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It is with great sadness that the family of James Otto Haas announce his passing on Sunday, December 2, 2018 at the age of 73. Jim was a devoted husband, supporting and loving father, beloved brother and Papa, and faithful friend. He will be adoringly remembered by his wife of 51 years, Sandy, sons TJ (Erin) and Michael (Krystal), daughters Jamie (Ted) and Ashleigh (Lawrence), sister Peggy (Mark) and brother Tommy (Kassie). Jim will also be fondly remembered by his 10 grandchildren, Dakota, Molly, Cole, Kieran, Aidan, Barrett, Connor, Marshall, Otto and Marian, and by his numerous nephews, nieces and extended family and friends.

The family is planning a memorial service at the First Presbyterian Church of Manasquan in New Jersey on Monday, December 17 at 11:00 a.m. A family and friends gathering at Spring Lake Manor will immediately follow. For those joining us from out of town, please click here for lodging information.
Jim would have loved if you could wear a flair of yellow to celebrate his life the way he did each and every day.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The V Foundation.
December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
Hi Jim n Family
Miss you big guy…we developed a special friendship in years we met up again in Sea Girt ..many great lunches n dinner with the wives..we SOLVED a lot of the worlds problems!!!
Best to you n your wonderful family
May you guys have merry Christmas
Doug

December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
I have realized over the years what a special person and athlete Jimmy was. While he excelled in soccer in high school and college, he was a phenomenal baseball player. His pitching skills and determination to win were always present in games that I recall. Oh - I forgot ! Jimmy and many others including his Dad used to shoot hoops in the backyard, and yes Jimmy was a deadeye shooter. Those backyard games of OUT, HORSE, and many more were so much fun. Jimmy was a fierce competitor, but had a gentle side that drew him to so many friends and family of course.
December 3, 2022
December 3, 2022
Perfect timing to think about Jimmy with the US in the World Cup. As a goal
keeper Jimmy wrapped the net around me so many times. Our shutouts were not from so many great saves in goal, but so many great defensive
plays made by Jimmy. I still have quite a few game situations that play over and over in my head. I thank God for the experience to play next to Jim for 3 years in high school.
May God have Mercy and Bless your Soul in heaven !!
December 3, 2021
December 3, 2021
Each time I watch a Soccer Match on TV I realize what talent Jim had as a High School Soccer Player. He continued showing his great skill at Army
and our team is so fortunate to have so many great memories of his leadership and play. We all miss Big Jim - his friendship and love will live on forever.
December 2, 2021
December 2, 2021
Haasbo,
I've been missing you more with every passing day since you left us. Memories of 50+ years provide me with so many flashbacks. They make me smile, laugh and they just make me feel great for having the opportunity to share your strength, loyalty, friendship and love.
Go Army!
Beat Navy!
Joe Casey
December 2, 2020
December 2, 2020
Jim will forever be in our hearts and prayers. We know is safe and cared for by our Holy Father in Heaven along with his family and friends.
August 14, 2020
August 14, 2020
I had the distinct pleasure of doing business with Jim for many years. He helped to launch my banking career to greater heights.

We both shared a love of soccer. I am sorry that I just became aware of his passing.

It was an honor and a pleasure to know him and his family.

