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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, James Ajayi. We will remember him forever.
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
Grandpa Ibadan (as he was fondly called) was a very kind and honest man. He loved his children and grandchildren. Each time we spoke, half the conversation was prayers for us all. He lived a wonderful life up to the very end. I’d like to think he will always be with us in everything we do. I am truly saddened that he is now gone, although now he’s with God. Thank you for everything you’ve done for us Grandpa.


Iseoluwa Ajayi
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
A man named Adewuyi, he cared for his children even grandchildren. He loved God. Bless that man he will be with us in spirit, heart and mind. We all loved him at the beginning and we still and did love him to the end. He was my grandpa he was one of the most honest and gracious people.

Loved and missed by all!!



Toluwani Ajayi
November 16, 2021
November 16, 2021
Reflecting on conversations we had and stories I heard about you growing up. It is clear you were always a man that wanted excellence from not just himself but everyone around him. No matter how good or bad anybody was doing you would always motivate us that we could do better. You were a loving husband, father and grandfather. Even though your passing left us all heartbroken, I will take joy in the legacy you left behind. Rest In Power Grandpa.
October 19, 2021
October 19, 2021
Sigh, Grandpa this is shocking I won't lie and it is still very hard for me to believe, it seems like yesterday that you would sit us in circles and tell us stories about your past and give us advices about our future. It was so much fun when we always came to visit you, you were the head of our family and our focal point and I am sad cause I wish you were still here. I miss you a lot and this is hard but I know it is all God's will and plan and I know you are in a better place. Thank you so much for being you, for being a Father, a Grandfather, a role model, a teacher and a guide to all of us. Thank you so much for looking after us all, we will not forget your teachings and we promise to continue to make you proud till when we meet again. I love you Forever.

Timilehin
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
We all have a role to play on the stage of life, even though, the time and duration differs but all our actions will remain indelible on the sand of time. Baba, your life has really influenced this generation. Methodist Church Nigeria, Oke-Omi, Osu will forever be grateful to God that you came. We are proud of you. Good night. Adieu Papa!

Very Revd O.O. Ademoyejo, Presbyter, MCN Oke-Omi, Circuit
October 5, 2021
October 5, 2021
When ever I was sent to Daddy at his house in Ibadan, he will first Abimbola "Se Alafia lo wa, gbogbo Ile nko" he's a wonderful and good father, daddy your legacy will surely continue to leave. We love you but God Almighty love you thee more. Continue to rest in peace.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Dear grandpa, the news of your death came so suddenly. We were still thinking of visiting you during our vacation, but alas, that won't be possible again. The little time we have spent with you has been so wonderful, we thank God for giving us to you and we cherished you so much. You were very loving and caring, always remembered each of us on our birthdays. Your death is so painful to us but, we know you're in a better place now. Grandpa, goodnight, rest on and rest well.
Enoch and Joshua ALADEOKIN
Grandsons
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Grandpa, you were such a wonderful man, full of wisdom and love for everyone. Everytime we had the opportunity to visit you is always filled with pleasant memory, your departure from us is really painful, but our joy is in the fact that you're with your maker now. We love you and already missing you. Sleep well, rest on till we meet again.
Sharon and Elizabeth ALADEOKIN
Grand daughters.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Daddy, you were such a loving, caring, and kind hearted father. A father who wanted the best for his children and devoted everything he had to achieve this with God on his side. A God-fearing man who served God till the end, you touched lives positively and made indelible impacts everywhere you had the opportunity. A man of integrity, I really miss you daddy, I will always remember you for all your fatherly care, prayers and advice. I love you but God loves you more. He decided to take you at His own time, you actually lived a fulfilled life worthy of emulation . Rest on in the bossom of the Lord dad.
Your Daughter
ALADEOKIN Adedamola.
September 6, 2021
September 6, 2021
Uuuuuuhm,Erin woooooo, kole dide!
Daddy, you came, you fought and you conquered !
You were a strong, brave, intelligent, meticulous leader to the core. Your wealth of wisdom Is outstanding even till death. If I had known, I would have made fondly memories of the last over six hours conversations we had. And until I saw you fight till your last breath , I never thought you will go so soon! What a great loss! indeed the period between death and life is just split of a second!!!

I will surely miss the heart to heart, fatherly talk but we have this consolation in that Christ has gotten victory over all.
Oh death, where is your sting, Oh Hades where is your victory. Death is swallowed up in Jesus' victory.

We love you but Jesus loves you more!
Till we meet on the resurrection morning, keep resting in the bossom of your maker and saviour!
September 5, 2021
September 5, 2021
Ade Ori mi ooo !!!
Egbon mi ooo !!!
Ore mi atata !!!.

