November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
Happy Birthday JayJay 8 painful years now without you earth side, a lifetime of walking with you in our hearts. Forever missed JayJay. Today is yours
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jaymon Austin Parmar, 16 years old, born on November 8, 1996, and passed away on February 16, 2013. We will remember him forever.
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November 8, 2020
November 8, 2020
hey jaybird, happy birthday! i’m sorry that you aren’t here today to celebrate it, i wonder what you what’ve done for it. today’s your day, the day that will live on in my heart forever in a day of remembrance for jaymon austin parmar. the brother who should still be here. i just wanna see you again, even just a 5 minute conversation. i wish i could’ve gotten to know you better, you left too early. i love you jaymon. playing extra nirvana for you today
October 4, 2020
October 4, 2020
Missing you a lot today JayJay, thank you for teaching me patience and to never take life for granted. I love you more than life and miss you more and more everyday. I wish that you could see me today, as you gave me the strength and drive to be who I am.
July 9, 2019
July 9, 2019
just made a playlist of songs that remind me of you. i wish you didn’t have to leave us so early, i miss you with my entire heart jaymon austin parmar, you’re forever my jaybird.. hope you’re doing good up there in heaven. say hi to kurt for me. i love you and i wish i could just see you once more. i wish i could dream about you more and i feel guilty that i don’t. nothing will ever be the same without you, you were so special, so talented, you had the whole world ahead of you, potential, job opportunities, i wish i could see who you would’ve been today. “if tears could build a stairway, and memories lane, i’d walk right up to heaven and take you home again.”
June 4, 2019
June 4, 2019
Everytime I see a balloon in the sky I think of you .. I met a boy who reminded me of you but you are 1 in a million . You are such a brilliant young man and it breaks my heart how soon you left us all. Your missed so much. Love you tons xoxo
Your Hamburger
Your Hamburger
June 4, 2019
June 4, 2019
i miss you jay bird, wish you could’ve seen me grow up, and where our family stans today. been missing you a lot lately because i finally know the meaning of a passing. i love you so much
August 8, 2018
August 8, 2018
I watched a beautiful video of you today and it reminded me of how much of a character you were... Your so missed and the world is that much more lonely without you... miss you. ♡ hamberger ♡
July 31, 2018
July 31, 2018
We missed you this summer son, as we do every year. Your presence is ever clear when we are at the beachhouse even though your absence is so overwhelming. We all miss you JayBird, terribly. Love you forever
March 24, 2017
March 24, 2017
Time goes by and nothing changes. My lovely son is gone forever. Miss you so much....DAD
November 6, 2016
November 6, 2016
Missing you
November 6, 2016
November 6, 2016
Missing you
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
Miss having an older brother around
November 20, 2015
November 20, 2015
I miss our long Skypes while you were supposed to be studying. Those talks about music, conspiracy and love mean more to me than ever. The day after you passed I called all morning to visit. You gone was never a reality to me. I can't help but imagine the time we could have had when I visited. The time we dreamed of. To not just be an escape but be a reality. Your friendship meant so much to me. I couldn't imagine my life without you and still can't imagine you out of my heart. I miss and love you Jaymon. Hopefully we meet again soon . Xoxo Tay.
November 9, 2015
November 9, 2015
Happy belated birthday Jaymon you are so missed everyday. This all still feels very surreal...hard to believe the last time this hamburger saw you was when you were soo little it breaks my heart... Love you lots and your family. KEEP A WATCH OUT ;) XOXOX
November 8, 2015
November 8, 2015
Love and miss you brother. Words can not express the feelings.
November 8, 2015
November 8, 2015
Missing you so much today Jaymon. We should be having a beer together today for your 19th birthday... I love you son.
February 18, 2015
February 18, 2015
We miss you Jaymon, come back :(
February 16, 2015
February 16, 2015
Can't believe it has been two years since we have shared our thoughts with a cigarette and just talked, you will be forever in my heart, and always missed.
