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Our husband, father, grandpa, uncle, friend has moved on from this life to his next. James Lawler, 81 years old, was born on December 11, 1938 and passed away on March 14, 2020. Please help us reveal how special a man he was and how the stories of his life show that this was a man who fully lived and was fully prepared for his next life.

He waits for us to find him.

In lieu of flowers, we are asking for donations to one of the following:
The funeral mass has finally been scheduled  at St Catherine of Siena Church in Laguna Beach. The mass will be on Saturday, June 11, 2022, at noon. A wake/memorial will follow at the Hyatt Regency in Newport Beach from 1:30pm to 4:00pm If you plan to attend, please RSVP @ https://jamesdlawlermemorial.rsvpify.com
or contact myself (davidlawler@mac.com) or Denise (asstdenise@gmail.com). 
March 14
March 14
Four years. Seems like yesterday most days. We miss you and Mom more with every passing day.
March 14
March 14
Hi Dad. I can't believe it's been 4 years. I miss going to lunch and sharing stories. I miss watching the Chiefs with you. You have a better seat now and you must be so excited about how good we've been these last few years. Mary and I are going to one of your favorite spots today to have lunch and remember you and how much we all love and miss you. Give Mom a hug. Love you!
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Happy Birthday Dad! Miss you every day, but this time of the year particularly.
March 14, 2023
March 14, 2023
I miss being able to get your advice on so many topics, talking about where each of us plan to travel to and where we’ve been, griping about politics, etc. We’ll have a lot of catching up to do once we see each other again. Until then, Catherine and I will light a candle in remembrance of better times when you and Mom were still in our lives. Love you both.
March 14, 2023
March 14, 2023
3 years ago you went to heaven Dad. We've missed you every day since. I hope you and Mom are dancing and toasting each other. We love you and miss you so much.
December 11, 2022
December 11, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad!

I'm glad that we finally were able to have a real service and remembrance for you. We all miss you and Mom every day, but particularly in those moments and events where we would normally have sought your advice and realize that we can never do so again.

Thank you for giving us so much, from a love of travel to an appreciation of home. Some day we will be, by God's grace, reunited. Until then, know that we love and honor you and Mom.
May 24, 2022
May 24, 2022
Jim was a longtime client who became a good friend.  I miss our email exchanges and the many happy photos he would share from his travels.  He was a good man and his absence is felt.  From afar, I celebrate Jim's life and still think of him fondly.

“The song is ended but the melody lingers on.” — Irving Berlin
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
Hard to believe it has been 2 years since we lost you, Dad. Not a day goes by without some reminder of that loss. I know you and Mom are watching over us, but I wish you were still here sharing your wisdom and laughter.
March 14, 2022
March 14, 2022
David said it perfectly. We feel your love, but miss sharing the laughter and joy here on Earth. 2 years. 2 really weird years. Love you and miss you. 
December 11, 2021
December 11, 2021
Happy Birthday Dad! We miss you every day.
April 21, 2020
April 21, 2020
I just now heard the news about Mr. Lawler's passing. My father, Tristan Krogius, came across it on the internet and called me. I am so sorry, please know I am thinking of you, Mrs. Lawler and your entire family. 

I have very fond memories of the Lawler family and when I attended St. Catherine's school, Debbie was one of my closest friends. Many years later, attending 7:30 a.m. mass on Sunday's, Mr. Lawler was always out front of church to greet parishioners as we entered inside and he was always happy and funny. He and I often talked about politics. 

It is hard to imagine that I won't see him on Sunday mornings, however, I know he is there in spirit and looking down on us with a his big smile. 

May he rest in peace.
April 9, 2020
April 9, 2020
On Saturday evening, March 14, 2020, my mom's beloved husband of 20 years, Jim Lawler, passed away. We are all grieving the loss of this good friend to so many, a loving father, step-dad and awesome grandfather.