I just got myself together to write in your honour. God called us together many decades ago for His service and kept us through tooth and nail. He shielded us through innumerable dangers and challenges and did many exploits through us until you left unannounced. I thought we still had much more to do together under God and through his grace in our God given assignment.

We grew together as friends, worked together and did virtually everything together. We prayed and God answered our going together and stood with us till your very last day. How I cherish and appreciate your companionship. Carrying on without you is better imagined. You deprived yourself, you gave of your time, your resources, indeed your all and pursued your dreams till the very end. God knows why you have to go at this time and we cannot question him.

Rest on in the bosom of your creator, Adewuyi omo Ajayi OgidiOlu Onikanga ajipon, Obomi osuru weda. Eni Ajayi gba gba gba ti kole gbatan, Oluwa ni ko gba Oluwa re.

Omo Owajaka Aponlese bi Alaari. Akinkanju otito, Sun un re o, 
Aa pade lese Jesu Olugbala lojo Ajinde.

Your loving wife-
Julianah Olayinka Ajayi
September 4, 2021
September 4, 2021
TRIBUTE TO Pa JAMES ADEWUYI AJAYI, OLD BOY OF WESLEY COLLEGE, IBADAN (1957-1960)
Pa J. A. Ajayi, You entered Weskey College, Elekuro, Ibadan for a 4-year Teachers' Grade II course in January 1957. Your College Number was 1204. You successfully completed the course and passed out ias a qualified Grade II teacher in December 1960.
While in college, you were known as a sportsman of modest ability and the goalkeeper for your House - Mead.
One of your immediate juniors, Sir (Dr.) Ife Babalola (M. I. Babalola then), College Nimber 1294, wrote about you in response to my enquiries: 'Mr. J.A. Ajayi was my immediate senior at the college. He was one of those that I respected a lot among his classmates. He was unassuming. He related freely with people and was loved by many. He can be aptly described as a complete gentleman.' (They were in college together for three years).
From the interactions we had with you as co-members of Methodist Cathedral of Light, Agodi, Ibadan, and as members of Wesley College Old Students' Association (WESCOBA), we, who did not meet you in college, now attest to the statement that you were indeed a worthy old boy of Wesley College, Elekuro, Ibadan, among the true GENTLEMEN OF WESLEY COLLEGE!.
Rest in peace.
Adieu

Sir Dr. Jide Fatokun KJW
Gollege No 1754
August 25, 2021
August 25, 2021
Grandpa! Grandpa!

You led an impactful life. Everyone who had an encounter with you, always had something great to say. You were always concerned about the plans of your grandchildren and those around you. I will miss how you assess my dressing each time I am stepping out. I will miss your explanations on which tribe to marry from. Your teachings, lifestyle tips and prayers will be forever treasured.
Rest in peace, Grandpa
August 24, 2021
August 24, 2021
There goes a colossus, a vintage dad who did his utmost to train his children in the path of rectitude and excellence.Surely he left the world a fulfilled parent as the radiance of his children's glory shone brightly before his very eyes before his departure.
For you, great daddy, death is swallowed up in victory, and so we confidently ask:
"Death where is thy sting?
Thy victory O grave?.
- Mr Victor Olusegun Ogunbode
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
GRANDPA!!!
They say you never really know the true worth of someone or something until lost. I can't start to count the number of memories, corrections, valid lessons that you instilled in me.
The news of your death came as a very big shock to me, unfortunately I wasn't able to be by you when you passed on.... The news came to me through a phone call from mom, till date I am still finding it hard to come to terms with the fact you are gone.

But as the saying goes "when the going gets tough, the tough gets going" we're going to have to move on not forgetting all the things that you have taught us.
As christians we know that death is not the end but a transition to endless eternity for believers.....

Till we meet at the feet of Jesus Christ on the resurrection morning, adieu grandpa.
Ajayi Oluwagbemileke (Grandson)
August 17, 2021
August 17, 2021
Daddy,

Hmm hnm I am still at a loss for words at the thought of your demise. I am slowly starting to accept it. It is hard to say farewell but who are we to question the One who owns time and seasons.

You left a big impact on all around you and you will be greatly missed. The grace of God was evident on your life. Your sincere fatherly heart shone for all to see. Your love for your children showed in all you did. Above all your love for God drove all aspects of you.

THANK YOU for all your prayers, well wishes and advice. Thank you for being a great example for others and Thank God for the legacy you are leaving behind. We love you Daddy.