February 16, 2015
February 16, 2015
I miss you so much jaymon, its crazy to think its been two years since ive seen and heard you. I love you
November 11, 2014
November 11, 2014
U are so missed and loved by so many it sucks that the world thought it was time to take you, it's so wrong...your family is amazing and I have first hand had the chance to watch u grow up but nobody was ready to loose you so soon. Watch over your family hug your momma tight and send her kisses let her know you are there.. Your baby sister is adorable make sure u help momma with her too lol :) Xoxo hamburger
November 7, 2014
November 7, 2014
I remember when we first became friends. We would listen to Kurt's poetic lyrics, Pantera's thundering music and also enjoyed the Rasta vibes of Bob Marley. I miss you Jaymon! More than imaginable. I know we ended on the worst of terms, but I am and will always be sorry..... I never meant to hurt you... I would give anything to see you smile one last time.
November 7, 2014
November 7, 2014
I wish I could hug you one more time. I love you Jaymon. I miss you so much.
November 6, 2014
November 6, 2014
I just wanted to say that I love you and I'm always thinking about you.
November 6, 2014
November 6, 2014
Every time I drive down Thermal and pass your old house, I think of you. Of you me and taylor playing video games, and you and my mom arm wrestling. And i pass that house everyday. It's still unbelievable to me. Growing up with you as one of my best friends was truly amazing. Praying for you and your family always. Love you, xo.
November 5, 2014
November 5, 2014
i miss you jaymon. i miss the sound of your voice, i miss your warm embrace. i miss being able to talk to you when my day was bad... I cant believe on saturday its your 18th birthday and you wont even be here.
I love you so much...
I love you so much...
April 15, 2014
April 15, 2014
I miss sitting in class with you. I couldn't look to the right. I couldn't look at your seat without losing it. I remember you every day. I missed listening to music with you in class. I missed how we would always cheat on tests and quizs together since we both never studied. I miss laughing at all the random crap that would happen in class. You helped me through a lot. We got to know a lot about each other and I'm so thankful for that. I wish you could've gotten the tattoos we talked about, I wish you could see the tattoo I got for you. You were an amazing person and I will cherish every memory I have with you forever.
April 11, 2014
April 11, 2014
You know that feeling where everything that makes you happy doesnt anymore? When you dont think youll ever be happy ever again. But then you look back at the memories you hold onto and smile. You seem to remember the most stupidist things yet it makes you happier than getting a present or seeing something you adore. Its like you hold on to my happiness and it will forever be with you. If im having a bad day and miss you i think about all the stupid stuff we use to do. Your my rock jaymon, you might not be here yet you keep me sane
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
I miss you jaymon. I cant believe that its almost a year. A year since I have seen you, hope your rocking out with kurt:( Love you for forever and always Jay.
November 4, 2013
November 4, 2013
Your birthday is on Friday and I don't know how I'm going to handle it. I want you to be here blowing out the 17 candles on your cake. You belong here and the fact that you're not is making me go crazy. How did this happen to you? We will be lighting one candle this year Jaymon..one candle to symbolize the first year without you.
October 19, 2013
October 19, 2013
I love you and miss you so much Jaymon
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
This song came up on the Nirvana station on Pandora last night. It's as if it was written for you. I miss you and love you so much, Jaymon.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2d3AqlKfXbE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2d3AqlKfXbE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
September 16, 2013
September 16, 2013
There truly aren't words to describe the memory and mystery of you. You meant the world to every single one of us, and you always will. My precious memories of you will play in my mind everyday until we're all together again. I miss you, Jay Jay and I love you with all my heart.... Would trade the world for one last chat with you. be good out there.. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox - "Angie"
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
Another candle lit for u tonight jaymon and for your amazing family. Xo
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
I have so many wonderful memories of you as a baby, toddler,a little sweet boy to an amazing young man.I cherish the memories of the times we spent together. I am heart broken that you have left our world but I believe you are an angel in heaven. I will never forget you, Love you Jay Jay. Your Auntie Janice
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
It is hard for me to bring myself to words, because they aren't enough to express what you mean to me. You are so special to me. The most amazing, loving soul. I will have only one wish for the rest of my life, and I have to go on knowing that my wish will never come true. All I have now are my memories and my dreams, and I will never let them go. I love you Jaymon. Forever.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your beloved son.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Jaymon, my favourite memory of you will always be our Mexico trip. You were the cutest little boy and you turned into such a sweet young man. You'll be in our hearts forever. xo
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Jaymon I miss your big hugs and hearing you call me Auntie Lollie. I miss our deep conversations on the way home from school. You had such a brillant, thought provoking mind...I could hardly keep up with the conversation. But you never made me feel inferior just loved. There such a hole in our hearts. I miss you Jayjay.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
The day you were born is the day that my life truly started. The miracle of you took over my world and everything took on real meaning. For 16 years I watched in awe as you grew into the most mature, patient and kind person I had ever known. You were my first and last true love and my heart stopped its rhythm the day you left us. I would give the world if only...
