Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
  • 56 years old
  • Born on May 14, 1955 in Johnson City, New York, United States.
  • Passed away on September 29, 2011 in Binghamton, New York, United States.

This memorial website was created in the memory of my loved one, James Willsey. Born on  May 14, 1955 and passed away on September 29, 2011 at the age of 56 years old. He passed of natural causes, suddenly without pain. 

I will remember him forever in my thoughts, and in my stories.
I will forever honor and love him with undying love.
Jim was my loving partner and soulmate brought together by Kismet.
I honor him in this memorial please feel free to leave a note, a memory, a remembrence... Anna

Posted by Anna Card on August 9, 2019
I miss you so much. August of 2011 we were celebrating Julianna's birthday at Kampai. And then.... September came.... And then you were gone....
Posted by Anna Card on May 10, 2019
It's May your birthday month, Kentucky Derby month, Preakness month. I miss you so much month. The runway lights are on And waiting for you my love.
Posted by Anna Card on April 6, 2019
March Madness.... so bittersweet. I've watched with a heavy heart and yet with a smile of remembered memories. It took me years to be able to watch the games and now l find the watching of these games without you to be too painful. A broken heart never completely heals
Posted by Anna Card on September 29, 2018
I miss you every single day.
Remembering every detail of that awful night 7 years ago. I will never forget. I will never stop longing for you. I love and miss you.
Posted by Anna Card on May 26, 2018
Another birthday has come and gone.
September brings 7 years gone.
Every day brings missing you.
Posted by Anna Card on December 31, 2017
Oh Jim how l miss being loved by you.
My heart aches tonight.
Posted by Chris Eston on September 30, 2017
I want to say how powerful this site is. As Jim's anniversary comes and goes. I think how much I would love to see and speak to one of my best friends. I miss Jim, his humor, his attitudes, his mind. As
I think of him, I remember how much I admired him as an individual, all that knew him respected him. He was his own man. Love you Brother. Chris Easton
Posted by Anna Card on September 28, 2017
Always in my heart and often on my mind.
It's been a difficult week leading up to this anniversary.
I am compelled to re-live every detail of that night and if l think l missed a detail l start again. Over and over it plays out in my mind.
I do this to honor you and remember you on the second most important day of our lives. The day we die.
Posted by Anna Card on February 14, 2017
Happy Valentines in Heaven my love.

Whispers from Heaven

They say that life is fleeting
... I know that this is true
I left this world so quickly
With no goodbye to you.

I know how much you miss me
Your tears fall ever light
The pillow where you lay your head
Is wet with them at night.

I know your heart is hurting
The words we left, unsaid
I love you’s, left unspoken
Are spinning in your head.

The strength that I have carried
That served to make you whole
Remains to make you stronger
Within your grieving soul.

For you see, while you were weeping
On the day I passed away
At the gravesite near the flowers
Where my loved ones knelt to pray.

An angel came to see me
She took me by the hand
She led me to a kingdom
In a very distant land.

As I look down from heaven
And see you standing there
Your heart so ever burdened
With more grief than it can bear.

I long to bring you comfort
I long to give you peace
I long to hold you closely
Cause all your tears to cease.

The joy I’ve found in heaven
Goes far beyond compare
The love that’s so elusive
Can be found here everywhere.

The light is softly shining
There’s no storm clouds here or rain
There’s no teardrops found in heaven
There’s no suffering, there’s no pain.

You needn’t be so troubled
Stay close to God and pray
That someday we’ll be together
One bright and glorious day.

So my love, you shouldn’t question
My dear you need not cry
I’ve gone to be with Jesus
I really didn’t die.

Author/Written By:
Marilyn Ferguson
©2004
Posted by Anna Card on August 31, 2016
The feel of his arms around me.
The sound of his voice.
Hearing him pull into the driveway.
Seeing him walk through the door.
His unconditional love, strong and true.