Mom asked me that we pray:
"Father of all, we pray to you for James Lawler and for all those whom we love but see no longer. Grant to them eternal rest. Let light perpetual shine upon them. May his soul and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen"
April 3, 2020
April 3, 2020
I became a State Farm agent in 1989...One of my p/h lost their Laguna Beach home in 1994 fires. There were meetings and Jim was the big man on campus at those meetings. Afterward I'd ask him my million questions, and he was sooooo sweet to 30 year old me....I always remembered him fondly for that and wanted you to know I was very thankful to have that opportunity with him. Pam
April 1, 2020
April 1, 2020
My relationship with Jim went from Grown Up Parent of Friend, to Respected Adult, to Friend. The wonderful thing is, everything just got added on. He was and is and always will be all of those things to me. My respect for him grew when I realized that not only was he a truly wonderful man in so many ways, he had been for years. It just took me a while to catch up and see that—although I don’t think I’ll ever catch up to the level of Jim Lawler. And I’m fine with that. I just feel incredibly lucky to have had been in my life for so long, in so many ways, and hope he knew how much real love and happiness he brought to my life, directly and indirectly. Thanks for everything, Jim--and for letting me share a bit of my life with Liz, and Mary, and Deb, Denise, Dave, and Doug.
March 24, 2020
March 24, 2020
To my cousins, Debbie, Denise, David and Doug, and to my Aunt Mary:
We all agree that Jim was a fabulous father and husband to you. He was also a great uncle to me. I have so many fond memories of my Uncle Jim as a kid growing up and all through my life. He was always so kind, helpful and fun to be with. Barbara and I very much enjoyed going out to dinner together with Jim and Mary, catching up on their latest travels. 
RIP Uncle Jim. I miss you.
March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
Jim was my insurance guy since I was about 15.5 years old...my Dad signed me up when I got my learner's permit. Over the years Jim took care of me and the rest of the White family. He eventually married one of the most beautiful women in the world...Mary...who had been close to my family in other respects...along with her family. Jim was the kind of man we should all strive to be. I admired him very much. RIP Jim. Prayers for your soul and prayers for your family...
March 21, 2020
March 21, 2020
One of the finest people I’ve ever known, Jim was my friend, fellow Rotarian and he made me feel like family. So sorry to lose him however know with confidence that he’s singing with the angels now. He blessed us here on earth and will be our guardian angel now. Godspeed to all who mourn and miss him. We are forever changed for having known you Jim, love you, Julie
March 20, 2020
March 20, 2020
A dear, dear friend for 55+ years. One of the good guys. He loved his family and friends.
Loyal..gave to his community..made sure in a sincere way to always ask about your family when the occasion arrived..he will be missed.
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
I loved looking through the shared photos. Although, I only just met Jim months ago, the photos sure share images of a life well lived. Love all the love/smiles/family/friends/travels the photos depict.

I wish to share my wishes of peace, comfort, and healing to all Jim’s loved ones. 

Denise, I will be forever grateful for you giving me the opportunity to meet your sweet Dad before the rapid decline of his health.

May you now rest in eternal peace Jim.
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
So very sad and sorry for your loss. The brightness of his smile and presence always lit the room. From the first day that I met Mr Lawler (he's my friend's father, so he's always Mr Lawler), he greeted me like an old friend with that big handshake and charming smile, and that never changed. His smile will always be in your hearts, his memory in your eyes, and you'll smile through the tears and heartache, laughing along at your favorite stories.