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Jaymon I remember when you were born. The fun me and your mom had with posing you on a mattress at one of the stores in the hopes of selling mattresses. I will always remember how you use to get so excited when the "Hey Now" song from Shrek would come on.. I guess that would have been the start of your love for music
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Dear Parmar Family,
I didn't know Jaymon personally but his memory will always live on through you. My prayers are with you.
I didn't know Jaymon personally but his memory will always live on through you. My prayers are with you.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Miss hanging with you everyday at lunch and almost every Friday with Jake you and me all the good times we had man I really miss them we where not friends for long but it felt like a life time every time I listen to queen nirvana korn and any band we listened to on are short or long car rides thought race threw my head and I just ask why you why so young miss you man hope to see you again
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
I remember when you were just a small boy and how excited you got when hamburger came to babysit you I will never forget your face love you always
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
j man will always be in my heart till this day I can not still figure out why
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Dear the Parmar family,
This breaks my heart looking at your loss and the impression it made on you and your family. You and your family will always be in my heart. Even though we don't talk much as much I'm here for you. Even though losing your brother is a huge change it'll turn out for the better. God has gained a beautiful angel. Ily more than words!❤
This breaks my heart looking at your loss and the impression it made on you and your family. You and your family will always be in my heart. Even though we don't talk much as much I'm here for you. Even though losing your brother is a huge change it'll turn out for the better. God has gained a beautiful angel. Ily more than words!❤
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
The Parmar family,
I'm dearly sorry for your loss my prayers may go to you I'm do sorry but just Remember god has gained another angel
I'm dearly sorry for your loss my prayers may go to you I'm do sorry but just Remember god has gained another angel
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
I love you and miss you, Jaymon. Can't wait to see you again one day.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
I love and miss you so such jaymon i hope you know that. I will never ever forget you❤
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Love u JJ like a brother
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Love you JayJay
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November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
Happy Birthday JayJay 8 painful years now without you earth side, a lifetime of walking with you in our hearts. Forever missed JayJay. Today is yours
November 8, 2020
November 8, 2020
hey jaybird, happy birthday! i’m sorry that you aren’t here today to celebrate it, i wonder what you what’ve done for it. today’s your day, the day that will live on in my heart forever in a day of remembrance for jaymon austin parmar. the brother who should still be here. i just wanna see you again, even just a 5 minute conversation. i wish i could’ve gotten to know you better, you left too early. i love you jaymon. playing extra nirvana for you today
October 4, 2020
October 4, 2020
Missing you a lot today JayJay, thank you for teaching me patience and to never take life for granted. I love you more than life and miss you more and more everyday. I wish that you could see me today, as you gave me the strength and drive to be who I am.
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July 9, 2019
i remember the day where jaymon picked jennah and i up from school. as petrified as we were, jaymon’s outgoing and crazy personality decided to go as fast as he possibly could, every stop i would bounce up a foot in the air. anyways, we stopped next to this girl and her mom in a car at a stop light and jaymon told everyone to start making the car move and cranking up up all the volume, jaymon’s wish was granted and i remember feeling so sad for the girl but looking back on it, i wish i told you how funny that was jaymon. just come back there are so many things i want to tell you
cabo
November 5, 2013
i remember last summer in cabo. mom bought you the sword you wanted, we (as girls) had all that tacky souvieners that end up in our room buried{back to the story} you took a whole bunch of thing and put the on. you then let us take pictures of you posing in all this stuff. as manly as you were you happened to have this amazingly wierd side to you that i will miss forever. under all of the hate for us, you did truly loved us. miss you Jay
September 21, 2013
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