Bud Amentt
June 20, 2020
June 20, 2020
Happy Birthday Otto,
Miss our weekly luncheons and talks
God bless you big guy
Verona Hillbilly for ever
You would have enjoyed watching Squan hoops this winter
All good
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
I think of my classmate, teammate and 50+ year friend on occasion and I smile and laugh...he always makes me feel good. I think about Jimmy’s convenient deja vu! He reminded me on numerous occasions of the time my Dad/“Casey” was driving us back up to West Point and we had a BLOWOUT going 80+ MPH on the Palisades. The 1962 Chevy didn’t even swerve given that Dad applied his vice-like grip on the steering wheel with his Popeye-esque physique. Within nano seconds we were safely on the shoulder of the road and “Haasbo” asked my Dad if he could help change the flat tire. {I knew what the answer would be...so I remained silent!}
Casey’s terse response...”Stay in the car...you’ll just slow me down!”
It was totally like being in a race car pit stop at the Indy 500!!! Casey had the car jacked up, flat tire off, new rubber on and we were back heading up the Parkway in less than 5 minutes!!!
Jimmy loved my Dad and he loved retelling the emergency roadside recovery story several times over the years. He would start as though he was telling the story for the first time ...”Case, do you remember the time your Dad...” then Jimmy would break into a big smile and laugh until he cried!
That’s the way I’ll always remember my special friend!
Hit ‘em long and straight Jimbo!
Case
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
Hey bud
Think of you so often
It was the simple things we did like go for lunch, talk about family n sports and playing golf..also going out for dinner with the ladies
Miss you big guy
Doug
June 20, 2019
June 20, 2019
Happy Birthday Jim
Miss our weekly lunch days
We solved a lot of the worlds problems... mostly in the world of sports, especially golf n baseball
I was lucky to have such a good friend as you
Love ya big guy
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Dear Sandy and Family,
It is with sadness that we write this note, but a smile appears with the thoughts of Jim and our memories together. Find comfort in those memories.
Sending love and prayers.
Marie and Mike Kenis
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Dear Sandy and Family....
What wonderful pictures you shared of Jim! They show a happy, contented man especially when surrounded by his wife, children, grandchildren and friends. Steve & I really loved our years of friendship with you and Jim during Ashleigh & Courtney's college days. We are praying for you all during these difficult days and hope that the many happy memories you surely have will help ease the sadness just a bit. Sending love....
December 16, 2018
December 16, 2018
Jim was a pitcher in Verona's first Little League baseball season. He was actually too young to qualify for the team, but because of his size, he was allowed to join and play anyway.
He was the best player and athlete on the field. No contest!
Nevertheless, despite his age, rival fans were convinced he was a ringer due to his size and ability. They were quite vocal about it.
That was the first season. You should have heard them in subsequent seasons!
I was proud of Jimmy then. I have always been proud of Jim.
I miss you each day, love, Uncle Bill
December 14, 2018
December 14, 2018
Sandy & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with You and Your family at this most
difficult time. Rest assured You have lots of Love from above to comfort
You. Jim will now be with his family above watching and protecting all
of his loved ones. This is my favorite Poem for all to enjoy !
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is past; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before only better, infinitely happier and forever we will all be one together with Christ.
Henry Scott Holland
December 13, 2018
December 13, 2018
Sandy and Family,
Greg and I were so sorry to hear about Jim. These pictures tell an inspirational story of a life well lived. Your beautiful, loving family is a testament to that. I always looked forward to seeing Jim , he was a lovely man who will be missed by all. We will be thinking of you over the Christmas holidays and praying for you to find comfort in your memories.
Love,
The Chasnet Family.
December 10, 2018
December 10, 2018
Dear TJ and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I didn't know him well, but after reading his amazing life story and details of his strong, smart, witty and generous character (and viewing those beautiful pictures), I feel like I know him through you. The apple didn't fall far....
Sending much love from SC, Danielle
December 9, 2018
December 9, 2018
Prayers and thoughts go out to The Haas Family. Jim was a great person and friend. I was blessed to know him for the last 20 years. I will miss him.
December 7, 2018
December 7, 2018
Sandy, Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We have great memories of the Haas family and your hospitality during our Virginia lacrosse years.
December 7, 2018
December 7, 2018
Jim was such a great friend
He was a great listener always making you feel like he was your best friend...his loyalty and warmth were outstanding characteristics.
We both went to Verona High School where Jim was an Allstate Soccer player..he was also a darn good pitcher..we use to share many stories about the good old days in Verona
When we moved to the Shore, Jimmy and I got very close...almost once a week we went out for lunch and discussed many topics, usually sports....when my Wife Gayle died, Jim and Sandy were instrumental in helping me in the healing process...I will never forget it...one of our favorite things to do was play golf..what matches we had, Jim and Rod Smith vs. Don Merkelbach and I ..it seemed like every match came down to the last hole.
Our entire family gives our condolences to Sandy and their wonderful family
Love you big guy
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
Sandy: My heart goes out to you with the loss of Jim and to all your family. Jim was the best brother-in-law a girl could have. Having that visit a few years ago now means even more to me than you will ever know. He was a great man and I was blessed to have known him. I can't make this time easier for you but know he will watch over you all. God bless you all. The world lost a great husband, father, brother, friend. Love to all.
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
Dear Mike and family, We are so very sorry to hear of your great loss. Sending love and strength to you all.
Best,
Dolan and Amy Kneafsey and family
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
I am so deeply sad for your loss. The Haas family was a huge influence and part of my high school years. I thought of you as my second family. Your dad was amazing. I wish I could give your whole incredible family a hug right now. I am filled with wonderful memories of your dad. I am so sorry.
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
Mr. Haas, my second daddio, you and your smile will forever live on in my heart. You were so very cherished and I love you.
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
My special thoughts to all of you. It was an honor to know your dad and spend some time with him. He loved you and loved everything you did, and that passion was very clear. He's a great man to be watching over you all from above!
December 6, 2018
December 6, 2018
Thoughts are with all the family. I will always remember our great golf trip to Ireland with TJ and Jim. We spent much time in the bushes and rough but compensated with some great times in the local bars post golf. A wise man.