Baba rere, o da gbo. O di gba!! Till we meet at the feet of Christ.
August 10, 2021
August 10, 2021
Dear Grandpa, the news of your passing came as a shock to me. I still cannot believe that you are no longer here with us, your constant care and support; all the times you called to encourage and pray for me, are memories I would always cherish. I admired your love and dedication to Grandma. I am assured that you rest in the bossom of God and you forever live in the hearts of all of us.
Till we meet to part no more .
Blessing.
August 10, 2021
August 10, 2021
Dear grandpa, your sudden demise came as a huge shock to me. Your constant words of encouragement and prayers always meant a lot to me. I would miss you dearly. But despite this, I have joy that you're in a happier place and that God knows best. Even though you are no more, we will always be together in spirit until the day we will meet in heaven.
August 10, 2021
August 10, 2021
Granpa. It's very sad that you left us so soon despite the fact that you were still very agile. Your constant prayers and care meant so much to each and everyone of us. God alone knows the reason why you had to leave at the time you did but we know its only a transition to glory. Rest in peace Sir.
August 9, 2021
August 9, 2021
Grandpa!

Really fond memories of you!
Full of wisdom and always had something to say!
May God conform all those left behind grandpa!
Thank you for the gift of your son Tolulope Ajayi and the beautiful family that God have to him!
You are treasured forever
Sun re Granpa!
August 9, 2021
August 9, 2021
Grandpa was an amazing man, his words of wisdom and prayers contributed immensely to my growth. I am comforted by the fact that he lived an impact filled life and he is resting in the bosom of the Lord. Rest on Grandpa.
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
My condolence goes to my father in the Lord and family members of pastor Ajayi. My earnest prayer for papa is that God shall grant him a permanent rest with the Lord. Rest on papa!!!
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
“PA”, You’re God’s given treasure on earth and you have left an everlasting legacy that is ALIVE Forever. Rest in peace and we meet in heaven.  Adieu “PA”.

To the family please accept my sincere condolences for ALL IS WELL !!!!!!.
August 8, 2021
August 8, 2021
We heard , we saw and touched the beautiful legacies you left behind in your seeds and are wowed! What a wonderful life and contributions you made to the God-given space . Rest in the bossom of the LORD!!!!
August 7, 2021
August 7, 2021
It would have been wonderful to see you physically sir! But I know I will see you in heaven. It's well!
August 7, 2021
August 7, 2021
Rest In Peace Pa. James Adewuyi Ajayi. We thank God for a life well spent. Rest In Peace.
August 7, 2021
August 7, 2021
Ganpa,aaaaa!!!! Your demise came so unexpectedly. You were strong and an encourager, you never saw any impossibility in any situation, you never gave me any hassles throughout your life time. To me despite your age you left so soon if only people can understand, but the almighty understands and knows the best more than we can ever do. Rest on in peace great grandpa till we meet at the master's feet in JESUS name.we take solace in the fact that you lived a Christ filled life of sacrifice for others, & you are at the bosom of yr creator.E sun re.
August 7, 2021
August 7, 2021
Dear Daddy. I am yet to come out of the rude shock dealt to me by your sudden demise & call to glory. I have had this nostalgia about writing a tribute on you. I never thought that you would be called to pay this inevitable debt until the next ten years. You were agile, healthy & of a sound mind for death to be betrayed. However, i have to come to terms with the reality that you are no longer here with us & that your subtle reminder, each time we discussed, quoting you "be prepared to take over your leadership role in the family, as death may come calling at anytime" has finally come to stay.
You are a father who sacrificed time, money, comfort to show your children love, affection & understanding. I can never forget your decision to accompany me to Unilag at resumption, using public transport when the official vehicle you arranged fell through. Your usual parting word "ranti omo eniti iwo nse" came handy to shape my character through out my stint at the Unilag. It always gives me joy that we are both great "Akokites".
You were highly disciplined & principled. Your tough stance concerning any position you believed was right earned you more enemies & pretentious friends than real friends. You sacrificed so much, not minding your wellbeing, for people but gained so little in return. Daddy, as you knew, this is one of your attributes that i inherited, against my wish. I have also paid dearly for it. Strange world indeed. No wonder, the Scriptures in Proverbs 17:13 come hard on such people.
You love our town Osu so much that you vehemently turned down all our entreaties, persuasion & sometimes strong opinions about your gradual relocation there. Only God knows if I would ever be able to exhibit that level of love for the town, eventhough that is your wish.
I can go on & on, but i am yet to find a medium by which i can exhaust my tributes to you. However, i take solace in the fact that not only did you live a selfless life, whilst here, you contributed your quota to the work of God & you also gave your life to Christ. I remember vividly the day you!, mum & I had almost 4 hour discussion at home in Ibadan & afterwards the Holy Spirit convinced you to confess Jesus Christ as your Lord & Saviour. You told me categorically that you did not wish to leave the Methodist church. You were not even the baba ijo then. I have no doubt that you made it into glory by the grace of God & that by the mercy of God we shall meet again as the bride of Christ. Adieu Dad. Odigba kannan. Sun re o, Omo aponlese bi alari. I promise that by the time we meet again & even where you are presently, you would be glad to have me as your first born. I am proud to have had you as my Dad through which i came to this sinful world. Good night Pa James Adewuyi Adelusi Ajayi.
August 6, 2021
August 6, 2021
I received your demised as a rude shock but God knows the best. Meeting you sir, was never a mistake but a blessing to me and my family.
Your logistics, advice, organising things and prayer life can not be easily forgotten. Without missing words, it reflected in the life of your children.
Baba, I personally believe and know definitely we shall meet and part no more!!
Adeu Baba, Rest on
August 4, 2021
August 4, 2021
He lived a good life and was infectiously disciplined. We are grateful for the life he lived
August 2, 2021
August 2, 2021
Grandpa...

