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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Janet Fetterman, 59 years old, born on November 19, 1953, and passed away on December 26, 2012. We will remember her forever.
November 19, 2023
November 19, 2023
Happy birthday mom. You are with me every moment of every day. I can tell when I make you mad cuz you give me sneeze attacks which are my absolute “favorite”!!! you are and will always be my hero. I miss you more and more all of the time. I love you.
November 19, 2023
November 19, 2023
Happy birthday momma. I love you and think about you daily.
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Hey Jan...
You are always in my heart and soul...Since the day we met all those years ago in the projects in Brooklyn and bonded like crazy glue, you were meant to be in my life.
I miss you so very much...and I will always love you my sweet sistah from another mother...

December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Mom, I woke up this morning and you were, of course, the first thing on my mind. 10 years….. when I say it out loud, my mind can’t comprehend that it’s been that long since I have been able to hug and kiss you. I don’t know how we have managed to keep it together as long as we have without you. The only thing I can think of is that you are channeling your unwavering strength through us all so that we are able to move forward each day. You have a new grandson, Bowdie Zephyr, who I know you see everyday. It would make me over-the-moon happy to just be able to watch you hold and kiss him for even just a few minutes. Evey and Noah are growing up to be such amazing human beings. Your granddaughter has such a zest for life and is the most compassionate little girl. And your oldest grandson is the smartest young man alive and has the biggest heart. They talk about you so often and always ask me to tell them stories about to. Something I cherish on the daily. Mom, I miss you so unbearably much and I love you more than you ever knew. You will always be my inspiration, my strength and my guiding angel. Bowdie, Noah and Evey love their GranJan. I love you Moomy❤️☮️ ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE
November 19, 2022
November 19, 2022
Oh Janet....There has been sooooo much Beatles news you'd be plotzing from it all.
I miss you...I love you....and I so wish you were still here all happy and healthly..
Sending you lotsa and lotsa love with hugs and schmoochies...
December 26, 2021
December 26, 2021
My sweet beautiful moomy…. Words don’t even begin to describe how much I miss and think about you. These last few years have been filled with so much emotion….. both wonderful and heartbreaking. I would give anything to be able to get just 5 minutes with you so we could chat and I could fill you in on everything that’s been going on. 9 years seems like an eternity and yet I feel it was just yesterday that heaven called you up. I know you’re with us everyday and don’t ever forget how much we love you. You are still and will always be my guiding light and angel. I love you forever mom. ❤️ ☮️
December 26, 2021
December 26, 2021
Hey Jan...
I still have your cell number in my phone because I just can't erase it. I will always miss you my sweet friend...You will always be a big part of my life and forever in my heart and soul.
I miss you..
I love you...
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
Happy birthday mum. I feel your presence all around me all the time. I know you’re watching over all of us.
November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
It's November 19, 2021...I'm still missing you. You would be plotzing from all The Beatles stuff going on, especially your honeypie Paul.

