I think of you every day and miss you every day. But especially today, 12 years gone. I often wonder what our life would have been if you were still here with me. I miss you.

Missing you, remembering you on your 68th birthday ❤
Forever love you

Missing you and our love today on your 66th Birthday.

I had a dream and in this dream Jim was with me. I had fallen asleep and when I awoke Jim was there and my world was right again and I was loved. I said to Jim "I was asleep and you were here!" I felt sorrow for having missed being with Jim. Jim replied "I laid down with you and held you in my arms and watched you as you slept." I know this is so and he does come to me when I need him most. As in life he supports me but it is from another
dimension. Love cannot be denied. On this day, Jim's birthday, I love you Jim more than ever!

My heart is heavy tonight as tomorrow is the 9th anniversary of Jim's sudden death. We loved each other something fierce and our life was good and about to get better. In that awful moment I was forever changed. I mourn Jim, l mourn my life that was taken from me that day, l mourn the very being of me that is forever gone, l mourn the me that used to be, l mourn what should have been, I mourn the future l will never have with him. I mourn and grieve for the life Jim was denied, l mourn the loss of his brilliant mind, l mourn the loss of his irreverent, attitude, l mourn the loss of a really good guy who was loved and admired by many, l mourn this and so much more.
I give thanks for the love Jim had for me in this world and in the next.
I give thanks for his dream visits that have guided me in my time of need.
I give thanks for the many signs he gave me in my most desperate time of need.
I give thanks for the strength he has given me to be me, changed forever but still me...
I am thankful for the gift of feeling loved again. I am thankful for for the love a man that knew Jim and loved him before l even knew him.
I am thankful for Love and second chances. ❤

As the weeks and days get closer to Sept 29th my heart grows heavy. As Deb said l believe you and Glenn Haab were talking and sent Deb a pink Hibiscus. Pretty extraordinary but that is what love can do.

I miss you so much. August of 2011 we were celebrating Julianna's birthday at Kampai. And then.... September came.... And then you were gone....

It's May your birthday month, Kentucky Derby month, Preakness month. I miss you so much month. The runway lights are on And waiting for you my love.

March Madness.... so bittersweet. I've watched with a heavy heart and yet with a smile of remembered memories. It took me years to be able to watch the games and now l find the watching of these games without you to be too painful. A broken heart never completely heals

I miss you every single day.
Remembering every detail of that awful night 7 years ago. I will never forget. I will never stop longing for you. I love and miss you.

Another birthday has come and gone.
September brings 7 years gone.
Every day brings missing you.
❤

Oh Jim how l miss being loved by you.
My heart aches tonight.

I want to say how powerful this site is. As Jim's anniversary comes and goes. I think how much I would love to see and speak to one of my best friends. I miss Jim, his humor, his attitudes, his mind. As
I think of him, I remember how much I admired him as an individual, all that knew him respected him. He was his own man. Love you Brother. Chris Easton

Always in my heart and often on my mind.
It's been a difficult week leading up to this anniversary.
I am compelled to re-live every detail of that night and if l think l missed a detail l start again. Over and over it plays out in my mind.
I do this to honor you and remember you on the second most important day of our lives. The day we die.

Happy Valentines in Heaven my love.

Whispers from Heaven

They say that life is fleeting
... I know that this is true
I left this world so quickly
With no goodbye to you.

I know how much you miss me
Your tears fall ever light
The pillow where you lay your head
Is wet with them at night.

I know your heart is hurting
The words we left, unsaid
I love you’s, left unspoken
Are spinning in your head.

The strength that I have carried
That served to make you whole
Remains to make you stronger
Within your grieving soul.

For you see, while you were weeping
On the day I passed away
At the gravesite near the flowers
Where my loved ones knelt to pray.

An angel came to see me
She took me by the hand
She led me to a kingdom
In a very distant land.

As I look down from heaven
And see you standing there
Your heart so ever burdened
With more grief than it can bear.

I long to bring you comfort
I long to give you peace
I long to hold you closely
Cause all your tears to cease.

The joy I’ve found in heaven
Goes far beyond compare
The love that’s so elusive
Can be found here everywhere.

The light is softly shining
There’s no storm clouds here or rain
There’s no teardrops found in heaven
There’s no suffering, there’s no pain.

You needn’t be so troubled
Stay close to God and pray
That someday we’ll be together
One bright and glorious day.

So my love, you shouldn’t question
My dear you need not cry
I’ve gone to be with Jesus
I really didn’t die.

Author/Written By:
Marilyn Ferguson
©2004

The feel of his arms around me.
The sound of his voice.
Hearing him pull into the driveway.
Seeing him walk through the door.
His unconditional love, strong and true.

I know he held me tight but l can't feel it now.
I no longer can hear his voice in my mind.
No sounds of him coming up the drive.
No door opened by those hands that l loved so much.

I lose him over and over and over....

Anna......This is so awesome. I have been thinking alot about you and Jim. What a great thinh to do. I love it!! Timbo says both does he miss willser alot. We love you Anna!!! God bless you

Missing and remembering my love. Forever loved, always missed.

Your spirit remains strong and is with me
I felt your love and your arms around me during your dream visit.
Your love fills my heart and soul. Your strength gives me strength.
Every day is a day closer to being reunited with you.

Still think of you all the time, still sharing wonderful memories with Anna, we miss you so much, so thankful for our friendship, love you Jimmy. Happy birthday

To all : Just looked at this again today and remembering Jim. Wow miss my good friend who was like a brother to me. With the Highest Regards

Chris Easton.

Merry Christmas Anna and to Jim where ever you are old friend.


Stay in touch if you can Ernie. da fone is 702 454 7885.

My Love.
My heart aches every day.
I long for you, your voice, your arms, your thoughts, your love.
Forever loving and missing you.

My Love

James Willsey

May 14th 1955 - September 29th 2011

Tears instead of wishes,

Flowers instead of cards,

You left us precious memories

That will stay within our hearts.

Forever in my thoughts and in my heart.

I send you my love this day and every day.

Until we are together again.

All my love,

Anna

still think of you all the time, and still missing your infectious laugh, and your wonderful humor, and your much cherished friendship. love you Jimmy. Happy Birthday!

I did not know Jim very well, but I have known Ann for many years and I have seen how happy he made her, and how highly she thought of him. Since I have great admiration for her, I am sure he was as special as she is.

Too many years passed since I last saw or spoke to Jim. The slide show gave me a great insight on the balance of my good childhood friends life. Peace be with you all on this day.

Jim what a great guy and a tough craps player. I hear his words
every time I enter the Casino which is quite often living in Nevada.
  Ernie, " Patience and above all "Control the Greed."

A star is shining brighter---shine on my friend Anna with peace and comfort. Happy Birthday Jim

Jim was like a big brother to me. I'd get stranded in Binghamton for a few weeks in the summertime; periodically.  He was always quick with a smile, would let me hang out with him. Introduced me to my future career. What a Guy! Humorous, Sardonic. He will be missed.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIM IN HEAVEN

Jim was a wonderful man. He loved his family so much and made my friend Ann so happy with is love and kindness. I will always remember him as fun loving man.

Howard asked that I share the following.
"What a difference a Good Man can make.
Our world won't be the same without him,
but the next world has gained one heck of a soul."

Jim was one of the best men I have ever known , He was a my big brother, we may not have grown up together but I am so blessed that I got to know him. I will always keep him in my heart

Jimmi was one of my best guy-girlfriends, not only did he give me my best friend Anna Card, he gave me tons of laughter, someone I could talk to about anything, a place I could go to visit anytime, a friendship that I will cherish forever. I miss my friend so much.