Sir, we always meet occassionally but such was precious moments and yet I never get through the thought of you sir. I remembered your hospitality, warmth reception & prayers - you always call my name AJAYI AJAYI & you always pray for me. You shall missed Grandpa rere. Continue to Rest in the Bossom of the Lord. So so painful you're gone this early. Hmmm... I remembered all your heartfelt prayers and prophecies during the LBFC Anniversary Thanksgiving Service, this shows you've left a good inheritance for all. I'm certain that Heaven is Rejoicing for your good life in God's kingdom on earth.

RIP DADDY.. from your son AJAYI SAMUEL JESUTUNDE
August 2, 2021
August 2, 2021
Grandpa!!!
I wasn’t prepared for this. I didn’t see myself writing a tribute for you this early. We had plans, some which included me “not” marrying an Igbo man. You said you’d be here to watch me get married.

When you were around, you always assessed my dressing before I stepped out, I’d miss that. You were so strong, yet so soft, you were the only Grandpa I got to know so we were close, we spoke whenever I was in school especially when I didn’t get to see you when you were home. I didn’t get to see you at all this year so it hurts more than I can imagine that I won’t get to see you anymore. I was going to come to Lagos to see you but they said you were fine. I was getting updates from your PT and Daddy. No one was expecting this too soon especially your dear “Adedayo”.

Regardless of the timing, I’ve been consoled by the fact that you’ve finished your race, the Holy Spirit has consoled me with the fact that you’re in a better place so I’m not sad anymore but I’m happy you’re doing better and you’re watching me write this tribute for you. Just so there’s space for everyone to write their tributes, I’d stop here.

I love you Grandpa; I’m happy it was the last thing I told you. I really do love you. Till we meet to part no more.
Love Wuraola Ajayi.
August 2, 2021
August 2, 2021
Adieu Papa.
You were a good man... The best of them all. Your wisdom, kindness and humility will be missed.
I remember most of our conversations when I was much younger. I gained a lot of enlightenment from them.
Sùn re, Bàbá onínúure, till we meet to part no more!
August 2, 2021
August 2, 2021
The Eagle has taken a flight home!!.
Daddy, you sacrificed so much for us to become relevant in life. You gave your all, money, pleasure, comfort, time and energy for our well being and progress. You encouraged us to be excellent academically while growing up; only the first position was good enough, the second and third positions were fair but any other position was failure. I can count how many times you beat or flogged me while growing up; you instilled discipline in us more with words of wisdom. You taught us the dignity of labour, patience and contentment and these virtues grew with us and shaped our lives a great deal.Thank you for living an exemplary life of impact all through. Thank you for being a good example of a responsible, caring and loving husband, father and grandfather. Your compassionate heart would not allow you to close your eyes to anyone suffering around you, you would rather give your last penny. Every place you passed through knew that someone was there by virtue of impact, exploit and influence. I will miss your early morning prayers and blessings on the first days of every month and week. At almost 85 years, you were so strong and lively that no one thought the time of your exit was at hand. Though your death is gain, knowing that a crown of glory awaits you beyond, but for us left behind, it was painful to part with you. We have submitted to the sovereignty of our God and taken solace in the fact that you lived well, knew God and served Him till your last moment. You were a great influence and left the scene when the ovation was loudest. Rest on Dad till we meet at the feet of Jesus on the resurrection morning. I love you so dearly.
August 1, 2021
August 1, 2021
He is my mentor, a great leader, a father to me,I will miss him, may his soul rest in perfect peace.
August 1, 2021
August 1, 2021
Dad, I still remember my first time of meeting you and mummy in Kujore street, Ojota in Lagos. That day, you knew almost every thing about me. This implies that, you're someone who easily develop interest in other people. I am glad to have known you, I am glad that I shared a relationship with you. You easily develop interest in other people's lives and ever ready to assist in anyway you can. I fell in love with you when I saw the way you relate with mummy at home and I learnt so many lessons from you which is still helping my marriage. Your memory will forever remain evergreen in our minds. You're indeed a good father.
      The day you departed this sinful world, your grandson, Enoch asked why you have to leave us so suddenly, the question on the lips of all of the grandchildren from the Aladeokins is that, why is everyone they love and cherished so much dying? We believe you're now in a better place, continue to rest dad till we meet and part no more.
      The twins would have loved to see you and have good recognition of you, but alas its not possible again. The joy of everything is that, you fought a good fight of faith, you're indeed a gallant soldier of the Cross, you served your Master and Saviour Jesus Christ so well till your very last breath on earth. Goodnight daddy. From Olumide & Fisayo Aladeokin's Family.
July 31, 2021
July 31, 2021
We all thought it would be like one of those challenges you would ultimately come out from seeing you were still very radiant, agile and well coordinated. Little did we know it was the onset of your exit journey from this terrestrial ball.

