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Jeanne Louise Lacy, nee Virene, 75, passed away in her home on December 22, 2015, from Alzheimer's Disease. She is lovingly survived by her children - Thomas, Mary, Michael (Kimberly), Stephen and John. She adored her grandchildren - Thomas, Emily, Owen, Adam, Miles and Zoe. She was the caring sister of the late Thomas, the late Robert (Darlene) and William (Marie). She will be greatly missed by her dog, Maggie, and her cats. She leaves behind countless friends and coworkers, whom she cared for immensely. She attended Loyola University in Chicago and earned her B.S.N. She then entered the United States Navy and served four years in San Diego, CA. She retired from the Naval Reserves as a Lieutenant Commander. She had a fifty year career, working as an R.N. The goodness of her heart was felt by all who knew her. She will be remembered as an animal lover, an outstanding nurse, a true friend and, especially, a loving and caring mother and grandmother. A funeral mass will be held at St. James Church, 134 North Avenue, Highwood, IL 60040 at 10am, with visitation beforehand at 9am.  Burial will be private. Donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, St. James Church in Highwood or Heartland Hospice. 

January 21
January 21
Happy Birthday Jeanne - I bet you are doing fun things - Heavenly things.

We don't know yet but we know you have a special place - I see Beagles there too!

Love you always,  Your roommate,  and Forever Friend,  Janet
January 20
January 20
Happy heavenly birthday, Mom! I hope you’re having the best cheesecake “birthday cake” up there! Try to eat some of it yourself rather than letting Bailey and Maggie and all of your other pets eat it. Lol. You’re with us all of the time but you are so missed. Love you, always.
January 20
January 20
Happy birthday mom. I love you very much. PS..Take care of Coco for me❤️
December 31, 2023
December 31, 2023
Dearest Jeanne, How all day I have been thinking of you.
Christmas and Winter were your favorites.  I think you are in Heaven, getting
our place ready for Nancy, Eleanor and me.....Kay is already there with you.
Miss you always!  You are with the Angels...
Love always Janet
December 22, 2023
December 22, 2023
Eight years have passed, Mom. So many memories, so much laughing, so much fun, and so much love from you. I miss you all the time and still want to call you or go to church with you then stop and get an ice cream cone. You were absolutely amazing and I’m sorry I didn’t tell you that enough while you were still here. Love you always.
January 20, 2023
January 20, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday, Mom! Sure wish you were here. You’re always with me, though. Miss you a whole bunch but we’ll see each other again.
January 20, 2023
January 20, 2023
Happy Birthday Mom. Miss you every day.
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Merry Christmas Mom. Love you.
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Jeanne - I always think of you - Today , your Anniversary is our first
big, big snow. you so loved the snow.  Enjoy your heavenly home, Jeanne
Soon we'll be together again.  Miss you! Janet
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Seven years already. It seems like you left yesterday sometimes. I still miss you a lot but Christmas brings you closer. I can’t wait to see you again, Mom. Thank you for being who you were and for letting each of us be who we are. I love you, always.
May 8, 2022
May 8, 2022
Happy Mother’s Day mom. I love you very much.
January 20, 2022
January 20, 2022
Dearest Jeanne

You are always in my thoughts Happy Birthday!
You are with the Angels Jeanne as an "Everyday Saint"   You spread such
love in the world as a Nurse and as a Great Mom.

You can live joyfully now, knowing that you loved so well,
Hope to see you soon.     Janet
January 20, 2022
January 20, 2022
Happy birthday,mom!! Thank you for always being there when any of us needed you. Even when you were so tired and busy you always found time for us. Best mom ever. Thank you.
January 20, 2022
January 20, 2022
Happy heavenly birthday, Mom! I’d make you the best cheesecake ever if you were here. Thanks for watching over all of us! I miss you a bunch. Love you, always.
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
Merry Christmas Mom, we all miss you. You had a great life and gave all of us one too. I do wish you could have stuck around one more year (at least) to see the Cubs win the World Series...maybe you did see it. I will not discuss the Bears.
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
Missing you so much this year, Mom. You would have loved to visit Tennessee. You’re always in my thoughts and more so in my heart and things I do. I love you always, Mom. You were truly a miracle.
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
Hard to believe it's been six years since God took you back. Hardly a day goes by where I don't think about you. Wish you were here to celebrate Christmas with us and see how your Grandchildren have grown. You are so loved Mom, Merry Christmas!
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Happy Mother’s Day, Mom. I’ve been looking for rainbows all day but I know you’re here and I know so many of us need to know you’re with them, too. The more I think about you, the more I know how courageous you were, how selfless you were, how funny you were, how smart you were, and how loving you were. To everything and everyone. I miss you every day. I so wish we had been able to go to St James for mass this morning then stop at McDonald’s for an ice cream cone. Thank you for so much GOOD you gave me. I love you always. ❤️
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Dear Jeanne