I will always miss you Janet...you are forever in my heart and my very being.
I love you dearly....
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
This time of the year is always so special and at the same time the most difficult. I have the most amazing memories of going out to the garage with you and helping you set up your wrapping station and we would wrap presents together. You would always out-do yourself each year with the amount of packages you had for everyone. We would joke about that so much and you would constantly bust out in that precious laugh that I miss and hear everyday. You made my childhood more special than anyone ever could. I try to emulate that with Noah and Evey as much as I can. I miss you more than words can express Mom. You are and always have been my guiding light and angel. I love you forever!!!!
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
Hey Janet...Another year gone...I still have your email address in my contacts because I just can't delete it. Needless to say I miss you a lot. All those goofy phone calls we had through the years does make me smile when I think of them. I will always miss you my friend, until the day that I close my eyes for the final time. My father used to say that 'as long as people remember you and speak of your presence in their lives, you are never really gone'..If that's the case, I bring you up in conversations with people you don't know. You mean that much to me then and now. I love you and boy oh boy do I miss you. XOXOXO
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
One of my favorite memories to tell people about you is you air drumming and playing the drums on the steering wheel of your car. Especially whenever the boys came on the radio and also how you had a Steve Perry greatest hits CD in your car on stand by ready to rock at any given time. You taught me so much. I love you Mum. Miss you everyday.
November 19, 2020
November 19, 2020
“They say it’s your birthday”
Listening to The Beatles all day today in honor of you mum. I love you so much. Not a day goes by that you’re not on my mind. You’re in my prayers every night and sometimes I’m lucky enough to get a visit in my dreams from you or a sign you’re hangin around be it a hummingbird or a butterfly. Thank you for all your love. Happy birthday
November 19, 2020
November 19, 2020
I wonder if you can hear me talking to you. I hope you know how loved you are and how missed you are today, yesterday, last week, forever.
You must think I’m insane when I’m talking to you like you’re sitting across the room from me. We had some amazing times together. Many years on the soccer fields vacations, and the list goes on and on. 
You are in my heart and soul and will live forever there.
You are so loved. 
November 19, 2020
November 19, 2020
Hey there family and friends. I’ve upgraded mom’s webpage here. Please feel free to upload any and all pictures any of you have so that we can all share in them. It would be soooooo cool to see everyone’s experiences with mom. I appreciate and love you all!!!

❤️ Josh
November 19, 2020
November 19, 2020
Well my friend, another year passes and another year without you.... I was just telling a friend/neighbor about how we wound up being in London together back then...What a great time! We couldn't have planned that any better. I have two photos of you and me standing by the Abbey Road street sign and one of us standing in the driveway of Abbey Road Studios (of course the sign is showing behind us!) I miss you Janet and not a day goes by that I wish I can just pick up the phone and talk to you and especially laugh with you. I would be calling your office to sing 'Birthday' by The Beatles today...I love you Janet....and I miss you so very much...
November 19, 2020
November 19, 2020
Mom, each year on this day, it seems to get harder and harder for me to grasp that you’re not here. To share yet another year with your amazing grandchildren and have them not be able to hug and kiss all over you is beyond heart breaking. They talk about you all of the time and I mean ALL OF THE TIME. They each have a coupe of your beanie babies and I fight back my tears when I hear their sweet voices say your name. Evey got a stuffed bear from dad and its wearing a Harley Davidson jacket and guess what she named it...... GRANJAN. I about lost it when she came home with it and told me what she wanted to call it. Noah brings you up in our daily conversations and it’s awesome to hear him talk about his memories of you. He’s such a smart young dude and your granddaughter is a spitting image of you in every way. Her laugh, her sense of humor, her stubbornness, and her unconditional love she has for everyone, I know she gets directly from you and your spirit that lives on within that beautiful little girl. I would give anything for you to be here. I love you to infinity and beyond moomy. We all feel your warmth and love on a daily basis and please know how much you are missed. You are and will always be my hero.
June 25, 2020
June 25, 2020
To say that I miss you just doesn't cover how much I do! You were always there for me, whether in times of trouble or just to let me vent to you. Remember when you lived on the floor above me and we used to send notes outside the windows?? Or when we used to tap signals to each other on the heat pipes that run up and down between apartments? I have the best memories of you Jan...I miss you and I always will. On a lighter note, have to been able to track down George and John yet? If you can, find Bowie and put in a good word for me will ya? :) I love you Jan...all these years of friendship is so very treasured by me....
December 28, 2019
December 28, 2019
I can’t believe it’s been 7 years momma. I miss you so much and pray for you every night. You are always on my mind and your love carry’s me through the days. I love you 
November 19, 2019
November 19, 2019
Here it is your birthday once again...and you are not here for me to sing to you...I think of you often, I miss you even more than that! To have you as my closest friend and confidante for over 50 years was something I was so very proud of and told people of our friendship every chance I got! To say that I love you is an understatement...I would have taken a bullet for you Janet...you knew that.