You were so loving, Dad, brave yet so selfless in care. Your attention for details and meticulous nature have shaped the lives of your children. The nickname Omoatolue as you fondly called still resonates. I recall you telling me in my youthful days to work mathematics daily to be good at it, it ended being my best subject and the foundation for my academic excellence. You were self-content and uncompromisingly exemplary to your loving wife of sixty five years, to me and my siblings, your grandchildren and everyone whose paths crossed yours. At the expense of personal comfort, you devoted your life to the worthy course of positively impacting Osu (your home town), communities where you resided, your lineage and the church over which God gave you oversight.

It's only now your last conversations are better understood as your parting message. We love you and will miss you so dearly but we take solace in the impactful life you lived and the fact being absent from this earthly body is to be present with the Lord.

Till we meet at the master's feet on the resurrection morning, Adieu Dad, rest on in perfect peace in the bosom of your creator who sure loves you more.
July 31, 2021
July 31, 2021
I am still in shock and short of words but it is gradually becoming a reality to me that my loving and ever reliable father has gone to be with the Lord when no one expected it especially looking at the state of your health being a very strong man over the years.

You were a selfless father. You gave everything in your possession to ensure that your children become who we are today. You extended your support to every person that needed it around you. You lived for God till your last moment.

The virtues of self contentment, perseverance, hard work and focus on God that you gave to us while growing up will remain with us and will continue to guide our paths till last day on earth.

Your departure happened barely a week ago but it looked like many years already. I miss you greatly daddy and your grand children are missing you daily.
We know that it is a temporary separation and looking forward to seeing you again at the feet of Jesus on the resurrection morning. Rest on my LOVING FATHER.

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November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
Grandpa Ibadan (as he was fondly called) was a very kind and honest man. He loved his children and grandchildren. Each time we spoke, half the conversation was prayers for us all. He lived a wonderful life up to the very end. I’d like to think he will always be with us in everything we do. I am truly saddened that he is now gone, although now he’s with God. Thank you for everything you’ve done for us Grandpa.


Iseoluwa Ajayi
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
A man named Adewuyi, he cared for his children even grandchildren. He loved God. Bless that man he will be with us in spirit, heart and mind. We all loved him at the beginning and we still and did love him to the end. He was my grandpa he was one of the most honest and gracious people.

Loved and missed by all!!



Toluwani Ajayi
November 16, 2021
November 16, 2021
Reflecting on conversations we had and stories I heard about you growing up. It is clear you were always a man that wanted excellence from not just himself but everyone around him. No matter how good or bad anybody was doing you would always motivate us that we could do better. You were a loving husband, father and grandfather. Even though your passing left us all heartbroken, I will take joy in the legacy you left behind. Rest In Power Grandpa.
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August 2, 2021
The Lord have called you home so soon when we ware not expecting it. At the recently concluded LBFC anniversary, Daddy said why should I allow my wife to stay behind at home. He said wherever I go for worship, I should go with her. I love what he told me and I learnt a lot from him. I was down in the office the day l heard his passing away. May his soul rest in perfect peace.

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