Happy
Birthday!   I went to visit you today.  Your grave was covered with beautiful
white snow - just like the snows you loved so much.  I know you are not
there - you are in heaven surrounded by those beagles that you loved so
much and those dear ones who filled your life.   Jeanne all I can think of
is now your life is a peacefilled one.  No worries. Your children are all
surrounded by your love.   I miss you.   Love Janet
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Mom, happy birthday. I still wish you were here and that you had had the chance to be 81 today. I’m glad that you’re at peace now, however. Life is good but I still want to share things with you. We had such fun together. I love you, Mom. I’ll see you again later.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Happy birthday mom. We all love and miss you very much.
December 28, 2020
December 28, 2020
I would have really appreciated and liked you. It has been my hope that by giving you’re daughter love and making your her happy that I can at least be there when she misses you most. I’m sorry that I missed all those wonderful times you all had but I’m here now and will promise to take the best care that I can of your daughter. Greg
December 27, 2020
December 27, 2020
Jeanne's favorite was winter.  She loved the snow.  She was a January
person.  Every January my thoughts were full of "Jeanne Memories"
Walking through the snow at Loyola with cold noses and great hopes
for our future.   Jeanne did incredible things with her life.  She never
forgot hope and love.  These sustained her throughout her life.

Love you Jeanne - will never forget those days with you.  Janet Dahm
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
Five years later. Life goes on but I sure do miss you. Your laugh, your gigantic sneezes, so many things. You were amazing. There’s no other way to describe you and how you made things happen and work and kept fun and love in everything you did. I wish I had told you more often. I wish I could give you a huge hug but I know I’ll see you again. I love you and am so, so thankful for you, Mom - always.
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Dearest Jeanne - It's Mother's Day - 2020

How I admired you,  a single mother of five!
I don't know how you did it, Jeanne but your children loved and love you.

What a Mother you were.  Enjoy that Heavenly rest, Dear One

see you soon,   Janet
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Happy Mother’s Day, Mom. Wish you were here. I had a weird dream about you last night. You’d laugh! I hope you’re peaceful, happy, and with Bailey, Maggie, and all the others. I love you so much, Mom.
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Happy mothers day, mom. You will always be one of the best moms ever.
January 20, 2020
January 20, 2020
Jeanne - Today is your birthday - all the January 20ths of our sixty years
together I thought of you on this day

You loved winter, you loved the snow....

I love and miss you - maybe in heaven, we'll ride the Redline again
together, but not to Loyola, to some heavenly space. See you then,
Love janet
January 20, 2020
January 20, 2020
Happy 80th Mom- we love and miss you.
January 20, 2020
January 20, 2020
Happy 80th birthday, Mom! I sure wish you were here so I could make you a cheesecake. Thanks for watching over all of us all the time. You are so missed by many! Love you, always!
December 22, 2019
December 22, 2019
Christmas is getting easier, Mom, but I still think about you all the time. I try to put your heart into everything I do. Greg and I got married, just as you had told me to do several years ago. I miss you so much and wish that I had hugged you more, told you that I loved you more, and gave you more support. You were a miracle and I’m so lucky that you were here for the short time that you were. I love and miss you, always.
December 22, 2019
December 22, 2019
It doesn't get any easier as the years go by since we lost you. However, I seem to only remember the good times (there were many) and I know that much of the kindness in my heart was in yours to begin with.

