Janet was a very warm and kindly soul, modest and talented and we will miss her and the emails we shared in later years. Janet was my eldest cousin and was someone I always admired and looked up too. I remember her parents, Auntie Renee and Uncle Ron (your grandparents) selling their house in order to have a bungalow built and whilst this was happening they came to live with us. Janet, Meryl and I shared my bedroom which for me was very exciting. I dare say for them though they may have found me very irritating being somewhat younger but nevertheless both were very patient and kind.
Janet was quite an artist and in her school years won a scholarship to Flatford Mill . During her school years and for an examination she made a sculpture of me sitting on the floor with my arms and hands clasped round my knees. My mother gave this to me and I still have it sitting on a unit. I remember a 2 page spread in the "Luton News" of Janet going off to Russia to work for the Foreign Office and thinking how brave she was sailing on such a long journey from home and I remember the big trunk housed at your grandparents house ready to put all of Janet's things in ready for shipment. As a family we were all very proud of her and this undertaking. Later she was to go to Mexico where I believe she met your father Ray. We were unable to attend the wedding but I do remember Janet coming to England and going to London to buy her wedding dress. We all went round to Auntie Renee's and Uncle Ron's (your grandparents) to see what Janet had bought for her wedding day to wear. I was in awe of the beaded dress and was drawn up in the excitement of what I perceived to be a fairy tale wedding which probably it was.
Janet came home to England for holidays staying for some weeks and bringing Simon, followed by Carolyn and then Christina and on these holidays Ray would follow some weeks later because of his work commitments in Mexico. We all shared many happy summer days in my parents garden and also at your grandparents and with all the family at Ashridge Park playing rounders. We had to meet up in this way because there were a lot of us including our grandparents and it made things easier with everybody chipping in with a picnic which we pooled together and all shared. Such lovely sunny memories which you, Simon, Carolyn and Christina may remember glimpses of. I remember us all visiting Whipsnade Zoo. They were such lovely family times.
In August 2009 my husband Terry and I went for a holiday to Vancouver Island and stayed in a flat below your parents apartment which they kindly arranged for us. We visited various parts of the island with Janet and Ray and were amazed at its beauty. No wonder they loved it so much. I remember meeting Christina as she came over by ferry to spend a few days with us.
Before coming out to Canada we arranged an Alaskan Cruise which your parents were keen to join us on and we booked it with Norwegian Cruise Lines. We all had a wonderfully relaxed time with lots of laughter. Whilst in Vancouver we visited Christina, Ryan and family and at that time they only had the twins. We remember this holiday with great fondness and can honestly say it was one of he best holidays making it all the more precious being with your parents. Whenever Janet came to England we would almost always meet up.
It was a great privilege knowing Janet and the memories my brother Colin and I shared with Meryl in our growing up years and beyond. She was so easy to love and it is quite true that the miles and the distance could never separate us. We will miss you Janet. Until we meet again. . . Rest in Peace.
Our love and God Bless
Enid and Terry