for 12 years. Carson wanted to know about our houses so I tried explaining the layout from what I remembered to him. He then got all excited and wondered what it would have been like to live in those houses. I will never let our kids forget about you or the life that we shared and all the good things. We love you and miss you each and every day ❤️ ❤❤
Posted by Misty Elledge on April 29, 2022
Today we would have been celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary. I wonder how our life would be if you were still alive. I wonder how much different our kids would be if we were living there in Illinois instead of here in Washington. You are and will always be loved, missed and thought about. ♥️
Posted by Misty Elledge on January 12, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Handsome/Daddy! I always make sure our kids know today is your birthday along with each and every year. Never want them to forget you. As they get older they wish they could have the opportunity to meet you and it just breaks my heart they aren't able to. You would be so proud of them both. We will love you always and forever!
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Celebrating Stephanie Cordia's Birthday

Shared by Misty Elledge on January 8, 2016

This is one of my most favorite pictures of the both of us together aside from our wedding photo. I will never forget that we were at a club in Missouri listening to a band play while celebrating Stephanie Cordias birthday. She is one you/Jake worked with at Ticketmaster along with many other wonderful people that I got the chance to know. We always had so much fun going out and listening to bands all over Missouri and some in Ilinois. Thank you for all of the memories that we shared that will never be forgotten. I love you Jake!

Dad

Shared by Mary Elledge on August 26, 2011

Jake

I just want you to know how much we all miss you,it,s really hard to

get trough the day sometimes but I know you wouldn,t want us to feel

sad all the time.

I know you know that I loved you very much,till we meet again

                                                love,Dad