I LOVE YOU ...always have and I always will
April 11, 2019
April 11, 2019
Days go by, I think of you often...So many times I want to pick up the phone and hear your voice..I miss your voice, your laughter, your funny ways of talking to me and always making me laugh...My heart misses you a lot...Being in my life for 50 years was something that I always relish..that time went by so so so quickly my friend...I love you always...and I miss you so very much....
December 26, 2018
December 26, 2018
And here it is another year without you in my life. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you...my heart misses you a lot! I have photos of us at Abbey Road, London hanging on my wall...That was the bestest thing ever...to meet you in London! Something we couldn't have planned at all, it just happened! Well Jan, hopefully you're hanging out with people that you love that have passed ...I love you Janet...always have and always will...
December 26, 2017
December 26, 2017
Mom, I can't believe 5 years have gone by. Words cannot express how much I miss you on a daily basis. I know you're looking down on us with a huge smile on your beautiful face. I would give anything to be able to hug and kiss you and to watch you love on your amazing grand babes. Your precious Evey is such an incredible little girl and your Noah is getting so big!! They talk about you so much. It warms my heart to know you are on their minds so often. I love you so so much mommy. #Allyouneedislove
December 26, 2017
December 26, 2017
Another year without you my sweet friend...so many things we could have laughed about, talked about and just shared....I miss your heart and soul every day...and you're wonderful advice whenever I needed you...I mention you a lot to people that you've never met because I am so proud of our friendship...I love you and I miss you all the time...
November 19, 2017
November 19, 2017
Another year without you...You are always in my heart as you have always been...I miss you so much...I love you Jan...always have and always will....
December 29, 2015
December 29, 2015
Hi momma, I can't believe it's been 3 years. Not a single day goes by where I don't think about you. I feel like I hear your beautiful laugh eveytime your precious Evey bursts out laughing. Words don't come close to expressing how deeply I miss you. Your grandbabes are so amazing. They love you to infinity and beyond. Mommy I am so wishing I could hug you and give you a sniff on your cheek just one more time. I miss you so much. I pray you are at peace and looking down upon us with loving eyes and have a big smile on your gorgeous face. I love you with all my heart mooms.
November 19, 2015
November 19, 2015
Another birthday without you here :( I miss talking to you about the silly things in life. Not a day goes by without thoughts of you in it. I miss singing 'Birthday' to you...I miss sharing all the 'Beatles' moments with you...When Macca played in Brooklyn, I could hear you saying that you'd be 'plotzing'...I just miss you Janet...A lot....I love you muchly...always have...always will
March 15, 2014
March 15, 2014
I had so much fun playing drums with you in the Hamilton High marching band. I'm very proud of you Jan. You will be missed
for a very long time by everyone who was lucky enough to know
you. May your spirit spend eternity in paradise.
January 6, 2013
January 6, 2013
Jan, you were always such a delight when we worked together at OE. I will remember that laugh forever.
I was so sad when I read the obit yesterday. My best to your 'boys'; I know you will be sorely missed! Rest in peace my friend
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
Kevin, Sean and Josh, We were so sorry to see Janet's obituary yesterday. We have such happy, fun memories of our time together. She was the "team Mom" for the Carr Pirates in Burbank when our son Mike was in third grade. She was so competent and friendly and fun-loving, we looked forward to all the games. We will keep Janet and all of you in our prayers.
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
Janet, wow, there just doesn't seem to be the right words to tell you how much you me mean to me. You taught me so much. Your laugh is incredible. You are still here and always will be right in the center of my being. I will love you always.
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
You were always such a wonderful girl. Mom remembers when you lived with her as a child how sweet you always were. Your upbeat spirit will be missed.
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
Jan, Love, Love, Love... Love is all you need. And you are loved by so so many! Your strong spirit and spark of life have been an inspiration for me. Thank you! I will miss you but you've touched me with your sweet soul and you'll always be in my heart. I love you <3 ~And here comes the sun.. Love, light, & peace to you & your family, tiff
January 5, 2013
January 5, 2013
Jan, Your love to, and for your family, is unquestionable. No husband and wife team could have been more supportive than you were to each other. No family could have been more loving than yours. Your friends' sense of loss is greater than our vocabulary to express.Your cheerful charm was second to none. Your friendship is a badge of honor that I shall cherish forever. All you need is love.
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
To say that I will miss you is an understatement. You were my best friend for 50 years Jan-from Brooklyn to The Beatles-to California-to London-you have always been in my heart and although I know you were in pain you never let that get in the way of your heart. You never faltered, you never waived, your love is so strong and I am so blessed that you graced my life with your beautiful soul
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
Momma, you are and always will be my hero. I love you so much and I miss u so dearly. I know that you are in a better place and that all your pain has finally let go of you. You are the strongest person I've ever known and I am truly honored to call you Mom. Your spirit will live on within your beautiful granddaughter Evangeline Bliss!! I love you mommy
December 27, 2012
December 27, 2012
My dearest friend of over 47 years...my heart is broken... I will miss your humor, strength, and love... and most of all YOU!!!! Be at peace my darling...