Rest in the peace of God Mom. You are missed, loved and will never be forgotten.
December 22, 2019
December 22, 2019
We miss you very much, Mom. Merry Christmas.
January 20, 2019
January 20, 2019
Missing you today, Mom. Hope you're having a happy birthday. Wish you were still here with us. Love you, always.
January 20, 2019
January 20, 2019
Happy birthday, Mom. Thank you for your strength, humor and most of all...your love. You're very much missed.
January 20, 2019
January 20, 2019
Happy 79th birthday Mom! We will always remember you on this day and most of all your compassion for both people and animals and how you always put others before yourself in all things.
We Love You!
Tom, Thomas and Emily
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
We all miss you very much and are especially sad to not have you here with us for Christmas but we are happy in knowing that we are all better people because of you.
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
I just miss you. Every day. I hope you're up there with all of your animals that have left us down here, that you can take an uninterrupted nap, that you're painting lots of pictures of fall leaves, and making army-sized batches of your great spaghetti. I'm sure you're taking care of everyone's boo boos up there! Please keep watching over all of us, as I know you do. Thomas is getting married in a week! I'll be thinking about you. I love you, Mom - always.
January 20, 2018
January 20, 2018
Happy Birthday Mom. Love you!
January 20, 2018
January 20, 2018
Happy Birthday Mom!!! We all love you very much and miss you every day.
January 2, 2018
January 2, 2018
It's still hard without you, Mom. There are so many things I want to tell you or show you or ask you. I don't have anyone to ask, "what does it mean when..." anymore. But I'm happy that you're resting now and that you're happy. I hope you know how very much me, the boys, and your friends all love you. You were a special woman. Boy, how we laughed! I'm thankful every day that I was your daughter. Love you.
December 22, 2017
December 22, 2017
It's been two years today that you left us Mom. Merry Christmas, love you and miss you!
January 20, 2017
January 20, 2017
Happy Birthday Mom. I will always miss you on January 20th and will no doubt feel sad but also happy remembering your compassion and your sense of humor. Thomas, Emily and I miss you and love you very much.
January 20, 2017
January 20, 2017
Happy birthday mom. I love and miss you very much.
December 22, 2016
December 22, 2016
I don't know that words can accurately describe what wonderful person my mom was. In my opinion, she should be canonized as a saint. Maybe she is lacking the miracle however I think raising five kids by herself in the perfect way she did qualifies. There are so many examples where my mom's character and strength shown through in situations where others would have folded. From standing by and supporting me unconditionally when I got into trouble to simply standing up and accepting the tremendous task of raising five kids when she realized she would be on her own. I don't know that I would have responded with the strength and dignity that she did. I am certain that I would not be where I am now without her love, support and sacrifice.

My mom was kind and selfless, always thinking of others and never of herself. Every single decision she made was for the benefit of her family. On top of the enormous task of raising her children alone, she also accepted the responsibility of caring for her older, mentally ill brother at the same time. She found him housing to live in so he would not be homeless and visited him regularly. In addition, she also somehow found time to care for her own mother after she was widowed. I simply can't imagine the strength it would have taken to do everything she did. I can see where she inherited these qualities as her own parents were of a similar makeup. Her father particularly was a wonderful person who I loved very much and who was also taken from us way too early. 

With all the burden that was placed on my mom's shoulders, I never once heard her complain about anything. In fact, she always kept her great sense of humor and positive attitude which was hugely comforting to all around her. She was simply the kindest, strongest, most selfless person I have ever met. I am honored that she was my mother. I love you mom.
January 23, 2016
January 23, 2016
I will always remember my Sister Jeanne as a really good person.

She will be greatly missed.

Brother Bill
January 22, 2016
January 22, 2016
I so remember our days as students at Loyola. After many years of nursing Jeanne and I joined the Navy Nurses Reserve. Not realizing the other joined, we were roommates in officer's training together in Florida. What times we had! You will be missed.
January 20, 2016
January 20, 2016
Happy birthday to the best mom that anyone could have ever hoped for. You will always be remembered for your grace and kindness. We all still love you so much mom, happy birthday. Later we'll line up all the cats and dogs to sing the birthday song for you:)
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January 21
January 21
Happy Birthday Jeanne - I bet you are doing fun things - Heavenly things.

We don't know yet but we know you have a special place - I see Beagles there too!

Love you always,  Your roommate,  and Forever Friend,  Janet
January 20
January 20
Happy heavenly birthday, Mom! I hope you’re having the best cheesecake “birthday cake” up there! Try to eat some of it yourself rather than letting Bailey and Maggie and all of your other pets eat it. Lol. You’re with us all of the time but you are so missed. Love you, always.
January 20
January 20
Happy birthday mom. I love you very much. PS..Take care of Coco for me❤️
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