All of Our Love,
 John & Amy Duino
March 16, 2020
March 16, 2020
Debbie, Denise, David and Doug, and Mary... I'm holding you all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sad and sorry for your loss. Uncle Jim was truly one of a kind. He lit up every room with his big smile and and twinkly eyes. He was a loving son, brother, husband, father, and friend to everyone he encountered. His joy of traveling was inspirational and his gift of sharing travels with family and friends, including my dad, was admirable. I wish I could be there to give you all a big hug, but we will come visit as soon as we can. Until then, cherish the memories and celebrate a life well lived. Love to you all! xoxo Meggan, Joe and the kids

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March 14
March 14
Four years. Seems like yesterday most days. We miss you and Mom more with every passing day.
March 14
March 14
Hi Dad. I can't believe it's been 4 years. I miss going to lunch and sharing stories. I miss watching the Chiefs with you. You have a better seat now and you must be so excited about how good we've been these last few years. Mary and I are going to one of your favorite spots today to have lunch and remember you and how much we all love and miss you. Give Mom a hug. Love you!
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Happy Birthday Dad! Miss you every day, but this time of the year particularly.
His Life
December 11, 2021
James Douglas Lawler was born in Chicago on December 11, 1938. He entered into eternal rest at his home in Laguna Beach on March 14, 2020 surrounded by his loved ones. He will be greatly missed by his entire family.

Jim was the middle of three boys born to Helen and George Lawler. The family moved from Chicago to Kansas City when Jim was a young boy. He spent his formative years in this great midwestern city where the family was very active within the community. It was at this time too that he developed his extreme passion for Kansas City sports including the Royals and Chiefs, which never diminished throughout his life. 

Jim graduated from Rockhurst High School in 1955 and from the University of Missouri in 1960 where he was an active member of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity. Shortly after graduating, he moved to California to begin a career with State Farm Insurance. Jim started in Orange County, Calif., as a claims adjuster with the goal of becoming an agent. In June of 1961, Jim married his college sweetheart, Elizabeth (Liz) Novinger, and they settled in Costa Mesa before moving to Laguna Beach in 1962. Jim became an agent that same year and was sent to this picturesque coastal town where he started and retired from his 50-plus-year career. 

Jim built his State Farm clientele simply by getting involved in the things he cared about most: community and church, then later, his kids’ school, sports, and life activities. Although Jim built a very successful business, more important to him was the fact he was able to make great friends in his fellow agents and their families as well as with his clients. Jim (and frequently his family) enjoyed a variety of great trips with State Farm – both on District trips and Millionaire outings. Some highlights include Mazatlán, Acapulco, multiple Hawaii trips, and Munich.

In July 1998, Jim’s wife Liz passed away from cancer. In 2000, he married Mary Rutkowski, and they continued to be involved with the community, family (which now expanded to include Mary’s children and grandchildren), and of course State Farm.

Finally, in 2014, Jim retired from State Farm. He continued to visit with his fellow agents and clients and remained very involved with Rotary and St. Catherine of Siena Church. He also continued to travel, which was a lifelong passion. Jim was actually on a cruise in late November when he became ill. A fighter until the end, Jim tried hard to conquer this latest challenge, but the Lord had other plans for this amazing Father, Husband, Grandfather, Great Grandfather, Friend, Community Activist, and former agent of State Farm.

Jim is survived by his four children, his three step-children, and his numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren, as well as his wife, Mary. He was preceded in death by one son Gregory James and his wife Liz.

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June 7, 2022
Jim and I shared the same birthday, but more important we shared the love and admiration for his son and our son in law David. We shared so many excellent adventures with Jim, as well. I am sure others knew him longer and much better than Klase and I.  We do know for sure his smiling, jovial face will be missed terribly.  
March 20, 2020
So sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. He always had a way of making you feel so special. He was a big cheerleader to me and always asked how I was doing and truly cared about my answer. He lit up a room With his smile!  I will miss him dearly! 
March 17, 2020
I loved looking through the shared photos.  Although, I only just met Jim months ago, the photos sure share images of a life well lived. Love all the love/smiles/family/friends/travels the photos depict.

I wish to share my wishes of peace, comfort, and healing to all Jim’s loved ones.  

Denise, I will be forever grateful for you giving me the opportunity to meet your sweet Dad before the rapid decline of his health.

May you now rest in eternal peace Jim.

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