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December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
Hi Jim n Family
Miss you big guy…we developed a special friendship in years we met up again in Sea Girt ..many great lunches n dinner with the wives..we SOLVED a lot of the worlds problems!!!
Best to you n your wonderful family
May you guys have merry Christmas
Doug

December 2, 2023
December 2, 2023
I have realized over the years what a special person and athlete Jimmy was. While he excelled in soccer in high school and college, he was a phenomenal baseball player. His pitching skills and determination to win were always present in games that I recall. Oh - I forgot ! Jimmy and many others including his Dad used to shoot hoops in the backyard, and yes Jimmy was a deadeye shooter. Those backyard games of OUT, HORSE, and many more were so much fun. Jimmy was a fierce competitor, but had a gentle side that drew him to so many friends and family of course.
December 3, 2022
December 3, 2022
Perfect timing to think about Jimmy with the US in the World Cup. As a goal
keeper Jimmy wrapped the net around me so many times. Our shutouts were not from so many great saves in goal, but so many great defensive
plays made by Jimmy. I still have quite a few game situations that play over and over in my head. I thank God for the experience to play next to Jim for 3 years in high school.
May God have Mercy and Bless your Soul in heaven !!
His Life

The Life of Jim Haas

December 6, 2018

Jim was born in Newark, New Jersey to Otto and Marian Haas on June 20, 1945. He was raised in Verona, New Jersey, where his father was a legendary soccer coach at Chatham High School and held the record for many years with the most career wins ever in NJ. Jim attended and played for rival Verona High School, and in 1962, he was named the recipient of the Fred Coggin Award as the most outstanding high school soccer player in the State of New Jersey and a Parade Magazine High School All-American.

Jim attended the United States Military Academy from 1963—1967 and was a top recruit to Coach Joe Palone’s West Point Program in 1963. Jim was a strapping 6’3” 190-pound tower of strength at center back for the undefeated plebe team and on three consecutive NCAA Final Four teams. Jim and Sandy were married in 1967 on graduation day at the picturesque Cadet Chapel at West Point.

Upon graduation, Jim was stationed at Fort Benning, Georgia for four months for training and then went on to his first assignment in Fort Richardson, Alaska. With the 172nd Infantry Brigade, he endured extreme conditions on night exercises in the winter. And in the summer, he enjoyed midnight golf with his fellow soldiers. For 18 months, he and Sandy enjoyed the breathtaking landscape, mystical wildlife, and northern lights.

Jim was then reassigned to the Adjutant’s General Corp at Fort Benjamin Harrison in Indianapolis in preparation for his tour in Vietnam. After two months of training, Jim was deployed to Vietnam in August of 1969. While in Vietnam, Jim spent half of his time in Saigon, and the other half as an officer aboard helicopters.

Jim returned from Vietnam in August of 1970 and was reassigned as Special Services Officer at Carlisle Barracks in Carlisle, Pennsylvania. There he oversaw the golf course, gymnasium, tennis courts and all other athletic facilities available to the officers attending the Army War College. At night, he attended Shippensburg University, earning his MBA in May of 1972. After serving at the Army War College for two years, he resigned from the Army and began his career with ARA Services (Aramark).

During Jim’s fifteen years with ARA Services, he held many positions, starting on the ground in sales and rising to President of School Nutritional Services for the Mid-Atlantic region. Through this work, he supported dining services for countless school programs, and also Olympic athletes during the 1980 Winter Games in Lake Placid and 1984 Summer Games in Los Angeles. He led with poise and grace, positively affecting the lives of many with this work he found most rewarding.