I know he held me tight but l can't feel it now.
I no longer can hear his voice in my mind.
No sounds of him coming up the drive.
No door opened by those hands that l loved so much.

I lose him over and over and over....
Posted by Marcie Harrington on September 29, 2015
Anna......This is so awesome. I have been thinking alot about you and Jim. What a great thinh to do. I love it!! Timbo says both does he miss willser alot. We love you Anna!!! God bless you
Posted by Anna Card on September 29, 2014
Missing and remembering my love. Forever loved, always missed.
Posted by Anna Card on June 29, 2014
Your spirit remains strong and is with me
I felt your love and your arms around me during your dream visit.
Your love fills my heart and soul. Your strength gives me strength.
Every day is a day closer to being reunited with you.
Posted by Cynthia Hibbard on May 14, 2014
Still think of you all the time, still sharing wonderful memories with Anna, we miss you so much, so thankful for our friendship, love you Jimmy. Happy birthday
Posted by Chris Eston on February 26, 2014
To all : Just looked at this again today and remembering Jim. Wow miss my good friend who was like a brother to me. With the Highest Regards

Chris Easton.
Posted by Lee Lovell on December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas Anna and to Jim where ever you are old friend.


Stay in touch if you can Ernie. da fone is 702 454 7885.
Posted by Anna Card on September 30, 2013
My Love.
My heart aches every day.
I long for you, your voice, your arms, your thoughts, your love.
Forever loving and missing you.
Posted by Cynthia Hibbard on May 14, 2013
still think of you all the time, and still missing your infectious laugh, and your wonderful humor, and your much cherished friendship. love you Jimmy. Happy Birthday!
Posted by Anna Card on May 14, 2013
My Love

James Willsey

May 14th 1955 - September 29th 2011

Tears instead of wishes,

Flowers instead of cards,

You left us precious memories

That will stay within our hearts.

Forever in my thoughts and in my heart.

I send you my love this day and every day.

Until we are together again.

All my love,

Anna
Posted by Robert Lalor on October 2, 2012
I did not know Jim very well, but I have known Ann for many years and I have seen how happy he made her, and how highly she thought of him. Since I have great admiration for her, I am sure he was as special as she is.
Posted by Steve Semcho on September 30, 2012
Too many years passed since I last saw or spoke to Jim. The slide show gave me a great insight on the balance of my good childhood friends life. Peace be with you all on this day.
Posted by Ernie Gorton on May 17, 2012
Jim what a great guy and a tough craps player. I hear his words
every time I enter the Casino which is quite often living in Nevada.
  Ernie, " Patience and above all "Control the Greed."
Posted by Ruthann Witte on May 15, 2012
A star is shining brighter---shine on my friend Anna with peace and comfort. Happy Birthday Jim
Posted by Bill Gorton on May 14, 2012
Jim was like a big brother to me. I'd get stranded in Binghamton for a few weeks in the summertime; periodically.  He was always quick with a smile, would let me hang out with him. Introduced me to my future career. What a Guy! Humorous, Sardonic. He will be missed.
Posted by KATHY BRIGGS on May 14, 2012
Jim was a wonderful man. He loved his family so much and made my friend Ann so happy with is love and kindness. I will always remember him as fun loving man.
Posted by KATHY BRIGGS on May 14, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIM IN HEAVEN
Posted by Anna Card on March 31, 2012
Howard asked that I share the following.
"What a difference a Good Man can make.
Our world won't be the same without him,
but the next world has gained one heck of a soul."
Posted by Ruth Rhodes on February 8, 2012
Jim was one of the best men I have ever known , He was a my big brother, we may not have grown up together but I am so blessed that I got to know him. I will always keep him in my heart
Posted by Cynthia Hibbard on February 7, 2012
Jimmi was one of my best guy-girlfriends, not only did he give me my best friend Anna Card, he gave me tons of laughter, someone I could talk to about anything, a place I could go to visit anytime, a friendship that I will cherish forever. I miss my friend so much.

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