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November 19, 2023
November 19, 2023
Happy birthday mom. You are with me every moment of every day. I can tell when I make you mad cuz you give me sneeze attacks which are my absolute “favorite”!!! you are and will always be my hero. I miss you more and more all of the time. I love you.
November 19, 2023
November 19, 2023
Happy birthday momma. I love you and think about you daily.
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Two wild and crazy Beatle fans-Brooklyn NY

January 4, 2013

Janet and I shared a lot of common ground...One of them being that both our mom's were 'divorced', back then no one spoke loudly about that. The fact that we both loved The Beatles surely helped our friendship to a whole other level. We learned to play guitars because of The Beatles, we sang (off key) in our bedrooms trying to sing harmonies...which we never get the hang of. We walked around in our Beatle boots, speaking in our best Liverpool accents. Honestly, people back then weren't as cynical, a lot of people actually believed our accents!  We would sing in front of the wall of mirriors my mother had in the living room to The Beatles of course. Then we had to stop and watch the original BATMAN on TV! Janet loved Robin lol. Janet and I were twins from different mothers...

When she told me that they were moving to California I was heartbroken..But we stayed in touch via regular US mail! My mother asked me if I wanted to go out to visit Jan and Roz..I JUMPED at the chance to do that! We had a great time together of course, Jan turned me onto Root beer floats from Baskin and Robbins, a NEW ice cream place at the time, she had a little Honda car(ette) and together we set out to find out where Davy Jones of The Monkees lived (I told her I was going to tell Paul McCartney she was cheating on him!)...we had a blast watching the men landing on the moon...A wonderful summer spent with her...

I have stories...memories....tons of laughter and lots of love througout the years from Janet....I know she was fighting to kick that disease's butt, she fought long and hard....and now I know she's no longer in pain, worrying, waiting for doctors to call, test results, and the rest of that crap...My heart is broken, there is no doubt...I will miss hearing her silly way of just being Janet...

I know that she loved Kevin with every ounce of her being, she adored her two 'boys', Josh and Sean...and was overly thrilled when her boys got their better halves..She was thrilled to be called GRANJAN by Noah, and couldn't wait to share the news that she was going to be a GranJan again with the new baby on the way...

We keep spirits alive by talking about them to people, telling stories about how they touched our lives, by looking at photographs, videos, etc...I know that her memory will burn in the souls of everyone that had the chance to be included in her life....and for those that happen along the way now...after she's gone...Keep the stories coming...Her soul shines brightly upon us all....it always has and it always will....

"Love you forever and forever, love you with all my heart, love you whenever we're together, love when we're apart"....Thank you for being the wonderful soul to me and everyone else who had the pleasure of having you in their lives...

See ya on the FLIP SIDE Janet..my Best Friend Forever and BEYOND....

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Morgan

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