In 1986, Jim stepped away from Aramark and branched out into his own entrepreneurial endeavors. He tried his hand in many industries, to include health and nutrition, sports memorabilia, and banking, of which he found most enjoyable and gratifying. Jim “retired” in 2010, but never fully disengaged from the business world.

Jim was a long-time member of Aronimink Golf Club in the Philadelphia suburbs, where he fostered many life-long friendships and memories. He never had a shortage of stories from the golf course, or from life in general. He had a magnetic energy and spirit to which people were immediately drawn. His quick-witted humor and sheer determination could get him through any situation. Jim occupied his spare time by being an avid collector of sorts, with a special interest in coins, baseball cards and sports memorabilia.

Jim was a deeply sentimental family man. He was a loving and devoted husband of 51 years to Sandy. Together they raised four wonderful children:  TJ (47), Michael (43), Jamie (40) and Ashleigh (35), for whom he was their biggest fan and supporter. He was “Papa” to ten adoring grandchildren:  Dakota (20), Molly (15), Cole (13), Kieran (12), Aidan (10), Barrett (9), Connor (8), Marshall (5), Otto (2) and Marian (7 months), whom he looked on with such pride and contentment. He held dear the time spent with family at the Jersey shore throughout many decades.

Jim had a genuine love for life and passion for improving and supporting the lives of those around him. His generosity knew no boundaries. He was the pillar of strength for many, with his undaunting positive encouragement and love, often putting others before himself. Jim will be greatly missed, yet his spirit will remain vibrant in all of whom he has loved and befriended.

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Woven From the Same Cloth

January 15, 2019

I first met Jim Haas in 2010 when I started dating his wonderful daughter Ashleigh. It was apparent from the beginning the character, integrity, love, and compassion that Jim possessed. He reminded me so much of my own father and in 2012 I was lucky enough to call him my father-in-law. My father passed in December of 2011 and Jim was the person who filled that void and lent an ear when I needed advice or to just talk. I cherish the many conversations we had from sports, military, old west, and stories of West Point. Even though we grew up in totally different time periods and geographical areas, we seemed to be woven from the same cloth. His lessons in life and his traits were passed on to my wonderful wife and will live on. His grandson Otto and granddaughter Marian will miss him tremendously.

Lawrence Garcia
HM2 (FMF/SW)
US NAVY

First Roommate

December 13, 2018

Towney Clarke and I were Jim's first roommates at West Point.  That first day we hardly spoke to each other until late in the day when all the in-your-face yelling to pick up this or drop that and keep moving unless you were spoken to, had finally ended after taps.  We chatted a little bit getting to know each other, tried to get ready for the morning, and fell asleep.  None of us had prior military experience,  So early the next morning when the drumming and bugle playing started we were curious, but not curious enough to get out of bed.  The music stopped and we could hear some voices out in the area but it was really pretty quiet.  Then quite suddenly there was a boom on the door and several upperclassmen burst into the room yelling and screaming about missing a formation.  I think we were the only ones in the class that did not make that first reveille formation.  Well we survived the day and eventually became adept at surviving new cadet barracks.  I have often thought that if I had not had Jim and Towney for roommates, that would have been my last day at the academy.  Jim was a great roommate and friend those first eight weeks at the academy and he truly helped me to maintain my sense of humor and to succeed.  Even though it has been over 55 years since that summer, I have some clear recollections of the nonsense we went through together and how "Mr. Haas" and "Mr. Clarke" helped me survive.  Although we were never again assigned to the same unit after Beast Barracks, I have often thought of Jim, wondered what he was doing, how he was, and now I have waited too long to find out -- I will miss him dearly.

My Memories of Jimmy at Verona High School

December 12, 2018

My most memorable of Jimmy were of those playing soccer together at Verona High School. As a Goaltender, you only have a few key people You can depend on to protect You in times of trouble. Jimmy was the real commander of our Team at Verona High School for several years. His skill and expertise shined in every contest we had. I watched with amazement sometimes as Jimmy frustrated so many key opponents on both Defense, as well as setting up our Offensive attacks. He was comfortable in the heat of competition. He had a great mind for the game.

It was his leadership and competitiveness that carried him forward to Army and beyond to the battlefields of Viet Nam. So many were fortunate to have Jimmy on their team. I am grateful and honored to have been one of them. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with his immediate family, as he will be missed but always remembered for his Love and Devotion as a Partner, Father, Grandfather, and friend to many.

John Scarano

Verona High School

Class of 1963

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